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Brian Petronella Obituary

PETRONELLA Brian A. Petronella, age 54, of Norwalk, beloved husband of Elaine Coker Petronella, died suddenly on August 6, 2010 in his home with his family by his side. Born in Norwalk on March 28, 1956 to Rosemarie Jaykus Petronella and the late Robert A. Petronella, he was predeceased by his brother Robert Burke Petronella. Brian A. Petronella was the President of Local 371 UFCW, International Vice President and Executive Vice President of the Connecticut AFL-CIO. He was an active board member on several pro-labor organizations, including the United Way of Eastern Fairfield County. Most recently Brian was honored at the McGivney Center in Bridgeport as "Man of the Year" and awarded the Corporate Achiever Award at the Multiple Sclerosis Society. Through his union and personal donations, his charitable contributions were enormous. Each Christmas and Easter, Brian organized thousands of holiday baskets to be distributed through the Women's Network, sponsored by the UFCW. In addition, each spring for the past 9 years, Brian chaired a Local 371 Golf Tournament raising over $225,000 for the Leukemia Society. Brian also generously donated snacks to local after school programs. As a labor leader, Brian was one of the best. He began his career in 1972 as a member of Local 371, Amalgamated Meat Cutters and Butcher Workers of North America. He was employed by Grand Union Supermarkets. Brian was appointed Union Organizer in 1977 and graduated from the Harvard University Trade Union Program in 1978. Brian was responsible for many successful organizing campaigns and due to those efforts members enjoy the benefits of decent wages, generous benefits, secure pensions, and the dignity and respect that his members rightly deserved. In 1982, the Local 371 Executive Board elected him to the office of Executive Vice President. During his time in office Brian chaired major negotiations in retail, wholesale, processing, healthcare and manufacturing. Following this position, Brian was promoted to the position of Secretary-Treasurer and proudly up to the position of Local 371 President, serving over 9,000 members throughout Connecticut and Western Massachusetts. In addition, Brian was the Chairman of the Local 371 Amalgamated Welfare Trust Fund and a Trustee of the National UFCW Pension Fund. The Fairfield County Labor Council and the New England UFCW Food Council were also fortunate to have Brian serve as a President. Brian was also involved in politics, where he was well known and respected as a champion for working men and women. Brian Petronella's fiery enthusiasm, loyalty, generosity and genuine character will always be an inspiration to all who knew and loved him. Brian will always be remembered by his family as a devoted husband, father, son, brother, uncle and faithful friend. His laughter, smile, strength and giving nature will be dearly missed. In addition to his beloved wife Elaine and his loving mother Rosemarie, Brian is survived by his daughters, Lindsey and Ashley Petronella; two sisters, Marilyn Liberatore and her husband Joseph, and Keri Whitehead and her husband Ricky; two brothers, Ronald Petronella and his wife Jan, and John Petronella; nieces and nephews, Kelly Liberatore Bishop and her husband Jarrod, Kevin Liberatore, Heather and April Whitehead, Jessica and Bobby Petronella; and a great-nephew Cole Bishop and many uncles, aunts and cousins. A funeral Mass will be held at 10am, Wednesday, August 11, at St. Aloysius Church, 21 Cherry Street, New Canaan, with burial to follow at St. John Cemetery, Norwalk. His family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 10, from 3:30 to 8 p.m. at Magner Funeral Home, 12 Mott Avenue, Norwalk. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the College Trust Fund of his daughter Lindsey Burke Petronella; 290 Post West, Westport, CT 06881.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Aug. 9 to Aug. 11, 2010.

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Carol Yezzo

August 3, 2021

So many years have passed but the memory of all you have done for so many will never die, I was so priviledged to call you my friend and my years in the union remain among my proudest years.

August 19, 2010

Our prayers and thoughts will be with you.We were deeply saddened to hear the news.May God wrap his arms around you all.
NEON-Ben Franklin Staff

Mary Ludovicy

August 18, 2010

Ron and Jan
I am so sorry to hear about Brian. We were in SC when he passed and did not find out until now. We will always remember 152 Main Ave where we became neighbors and most of all a great friend.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
SIncerely
Pete and Mary Ludovicy

Carol yezzo

August 16, 2010

I was so sad to hear the news. I was privileged to work with Brian on his first organizing campaign and on the executive board. He was someone I was honored to call a freind. And through the years he was never to busy to take a phone call or visit.My condolences to all the family. Now, as always, He is watching out for us from above.

Matthew Bissanti

August 16, 2010

I am sorry to hear of Brian's passing and want to express my sympathy of all of his family. He was a great person and accomplished a great deal for the union and for it's members.

Donna Boyington

August 15, 2010

Dearest Petronella Family,

I was shocked to hear of Brian's passing. May the family find peace in knowing he is watching us from above with all of the other beloved we have lost before him. Brian was a warrior for the good of all working people and quite the character as well. My first conversation with him took place from a phone booth where he felt it was so important to return a call about pensions that I had. A very big and genuine impression was left on me. His undying devotion to us all will be remembered for the rest of my life. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christa Bray

August 13, 2010

Elaine, Marilyn and Family,

I was so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. Such a wonderful man who we were all blessed to have known for not long enough.
May you find peace in your memories of Brian's very extrordinary life and love.
God Bless~

Betty Benham

August 13, 2010

To the Family of Brian Petronella,
We just learned of Brian's passing and saddened. We did not know him but my son is in that union and Brian did so much for the people of Shaw's and their transition when it closed. He is truly a good person . May his memory be eternal.
The Benham Family of Wallingford

Geneva Garner

August 13, 2010

To the Family of Brian Petronell:
You have my deepest sympathies. May GOD give you all the need strenght at this saddest time. Brian worked very hard for what he believed in, now he is at rest.

charlie hickey

August 13, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Petronella Family i worked with
both Brian and his Dad i loved them both a big loss to labor
charlie hickey local 1445 middlesex sheriff

John Boyle

August 12, 2010

Dear Elaine & Family,
I was shocked and heartbroken to learn of Brian's sudden death. He was the man by which all others are judged. I hope that you can be sustained by well-deserved pride and many great memories. My regret is that I was unable to come see you this week and grieve with you,as I am 5000 miles away.

Keri Nolan

August 12, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Petronella Family. This is a difficult time but the memories, family and friends will hopefully lessen the pain of your loss.

The Ballerini Family

August 12, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Petronella family at this sad time. May memories bring you comfort, and support from friends and family get you through this difficult time.

Georgiann Farina

August 12, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

THE BAROSKY FAMILY

August 11, 2010

MARILYN - OUR SINCEREST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOURS. MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO DEAL WITH YOUR LOSS.

August 11, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Petronella Family.I was a long time executive member. I walked many a picket line with Brian and the wonderful men and women of local 371.The last hand I shook when I retired was Brian's. HE was great man. He will be missed.
Thomas DiCarlo Sun City Center Fl.

Lorraine DeCarlo

August 11, 2010

To The Petronella family,My deepest condolences.Brian was a wonderful person.I knew him when I worked In Wilton.God needed another Angel and called Brian Home.May he rest in peace.Lorraine Decarlo Westport

Jim Pandaru

August 11, 2010

My deepest condolences to the entire Petronella family. We lost a good union brother who fought for all workers rights, self-worth and dignity his entire adult life. The best tribute we can give to Brian's memory is to continue his examples and legacy of union solidarity within the labor movement. In Solidarity...Jim P.

Sgt. Thomas Roncinske Jr. Norwalk Police Union

August 11, 2010

We are very sorry for your loss.Brian was a true leader. The members of the Norwalk Police Union and I would like to express our sincerest condolences. Our prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

Lisa Vento

August 10, 2010

Brian, Rest in Peace. God saw that you were tired and called you home to Rest...

Maura Karas & Steve Petyerak

August 10, 2010

Our deepest condolences.

Mary Pugh

August 10, 2010

A gentleman and a thinker, Brian will be missed.

Bob & Barbar Daniels

August 10, 2010

Words can' describe how sad we are to hear of Brian's passing. He was a fine man,always thoughtful to us when I retired from Local 371. Our hearts and prayers go out to his family. We will miss him.

Dawnia Searight

August 10, 2010

My Prayers Are With The Family And All Who Worked With Brian At Local 371, He and his Staff Helped Me And So Many Other
I Know That He Was Faithful In All That He Did His Life,Love And Respect For Others Will Remain With Us All. God Bless You Brian For Everything.

Esther Chambers

August 10, 2010

I was shock to hear the passing of Mr. Petronella. He is going to be miss by many. Local 371 wouldn't be the same without Mr. Petronella. rest in peace Mr. Petronella.

Peter Sell

August 10, 2010

Please accept condolences from the Sell family. Brian was a fellow classmate and student. He will be missed but never forgotten.

Susan Lenzen

August 10, 2010

My condolences to the Petronella Family. As a former employee of Pathmark,Local 371 & the Executive Board, I worked beside Brian & felt his powerful personality, his drive for the people & his strength. He will be missed .

Jack & Pat Maloney

August 10, 2010

Our thoughts & Prayers are with your entire family. He was a wonderful man & will me very much missed.

August 10, 2010

There is no question that Brian left this world a better place for so many people. For his family..who knew of his deep love and devotion to them and to every member of our large and extended family. We will never forget his smile, his laughter, his stories, his energy and his kindness. He truly made our family proud!!
For his union family...Brian believed in every man/woman's ability and their right to have dignity. He did this by working hard to make sure that opportunities to achieve this were fair. That was all he asked.
Elaine, Lindsay, Ashley, Pansy, John, Ronnie, Marilyn, Keri...how lucky Brian was to be your husband, father, son and brother and to know your love throughout his lifetime. His tragic death will never erase the sorrow at this time, but you should find solace that Brian died knowing that there were so many people who truly loved him and believed in him.
Rest in peace our dear Brian. We will truly miss you. Love, Aunt Patti and Uncle Neil

Diana Babel

August 10, 2010

So sorry to hear of Brian's passing, I know he worked hard to help people get treated fair.

Lauren Bond

August 10, 2010

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you through this difficult time.

Gerd Semmelroggen

August 10, 2010

I am deeply sorry to hear about Brian's death. I have followed his career for many years and know he was an active voice for the working man. I may not have agreed with him on all points, but I deeply respected his enthusiasm and honor of the common working man. Rest in peace Brian - you will be missed by all of us.

Patricia Van Kuren

August 10, 2010

A Smile A Touch A Gentle laugh remembered A Voice softly whispered in the wind. may the memories held deep within your heart help to soothe your spirit at this time.
As an employee of Grand Union, Shaw's and ShopRite I have met and shook Brians hand many times. He always had a kind word and a big smile. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Patricia Van Kuren

Tim & Alison Healy

August 10, 2010

We extend our deepest sympathy to the Petronella family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Barbara & Ray Hellthaler

August 10, 2010

My heart is broken, there are not enough words to express the sorrow that we are feeling for all the Petronella family. Brian was so special and was always there for me and my family over the years. His dear father would be so proud of all that he has accomplished. May God Bless you all and help you through this very difficult time. I know how much he will be missed.
With Our Love Ray and Barbara Hellthaler

Gala Taylor Joubert

August 10, 2010

Marilyn, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. I pray that God will give you and your family comfort and strength during this time.
With love and care,

Rev. Phyllis Y. Bolden

August 9, 2010

To the family of Brian - I was deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Brian was indeed an amazing man, full of compassion, drive, and accomplishment for those who needed a chance and a second chance for meaningful employment, benefits, and wages among so many other causes he stood for in his lifetime. May the comfort of God, the love of family and dear friends sustain you through this period of mourning and in the many days ahead.
God bless you all.

Becksy Vazquez (AppleRehab of Watertown

August 9, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Debbie Wood-Hoyt

August 9, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May your fond memories of Brian and the good Lord comfort you during this sorrowful time.
Grand Union, Shaw's, Stop & Shop employee:

Carmen Reyes

August 9, 2010

My condolonces and sympathy to the Petronella family.
Carmen J Reyes.

Nancy Lasky

August 9, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

August 9, 2010

Dear Lindsay & the Petronella Family: I just heard about your loss and though I never met your Dad, I read about him and it is clear that you all were so dearly blessed with such a special man. May you find comfort and peace with each other during this difficult time and know that others are thinking of and praying for all of you. Sincerely, Mrs. Peggy McGowan (Lauralton Hall)

Tom McLoughlin

August 9, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Petronella family.Brian was one of those special people you meet in your lifetime.His great smile,his way of making you feel good,just a very special person.I met Brian in high school,we talked at last year's 35th reunion,he was a true friend for life.In the all the years since I first met him,the mention of his name would bring a smile to my face.And good memories of a great guy.That won't change.He was Brian.He left unforgettable memories all along his path through life.I'm just happy to have been along his path.
Tom McLoughlin

Ruth Winters

August 9, 2010

Ron, All of the former Shaws of Darien family send our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Rose Martinez

August 9, 2010

May God bless you during your time of grieving.Brian was a wonderful leader.I am a union steward for Stop and Shop and he did an awesome job fighting for our contract.He will always be remembered for his dedication and his will to fight for what he believed in.My prayers go out to his family and friends.God Bless You!

Jeffrey Stark

August 9, 2010

I was honored to serve on two contract negotiations comittees with Brian Petronella. He was warm, insightful,and very articulate, but most of all genuine in his concern for the working man and woman and their families. God Bless Brian for making our lives better and more secure!

Jeffrey M. Stark

Doug Geller

August 9, 2010

I knew Brian through my boyhood friendship with his younger brother, Ron. What I remember most is that Ron had a great guy for an older brother, and with a wonderful sense of humor. My heart goes out to the entire family, even from afar.

August 9, 2010

Our condolences and sympathy to the Petronella family. Brian and family were our neighbors in Trumbull years ago. Brian was a good person and we offer his family our thoughts and prayers.

The Knauf Family

Filomena Antonelli

August 9, 2010

Sincerest sympathy to the entire family. We've lost a wonderful man. I only wished he was in New Canaan at Hoyt's. It's truly where he belonged.

May God bring him peace, love and comfort and may he look over you like an angel.

Danine Jaykus

August 9, 2010

Heaven certainly has another angel. I have fond memories of Brian and spent many good times at the Petronella house in Wilton. Too many fond memories to list but strong enough to last a lifetime. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
With deepest sympathy and love, Cousin DeeDee

Sharon Grace

August 9, 2010

Brian Petronella set the example for what a leader should be: he worked to bring people together and improve the lives of others, he fought for what he believed, but he was also a gentleman. God bless him and the Petronella family.

Gerri McNamara

August 9, 2010

My condolences to the family at the loss of Brian. I worked with him in many capacities during my years at Grand Union. He was always a very good, smart and fair man. It was a pleasure to work with him.

Richard Rollinson,Sr

August 9, 2010

My sincerest sympathy to the entire Petronella family. I had the pleasure to be a member of the executive board in the 60's. and will always remember the Petronella family

Patty Bucco

August 9, 2010

Our sympathy goes out to the Petronella family. My father was very good friends with Brian's father. My brother and I were both members of Local 371. We were just in touch with Brian a few months ago. He was one of a kind. A very kind and caring person. The world has lost someone way before their time.
Thoughts and Prayers to the family.

Faye Mitchell

August 9, 2010

May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you,lean on your friends for strength and always remember how much you are cared about. May your memories give you strength. AFSCME

Nancy Swanson

August 9, 2010

Dear Petronella family, Please accept my sincerest sympathy on Brian's passing. May time help with your pain and wonderful memories sustain you. In solidarity, Nancy Swanson, Vice President, Local 376, OPEIU

August 9, 2010

The workers at Montville Mobil, members of UFCW 919, wish to express our grief and sympathy with the family and friends of Brian Petronella.

International Brotherhood of Police Officers

August 9, 2010

Thanks for all you accomplished in the fight for the working man; Rest in Peace. Condolences to the Petronella family.

Jon Damast

August 9, 2010

My condolences to the family and to all the working families whose lives have been improved by Brother Brian's efforts.

Anthony Flanagan

August 9, 2010

My Heart Goes out to the Petronella Family and the Union Brothers and Sisters of Local 371.

Terry Dunn

August 9, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends.

Terry Dunn Jr.
Westport Uniformed Firefighter's, Local 1081.

Michael Ganino

August 9, 2010

Please accept my condolences on the passing of Brian. A wonderful man who touched so many! May he rest in peace.

Donna King

August 9, 2010

Elaine, Lindsey and family,
My condolences to the family and Brian's brothers at the UFCW. Brian was kind, generous and a loyal friend. This is a tremendous loss to all who had the privilege of knowing him. We will never forget him.

Pat McDermott

August 9, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dorothy (former shaws worker)

August 9, 2010

To the Family of Brian Petronella'
I would like to send my deepest condolence to you all.
I am a union member of 371 and got to know Brian and he was a very nice and friend person and will be missed alot he touched so many lifes.
Well no he is your guardian angel watching over you everyone he touch..God Bless you all
RIP Brian...

Terri & Jim Vitelli

August 9, 2010

Dearest friend & union brother, may God bless the entire Petronella family now and always. We are broken hearted.All our love Terri & Jim Vitelli

Karen King

August 9, 2010

Anyone who met Brian could instantly tell what a warm, genuine person he was. He will truly be missed. My deepest condolences to your family.

Cheryl Maloney

August 9, 2010

My deepest sympathies to the Petronella Family, Brian did so much to help so many people, he will be missed. You are in my prayers.

Angela Andreoli

August 9, 2010

There are no adequate words at a time like this- Brian was especially close to Sonny and myself and will always have a place in my heart.
Much love, Angela Andreoli, East Windsor, CT

Virginia Peterson

August 9, 2010

REST IN PEACE.

Lorraine DeCarlo

August 9, 2010

My sincere condolences to the Petronella Family at this time.Brian was a wonderful person,I only new him a short time,He came into were i worked and was always kind to us and very generous when he tipped us At the Wilton Wash Inn. God needed another Angel and he got one in Brian,May he rest in Peace.Lorraine J.DeCarlo Westport,Ct

Margaret Thompson

August 9, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

August 9, 2010

Ron, Jan, Bobby and Jessica,

May God Bless you all in this time of sorrow, our prayers are with you all. Frank, Lisa, Ava and Patsy Martino

Daniel & Marie McSparran

August 9, 2010

You will be greatly missed by so many. The time spent with us was so short yet so productive. Countless people have benefitted from your compassion, leadership and giving. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

ida porretti

August 9, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lisa & Amy Vento

August 9, 2010

Elaine, Lindsey & family, We are so sorry to hear about Brian's passing. I will always remember when I was out of a job he offered me work to do at home for him. I so appreciated that especially when I had two young children at the time and needed the extra income. He was a great person and had an infectious laugh! Remember all our walks Elaine at the All Saints track.... May God give you the strength at this difficult time and may Brian Rest in Peace. I am so sorry. Know and have comfort that he loved you and Lindsey so much. Our condolenses, Lisa & Amy Vento

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