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Gordon Ball Obituary
Sept. 6, 1967 ~ Mar. 2, 2012
Resident of Alamo
Gordon "Gordie" Nathan Ball Jr., 44, a resident of Alamo California, passed away suddenly on Friday March 2, 2012.
Gordie was born on September 6, 1967 in Berkeley, California to Sharon Ball Trifeletti and Gordon "Nate" Nathan Ball Sr. Gordie graduated from De La Salle High School in June 1986 and received a Bachelor degree in Construction Management from Colorado State University in May 1998. He was the owner of Ball Inc. Construction at the time of his death. Gordie was a devoted husband and father. He spent many hours cheering his wife and son's accomplishments during every life milestone. Gordie's passions included teaching his sons how to play sports, golf, hiking, skiing, waterskiing, and running with his Jack Russell Terrier "Ralphie". He loved sports and was a longtime fan of the Raiders.
Gordie is survived by his wife, Staci, sons Nathan (6) and Wyatt (2), Mother Sharon Ball Trifeletti (Frank), Father Nate Ball (Evelyn Matthews), Sister Shannon Jones (Jeff), Brother Patrick Ball (Elizabeth), Nephews Grant and Carson Jones and Ryan and Jake Ball, Mother and Father in-law Helene and Mike Maher, Brother in-law Kevin Maher as well as extended family and many friends.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Wilson Kratzer-Chapel of San Ramon Valley. Visitation will take place on Thursday March 8 from 6-8 p.m. at Wilson Kratzer-Chapel of San Ramon Valley in Danville, California. On Friday March 9 family and friends are invited to the funeral service at St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church in San Ramon, California at 10:30 a.m. A celebration of Gordie's life will follow the service.
In lieu of flowers a fund has been set up to help educate Gordon Ball's children. Those interested in supporting this effort, please make your check out to Wells Fargo Advisors and in the memo line indicate "The Gordon Ball Children's Education Fund". Please mail your check to: Attention: The Gordon Ball Children's Education Fund, c/o Wells Fargo Advisors, 2033 N. Main Street, Suite 600, Walnut Creek, CA 94596
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Mark Cox
March 17, 2012
May God bless your soul Gordie. We had some great times together back in Tempe , my brother.
R Savarese
March 14, 2012
Hey Gordon, love u brother. You were always there for me, you always had my back. Man that freakin' driveway! i'm sure you wont forget it either. So now, just chill and relax-keeping watch over your wife and kids as you already are. Staci, we love you all and always will. God bless you and yours-
Tom Feeley
March 12, 2012
Gordie was my fraternity brother at ASU. We had some great times together. I could always count on him no matter what.
My heartfelt sympathies go out to all of his family and friends.
God Bless You, Gordie.
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Vince Genovese
March 11, 2012
Gordie - Your family is in good hands - your sons will be embraced as our own. Your entire Spartan brotherhood, will watch over Staci and the kids. 34 years walking through this life with you, left a deep impression...a good one. I'll miss you brother.
PS
Ask Al Davis what he was thinking with Jamarcus Russell
Kris Wilson
March 10, 2012
Staci, as Godparents for Wyatt, you will always have our family as part of yours. I am sorry that we only were able to help with the boys for one night while we came, but just know that both of them will be in our lives forever. Miss you so much, Gordie! Kris and Joe Wilson
Mary McClure-Mills
March 10, 2012
I was heartbroken to read the news of Gordie's passing. From 1968 thru 1972 I had the privilege of babysitting Sharon and Nate's wonderful kids. I remember Gordie and a sweet, sensitive boy. My love goes out to all the family. The Ball family will always hold a special place in my heart
Debra Skyta
March 10, 2012
I worked with Gordon at Nortel and remember him with a smile on his face and always a friendly word to say. I am so sorry to hear the news of his passing - what a great loss. My sympathies.
Kathy Lane
March 10, 2012
Dear Sharon and Nate, Dave and I are devastated to hear of Gordon's passing. I know you are heartbroken, and so sorry we cannot send mail to you from Africa. I will see you this summer, Sharon. I am so simply sad for you, Love Kathy Lane
March 9, 2012
Dear Staci, Nathan, and Wyatt You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We love you guys and Gordie will always hold a special place in our heart. Steve, Alicia, Jordan and Korey Hess
Mark Stiefvater
March 9, 2012
I went on a hike after the service -- I thought about Gordie.
I first met Gordie through soccer, I believe. Nate was our coach. I attended some elementary school and junior high with Gordie. He then went off to DLS and I to Northgate. Unfortunately, our lives didn't cross again after that.
I have several early memories of Gordie... I think my favorites involve his laugh. Gordie's laugh was an attention grabber. His laugh was infectious. He laughed like someone who was really enjoying himself. Although I haven't heard Gordie's laugh in about 30 years, I still remember it -- vividly.
Thanks to Gordie's family for sharing him.
Nadya Litman
March 9, 2012
Dear Staci, Nathan, Wyatt, Ralphie, & All The Ball Family-
In the short time I knew Gordie, I can tell you he was one of the kindest, most easy-going, attentive fathers I had ever known. I would come to the house when Staci was on a business trip to watch both kids, and he would opt to take Nathan out for 3 hours. He loved those boys with all his heart! He taught Nathan all about sports, and would even bring Wyatt to his music classes. Also, 3 weeks ago, my car ran out of gas and I called Gordie. He loaded his truck with Wyatt (who had a cold), and Ralphie (his Jack russel terrior), in the rain and came to my rescue. He then followed me to the gas station to make sure I was ok.
It was the simple things in life that Gordie enjoyed most; family, friends, sports, and construction work. I can tell you from knowing this family, that they are one of the most loving and close-knit families I know. This is such a tragedy for all involved. You taught me a lot about what life is all about, thank you Gordie. May you rest in Peace and watch over your beautiful family and friends! We will miss you.
All My Love & Support,
Nadya
Jennifer David
March 9, 2012
Dear Staci and family - Our deepest sympathy for your loss. May Jesus' love guide you through this difficult time. - The David's
Deborah Rae Culbertson
March 9, 2012
Dear Sharon,
My heart goes out to all of you for the
loss of your wonderful son. Words cannot
comfort what your thoughts and heart feel. May the Lord help you all through this difficult time.
March 9, 2012
Deeply sorry to read about your loss.Hear are a few words that have been comforting and provided hope for many during difficult times like these.
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Fred Zahn
March 9, 2012
To Gordies wife, children, the Ball family, and all of his friends , we want to say how sorry we are for your loss, and my Jesus help you through these times.
Fred, Gail and Freddie Zahn
Bill Roche
March 8, 2012
Gordie,
You were my best friend in third grade and we lived every little boys dream of you climbing on your fathers tractors and then running though my family's ranches on red wagons. I still remember how excited we both were when your Dad bought an Army Jeep and drove us around the neighborhood. I genuinely miss you and look forward to when we can once again together play in the fields above,,,, running, laughing and exploring like children we once were… Until we meet again, my best to you.
Tom Bonigut
March 8, 2012
To a fellow DLS Class of '86 alum, may God bless you Gordie -- rest in peace.
Trish Feil Muegge
March 8, 2012
we are sorry to hear this news... our prayers are with you all.
My kids go to school with yours at srvca... anything you need we are all here for you. I went to school with Pat too. I am so sorry for your loss.
God Bless you all. (Trish Feil Muegge)
March 8, 2012
So sorry Staci. Much love sent to you and your family. Lisa Fernandez
Laurie Pitto Mercurio
March 8, 2012
Your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. May you find some kind of peace in this terrible loss. My heart goes out to you all xoxo
George/Tony Irvin
March 8, 2012
We were very sad to hear of Gordie'ss death. What a terrible loss to his family, and all his friends. Our entire family sends their condolences. We all have such fond memories of Gordie when he was younger, and went to school with our children. Our thoughts are with you, The Irvin family.
William Davis
March 8, 2012
Gordie was one of the first friends I made at De La Salle. Like everyone, I was shocked to hear about his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends for their tremendous loss. He will always remind me of what was best about our Spartan brotherhood. "Live, Jesus, in our hearts! Forever!"
Kitty Kroha Stephens
March 8, 2012
Gordie, we are so sorry that you were taken from us so suddenly and way too soon. Rest (or play golf) in peace knowing that we will all take care of Staci and your precious boys. You are missed!
Barb Gasper
March 8, 2012
Staci - We are thinking of you and praying for all the Ball family tonight and tomorrow as you lay Gordie to rest and celebrate his life. A huge Colorado hug from the Gaspers.
Jennifer Hesse
March 8, 2012
So very sorry to hear of your passing. Peace to family and friends devestated by the loss.
Christy Kroha
March 8, 2012
Reading these comments makes me wish there was a Facebook style "like" button in here. The posts from my brother, and friends Tim and Antonio say things so well. To Pat and the Ball family and to Staci, Nathan and Wyatt, I am so very sorry for your loss!
Holly and Jeremy Murtaugh
March 8, 2012
Sending a big Colorado hug and much love to Staci, Nathan and Wyatt.
Gregg Chavaria
March 8, 2012
To a fellow classmate and Spartan, may the Lord grant you eternal rest and let perpetual light shine upon you.
God bless you Gordie.
Rob Kroha
March 8, 2012
Gordo - you will not be forgotten. I think back to 15+ years ago being on the same softball team, working some construction with you & watching football with you and Pat. What great times! Many Prayers from the Kroha Family.
Tim Roberts
March 8, 2012
Gordie~ your leagacy is solid. Solid husband, solid father, solid brother, solid Spartan. You will be missed by many and I will share your example with the students of today.
Joel and Maggie Medlicott
March 8, 2012
There are no words to express the surprise, sorrow and anguish felt upon receiving the news about Gordie. He was a wonderful addition to our extended family. Joel will never forget the wedding golf tourney when he and Gordie crashed in the golf cart ejecting Joel without spilling Joel's beer. Gordie and Joel, unhurt, got back in the cart, didn't win, but had a great time. Gordie's love for his family and children has been demonstrated by the caring nurturing way he spent time teaching, playing and enjoying them. Everlasting life is made from the moments shared with loved ones. Gordie will on live all of our hearts and memories forever.
Antonio Vernon
March 8, 2012
To a true great friend for 30 years. From high school, to getting married, to having kids you were always the same which is what made you such a loved person. For all of the great times and trips that we had, thanks and you will never, ever be forgotten.
Debbie Mayfield (McCary)
March 8, 2012
My thoughts and prayers have not stopped since I heard the news. Gordie, I'll never forget our first meeting or how you would tell the story of how we arrived on location to gather bricks at your construction site downtown. Kev showing up with "family" in tow in the "family car". Or when we had you watch the beagles and Cisco escaping from your make shift enclosure, while Java and Ralphie looked on. I'll keep that cute dimpled smile of yours in memory always. You will be missed sorely by so many friends and family.
James Syar
March 7, 2012
My dear cousin Gordie, I will miss you my friend, you were, are -and always will be a good man. I have countless fond childhood memories shared with you- Christmas' in Hawaii, Skiing at Northstar, mx bikes at horse shows, building forts in summers...
I am happy about spending time with you last summer, though it will remind me and my family how much we will miss you in this life going forward. Cousin, I will be looking out for you, and we will meet again. Live Forever Gordie Ball, Live Forever.
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