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Tim Ayers Obituary

Thomas G. (Tim) Ayers, Jr. (1943-2013) San Francisco video and TV artist, jazz aficionado, Giants fan, and active companion to a wide circle of friends, Tim Ayers died in San Francisco on Monday, October 7 of cancer. Born in Chicago, Tim grew up in an exceptional family of five in Glen Ellyn, IL. A gregarious type, he was voted most popular by his classmates in the Class of '61 at Glenbard High School. He was active in the Beta Theta Pi fraternity house when he attended the University of Michigan, where his parents had met as freshmen in the early 1930s. His father Tom was a renowned Chicago business and civic leader, chairman of Commonwealth Edison, and his mother Mary was a naturalist who imparted to Tim her love of trees, birds and flowers. He could identify any bird in his back yard or on the coast. Tim moved to San Francisco with his wife, Carole Radloff, in 1968, and bought a home near the panhandle of Golden Gate Park. Thus began life in San Francisco and the adventures of the past 45 years, from the cultural and political revolutions to the artistic blossoming of music and video art. He loved they city's history, its special culture and its people. A legendary conversationalist, he passed forward the city's lore and legends. Tim launched his media career here at age 25 when he began to work for KPIX Channel 5. He was a cameraman for 49ers games on CBS, and was partner in the Pier 42 Group, a premier collaboration among independent film and video craftsmen and craftswomen. Tim married a second time, to Brenn Lea Pearson who he knew from Glenbard High School, for thirteen years. He had friends and confidants from all walks of life, all who remember his openness and good advice. He could discuss most anything, and was a trusted adviser, a dear friend and confidant and a dazzling raconteur. Most of all, he was loyal and steadfast with all his friends and his extended family - most notably his 10 nieces and nephews, who loved hanging with Uncle Tim. Tim adored a party and was a delightful barstool companion. He had many friends and admirers in the city's legendary taverns. A jazz fan, he was a regular at a variety of music venues around town. A season ticket holder, Tim seldom missed a Giants game at AT&T Park in his retirement years (including catching each and every spring training game in Scottsdale, AZ). His wardrobe was mostly orange and black. Tim faced the end of his life with grace and courage, and he passed away quickly as he had wanted. He is survived by his sister Cathy Allen of Ann Arbor, MI (and her husband Jim and nieces Shannon Asaria of Oak Park, IL and Kim Allen); his brother Bill of Chicago (Bernardine Dohrn and nephews Zayd Dohrn of Chicago, Malik Dohrn, and Chesa Boudin); his brother Rick of Oakland (Ilene Abrams and nieces Aisha Ayers and Sonia Abrams and nephew Max Abrams); and his youngest brother John of New Orleans (Judi Minter and nieces Maya Minter of Chicago and Dede Minter). A memorial service will be held at the Public House at AT&T Park in San Francisco on Friday, November 8, at 1:30 PM and will continue at the Bell Tower on Polk Street at 5:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Giants Community Fund, 24 Willie Mays Plaza, SF 94107 in support of the Junior Giants program.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Nov. 1 to Nov. 3, 2013.

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Gail Waterman

January 23, 2015

I knew Tim years ago as a fraternity brother of my now ex-husband, Will, in Ann Arbor. I remember one evening when Will and I were props (could hardly be called actors) in a film he was doing about college life. I remember him as intelligent and fun. He and his brother, Bill, were certainly part of my university memories and education. So sorry to read, belatedly, that his life ended much too early.

Jim Rainford

July 2, 2014

I knew Tim when we both were at Glenbard High School in Glen Ellyn. He was Class of '61,I,'60. One could not help but enjoy being in Tim's presence.

Carol Swwitzer..Haas

November 7, 2013

Tim was the class of '61 and I was the class of '62. I was never close to him but went to several parties at the Ayers house. He was extremely popular but bore the badge with grace and friendliness. I don't ever remember that he had a mean bone in his body,a lot to say when teenagers are born to be mean. I have passed this notice on to my classmates and have received responses that many of them would have been at the services had they only been closer. This is no small matter,Tim passing,he was much loved.

November 3, 2013

My Friend Bill, I have no words how to tell you that I am with you at this time. May God Bless you.

Trish Watt

November 1, 2013

Hi,
You don't know me but Tim rented our condo in Scottsdale for the past 5 years.
I don't know why, but I happened to see Tim's obituary in the Tribune today. It must have been Tim trying to tell me he wasn't coming this year (he had a standing reservation) and that I could rent the condo to someone else. He would always call or email me when the Giant's schedule came out to let me know if he needed any days in February if the Giant's were playing then.
Most of our contact came from emails but I can see now what a special and loved man he was. I never knew what he did for a living but I see he was a very creative individual.
I know he loved the Giants and that's why he came every year...I'm sure they will miss his presence this year.
I had to write and tell you what a special man he was and to let you know that he's touched people you never knew.
Blessings to you all,

Trish Watt

November 1, 2013

Hi,
You don't know me but I wanted to extend my condolences to the Ayers Family.
Tim had rented our condo in Scottsdale near the SF Giants stadium for the past 5 years.
I don't know why but, today I was reading the Tribune and ran across his Obituary.
It must have been Tim sending me a message that he wouldn't be renting this year,(since he had a standing reservation) and that it was OK for me to rent to someone else.
He would always call me when the Giant's schedule came out and let me know what extra days he might need if the Giants started playing in February.
I never knew what Tim did for a career but reading the obituary, I see he was one special man!
I see he was born here in Chicago and he came from a large,loving family.
I'm sure you will hear from a lot of people who met Tim and knew him better but I just wanted to tell you how I knew him.
I'm sure he will be missed but I just found it weird how, even in death Tim let me know...that's jus the kind of man he was.
Blessings to you all, Trish Watt
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November 1, 2013

May the God of comfort be with you.

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