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Elizabeth Waller-Hayes Obituary

WALLER-HAYES Elizabeth Anne (Lisa) Waller-Hayes, ('89), born on June 13, 1964, died June 9, at her home in Overveen, The Netherlands, after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. An accomplished journalist, she worked for Health Action International, Medecines Sans Frontieres (Doctors Without Borders) and other international organizations devoted to health care and human rights, as a writer, editor, translator and communications strategy advisor. She was 45 years old. Her passion for social justice will live on in her work, and her love of the English language will be reflected in the Elizabeth Hayes and Family scholarships established in her name at the College of the Holy Cross and The Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism. The Lisa Waller-Hayes Foundation, was recently established in The Netherlands to promote research and provide services to patients and families struggling with pancreatic cancer. (www.lisawallerhayesfoundation.com) In addition to her husband of 16 years, Arnoud (Nout) Waller, Lisa is survived by her two children, Bastiaan, 12, and Isabel, 10 of the Netherlands; her mother, Barbara Hayes of Oxford; brother and sister-in-law, Arthur and Lisa J. Hayes of Westport; and sister and brother-in-law, Kathy and Robert Saracino of Oxford; Her father, Arthur Hull Hayes, Jr., MD, died in February of this year. A memorial service was held in The Netherlands on June 16. A Mass is planned at St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Oxford on Saturday, July 24, 2010 at 11 a.m.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Jul. 11, 2010.

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Lauren Gillenwater

July 13, 2010

Dear Waller and Hayes families:

I did not have the good fortune of knowing your daughter/wife/mother while I attended Holy Cross. I wish I had met her as she sounds like an outstanding individual. In your grief, may you realize what a special person it takes and what an inspiration she was in her work. She truly seemed to embody the spirit of "being a person for others". As she obviously was such a dynamic person, may you find some solace in your memories with her. God bless. My mother lost her life to cancer at age 33 and my sister, an alumna of Holy Cross '96, lost her life to a compromised immune system after a bout with cancer at age 35.Hopefully, we will one day have a cure for this insidious disease. It sounds as if Lisa was there to provide comfort and then became an example of courage in the "good fight" herself. My prayers go out to your family.
Lauren (Salters) Gillenwater, HC '86

July 12, 2010

To Lisa's Family,

I was also one of Lisa's "Alban Towers" roommates. I am so so sorry for your loss. Lisa was a true gentle soul and a wonderful person. There are a lot of lovely people you meet throughout life, but the truly special people stand out -- Lisa was one of those people. She was always happy and always offering to help other people. I am sorry I lost touch with her after graduation. I live in DC and will think of her and say a prayer for you every time I pass by Alban Towers and our old haunts.

God Bless --
Catherine Kane Ronis, Class of 86

Kathleen Orem

July 12, 2010

To Lisa’s husband, children and the Hayes family-

I was one of Lisa’s “Alban Towers” roommates during our college semester in Washington DC. Though we only spent a few months together exploring the halls of Congress and joining the ranks of other interns who seemed to run this great city, I will always remember Lisa as one of the brightest and most passionate people I have ever met. Her laugh was infectious and she was such a great roommate and friend. I also vividly remember her brother Art, ever present during our time in DC and patiently keeping us out of trouble. I live in Washington DC now and have two children of my own with my Holy Cross sweetheart. I lost touch with Lisa after graduation but I think of her and the fun we had together every time I pass Alban Towers and the National Cathedral. I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family and know that a long ago friend will keep you in her prayers.

Kathleen Volpe Orem, Holy Cross Class of 1986

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