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John Citrolo Obituary
AGE: 49 • Southampton
John C. "Jay" Citrolo, 49, of Southampton, NJ died Sunday, August 2, 2015. Jay was the beloved husband of Sandra Citrolo (nee Grungo), loving daddy to his puppies, Jada and Mya.
He was predeceased by his mother, Beverly Young and cherished fur-daughter, Cleo. He is survived by his father, John Citrolo, Sr. and his wife, Sally; his sister, Mary E "Betsy" Citrolo; mother and father in-law, Sandra and Burt Roff; in-laws Shelly Bottini (Jim), Chrisi Flake (Ernie), and Debbi Greif (Brian); nieces and nephews, Chelsie (Matt), Gabby, Carlie, Jimmy, Will, and Brayden (Godson); as well as many loving, cousins, longtime friends and colleagues. John was a graduate of Holy Cross High School. He completed undergraduate studies at Upsala College, where he played football, and earned a Master's Degree in Economics at Temple University. John was proud of his rewarding and successful career in the power industry at the State of Delaware, Connectiv Energy, Calpine Corporation, Net2000, and most recently, PSEG, where he was the Director of Power Market Design. Jay spent time as a bartender at the Ugly Mug in Cape May and the Windrift in Avalon, NJ during his college years. He was also the co-founder and co-owner of the Medford Gym in Medford, NJ. Jay's time away from work was spent playing and watching football, working out, riding jet skis, hiking, and swimming. He enjoyed spending time with his wife, dogs, and family, serving as honorary lifeguard and pool boy on OBX vacations and boardwalk shopper in Ocean City, NJ. He appreciated sharing fine wine and Single Malt Scotch with his Dad and cousin, Steve and cherished moments spent with his group of childhood friends. Jay will always be remembered for his sense of humor, intelligence, impeccable style, and loving heart.
Funeral Services will be Saturday 10am at the Lechner Funeral Home, 24 N. Main St., Medford. A viewing will be held Friday evening 6-8pm and Saturday morning 9-10am at the funeral Home. Memorial contributions in John's name can be made to Joe Joes Place, 7 Tidswell Ave, Medford, NJ 08055. Condolences can be sent at www.lechnerfuneralhome.com.
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elizabeth mckenzie
August 7, 2015
I cannot believe you are gone. Jay and I were polar opposites but we got along so well. Jay saved my best friend and I from a very scary South Philly situation when we were in need of assistance. Jay to the rescue and there my cousin was. I knew he always had my back if ever I needed him. The night came where I did! He was there in an instant. I love my cousin. I will miss him forever more. Elizabeth...
Dan Hafner
August 7, 2015
Talking about the why and how, recounting all the memories, expressing the feelin of loss, still can't even touch the hurt and confusion you must feel right now. Saddened by his passing in a way words cant express. Know that I hold constant thoughts of your pain and searching desperately for some meaning, but also thanking God for your family that stands by you to hold you when you need it most, and that he holds Jay by his side.
Kim Henry
August 7, 2015
Sandi and family, so very sorry for your loss. Peace and prayers are with you all.
Dan Hafner
August 6, 2015
To see us on the outside, it was an unlikely pair to be friends....but within a short time, the connection was there. Friends for 28 years, I never imagined would be "only" 28 years. A visible source of strength to me. In a crowd, He was the guy that chased and tackled the guy that stole a necklace off a woman's neck, and no one would be surprised by that. He was a guy that might be intimidating to look at, but impossible not to like. He had a wit he rarely shared publicly, but could bring tears of laughter with the person he felt comfortable with. To summarize, a guy that could rattle off economic statistics while always having 3 gym memberships. Then the day I heard the words I'll never forget "I want you to meet Sandi, since she is the one i'm going to be with"...and now... many years later, he still is. Dude, I love you, and my life is better having known you. Sandi, his life of true, unquestionable happiness is a result of having you.
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Jodi Shover
August 6, 2015
May the peace of God, which trandscends all understanding, guard your heart and keep your faith in our Lord Jesus Christ
Philippians 4:7
Prayers for strength, comfort and healing to you, Sandi, and your entire family.
Caroline Branco
August 5, 2015
Didn't know him of late, but me and a bunch of people used to train at his gym in Medford on rt 70 over 20 years ago. We couldn't wait to go see him. The Coolest!!
Connie "Swaille" Rosenbloom
August 5, 2015
I didn't know Jay personally but I know the heartache of losing someone so suddenly at a very young age. My heart goes out to all Jay's family and friends. Especially Betsy Citrolo, Jay's sister. I pray for your strength and faith. In friendship,
Tom and Monica Labosky
August 5, 2015
Our condolences and prayers to all Jay's family and friends. We knew Jay through his sister Betsy and remember him as being a smiling, kind and strong person. May the Lord give you strength during this painful time.
Frank Malloy
August 5, 2015
The days of growing up with Jay as a cousin will always be remembered as fun and carefree. Jay's humor during the many long Italian famaily dinners in Brooklyn and NJ surrounded by family will forever remain in our hearts.
A big sense of humor and a bigger heart.
Our deepest condolences.
Michele Leader
August 5, 2015
Dear Sandi and family-
What a amazing love you shared with a kind and gentle man. We hope that our prayers and hugs surround you for the next few days and you remember you have friends to support you.
Michele, Brad, Sarah, and Hannah
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