J. Hallinan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 6, 2012.

J. Stanton (Stan) Hallinan, 78, of Bow, died Wednesday, October 3, 2012 at Concord Hospital after a long illness. He was the only child of the late John J. and Louise (Stanton) Hallinan of Concord.

Stan owned and operated D & H Automotive in Concord with Tom Fry in the 50's and early 60's specializing in English cars.

Thereafter, he was a salesman for Grappone Toyota in Bow where he made many close friendships with his customers.

Stan also had a strong interest in anything pertaining to automobiles, and enjoyed repairing and restoring cars. Stan was an accomplished road racer who held track records at Mt. Ascutney, Vt. and Norridgewock, Maine.

He was also a great lover of Jazz music and was a long-time supporter of the Concord Community Music School. He attended many concerts by the all-time Jazz greats.

He was a member of the Bow Pioneers Snowmobile Club of Bow, Director and Secretary of the NH Snowmobile Museum, member of White Mountain Model A Club, Bow Open Spaces, Dunbarton Historical Society, Shelby American Automobile Club, NH Sports Car Club and many other car clubs.

He is survived by his cousins, Nancy King Riley of Cape Neddick, Maine, and Jeff Smith of Huntington, Mass. He is also survived by his long-time partner, Carol Bailey, of Bow, where they spent many hours at car shows and snowmobile events. They also ate their way through many church suppers.

There will be a gathering of friends at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Stan's name to Concord Community School, Financial Aid Fund, 23 Wall Street, Concord, NH 03301.

The Bennett Funeral Home of Concord is in charge of the arrangements.

Messages of condolences may be offered at www.bennettfuneral.com.

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October 25, 2012

Bob Couch

I've known Stan for a long time and always had great respect for his knowledge and love of cars and music. I will miss seeing him and Carole together at summer concerts and other events in town.

October 24, 2012

Penney Allen

Carol,
It has been a pleasure knowing Stan. He will be missed in many circles. Big Hugs to you!

October 16, 2012

Allyson Thorpe (Smith)

My dad (Carl Smith) loved Stan and valued him as one of his dearest friends. I know he was very very loved and will be missed deeply by the musical community that embraced him. Rest in peace, Stan.

October 15, 2012

Mike and Sylvia Bradford

I am very saddened to learn of Stan's passing, second to my dad, he was my best Ford buddy ever. Stan was one of the most knowlegable gearheads I've ever had the chance to meet and hang with. I am thankful for having known Stan for over 25 years. During that short quarter of a century I cherished our every meeting, from painting his parents house to hanging out in the barn amongst his treasures.
Many folks will miss him, I for one look forward to visiting him again on the other side, where I'm sure he is listening to some music and tinkering on something. Rest in peace my friend with wide open throttles.
Carol, you have our number for anything, we hope to keep in touch with you, Stan's best friend. We wish you peace and understanding during this very tough time of your life.

Posted by Mike and Sylvia Bradford

October 13, 2012

Gary & Nancy Stewart

How much we have enjoyed visiting with Stan at The Sandwich Depot and at every jazz event in Concord! He will be missed. Very sorry for your loss, Carol.

October 11, 2012

Deb Karr Francis

Heartfelt sympathy to you Carol and to all that loved Stan. May he rest in peace in the light of your love.

October 10, 2012

Morgan Saltmarsh, Jr

I had the honor of working with Stan at Grappone for a number of years.My family also had bought cars from him,we were always treated like friends.He will be fondly remembered.

October 10, 2012

W.Steve Turner

You were a great co-worker and friend miss you lots

October 9, 2012

Martha Butterfield

I knew Stan as a good friend of my son Cameron Sargent. Stan was like a mentor to Cam during his teen years at Concord High's auto shop where they shared their love of old cars. Stan was a decent, intelligent, thoughtful and generous man who created a nature preserve on his property in Bow and invited others to share it. My deepest sympathies to Carol and all his friends.

October 9, 2012

Paul Giblin

Stan had been a longtime member of the Sports Car Club of New Hampshire (SCCNH) since the mid 1960's and was also awarded a Life Membership a number of years ago. His love of cars was second to none. On behalf of our entire membership, we send our deepest condolences to Carol and to Stan's entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Sincerely, Paul Giblin - President, Sports Car Club of New Hampshire

October 8, 2012

Dick and I wish to express our condolences on Stans passing. We will miss him stopping in at our home and going out to the barn and chatting about our antiques vehicles.He and Carole were also in our Bow Mens Club Memorial Day Parade with his Model A car for years.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Carole and his family,
Dick & Marge Welch
Bow

October 8, 2012

John Spain

Carole, we all grieve with you. Stan was a life-long friend to many. I know he had a significant impact on my life. Certainly he inspired my interest in becoming a sports car racer and more recently an interest in getting involved with racing organizations on a leadership level. I also should credit him with inspiring my interest in classic jazz. We had had shared many good times and some great stories over the years. . . . Sad to realize that that has come to an end.

October 7, 2012

Dana Thalheimer

Stan once said to me "You always have time for the things you do first." I think the thing Stan did first was, be a friend. RIP my friend.

October 7, 2012

Chuck Haynes

Carol:
My friendship with Stan began in 1959, soon after I purchased my first Model A. During my High School days in the early 1960's, I worked at D&H Automotive for Stan and Tom. During the times when I did not have a roadworthy car, Stan would pick me up after school and give me a ride home from work in the evening. We traveled many miles together visiting Ford Dealerships and acquiring obsolete parts to keep our old Fords running. I still have many of those "treasures" as well as my Sunbeam Tiger that was sold new by D&H to Frank Cote. Our friendship will never end- it had just entered a "more memorable" phase. I share your loss Carole.

October 7, 2012

Betty and George Burdick

Stan was a wonderful person,over the last 20 or so years there were many times the 4 of us(5 when Steve was home) got together and had wonderful times of fellowship over a bite to eat, or at the Antique Snowmobile museum, or just getting together for a minute to talk and laugh. I can't tell you of the many wonderful talks and laughs and how much he affected our lives in such a good way over the years, he will be very, very missed. Before George and I moved to Virginia we had the pleasure of riding around one day in the antique car of his and it will be a treasured memory. Our love and prayers go out to Carol, and family.

October 7, 2012

In my forty six year friendship with Stan I cant begin to tell you how many thousands of miles we traveled togeather,many in some very special cars at something above the posted speed limit.We went to car shows,conventions,jazz concerts and shared flea market spots at the Limerock fall festival for twenty five years. For the last few years with very few exceptions Stan and I have had breakfast every Friday morning, I think I will miss that most of all. George Bailey

October 6, 2012

Bob and Sharon Bradford

Carol , we are so sorry to hear about Stan.I will always rember all the cruse nights we would see you and Stan. My son Mike learnd a lot from him. Take care of yourself

October 6, 2012

Stephen Burdick

I was fortunate enough to enjoy many fun times with Stan on a snowmobile, in an old car, or at a jazz concert. Stan made a life long contribution in my life as a music teacher and fellow snowmobile hobbiest. Those memories and experiences will live on for me to share with my friends,family, and students. I will miss you my friend!

October 6, 2012

I will never forget all that you had shown and taught me over the years. I will miss your greatly. RIP my friend! Jason Venne

October 6, 2012

Stan was a class act, may you rest in peace..Skip Hardiman

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