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Patricia Berndt Obituary

Patricia Grace Wastell Berndt
Resident of El Cerrito
Patricia (Pat) Berndt died peacefully at home, surrounded by family, on March 30, 2013.
Pat was born in Berkeley on May 8, 1932, graduated from Berkeley High class of 1950, and lived her entire life in the Bay Area, including the last 50 years in El Cerrito.
Pat was devoted to her husband, Kenneth, for nearly 60 years. Pat and Ken met in Berkeley in 1949, leading to a 4-year courtship, marriage and three children: Michael, Kevin and Stacey.
Pat loved her family, and also loved to serve her community. Pat dedicated her life volunteering for these organizations: Cystic Fibrosis for over 60 years; American Cancer Society for over 50 years; LITA (Love Is the Answer); Thumbelina Chapter of Children's Home Society; Our Club; the El Cerrito Women's Club; Inner Wheel; the Dutch Club; and the "Forget-Me-Nots." She was a long-time Deacon at El Cerrito's Northminster Presbyterian Church and when her children were young, a Sunday School Teacher. She also served as a Cub Scout den mother, Brownie troop leader, and President of the PTA for Fairmont Elementary. Pat was among the original volunteers at Contra Costa Civic Theatre (CCCT) and still served as Opening Night Box Office volunteer until age 80. She was also a member of the El Cerrito Historical Society. In 1974, Pat received the City of El Cerrito's highest honor, "Citizen of the Year".
Over the years, Pat worked for the Pacific Telephone Company, Hink's Department Store, and Colombo's Delicatessen. In addition, she wrote "People Around El Cerrito" for the West County Times, and most recently, served as secretary for the El Cerrito Chamber of Commerce until her retirement at age 76, and continued to volunteer her services until age 80!
Pat leaves her devoted husband Kenneth; children Michael (Cheryl); Kevin (Vicki); Stacey (David Lawn); grandchildren Lisa, Greg, Danielle (Raymond Egan), Jeff, Mackenzie, Michael and Matthew; great grandchildren Dylan, Bradley and Gianna; sister-in-law Lois Curtin; and numerous nieces and nephews. Pat also leaves a multitude of friends and acquaintances, in addition to her beloved El Cerrito.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you consider: American Cancer Society, CCCT, Cystic Fibrosis, LITA of Contra Costa County or your favorite charity.
A Celebration of Pat's Life will take place at Sunset View Cemetery in El Cerrito on Sunday, April 14, 2013 at 1 p.m. with a reception to follow.

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Published by Contra Costa Times on Apr. 5, 2013.

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Lisa Berndt

January 2, 2014

Missing my Nana. Love you more...

Linda Boentgen

April 20, 2013

My thoughts are with Pat's family. I appreciated her kindness and strength at Northminster.

Gail Wetherbee

April 10, 2013

Very saddened to hear of Pat's passing. Certainly, my thoughts and prayers are with the family. Many fond memories of the Contra Costa Civic Theatre family.

Parcae Lockman

April 10, 2013

Pat was a staple at Contra Costa Civic Theater since I was a child. She always greeted me with enthusiasm and interest in whatever I was doing. I'll always remember her great sense of humor. She will be missed. My heart goes out to Ken and the family.

Lynn Cain

April 10, 2013

Dear Kevin and Family,

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Praying that God will comfort you and yours at this most difficult time.

April 9, 2013

Pat, was an amazing woman, mother, grandmother and wife. She will be missed by her community and remembered forever by her family. -Roberta and Mike Mori

April 8, 2013

Pat was a pillar of the community and the hub of her family. Her loving embrace will be missed by all.

John Souza

April 7, 2013

My deepest sympathies to you all. I have fond memories of our times spent together. My prayers are with you.

Bobie Dreyer

April 6, 2013

I'm sorry to hear of Pat's passing. The community has lost an irreplaceable volunteer in many capacities. I have fond memories of working with her in Girl Scouting, PTA and the Contra Costa Civic Theatre's beginning days also. She was the most pleasant helper and friend one could have.

mary colombo

April 6, 2013

my prayers are with you

Pat Massaro

April 6, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
So sorry to hear of Pat's passing.

Cherris Walton

April 5, 2013

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Your mom sounds like a wonderful woman.

Jilda Fairhurst

April 5, 2013

Kevin & Vicki we are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Vonda Lesti-Egan

April 5, 2013

Dear Family,
I'm so sorry for your immeasurable loss. Patsy's love and her memories will be engraved in your hearts forever. My thoughts, prayers, and love are with all of you.
With sincere sympathy,
Vonda

Celina Paniagua

April 5, 2013

Jeff and Danielle, I am so sorry for your loss!!! My deepest, heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family. May you find peace in this time of loss.

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