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Evan Ruff Obituary

Evan Carl Ruff, age 63, of Topeka, KS passed away Sunday, September 26, 2010 at Midland Care Hospice, Topeka, KS. He was born on October 10, 1946 in Clay Center, KS, the son of Dr. Carl Henry and Evelyn Wava (Cate) Ruff. He grew up in Clay Center, graduating from Clay Center High School. He attended the University of Kansas where he was on the Fencing Team. He earned his Bachelor of Arts in History from McPherson College and his Jurist Doctorate from Oklahoma City University. Evan practiced law in Oklahoma and Texas where he specialized in Oil and Gas law. While in Oklahoma, he served as city judge for Tahlequah. He later worked in respiratory therapy in Arlington, TX before turning his pastel art and photography hobbies into his profession. He was a member of the Countryside United Methodist Church and belonged to the Mensa Society. His talents and interests were varied and many, including being an avid chess and bridge player, judge for AKC dog shows, and woodworking. He loved history and the theater and was a master at bringing history to life. Evan married his high school sweetheart, Linda R. Erickson, on July 30, 1994, in Topeka. He was preceded in death by his father, Carl Ruff. In addition to his wife, Linda, he is survived by his mother, Wava Ruff; daughter, Desiree N. Ruff of Englewood, CO; step-sons, Steve R. Hood of Topeka, KS who is currently serving in Iraq and Brian L. Hood of Divide, MT; brother, Paul G. Ruff of Springfield, MO; sisters, Joan R. Ruff of Mission Woods, KS and Ellen W. Resnick of Nashville, TN; step-granddaughters, Heather Hood of Divide, MT and Aidan Hood of Topeka, KS; as well as many nieces, nephews, extended family members and friends. Funeral ceremonies will be at 10 a.m., Thursday, September 30, 2010 at the Penwell-Gabel Parker-Price Chapel, 245 NW Independence Ave, Topeka, KS. A graveside ceremony will be at 3 p.m., Thursday, September 30 at the Greenwood Cemetery, Clay Center, KS. Evan will lie in state after 3 p.m., Wednesday at the funeral home where the family will receive friends from 7-8 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to Midland Care Hospice of Kansas, 200 SW Frazier Circle, Topeka, KS 66606 or to Parkinson's Disease Association of NE Kansas, PO Box 251, Topeka, KS 66601. To leave a message for the family online, please visit www.PenwellGabelTopeka.com.

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Sep. 28, 2010.

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Leia McGahee

October 4, 2010

The memories of Evan will always be present at the Jayhawk theatre and Upstage gallery

sheila musil

September 29, 2010

We at Kansas Medical Clinic are very sorry for your loss. Evan was a very nice man and he will be missed our thoughts are with you.
Kansas Medical Clinic Neurology

September 28, 2010

My deepest sympathy to Linda, Steve, and family. God Bless you.

Rene Tinajero

Vicki Vincent James

September 28, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

September 28, 2010

was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Danny Cravens
KSARNG RETIRED

September 28, 2010

What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.

with love, Resa

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