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Carol Bergmark Obituary

Carol Comstock Bergmark, 87, passed away on Tuesday, July 8, 2008, after a rich, long life and a blessedly brief illness.
A resident of Jackson MS, since 1953, Carol was born in San Antonio TX, where she grew up and made many wonderful life-long friends. She graduated from the University of San Antonio, now Trinity University, and attended Westminster Choir College in Princeton NJ. She played French horn simultaneously with the San Antonio, Waco, and Austin Symphony Orchestras.
While working as church secretary at Travis Park Methodist Church in San Antonio, Carol met Robert Bergmark, a Boston University seminary student who attended a church service en route to mission work in Mexico. They married in 1946, had three children and served Methodist churches, Bob as pastor and Carol as choir director, in MA and TX. In 1953, the family moved to Jackson for Bob's appointment at Millsaps College as a professor of philosophy.
For many decades, Carol participated actively in Jackson's musical community. She taught piano for 27 years and served as contralto soloist at Galloway Memorial United Methodist Church, her home church, for 18 years. She was the contralto soloist for the Messiah and the Millsaps Singers for 9 years and sang with them in future years for major works. She was also contralto soloist at St. Peter's Catholic Cathedral and for the High Holy Days at Temple Beth Israel. She was a member of St. Andrews Chamber Society and contralto soloist on occasion at St. James Episcopal Church.
As a charter member of the Maurice Thompson Singers, Carol enjoyed their professional recording sessions. She sang in Night at the Opera performances promoted by the Mississippi Opera Association and had a supporting role in Puccini's Suor Angelica. She was a charter member of the highly acclaimed Musica Sacra Singers, a choral group that specialized in 14th-16th century works. She was a charter and board member of the Mississippi Academy of Ancient Music.
During the civil rights movement of the 1960's, Carol was active in Mississippians for Public Education in their successful effort to preserve the public schools and was the Protestant representative of the Interfaith Fellowship, formed to promote understanding and cooperation of Jews, Catholics, and Protestants. In 2003, she was featured in "A Southern Town," a Discovery Channel documentary about the involvement of white Jacksonians in the civil rights movement.
Carol served as president of the Millsaps Women's Group and was the first president of the PTA at Spann Elementary School in 1958. In 1969, she was a co-founder of International Friends, created to provide a support network for women arriving in Jackson from all over the world. Until her death, she continued to be very active and revered in this group of international women.
There are many examples of the strength, independence and leadership Carol showed over her lifetime. In 1962, on a sabbatical from Millsaps College, she and her husband took their three children, ages 9, 11, and 13, to travel and camp with them throughout Europe for the better part of a year. In 1971, on another sabbatical, Carol and Bob circumnavigated the world. They reveled in the diversity of culture, music, thought, philosophy, and religion. They enjoyed three summers in England at University College and St. John's College of Oxford University. Carol toured China in 1976 with the Millsaps Study Group with succeeding tours in 1980, 1985, and 1988. The 1985 trip was a gift from the Chinese government in appreciation for her promotion of a concert of the Shanghai Conservatory of Music and a program of excerpts of Chinese Opera at Millsaps as well as hosting the Chinese delegation for the International Ballet Competitions.
Carol's body has been donated to the University of Mississippi Medical Center in accordance with a decision she made in 1971.
Carol is preceded in death by her husband; her daughter, Christina Bergmark; her son Edward's wife, Sally Kroon; and her grandson, Christopher Bergmark.
She is survived by her sister, Bessie Jean King of San Antonio; her daughter, Martha Bergmark and Martha's husband, Elliott Andalman of Takoma Park MD and Jackson; their sons, Aaron Andalman of Cambridge MA and David Andalman of New York NY; and her son, Edward Bergmark of Mendota Heights MN; and his sons, David Bergmark of Changsha, China, and Brian Bergmark of Boston MA.
Memorial contributions may be made to either of Carol's most cherished philanthropies, the Bergmark Endowed Scholarship Fund at Millsaps College, c/o Director of Donor Relations, P. O. Box 151191, Jackson MS 39210, or the Mississippi Center for Justice, P. O. Box 1023, Jackson MS 39215. The scholarship fund was created by Bob and Carol Bergmark at the time of their daughter Christina's death in 1986.
A memorial service celebrating the life of Carol Bergmark will be held at 1 p.m., Saturday, July 26, 2008, at Galloway Memorial United Methodist Church. The family will greet friends at the church following the service.
Published by Clarion Ledger on Jul. 13, 2008.

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Urmila Mota

August 11, 2008

Carol was a remarkable person. I got to know through the International Friends Club. She had a genuine warmth and smile that made strangers feel comfortable. She was a true inspiration and someone that I looked upto. Her interest in people and her stories were admirable. We will miss her and her genuine smile.

Nameeta Mota

August 11, 2008

Ms Bergmark always had a smile on her face and a story to tell. She was extremely open minded and sweet. I did some work for her, but she taught me many things and helped me as much, if not more than what I helped her. She was a true inspiration and I shall miss her much

Marina Mychaskiw

August 11, 2008

Carol was a special person who made me feel welcome in a new place. I will always remember her kindness and words of wisdom. I will miss the sweet smile she had every time I saw her.

Verena H. Shipkey

August 9, 2008

Carol was a great woman --- always helpful and optimistic.

I have fond memories of her and her husband Bob.

Jeanette Latimer

July 27, 2008

Carol always had a beautiful, genuine smile as well an encouraging word and a true interest in each of our families of the International Friends Club. I thank her for all the goodness she brought to all of us.

Natalia Diaz

July 15, 2008

Oh, how much you, Carol, will be missed! Your wit and wisdom and every kind and encouraging word! Your genuine interest in everyone you ever spoke to and true joy for accomplishments and triumphs of others! Your thoughtful and inspiring advice in a time of need and doubt! You have given so much to others and you will always remain a true example of what a friend should be! Thank you, Carol!
"Those who remain in the hearts of the loved ones left behind, never die!"

Elizabeth Shindler

July 14, 2008

It was a pleasure to have known Carol. She always had a warm smile and was fun to be with.

Kathy and Paolo Davini

July 14, 2008

Carol was an amazing person and an inspiration to all that new her. Whenever I was with her, her love and support always shined through. She had amazing strength and intelligence and was always a pleasure to be around.

Maryke Houben

July 14, 2008

When I am dead, my dearest

When I am dead, my dearest,
Sing no sad songs for me;
Plant thou no roses at my head,
Nor shady cypress tree:
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet;
And if thou wilt, remember,
And if thou wilt, forget.

I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not feel the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on, as if in pain:
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember,
And haply may forget.

By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation

Mireille and Peter De Beukelaer

July 14, 2008

Words are never enough at a time like this, but know that caring thoughts are with you.
With deepest sympathy.

Margot Kaelbling

July 14, 2008

Carol has enriched many lives. Through her I met wonderful and interesting people, made lasting friendships, learned about Mississippi's civil rights history, ancient music, and much more. Carol will continue to inspire me to be productive especially after retirement.

Anita Nooe

July 14, 2008

Thank you Carol, to have for so many of us provided an International Family!

Mary O'Donoghue Eby

July 14, 2008

Carol started the international group of friends. This group brought together people from all over the world.It is a wonderful group where we make life long friends. In the Spring she treated me to lunch at her home. We had a wonderful time. I will always remember her friendship.
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Jerry and Rose Trigg

July 13, 2008

Carol was loved by many and brought joy to all who knew her. She and Bob honored us with a visit to Colorado Springs years ago, a cherished memory.

john stone

July 13, 2008

love to all of Carol's family and friends. A magnificent group -- we've felt like one of the family for decades ourselves. Love

John Stone and Mae Nelson

Becky (Fleming) Crosby

July 13, 2008

David and Martha, What fond memories I have of being with your Mom and your family. I share your sorrow at this time. She has indeed gone to a far better place.

Margaret Ewing Thomas

July 13, 2008

With appreciation for Carol's life of serving others and adding beauty to our lives through music.

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