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Kate Marie Barnett, who was 22 years old, resided in Fairview North Carolina, graduated from Gardner-Webb in spring of 2014 with her Nursing degree, as an ROTC Cadet. Kate was killed in a severe car accident, the evening of November 23, 2014 in West Virginia; along with her soon to be fiancé and the light of her life, Stephen Parson.
Kate is the daughter of Bill and Lisa Barnett. She was born December 5, 1991 in St. Louis Missouri. Kate was outspoken and quiet; wild and crazy but calm and withdrawn. She always blended in and stood out at will, she could calm the scene or be the one to make a scene. Kate was the ultimate contradiction and loved it! She was an amazing daughter, sister, aunt, and friend; the color in every rainbow, the twinkle of our eye. She lived each moment to the fullest and will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Yet today she dances with her savior Jesus!
Kate is survived by: Her parents Bill and Lisa Barnett of Fairview NC, Aunts Alanne Whitaker and Nancy Gonzolas of Sacramento CA, Sister Kori Byrd and husband Gordon Byrd of Bakersville NC, Brothers Casey Barnett of Fairmont WV and Kyle Barnett of Leicester NC, Sister Kelly Barnett of Fairview NC, Niece/Nephew Hunter, Danica, Alexis, Jonathan of Bakersville NC.
Memorial service will be held at King of Glory Church 218 Patton Cove Rd Swannanoa NC 28778 on November 29, 2014 at 4pm. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to The Wounded Warrior Project since her biggest passion was always caring for those that were hurt or broken.
Kate was charismatic every day, passionate in all things, vivid in all ways.
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Ginger & Jay Leavitt
December 17, 2014
It is with tears of human pain today that I learned of the unanticipated passing of your lovely daughter Kate. It is with tears of joy I that thank God she passed quickly into eternity in the arms of Jesus Christ. Our heartfelt sorrow and prayers are with you today and always.
Dave and Bev Mccormick
December 3, 2014
So sorry to hear this sad news about kate and her fiance. Our hearts are with you and all your family. Love Dave and Bev Mccormick
Brenda Moses
December 2, 2014
So sorry about Kate and her future fiancé. May God bring peace to both families.
Monica Adams
December 2, 2014
I was a neighbor of the Parson family, and though I didn't know Kate, I could tell from Stevie's facebook posts that he was happy in love. Stevie was a very nice young man, with his head on straight. Keeping you and the Parson family in my prayers.
Michael Angell
December 1, 2014
So sad to hear of Kate this morning. Carol and I are praying for Gods help during this tragic time in your life. May He hold you tight in His arms just now!
December 1, 2014
I just learned of Kate's death and I am heartbroken. She was in one of my classes and always spoke to me long after that semester. I pray God's blessings of comfort for each of you as you mourn the loss of a special person. Dr. Don Berry
Joan McDonald
November 30, 2014
I did not know her Lisa but I feel your loss and keep you in my prayers
Margi Memoli
November 30, 2014
Dear Barnett Family ~ I am a friend of the Parson Family and am heartbroken over the sudden loss of their son and your daughter. From what they've told me, Kate was a shining light, just like Stephen, and she brought him great joy. May God comfort you today and fill your hearts with His peace.
November 30, 2014
We are so sorry to hear about Kate! We are praying for you all. I remember her as a fun loving little girl who was always into something and always smiling. She always wanted Kori's attention, and Kori was happy to give it. She was a truly sweet young lady.
Jim, Becky & Family Swatzell
November 30, 2014
Your family is in our prayers. May God enfold you all in his arms of grace and peace.
November 29, 2014
Bill and Lisa, I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart hurts for your entire family. Please know that we will be lifting all of you up in prayer. The Moncey Family
Nancy Laughlin
November 29, 2014
"Heaven is for real", I watched the movie recently and your daughter's smile is as beautiful as The throne of Heaven. God be with all of you. Sincerely Nancy Laughlin and sons
Susan Jenkins
November 28, 2014
I remember when I first met Kate, when she was accepted into our nursing program at GWU. I knew right away that she was a super, special person. She came by everyday to tell me hello and she always had a big smile on her face, even on test days. She brought joy to everyone who knew her. She was so happy when she got her first job as an RN. I knew she would make an amazing, caring , and compassionate nurse. Although it is hard for us to comprehend the reason God chose to call her home so early, I know she fulfilled her purpose on earth by touching so many lives with her sweet and bubbly personality, compassionate heart, and loving spirit. Kate, I feel honored to have known you and been a part of your life for the past four years. And to her family, I pray that God will put his loving arms around you and give you grace and comfort in the days to come, knowing that you will see Kate again some day!
Joe and Liz Johnson
November 28, 2014
Dear Barnett family- Kate was a wonderful young woman and a joy to know while she was at ACA. She has touched many lives. We pray the Lord would comfort you and the Parson's family as only He can. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Christopher Titus
November 28, 2014
Mr. and Mrs. Barnett,
I was one of Kate's Senior ROTC instructors. It was very wonderful knowing her; she was always jubilant. Kate was always that person whom we could depend on to help in all our training events. When I first met her, there was just her and another student from Gardner Webb University in the class. It was my first-time teaching college students, and they were a great pair to help me become a better instructor. She earned a coin from our senior leader out of FT Bragg at the beginning of this month of November for her dedication to her fellow cadets. She will truly be miss.
Christopher Titus
Master Sergeant,
Senior Instructor
Bryan and Carmen Roe
November 28, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. We pray our Lord comfort you in the midst of your sorrow.
J.D. McGinn
November 28, 2014
Mr. & Mrs. Barnett,
I didn't know Kate but I knew Stephen as I was one of his supervisor's for several years at Fort Hood when I was active duty. He was one fine and outstanding young man, always helpful, intelligent, very physically fit, great personality. He was at our farm during a party we had one day. Stephen frequently spoke about Kate, we sometimes worked night shift and he spoke about her at length. This terrible tragedy, worst thing to happen to the truly finest people in my 33 years of military, resonates with hundreds of people across the country. I'm far from alone out here at Ft Hood. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
November 28, 2014
Please know that I have been keeping your family in prayer for the loss of your beautiful Kate. May you feel the strength and comfort that comes from our Lord. I live near Inwood and would like you to know how much we care.
Deborah Lucas Boglione
November 27, 2014
Mr. & Mrs. Barnett,
My deepest sympathy for your great loss.
Stevie Parson's mom and I are first-cousins, our dads were brothers. Both Kate and Stevie are dancing with Jesus, and the Angels are rejoicing.
My prayer is for our Lord to envelop your family with His amazing love, grace and mercy filling the void as only He can.
November 26, 2014
Mr. and Mrs. Barnett I am from Martinsburg, WV. I want to send my sincere condolences to you and your family. My God help you through your pain of losing your beautiful daughter.
The Huntsman family
November 26, 2014
Kate always brought a smile to your face. She brought so much joy to so many people. Such an amazing young lady. We love you Kate.
LTC Sean Stewart
November 26, 2014
Very sad to hear the news. She was a great cadet, student and all around person. Always had a smile on her face when she came around the office while I was an UNCC. She will be truly missed by all who knew her. I am glad I got to know her and know that she would have been an outstanding Army Nurse.
Kimberly Opager
November 26, 2014
Lisa, It seems like just yesterday that we were talking about Kate going to college. I am shocked at her untimely passing. My daughter is Kate's age and I can't imagine the depth of your grief. I am praying for you and your whole family. May the Lord give you a peace which surpasses all understanding. Blessings
Tim Patterson
November 26, 2014
Kate was a joy to have in class and to coach on the soccer field. Many lives are better for knowing her. Our prayers are for your family.
Margaret Poteat
November 26, 2014
I remember her writing a paper about me and how she loved evangelism and outreach. I so enjoyed watching her change lives and share so much with people. She loved to minister to the hurting and I know she carried out what God had called her too. Well done thy good and faithful servant. This world is forever better because you made an impact by showing the love of Christ in a practical way. Let's honor her by doing the same.
Katia de Wit
November 26, 2014
She had her goals set and was ready to pursue her dreams. She completed her mission on Earth and thanks to that many hearts were filled with love.
Jim Weber
November 26, 2014
Kate was a pleasure to have in class. She was a good student and a joyful young lady. One couldn't help but to be in a good mood around her! May the God of Peace bring comfort, in the way that only He can, to the families and friends of Kate and Stephen during this time of great loss and sorrow.
Kristian Moses
November 26, 2014
Prayers go up for the Barnett family! I play basketball in college with her younger sister Kelly Barnett and I know that our team grieves with you all during this time. Kate is smiling down from Heaven watching over all of you! Look to God for strength and peace ??
John and Mary Jo Fohner
November 26, 2014
We were shocked and saddened to find out about Kate's sudden passing. It is just so unbelievable. May God be ever so close to you during this extremely difficult time. (We were host parents to Eunbyul Hong, Tina's friend.)
Rocky and Chastity Case
November 26, 2014
My family was blessed to have known Kate. She became my daughter's nurse just a few months ago and the entire family fell in love with her immediately. My daughter Lindsey has a severe neurological condition and requires much care. Kate was so precious with Lindsey and they fell in love with each other instantly. It was easy to see that Kate had a heart and a soul that did not have an equal on this earth. My family and I are devastated at this great loss and we pray for Kate's family and friends to receive God's grace in this time of need. To know Kate was a privilege, she was truly an angel on earth.
Erica
November 26, 2014
I knew Kate from school, we had a couple really good talks in which her brightness and energy always gave me life. Praying for her friends and family.
November 26, 2014
We are praying for you Bill and for your family. Our hearts are grieving at your loss, but rejoicing Kate is with our Lord Jesus Christ. Love and Prayers, Greg and Carole Lewis
Stinehour Family
November 26, 2014
Dear Barnett Family, Our son Karle was an ACA classmate of Kelly's. Though we did not have the privilege of knowing Kate, we can tell that she was a light to all. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you for the peace of God that passes all understanding.
CAM DOWDLE
November 26, 2014
I wanted to pass on my condolesnces to the Barnett family, I coached Kate and her sister Kelly briefly with a travel bball team and was always in awe of her ability and hard work , the world will miss this beatiful young lady , God Bless
Veronica
November 26, 2014
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one.May our Heavenly Father provide strength and comfort to you during this time of grief."For He is near to those broken at heart."(Psalm 34:17,16)
Tiffany Hopkins
November 26, 2014
To all of her family and friends; my heart breaks for you and you are in my thoughts. I never had the pleasure of knowing Kate, but from what I have read she was an amazing person. Please know that my family and myself are so sorry for your loss.
David & Patty Beaver
November 26, 2014
Our hearts hurt for your loss. We are praying for you!
Maggie & Pete Edens
November 26, 2014
She will be remembered. Love to you all. May God's grace, mercy and peace comfort our troubled hearts.
November 26, 2014
So sorry. We are praying for comfort for you from our God and Father.
Fred and Miriam Hayes
November 26, 2014
It is always hard to understand why God takes someone home "before their time". The only comfort we have ever had in this is Isaiah 57:1 and the strong belief that God is trustworthy. We didn't know Kate or her family, but we want you to know we are praying for you.
Kendall DeWeese
November 26, 2014
Kate could turn a frown into a smile just by walking into a room. I've never met anyone like her before or since. She will be sorely missed by everyone.
Rich and Lou Bishop
November 26, 2014
Dear Barnett family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts ache for you and our prayers go before the throne for you.
Eric&Teresa Young
November 25, 2014
We are praying for God's strength and peace for each of you (Psalm 29:11)It had been several years since we had seen Kate and then reconnected at a picnic on July 4th.What a beautiful young woman of God! Our hearts hurt for your loss.Love and prayers.
Gary & Claret Fullam
November 25, 2014
Our hearts are broken upon hearing the news a few minutes ago.
May the love and mercy of our Jesus pour out on you at this time.
We love you guys and the whole Barnett family.
Call on us for anything you may need us to do in the days ahead.
Linda Richardson
November 25, 2014
Kate was a friend to all. She had a warm, loving personality. She will be missed.
November 25, 2014
May the Lords grace be upon your family. May the Lord bless you and keep you at peace within your grief.
Patti Hollar
November 25, 2014
Kate always made people feel welcome. She was a fantastic person, and will be missed. prayers for family and friends
CPT Jeff Krohn
November 25, 2014
Kate was an energetic and fun cadet to be around. She was my "go to" cadet during FTXs as our only medic and she made certain she was there training even when she did not have to. As a wounded warrior and leader of Soldiers in combat, I can say that Kate was everything we need as a nurse and Army officer. Truly sad for her parents and family.
Anne Chalvet
November 25, 2014
Dear Barnett Family, So sorry for this painful loss. Praying for you as you must say "see you soon" to your beautiful, radiant daughter and lean into the God of all comfort: "the eternal God who is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms."
sandra potts
November 25, 2014
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,,,,,
Teresa Harris
November 25, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go to the Barnett family at this time. May Jesus give you comfort and peace, and Hope. God be with you all until you meet again.
Dr Mary Alice Hodge
November 25, 2014
I loved Kate from the first time I met her! She was a lively, lovely, and very smart nursing student and I have no doubt a wonderful and caring nurse. Kate, I love you and hold you dear to my heart! My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, friends and everyone who had the privilege to know Sweet Kate!
Morgan Owen
November 25, 2014
My heart is breaking for you all, I am so sorry for your loss. Kate was an amazing nurse and an even better person. She will be truly missed at New Hope Homecare and we are honored to have had her work for us. I considered Kate a friend and I am truly thankful I got the privilege to know her.
Dan Bangert, RN
November 25, 2014
I had the honor of working with Kate at A New Hope Home Care where where I am employed as the Director of Clinical Services. Kate stood out amongst the nurses as a vibrant, caring and enthusiastic individual. She was chosen as caregiver by some of our most discerning clients and was respected and loved by all those that she with whom interacted. We will miss her and offer our prayers and condolences to her family.
ACA Class of 2010
Greg Kynast
November 25, 2014
It somehow seems appropriate that Kate should be the first from my son's class at ACA to get to Heaven... she lit up the principal's office with her spirit on more than one occasion during my time there. See you soon, Kate!
Anne Black
November 25, 2014
I do not know you folks, but my heart breaks for your loss. I noticed that she was a nurse, and I am sure a great one. This is so sad, right here at the holidays. I will be praying for you all, and asking God to give you peace and understanding.
Sydney Hunte
November 25, 2014
I will remember Cadet Barnett as an awesome individual with a caring heart. The Army and the world lost a true Hero. May God bless, comfort and encourge the Barnett and Parson family in this time of sorrow. May the Peach of God, which passeth all understanding keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Adeline Parson
November 25, 2014
Dear Barnett Family,
Our family weeps with yours at the sudden ending of your beautiful, amazing, godly daughter. In His wisdom, He knows why this took place so suddenly. As we cried out in anguished prayer, not knowing if Stephen had met His Savior, we found out, to our comfort that Kate had introduced him. We weep and grieve with you and your family for this earthly loss, is heaven's gain. But eternity is written on our hearts, so we do not know what to do with this pain but run to Jesus. They graduated before us and are waiting to be reunited with all of us. No more pain, no more tears, no more sorrow or sickness. They stepped out of their earth suits into their new bodies. Much love, Robert Wendell and Adeline Parson, Oaks, PA
Nicole Waters
November 25, 2014
My prayer is that Kate's "life light" will shine for ALL of those who knew her and were impacted by her "light"
Dr. Waters
Melanie Wyatt
November 25, 2014
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. I knew Kate through ACA. Praying for all of you.
Dayna Elliott
November 25, 2014
May God be with your family. Rest in peace.
casey barnett
November 25, 2014
You will be greatly missed my little sister
Ivy Gee
November 25, 2014
I am blessed to have been classmates with Kate.
November 25, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My heart breaks for you, no words can fill the emptiness, I pray our Lord will hold and comfort you in the nearest days and always.
With sad hearts we mourn you, with joyful hearts we honor you.
With our deepest sympathy,
Maggie Ratcliffe(Hoops)
Mike & Donna Ratcliffe
Anna Haenlein
November 25, 2014
Kate was always so happy and much a delight to be around. I feel so privileged to have been her friend and to graduate along side her. I will miss her dearly. Prayers for your family and for Stephen's
Verna Roach
November 25, 2014
We met Kate through our son. She was an amazing young woman.She had a strong faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. We fell in love with her the moment we met her. We wish we could have spent more time getting to know her better. Our hearts are broken for your loss, but we rejoice to know that one day we will see her again. Your family are in our prayers.
Lynette Thomas
November 25, 2014
Dearest Kate, thanks for speaking up for me in class; lol, that's how I first met you. Soon afterwards, we became study buddies, and boy did you know your material! Studying for Nursing Finals was awesome because you were there; I remember how you refused to leave until you were certain that I knew the material. I appreciate you Kate. I once heard that it's not how long one lives, but what one does with the time he or she has on this earth; you my friend lived a life of quality. You loved strong and fought hard, and now you can rest peacefully. Rest In Heaven my friend, until we meet again. Lynette
Brittany Westmoreland
November 25, 2014
Kate will truly be missed and you all are in my prayers.
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