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Alfred A. Affinito

1928 - 2012

Alfred A. Affinito obituary, 1928-2012, Pittsburg, CA

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2012

Alfred Affinito Obituary

Alfred A. Affinito
June 13, 1928-November 17, 2012
Resident of Pittsburg
Alfred A. Affinito was born on June 13, 1928 in Bronx, NY. He came to Pittsburg, CA at the age of 5 where his family started a business known as the West End Market. This is when Al began to show pride in the place he would forever call home. He graduated with honors from both Pittsburg HS in 1946, the University of San Francisco Law School in 1953. He then proudly served his country in the US Navy as an attorney, representing the Pacific Rim. During that time, he married Bess Ferraro had 3 children - Alfred II, Michael, Mary. He is grandfather to Carina, Cassie, Vincent Affinito.
Upon his return home, Al opened a successful law practice, served as Pittsburg city councilman, including the role mayor. He was also the city attorney for the city of Pittsburg. He was the founder of Delta Pacific Bank in 1979. He would eventually go on to lead the Order Sons of Italy, both locally nationally, become a founding member of the National Italian American Bar Association, to name only a few of his many accomplishments.
Alfred A. Affinito died at home on November 17, 2012. He is preceded in death by his parents Alfonse Maria Affinito, his son Alfred II, sister Josephine. He is survived by Mario Nancy Affinito, Dominic Peachie Affinito, Beatrice Medinas, wife Janie Wegner Affinito, many nieces nephews. His family friends have felt a huge loss upon his passing. He will truly be missed.
Memorial mass will be held on Wednesday, November 28, 2012 at Most Holy Rosary Church at 10:00am in Antioch. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Order Sons of Italy Alfred A. Affinito scholarship fund or the American Cancer Society.

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Published by Contra Costa Times on Nov. 26, 2012.

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Maria Cataline-Arends

November 27, 2012

My dear friend Al. I'm still not feeling it is true. I have had the pleasure of working for you in your home for 25yrs. We have developed a relationship of trust and love and true friendship. I will miss your smiling face and welcomes every week. You are my family. May you be at rest or at play or where ever your heart desires. Maria

Linda Di Maggio-Reed

November 26, 2012

Dear Family Bess and Children, Al lead a full and wonderful life. I will never forget walking into a Sons of Italy and Al saying Welcome new President. I was in shock and got one of his wonderful hugs, you will be sadly missed, oh yes, we locked horns and still respected and loved each other. God Bless you Al, God has just gotten a new angel. Love and respect Linda Di Maggio Reed and Jenna Russo <3

Max Duncan

November 26, 2012

I was part of the Affinito gang,McBride,Kenny,Butch,Lamendola,Conner,Willie Alasandro, all great guys to be in the book of A.Affinito. He was our leader and friend, never to be forgotten..Max

Holly and Bill Armstrong

November 26, 2012

We have lost a very special friend. We will miss him so much.

Kathy Anderson

November 26, 2012

My deepest condolences to the family. I've had the pleasure of working on a few projects with Mr. A. the last few years. He was the kindest and gentlest man. Always had a smile on his face. I will miss his smile in the office.

Maria Madrid

November 26, 2012

My condolences to the Affinito family.

I have fond memories of Mr. Affinito, he helped my mother get through her divorce.

Also, when she cooked for you, I particularly enjoyed hangin out at the Affinito home back in the late 50's

May the memories you have, comfort you.

Rosemarie Di Maggio

November 21, 2012

Al will be sorely missed by Pittsburg Lodge 1976. His heart was always in the Sons of Italy. My sympathy goes out to the Affinito family.

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