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John Consiglieri Obituary

JOHN PETER CONSIGLIERI May 16, 1917-May 13, 2014 John Peter Consiglieri passed from this life at home in San Francisco surrounded by his children on May 13, 2014. John was born in San Francisco on May 16, 1917 to Luigia and Attilio from Liguria, Italy. John married the love of his life, Elaine Lagomarsino, the girl around the corner, on April 26, 1941; they were married for 45 years. John was predeceased by his parents, by his beloved wife Elaine, son Louis Thomas, daughter-in-law Cathy, niece Vicky; in-laws, Louis and Catherine; brother Victor (Evelyn), his sisters, Marie and Tillie (Mario) Tognetti, sisters-in-laws, Florence (Ralph) Lombardo, Genevieve (Al) Scigliano, and Dorothy (Ed) Scheid and many cousins. John is survived by his beloved children, JoAnn (Jim McFadden), Catherine, John (Rebecca), Rosemarie (Tom) Morrissey, Stephanie (Roy) Hendricksen and numerous cousins in California and in Liguria, Italy. John is beloved Nonno to Melissa (Shawn), Juliana (Keary), Natalie (Michael), and Gabriel Trousdale; Giana (Christian), and Giac (Rasha) Consiglieri; Eric (Wendy) and Brian (Kendall) Olsen; and Matthew (Laura), Michael, and David Hendricksen. John had a unique relationship with granddaughter Leslie. John loved babies and young children and was thrilled and blessed by great grandchildren, Dorothy, Maria, Andrew, Chiara, Luca, Isabella, Lia, Victoria, Brayden, Dane, Jesse, and Isadore. John was uncle to Marianne (Paul), Barbara (Jim), Richard (Dori), Edwina, Joe (Sue), Nadine, Al (Marie), Larry (Linda), Robert (Ann), Christine (Frank) and Bernadette (Dave). During World War ll, John supervised the construction of a 100 Octane Oil Refinery, which enabled U.S. planes to refuel on Bahrain Island near the Suez Canal. John was an active member of Corpus Christi Church and served in many capacities at the Parish and School into his 80s. John loved working beside the Salesian Priests and Sisters and the Sisters of St. Joseph of Orange. He and his siblings continued the Annual Celebration to The Madonna Della Guardia Devotion that was begun by the Italian women in his parish in the early '40s. John had great faith in God and lived the life Jesus came to teach: living a life of respect, peace and love through action. Over the years, extraordinary responsibilities fell on his shoulders. He met them with tenacity and fortitude. John enjoyed a 44-year career as an iron worker with J.P. Murphy/Bethlehem Steel and belonged to the San Francisco Steel Workers Union Local #377. John was a working foreman and declined the position of Superintendent in favor of working out in the field with his men. In later years, John enjoyed taking friends and family on tours of the City pointing out his "babies"-the many buildings, hospitals, churches, skyscrapers, and bridges, as well as the BART tube under the San Francisco Bay. John preferred playing sports to watching them, except for watching games played by his children and grandchildren. He was a serious tennis player with his wife Elaine and the Balboa Tennis Club. He pitched fastpitch softball into his late 50s. John coached CYO baseball for his son and son-in-law, always interested in furthering the love of sports. While playing football as a right end at Balboa High School he won All City Honors in 1934 and he was inducted into the Balboa Hall of Fame in 1979. John was given a football scholarship by the great Slip Madigan, coach at St. Mary's College, Moraga. Those were the days of "pigskins" and leather helmets. While John was a well-traveled man, he loved best the city of his birth, San Francisco, where he lived his entire life in the Excelsior District. One of John's proudest achievements was having saved 88 homes in the Excelsior District from being demolished to provide off-street parking for the local merchants. John revitalized the Excelsior District Improvement Association (EDIA) in 1959. To this day, the members of EDIA meet monthly in his basement to further the well-being and safety of the neighborhood. John was known as "Mr. Excelsior." John was a proud and active member of numerous organizations: The Balboa Tennis Club, the Druids, Italian Catholic Federation, Italian American Social Club, Holy Names Society, YMI, and Men's Club at Corpus Christi Church. John's children are grateful to Drs. Lester Jacobson and John Fletcher and his part-time caregiver Carmen for their wonderful care. Family and friends may visit from 6pm - 7pm are invited to attend An Evening of Prayer, Song and Remembering on Friday, May 16, at 7:00 PM and a Mass of Resurrection on Saturday, May 17, at 10:00 AM. Both services will be held at Corpus Christi Church, 62 Santa Rosa Avenue, San Francisco. Interment to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery in Colma. In lieu of flowers, donations in remembrance of John may be made to the John Consiglieri Football Scholarship, Balboa Alumni, PO Box 31866, San Francisco, CA 94131. Online condolences may be offered at www.vmpandco.com Funeral Arrangements under the direction of Valente Marini Perata & Co. Funeral Directors.

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Published by Chico Enterprise-Record on May 16, 2014.

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Sister Judith Fergus

May 19, 2014

Dear Consiglieri Children,
Your father was a delightful man. It was a privilege to know him and to enjoy dinners around the big dining room table. Laughter and fun flowed with the wine. I remember fondly the pre-made Manhattan's he sent down to the convent for the holidays. He was a perfect mixture of holiness and humaness.
I know he's in heaven so I direct my prayers for you who will sorely miss him. May all your happy memories sustain you in your loss.
Love, Sister Judith

May 16, 2014

We are all so sorry that we no longer have your extraordinary father here. He was such an amazing inspiration to everyone! We are also sorry that we cannot make the celebration of his wonderful life. I am in San Diego with Tim. We will say a prayer for all of you. What a blessing for all his family to have him! Love, Kevin and Cathy McCullough

Carol T. and Walter Neptune

May 16, 2014

Across the miles---Dear Beautiful Consiglieri Family.  We are saddened to hear that your Family Patriarch, John, base adieu and moved to realms beyond our sphere.  He will be greatly missed.  At the same time we share with you the celebration of his wonderful life and the reuniting with his dear wife, Elaine, and other dear ones. 

And to Dear John, on this, your 97th Birthday Anniversary, we express our love and gratitude for having known you, for your outstanding example, for your warm acceptance and hospitality, and for your many gifts of self and means to enhance the life of others.   Thank you!

Gus and Gerry Argenal

May 16, 2014

John and Consiglieri Family.
Although I never had the pleasure to meet Mr. Consiglieri over the years I have often heard John Jr. and other friends speak of him with respect, love and fondness. He was a true San Franciscan and his legacy lives on with John Jr. and the rest of his wonderful family. You will all be in our prayers.
Gus and Gerry Argenal

Deborah Boero

May 16, 2014

My sympathy to the family. John was a wonderful man, with such pride in his neighborhood. He was so kind to everyone. I recall a long conversation we had in the Balboa museum, and his interesting stories of his days at Bal. He will be missed by many.

Tom and Ruthie Kurpinsky

May 15, 2014

What a lovely tribute for Mr Consiglieri and his family.
Rest in peace ....

Jean Carroll

May 15, 2014

Deepest condolences to the family. This man was so very kind, was always a pleasure attending the EDIA meetings in his home.

Diane & Bob Masie

May 15, 2014

What wonderful memories you must all have of Dad. May your warm memories give you strength at this hard time.
Rest in Peace Dear Friend.

May 15, 2014

John was a Good Man. He cared about his district and was a pleasure to talk to. He will be missed. Bob Greco

Al Scigliano

May 14, 2014

We have such fond memories of Uncle John.....his firm handshake, his See's suckers and his love of family. We will miss you.

Judith Anne Sedgwick

May 14, 2014

One year ago I was very fortunate to attend a Giant's game with John, Catherine & Johnnie. I have such a wonderful memory of that day.

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