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Asheville - Stephen J. Wolff, aged 55, passed away suddenly Tuesday, February 5, 2013 at home. A celebration of life service will be held Saturday, February 9, 2013 at 11:00 AM at Central United Methodist Church, 27 Church Street, Asheville. The family will receive friends at the church at 10 AM preceding the service.
Mr. Wolff was born in Covington, Kentucky on December 4, 1957 to the late Raymond and Geraldine Wolff. At the time of his death, Mr. Wolff was a resident of Asheville with his loving wife, Virginia, and three children, a son, Walker Raymond Wolff, and two daughters, Wynter Marie Wolff and Waverly Landers Wolff. His is also survived by two sisters, Mary Elizabeth Wolff-Blom, Mary Therese Schroer and a brother, Walter Paul Wolff, all of Florence, Kentucky.
Mr. Wolff graduated from Covington Latin High School and earned his bachelors degrees in Sociology and Philosophy from Northern Kentucky University in 1979. Upon graduating college and marrying the love of his live, Virginia, the two embarked upon adventures that led them to work and live at Yellowstone National Park, the Grand Canyon, and Maui, Hawaii. Following the births of their children in Hawaii, the Wolff family moved to Asheville in 2001, making a home in Biltmore Park.
Stephen was a loving husband and dedicated father, always active in many sports leagues, as a soccer referee and working with theatre groups. His free time was spent doting on his three cherished children. Always with a new joke to share with his many friends, he will be missed by all who knew and loved him.
The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be sent to North Carolina School of Science and Mathematics, PO Box 2733, Durham, NC 27715-2733.
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family and the memorial register is available at grocefuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Wolff
Shawn Shope
March 8, 2013
Dear Wolff Family,
It saddened me and my husband when we heard that Steve passed away. We only knew him through Kinko's as customers. He always greeted me by name and was always interested in how I was doing. We always appreciated him and the team he built there. He will be missed. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peggy Mitchell
March 3, 2013
Virginia, I continue to lift you and the kids up in prayer. Steve was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. I love you and the kids very much, and my prayer is for your comforting.
barbie angell
February 19, 2013
It's taken me awhile to write something for Steve....He was always so supportive of my work and made sure to tell me how proud he was of me.
If I…
If I don't believe your voice ever spoke,
will your words fall out of my mind?
If I don't look past all the mirrors and smoke,
will the secrets stay safely behind?
I can't keep you here.
I can't let you go.
I can't stay asleep or awake.
My tears are half-empty when they aren't half-full,
my voice was the first thing to break –
You gave me the world without even a pause,
you put it right into my hands.
You were not quite a father but more than a friend,
now I no longer know where I stand.
Because all that is left
are the scraps of your life,
fluttering past in the breeze.
Your smile and laugh,
and a thousand days past,
they're flying just out of my reach.
If I can pretend that you're just out of town,
will that ease the ache in my brain?
Can I come up with reasons that you're not around?
Will it hold off the tears and the pain?
If I never start.
If I lie to my heart.
If I never cry
and try not to try.
If I sing this song,
will you somehow go on?
If I never grieve,
will you never leave?
For Steve Wolff
February 19th, 2013
DeeDee Holland
February 16, 2013
Virginia and W3(Walker, Wynter, Waverly)- I just found out about Steve on the HFC/ABYSA home page (went on to see if Parker's friends signed to play in college). We have nothing but positive memories of Steve and all of you! So glad we were able to see you/ have dinner with both of you our last visits in Asheville. We admire your whole family for your work ethic and the joy you bring others. Though we are across the country, we are here for you if you need us. Our love and prayers are with you, The Hollands (Steve, DeeDee, Kimberlee, and Parker)
February 15, 2013
After reading all of these messages, there is really nothing more to say about the essence and quality of a man who absolutely loved life and his fellow man. I will miss his pleasant presence, but he has left behind his quality legacy through the children he and Virginia produced. He is one individual who really did make a difference. I hope he is at peace.
Steve Cornish
February 11, 2013
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Steve. I was fortunate to know him through soccer and he was a true gentleman. I loved his humor and always appreciated his support. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
February 10, 2013
We are sorry for your tremendous loss. God bless you all. The Kopps (Olivia, Gen, Kari and Kevin)
February 10, 2013
VIRGINA AND FAMILY, SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND HELP DURING THESE HARD TIMES. IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO YOU ARE WELCOMB TO CALL ME. LOVE YOU, BONNIE AND DALE
Russ Thomas
February 10, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Steve over the past 5 years at Fedex. Business associates are usually just... well business associates, but working with Steve and being around Steve was much more like being around a good friend. I am very sorry for this great and painful loss. I hope you take some solace in knowing from even the most casual acquaintance Steve was truly a great guy.
Sincerely
Russ Thomas
Paula Beach
February 9, 2013
We will miss you May God be with your Family. Paula and Bill Beach
Jon McDonald
February 9, 2013
Lifting the Wolff family up in prayer. May God bless you during this time of grief.
BILL & CARLEEN WEHAGE
February 9, 2013
we are greatly saden by Steven's passing we will all miss him
Joe Macke
February 9, 2013
Steve and I were best buds growing up in Lakeside Park, KY. I have too many memories to even begin to recount. We went to different high schools but we trained together for various sports. Most memorable was Steve teaching me the Fosbury Flop high jumping method in his backyard on Latin School's equipment, pole vaulting and the many many neighborhood softball games we played there as well.Steve was a dedicated competitor. I saw Steve at Mrs. Wolff's funeral last year and now I am so grateful for being able to spend some time with him then. Prior to that I hadn't seen Steve for over 20 years. Rest in peace my good friend. You will be missed.
Robert and Jane Kimery
February 9, 2013
We are very saddened to hear about Steve. Jane and I want you to know that you and the children will be in our thought and prayers.
Alberto Alvarez
February 9, 2013
As a fellow referee I always enjoyed having the opportunity to ref games with Steve.In fact I feel fortunate to have had the chance to ref alongside him on his last game.He always had a great attitude about everything and could make you forget about any problems you had.My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this time of mourning.
Shirely & Thomas W. Bready
February 8, 2013
Our prayers and love goes out to Virginia, Walker, Wynter and Waverly during this time of grief. Steve was a wonderful addition to our family. He will be missed very much but never forgotten. Love you all, Uncle Tom and Aunt Shirley(Kimery)Bready
Leigh Anne Mitchell
February 8, 2013
Virginia, I just want you to know that you and the kids are in our thoughts and prayers. Just know that we are here for you if you need us. Love you!!!
Allen Johnson
February 8, 2013
I am a better person for having known Steve. My life became better when I accepted what he was trying to teach me. I will always miss my friend and mentor. Aloha.
February 8, 2013
Jonah so enjoyed his Emerald Isle trip with Steve and what a treat to receive a thank you note from a volunteer chaperone for sharing my child with him. What a wonderful man.
Our sincere condolences to Virginia, Walker, Wynter and Waverly - may you all find comfort and peace in your memories.
Margot and Tim Gorman
Jonah, Molly and Emma Hodes
Jim, Mary, Bradley & Ryan Jensen
February 8, 2013
We were so shocked and saddened by the news of Steve's death. Words can not express the sorrow we feel for your family. I came to know Steve as a fun-loving and caring friend as a soccer dad, board member at ABYSA and as a referee. His quick jokes and light-hearted nature always brought a smile to our faces. We will be truly missed.
February 8, 2013
Lou and I did not know your family, but just moved onto Dayflower last January. Lou did meet Steve recently, and see your black dog every day. We are so sorry for your loss, and are here if you need us for anything. Carol and Lou Higdon, 14 Dayflower
Clay and Penny Campbell
February 8, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss of Steve. We want the family to know they are all in our thoughts and Prayers during this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Clay and Penny Campbell
kristi hedberg
February 8, 2013
Such a tremendous loss for so many who had experienced Steve's wonderful nature. Easily one of the most intelligent people I knew, I always so enjoyed when our paths would cross. Virginia, Walker, Wynter and Waverly, our prayers are with you in this time of great loss. The Hedbergs, Mark, Kristi, Sydney and Natalie
Scotty Maddox
February 8, 2013
I remember fondly Steve's smile and easy way. He was a joy to know and be around. My best wishes for comfort and peace for the entire Wolff family in this difficult time.
Melissa Mcclure
February 8, 2013
Steve was such an interesting and inspiring man. He will be missed, but always remembered. My sincere condolences to the Wolff family.
Beth Zabriskie
February 8, 2013
Steve was always such a joy to be around. His smile and attitude so contagious. The world is better because you were in it, Steve. Thinking of you Virginia,Walker and the girls with love and sorrow. Beth Zabriskie and family.
Mike Carpinelli
February 8, 2013
I enjoyed spending time and sharing laughter with Steve. He was a great man and I will miss him. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Alan Tenan
February 8, 2013
What a very fine man and friend you were to me. I am already missing you a lot. I will see you in Heaven, Peace and Love to you,
Alan
Alison Greene
February 8, 2013
Dear Virginia, Walker, Wynter, and Waverly, We are sending you our deepest sympathies and prayers for strength at this saddest time. Words really can't express our shock and sorrow at this news of your, and the world's, untimely loss of Steve. Please call on us at any time for any reason if we can help out in any way. Sincerely, Alison, Andrew, and Rosalia
Jim Willmot
February 7, 2013
We officiated many soccer games together over the past few years. He told me he liked to ref not only for the kids, but for the friendships he developed with other referees. A lover of classic rock music, he would sing along to the radio on the way to and from soccer games. He loved people and he loved life. He will be missed.
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