James "Jim" Lilly

1930 - 2014

James "Jim" Lilly obituary, 1930-2014, Canterbury, NH

BORN

1930

DIED

2014

FUNERAL HOME

Bennett Funeral Home

209 North Main street

Concord, New Hampshire

James Lilly Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 8, 2014.

James "Jim" Lilly, died peacefully surrounded by his family Sunday, August 3, 2014, at Hospice House in Concord.

He was born September 23, 1930, in Bronxville, N.Y., the son of Alfred and Dorothy (Matlock) Lilly. He attended schools in Scarsdale, N.Y., transferring to New Hampton School where he fell in love with the state. For a time, he worked at "Thunder Cloud Ranch", a 200 acre farm located on Peaked Hill in Bristol, where he found great satisfaction in working in all aspects of the operation from riding horseback, tending animals, or haying the fields.

Throughout his life, Jim fondly recalled his time at the "farm", told stories of his experiences there and frequently took people on rides to visit his special place. After New Hampton School, Jim went on to attend the Cartoonists and Illustrators School in New York City, graduating in 1956. He then joined Pratt & Whitney Aircraft in Hartford, Conn. as a technical illustrator. When the opportunity came in 1960 to join the Orr, Pope and Moulton Advertising Agency in Concord as Art Director, Jim jumped at the chance to fulfill his dream of returning to New Hampshire and to work in a field that suited his talents perfectly. He remained with the agency until his retirement in 1992.

Jim married Nancy Price in 1954 and they moved to Canterbury in 1958. In the intervening years Jim served the town in many ways through his work with 4-H, the Canterbury Outing Club (Aukee), the Sno-Shakers, Boy Scouts, the Canterbury Players and the Canterbury Fair. Jim designed Canterbury's Town Report covers for many years and often created artwork for town organizations. Canterbury's 2007 Annual Report was dedicated to Jim and Nancy in recognition of their work.

Jim is survived by his wife of 60 years, Nancy; and his daughter, Cindi Lilly Bailey and her boyfriend (fiance-to-be), John Carr and his son, Jim and his girlfriend, Stef Rossman, both of Canterbury.

He was predeceased by his son, Scott who died in 1993; and by his brothers, Alfred and Robert.

Also surviving are his grandsons, Ben and Ryan Bailey; granddaughters, Bailey and Kayla; and great-grandchildren, Zack, Tyler, Blake and Jack; as well as many nieces and nephews.

Jim was a great success in his artwork and in his life. His zest, innate curiosity, humility, love of the outdoors, the lake, his boatz, the Adirondacks, his sense of humor, generosity and willingness to share it all with family, friends and people he didn't even know marked him as special.

A memorial service will be held Tuesday, August 12, at 11 a.m. at the Lilly family home, 10 Wilson Road in Canterbury. The family asks that you please feel free to dress casual.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in Jim's memory may be made to the CRVN Hospice House, 30 Pillsbury St., Concord, NH 03301.

The Bennett Funeral Home of Concord is in charge of the arrangements. Messages of condolences may be offered at bennettfuneral.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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August 2, 2019

Kimberly Lamb

Remembering my Uncle with great love and memories!

August 16, 2014

Dick Jr.

Everyone should have a friend and know someone like Jim Lilly. He was the adult that was still a kid. His pranks on his contemporaries(including my dad) are legendary. His artistic and creative talent a gift he shared with all. His priorities and integrity were to be admired, a craftsman who was going to "do it right" (sometimes a "tad" stubbornly). Family first, two children Cindi (who shares his love of farm) and Jimmy (his work ethic) that he leaves; and one, Scott (his artistic talent), he gets to see. I am quite sure I wouldn't have known him had he not married Nancy,(how did he ever get her? must of been the motorcycle...)for that I am grateful, because I got to proudly call, learn from and love him as my Uncle.

August 13, 2014

To my dear Aunt Nancy and Cousins, how I will miss my Uncle Jim, the man that taught us how to make every day at Big Moose an adventure! From hiking to Billy's Bald Spot, canoeing to the island or the greatest day trip of all, boating to the Hermits House and to see the Osprey. He made those days our most precious childhood memories. How we loved his sense of humor, his artistic drawings on the tree fungus that we set out by the fireside – wish I had kept a few! But what I keep in my heart is a deep love and respect for a man that touched all of lives with love. I love you all so very much. As Uncle Jim would call me – “Kimmie Cronk”

August 12, 2014

What a wonderful presence in our community. We will miss him. Jane Balshaw

August 12, 2014

Jim, Cindy, Nancy & family. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Your Neighbors,
Dee, Jenn, & Matt Moore

August 11, 2014

Fred and Ila Rivet

Jim,we were sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

August 11, 2014

Janet Ball

Nancy, you and Jim were among the first to welcome us when we moved to Canterbury all those years ago. I have happy memories of our gatherings at Olly and Mary Ellen's! Thinking of you.

August 11, 2014

Sharon Drolet

Jim, So sorry to hear about your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

August 10, 2014

We wish that memories of happy times will help you through your grief.

Joan & John Leggett

August 10, 2014

Brian and Tami Wickens

Jim and family, So sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

August 9, 2014

Kathie Jillson Goodwin

On behalf of Frank and Beverly Jillson, they were truly saddened to hear of Jim's passing. They send their love to you, Nancy, and to your family. May your wonderful memories help you throughout this difficult time. Sincerest sympathies.

August 9, 2014

Tim Stickney

What a great person and I have many fond memories of "Mr. Lilly". Condolences to all the Lilly family you are in our thoughts and prayers this week.

August 9, 2014

Beth Ambeau

Cindi, Jim and Mrs. Lilly:

“ When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.”

Author Unknown

My thoughts are with you and your family.

August 9, 2014

I was fortunate to know and work with Jim, who considered me "the S.O.B. from IPC". We frequently fussed together over his creativity for many years. His touch in our company's advertising and literature produced at OPM always made our messages stand out.
Rog Patterson, Holly Hill, Florida

August 8, 2014

Nancy,
Cindi and Jim your Dad will be missed. He was just so down to earth and liked any kind of cookies that were in the Town Office!! Our thoughts are with you. Love Cheryl

August 8, 2014

Rick & Lorraine Drapeau

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. He loved life, save the memories in your heart.

August 8, 2014

Kathi Hurst

Cindi & familey:
I am so, so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a remarkable man and I will miss his friendly face! Cherish all the memories for they will help you get through this. ((Hugs))

August 8, 2014

Lori & Robbie Nigl

Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We have you all in our thoughts and prayers.

August 8, 2014

Marci Scarponi

RIP, Jim..Thanks for being a part of my life. So many fond memories. Wish we could jump off the dock at Lake "Winne"
one more time. Fun, laughter, silly drawings, pranksters, & so much more. I will miss our times together. Thanks for being "YOU". Love, Marcia Hudson Scarponi

August 8, 2014

On behalf of Bob Swenson's family we are very sad to hear of your loss. We all loved Jim. He always made us chuckle! You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
With our love, Polly, Sue, Eric and John Swenson

August 8, 2014

Cate Weger

Nancy, Cindi, Jim & family- Your Husband, Father and Grandfather was a light. He is shining with the stars now. Love to all of you. Cate

August 8, 2014

Robert and Susan Schott

Rob and I are saddened by his passing. He was a kind and giving man and will be greatly missed.

August 8, 2014

Debbie Field (Mudge)

My prayers and thoughts are with your family. Mr Lilly was a nice man, he will be missed.

August 8, 2014

Karen Dickson

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

August 8, 2014

Carla and John Codispoti

Our prayers are with all of you. He was a very loving,caring and talented man. He will always be in your hearts

August 8, 2014

cindi Lilly bailey

Miss you Dad! I love you!

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