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Alfred Groh Obituary

Alfred S. Groh, 92, of Kingston, Pa., dramatist, educator, poet, and founder of the Fine Arts Fiesta, passed away peacefully Feb. 4.

"A man if he is taught from youth/Devotes his life to seeking truth ..."−Alfred S. Groh.

Al Groh was a graduate of Bucknell Junior College, Syracuse University (which he completed in 18 months, enabling Groh to enter the Army Air Force in March 1943), and received his post-graduate education at Columbia University. As a young man, he was a B-17 Army Air Force gunner who flew 50 missions over World War II Europe, earning Groh a Certificate of Valor in recognition of courageous service in aerial combat. This soldier rarely spoke of his harrowing war exploits, despite surviving near fatal airplane battles that included the wooden seat shot out from under him, and, on another occasion, his oxygen tank strapped to his suit shattered by enemy shrapnel. Al returned safely to the Wyoming Valley after the War to devote the rest of his long and storied career to the Arts and building a more enriched Northeast Pennsylvania.

Mr. Groh was the founder of the Wilkes University Theater Arts program that, in its early beginnings, staged productions in the late 1940s in the Chase garage of then Bucknell Junior College. As a young faculty member, Groh worked closely with Wilkes's first President, Eugene Farley. He helped draft Wilkes's original vision and mission statements. Mr. Groh was instrumental in convincing the benefactor Dorothy Dickson Darte to gift millions of dollars to build a state-of-the-art Center for the Performing Arts, a now-timeless Center where he staged hundreds of musicals and plays encompassing a 50 year period at both the Darte Center and Chase.

He was a founder of the Wilkes Summer Theater Workshops, an opportunity for high school students to build theater arts skills, and a subsequent model for high school and college theater workshops nationwide.

The Wilkes Concert & Lecture Series, directed by Al, brought acclaimed artists to Northeastern Pennsylvania over the decades. Long before the Kirby Performing Arts Center, the Wilkes C.P.A. was the venue to attend for major cultural and theatrical events.

As a young man, Groh began writing poetry, a passion that lasted until his final day. When his eyesight failed him, his active mind still wrote poems by dictation, remarkably remembering each word by heart. Hundreds of verses for children of all ages−"I'm a Penguin/You're out of luck/You can't be one/Because you're a duck"− were published by Groh. Numerous books of poetry were published that inspired the reader to combat indifference, see the healing power of the Arts and the wonder of the world around us. Al collaborated with the regional publishing and fulfillment company, Karol Media, to create the Alfred S. Groh I'm a Poems Collection for the Classroom.

Alfred Groh believed that the Arts in all their forms can heal and enrich a community. Annette Evans and Alfred Groh were the founders of the Fine Arts Fiesta, the oldest free full-scale arts festival in Pennsylvania. Groh partnered with David Fendrick's original one-character play, Citizen Tom Paine, at the Smithsonian Institute in Washington, D.C.

For over 50 years, Groh, as one student remarked, "... taught an approach to theater and an approach to life. He taught us to 'suspend disbelief.'" Othello, Camelot, The Death of Bessie Smith, An Enemy of the People, H.M.S. Pinafore, Blithe Spirit, The Lion of Winter — these were just some of the plays and musicals Groh directed over the decades. Many of his former students went on to highly successful careers in the Arts. As one former student put it, paraphrasing Al's words, "he ... placed in our souls some 'images of magnificence.'"

Al was a 50 year Mason and a long time Shriner.

Alfred S. Groh was devoted to, and beloved by his wife, Jane Kathleen Lampe Groh, former Dean of Students at Wilkes University. He was the loving son of Jacob Groh, admired Ritual Director of Temple Israel, Wilkes-Barre, and Ethel T. Groh, watercolorist, centenarian, of blessed memory, and brother to Barbara Groh Imbriglia, of blessed memory.

Groh is survived by his adoring wife, Jane Kathleen Lampe Groh; niece, Alison Kovalchik, Shavertown, Pa.; nephew, Christopher Miller, Lehman, Pa.; and many grandnieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be conducted at the Wilkes University Dorothy Dickson Darte Center for the Performing Arts, West River Street, Wilkes-Barre, on Thursday, Feb. 7, at noon. Shiva will be held at the Groh home, 63 Pringle St., Kingston, on Friday, Feb. 8, from 2 to 4 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Fine Arts Fiesta, at www.fineartsfiesta.org, or the donor's choice.

For more information or to send the family condolences, visit the funeral home website at www.rosenbergfuneralchapel.com.

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Published by Citizens Voice from Feb. 5 to Feb. 6, 2013.

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March 14, 2013

I am so sorry to hear the news of Al's passing. I graduated from Wilkes and spoke with Mr. Groh. He was one of the finest educators and humans i have ever met. My best friend his nephew Christopher always spoke so highly of his uncle. To Jane, Allison, and Chris my thoughts and prayers are with you. Frank Dennis

Liz Slaughter

March 1, 2013

Quite a Guy

Janine Tucker

February 10, 2013

Jane:

May God hold you close and may family/friends comfort you at this time. Though many years have passed since my graduation at Wilkes, Al's poetry during the Holiday season was something I looked forward to and I still hold dear. Much love and peace.

Bruce Phair

February 9, 2013

My Teacher.
My Director.
My Supervisor.
My Mentor.
My Friend.

Thank you for my career, and for casting me in this wonderful production we call "The Arts".

Where I am, and who I am is because of you.

Bruce Phair, Darte Center Director - Wilkes University

February 9, 2013

Deepest sympathies along with all respect to Dean Lampe-Groh for the loss of her lifetime... God Bless Alfred and care for him... Sincerely, Dragos MIHAI Bucharest, ROMANIA

Grace (Richie) Ostrum

February 8, 2013

My deepest sympathies go out to Mrs. Groh. Mr. Groh was truly dedicated to cultivating an appreciation of the arts in the student body and the community. I also remember Mrs. Groh as a caring, devoted Dean. (Class of '72)

Nanacy Juris

February 7, 2013

My deepest sympathy in your loss. Al was a great influence when I was a student at Wilkes. He will be missed.

February 7, 2013

Dear Jane ,
I am saddened to learn that Al has left us but am so glad he was with us for so many productive years .
Al and I go way back to when he directed me in many productions at Chase Theater.He gave me confidence and ability and knowledge to appreciate the arts .I always cherish those times he sat with me in his office in Chase Theather and discussed many topics.
Not only a role model but mentor as well .
I know that God will be kind to our Al .
Lou Steck '55

February 7, 2013

Dean Lampe, I'm very sorry to hear this sad news. I worked for you in the Dean's office around 1985 when I was a Wilkes student and was always very fond of you and your husband. He led a great life and will be missed by many. I'm so sorry.
Kim Belcher Harrington

Debbie (Yakus) Dudeck

February 7, 2013

What a wonderful G-d we serve to bless us with such a kind and gifted man! Alison and Jane may G-d comfort you with His shalom.

Barbara Farley

February 6, 2013

Dear Jane,
My love and condolences to you. As you well know we all loved Al and his kindness to our family will always be remembered. I hope he is with Bob, Nana and Dada Farley. Love to all Barbara Farley

February 6, 2013

Dear Alfred, I am blessed to have shared our poetry and friendship and as always this is my answer to you,love Joe

"An answer to a friend"

It is that which I try to do most everyday
turn dark grey skies to blue along the way.
The innocence of my soul!

Not a simple matter this
not an answer to a wish
but struggle and fight and fight some more,
to keep the misery from the door.
The innocence of my soul!

Tempered by greed and sharpened by hate
I'll chase the heartless from the gate
so you and you may live in peace
I'll swing my sword till I decease.

And when in death I must succumb
two more will rise to pound the drum
It's that which we must try to do most everyday
turn dark gery skies to blue along the way, the innocence of our souls!

Joseph Patrick McDonough

Sherman Burdette

February 6, 2013

Al, thank you for everything you gave to so many...those you knew and those you didn't. Your love for the arts,your devotion to Jane always inspired me. Rest in peace my wonderful friend.

February 6, 2013

Al was a fine man; he did so much for Wilkes and our entire community. He will be sadly missed. My deepest sympathy to Jane.
Paul D. Griesmer, M.D. Florida

February 6, 2013

Al was a very fine man. He did so much for Wilkes and the community and will be sadly missed. My deepest sympathies to Jane

Adam Orseck

February 6, 2013

My deepest condolences on Al's passing. He and his contributions to the arts will certainly be remembered by myself and everyone else they have touched throughout his lifetime. Much love to you, Jane, and your family.

February 6, 2013

When I was in college, Al taught me what acting was all about and what directing involved. Because of his inspirational guidance, I have been able to pass on his ideals and principles, working in the Arts in my community. His poetry is magical, pure, and so insightful. I feel privileged to have shared a part of his life, and my deepest sympathy goes to you, Jane, in the loss of your Love.
Basia Mieszkowski Jaworski

Donna Broda Kuliczkowski

February 6, 2013

Eternal gratitude for everything you did for Wilkes and for the community. Rest in peace.

Linda Phillips-Orseck

February 6, 2013

My deepest condolences on the death of a truly wonderful individual, mentor, director and poet. He helped to instill a love of a theater in me and shape my life's work in the arts and he most definitely will continue to live on as long as we, his students, carry on his legacy. He was truly a gift to not only the Wilkes community, but the arts community at large. I am truly sad at his passing. May he be at peace knowing his work lives on in those of us who knew him. Thoughts and prayers are with his lovely wife - affectionately known to many of us as "Dean Lampe"

Mike Frantz

February 6, 2013

Al was the epitome of kindness, fairness and humility. Even when his body was weakened he showed such strength. I am a far, far better man for having known him and you, Jane. As he did every day, I will continue to seek peace for and in this world.

Charles Slease

February 6, 2013

So sorry to learn of Al's passing. He was a great guy who loved the arts and directing musicals at Wilkes when I was a freshman. I was in the musical "Paint Your Wagon" back in 1958. I also acted in "Witness For The Prosecution" as Inspector Hearn. I will miss him. May God Bless you.

Lee Ann Earl-Sedor

February 6, 2013

Jane, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband, Al. He was a great man who did so many wonderful things. My late husband, David, thought so highly of both of you and spoke of you often. My heart and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time. Al will be missed by countless people.

Pam Bartl

February 6, 2013

Jane, I am so sorry to hear of Al's passing. I know I only see you each year at the Fine Arts Fiesta, however, you both have often been in my thoughts.

Beverly Cottle

February 6, 2013

My dear Alison, Our love and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult and sad time. My sister, Debbie, graduated from Wilkes and was very active in the Drama Club there. She has very fond memories of your Uncle Al.

Love and Prayers,
Bruce and Beverly Cottle

linda

February 5, 2013

To Jane, sorry to hear about Al. I remmember him as a great guy, a wonderfull writer.I never forgot the both of you. I came to your house take care of Al.Seeing the both of you together was touching, you could see how much the both of you loved each other.My deepest sympathy.

Kristen Martin

February 5, 2013

Words will never be able to express the many feelings that im feeling inside. Confused, hurt, anguished, disappointed, morose, & beyond shocked without a doubt. Angry at myself for not being there, because maybe if I was there, you'd still be here. If not alive, atleast id be able to see you at least one more time. Every morning before the start of my shift, I always went to your room to say a sweet goodmorning, at the end of my shift I always went to your room to say "ill see ya tomorrow," and to see if there was anything you needed, and during the inbetween hours of my 8 hour day, I always found time to sneak in your room and steal a conversation with you. Each time I grew more and more attached. Poetry then became the chain that linked us together; both our loves for poetry. You asked me to bring in some of my poems to read to you, & today I did. Devastation consumed my heart, when I learned of your death this morning. Straight to your room I went, I refused to believe it was true. Never got to read my poetry to you physically, but ill always remember the last words you said to me: "Thanks Love"..Even as I write this, tears continue to flow. Time was definitely too short, but I cherish every conversation we had, and all the time we had together. You will forever have a special place in my heart, and there will the memories be stored. May you rest in peace "Al" ?

February 5, 2013

Jane, So sorry to hear of Al's passing. We were friends a few years ago at John Heinz when my husband was there after falling down stairs and breaking a shoulder and hip. Just last week, Dick and I were taking about John Heinz and thinking about you and Al. Our deepest sympathy. Jeanmarie and Dick Harding

Joe Cavanagh

February 5, 2013

I would like to extend our deepest condolences to you on the passing of Uncle Al. He was a treasure, a gentle soul who helped, guided and molded so many lives, both young and old. To say he will be missed is an understatement, but he will continue to guide us as he always did. I will be there tomorrow to help you say farewell.
Love, Joe, Janie, Joseph, Mary Ann, Christopher and Becky Cavanagh

Sybil (Fischman) Stershic

February 5, 2013

Sending my condolences, Jane. Al was such a wonderful mentor to my brother and friend to my family. His legacy of caring and his beautiful poetry will keep his memory alive.

Mariea Noblitt

February 5, 2013

Jane; we lost our best friend Alfred. My heart goes out to you. Deepest condolences to you.
Love you very much,
Mariea Barbella Noblitt

February 5, 2013

Jane, Our thoughts and prayers are with you, today. Matt and I are so sad about Al's passing. He was a great man. Matthew and Susan Kultys

February 5, 2013

Deepest condolences from my sons and I on the death of Alfred.
Sincerely,
Rich Fiegelman (son of Beverly Groh)

Robert Douglass

February 5, 2013

I am sorry to hear about Alfred, I will miss him, and appreciated all the hospitality and kindness him and his wife gave me and my family. Condolences to his wife Jane, and the rest of his family.

Eugene Farley Douglass

February 5, 2013

A great guy, friend of our family for over 60 years (Farley family), I will miss him too. Our best and condolences to his beloved wife Jane! We give Jane our best wishes, they both are greatly loved by our small family too, as Carol got to know them, and they were great to Robert and Gene Jr. I wish I could easily come back for both the funeral and shiva, but it is too difficult from here (I live and teach in Kazakhstan).

Brother Jim Miller

February 5, 2013

Mrs. Groh, I've just heard about your Husband's death. Please accept my condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Al and I spent time working on several Theatrical Productions at Wilkes, when Wilkes and King's College had a cooperative Theatre Program. My thought as with him and you. Brother Jim Miller, c.s.c. - KING'S COLLEGE THEATRE

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