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James Bender Obituary

James "Jim" E. Bender, 61, of Glenview, passed away January 2, 2013 after a gallant battle with cancer. Beloved son of Irma and late Edward Bender and beloved brother of John (Sherry). Memorial service Saturday, January 12th at 10:30am at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 2300 Central Road, (intersection of Central Road and Shermer Road), Glenview, IL. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Rainbow Hospice, Mount Prospect, IL. Arrangements by Giancola Funeral & Cremation 800-975-4321.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jan. 6, 2013.

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Ford Taketa

December 31, 2022

I am so very sorry for your loss. Nothing but fond memories of Jim as a gentle and kind soul. There is an empty space in our world. Blessings to family NS friends of Mr. Bender.

John Ryden

January 8, 2013

My condoleneces on your loss. A rush of memories return of church and school and Jim's joyful spirit.

Janet Anderson-Greenwald

January 8, 2013

My deepest sympathy to James family and friends. I went to GBS with James back in the day. Sorry to hear the loss of your loved one and may God Bless you all and pray you find comfort and peace at this time of sadness.

Nancy Granert

January 8, 2013

To Jim's family and friends, I remember Jimmy from the first grade on...we were always in the same class with each other, it seemed. He was kind and a fun person to have around. I remember him so fondly, and grieve with you in this time of sadness. Peace,

Janet Greenwald

January 8, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of James. We attended GBS together and sat next to one other in many classes. God Bless all and may peace be with you in regards to your loss.

Ken Krueger

January 8, 2013

When I received the news of Jim's passing yesterday a feeling of deep sadness came over me.I've known Jim and his family since I was a young child.We were good friends at Church and went from Grade School thru High School together.He always had kind words for everyone.I know Jim is at rest and with the Lord.Bless you Jim and your family.

January 7, 2013

So sorry to hear about Jim. He and I argued politics every day on the way to junior high. (Probably were the only two junior high students there who thought about politics). It is always a good memory. Peace in your time of loss. -- Lilias Jones Jarding, Rapid City, S.D.

Debra (Autumn) (Blaul) Wiemer

January 7, 2013

Dear family and friends of Jim, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jim sat in front of me in some classes in school. I always enjoyed running into him many times over the years at the Glenview Library and at Sears, when he worked there. He had a kind and gentle manner. God bless you. Autumn (Debra Blaul) Wiemer

Robert Ferrarini

January 7, 2013

May your heart and soul shine it's light apond the lord Jesus christ amen. I do remember you Jim in high school, you were one of a kind person, may the peace of the lord be with you always. Robert Ferrarini

Leigh Loomis

January 7, 2013

I remember Jim as a gentle soul with a big heart.
For your friends and family "The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all." (2 Cor 13:14) as we remember Jim.

Leigh Loomis

January 7, 2013

I remember Jim from Junior High. He was one of the first boys to ask me to dance. I remember it was a song by the Four Seasons.

He was always sweet and a gentleman. Although I haven't seen him since highschool, I remember him fondly.

Blessings to his grieving loved ones,

Suzanne (Roto) Lake

Ford Taketa

January 7, 2013

I am truly saddened by the news of Jim's passing. Have many fond memories of him from my days in Glenview. Jim was the kindest, gentlest, and most honest person I ever knew.

Laurie Harris

January 7, 2013

Jim...the definition of "what a nice guy".

January 7, 2013

Dear family and friends of Jim, My thoughts and love are with you at this time. I sat behind Jim in some classes in school. I always enjoyed running into and talking to him many times over the years at the Glenview Library or at Sears, when he worked there. He had a kind and gentle manner. I am glad that I knew him. So sorry for your loss. Autumn (Debi) Blaul Wiemer

January 7, 2013

Jimmy,
You were always so warm, sweet and thoughtful whenever I was over for a barbecue or just to visit your mom. Always with a smile and wondering what you could do next. Make sure you give my love to your dad and tell him how much I miss him and his "tomatoes"..
God bless you.
With Love,
Annie

the green team of rainbow hospice

January 6, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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