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James Ellingson Cox

1920 - 2014

James Ellingson Cox obituary, 1920-2014, Contra Costa, CA

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1920

DIED

2014

James Cox Obituary

JAMES ELLINGSON COX
Sept. 6, 1920 - July 29, 2014
Resident of Lafayette
James Ellingson Cox was born September 6, 1920 to Selma (Ellingson) and John Marshall Cox in St. Louis, Missouri and passed away peacefully at his Lafayette home on July 29, 2014.
James was wounded at Iwo Jima while serving as a First Lieutenant in the U.S. Marine Corps. After the war, he returned to Stanford University in California to study law and married Christine DeLap, another Stanford Law student.
He played football at guard position for both Stanford and the University of California as Team Captain. In 1948 he was a professional American football guard for the San Francisco 49ers of the All-America Football Conference.
After graduation James practiced law in the office of the District Attorney of Alameda County. In 1955 he investigated boxing and wrestling practices for the California State Athletic Commission. He joined the firm of Tinning and DeLap, at their Martinez office, and later went into private practice enjoying a distinguished career as a trial attorney in Martinez.
James, Christine, and their two sons, Anthony Ellingson Cox and the late James DeLap Cox lived in Martinez for many years.
He was an avid sportsman with a passion for rainbow trout fishing in Canada and bird hunting in Africa and Spain. One of the favorite family stories is James' long endurance with a fishing rod in hand and a steelhead trout on the line on the Dean River in British Columbia. It was estimated to be a 25 to 30 pound fish with the energy to keep running from 3 in the afternoon when James hooked it, until noon the next day, when the hook broke thru the fish's lip and escaped. Jim's fishing companions kept him supplied through the night with food and coffee while news reporters in helicopters were on the scene for the story.
James was an exuberant, talented, generous man who supported Athletics at his alma mater, Stanford University, and the education of family members to attend schools of their choice. He delighted in sharing his vast experiences with family and his many friends.
James' family includes Christine Cox of Orinda, his son Anthony Ellingson Cox and grandson (Anthony's son) Trevor Miller Cox of Santa Cruz, his brother Jack's children John Marshall Cox and William Cox, and his sister Pauline's children Diane, Anthony, and Denise DeMaria. Nancy E. Cox preceded him in death.
James will be remembered as an adventurous, gifted, honorable, and joyful gentleman in a private commemoration for family and close friends.

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Published by Contra Costa Times on Aug. 22, 2014.

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Harland Abraham

January 22, 2016

To the Cox Family:

I am very sad to learn of the passing of Jim. I met he and Nancy at Spanish Immersion Camp in Sacremento, NM in 1998. We stayed in touch and I last visited him in early 2014. He and Nancy were very special. He was humorous and very sharp. I admired him a lot.

My prayers are with you.

Sincerely,

Harland Abraham

September 26, 2015

I worked as a legal secretary for Mr Cox in the early 1980s. He was very professional and commanded respect but a delightful character at the same time. He enjoyed a good joke. I'll always remember his black lab Betta who adored him!

tony demaria

September 9, 2014

Jim, you were one of a kind. We had some great trips together from Costa Rica to British Columbia to fish. Much I learned about trying lawsuits I learned from my 9 years of working with you as one of the best.
As one of your last two living nephews, my God smile on you and hope you see Besta, Jack and mom soon. Hope the fishing is great there. Tony

Mike Casey

August 27, 2014

Mr. Cox,
Sir, as a fellow Marine I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the USMC during WW II-especially at Iwo Jima. It was the history and accomplishments made by you and your fellow Marines back then that all us Marines who have followed in your footsteps have always tried to live up to. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Semper Fi Devil Dog!
Mike Casey USMC '85-'89

ONE of "THE"

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Herb Guyer-Sharfenaker USMC

August 22, 2014

God Bless/RIP,to ALL who served in WWII. The USA would NOT be as it is today."The gates of heaven are well guarded NOW,by Another United States MARINE". Thank YOU for your service,Lt.Cox....And Semper Fi.

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