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John Gaffield Obituary

Gaffield, John L.
John Lyon Gaffield, 79, longtime resident of Monroe, CT died September 22, 2016 at St. Vincent's Hospital in Bridgeport, CT due to complications of pneumonia. Born in St. Johnsbury, VT, John was the son of George D. and Ruth J. (Lyon) Gaffield. He grew up in Derby Line, VT attended Derby Academy and went on to graduate with a Bachelor's of Science degree in Business Administration from Norwich University where he was a member of the ROTC and Sigma Nu fraternity. John received a reserve commission in the U.S. Army and proudly served his country for 4 years spending a year abroad as a peacekeeper in Germany. Upon returning to the States, John met and married his loving wife of 51 years, Ursula "Bunny" (Jung) Gaffield of Darien, CT and moved to Monroe. A civic-minded man, John enjoyed being a part of many service organizations. As an American Red Cross disaster relief worker for 20 years he provided service to countless military families and local citizens, was an officer for the Monroe Jaycees, served on Monroe's Planning and Zoning Commission, was a Scout leader and took an active interest in local politics. John loved the outdoors and could often be found enjoying the wooded trails behind his home, tending the family garden or landscaping his yard. John loved classical music, played trombone and was a member of the Drum and Bugle Corp in college. John will be remembered by those who knew him for his kindness, friendly demeanor and loyalty. John was employed for many years by Chevron and 20 years as an operations manager for a local laundry service before retiring. John is survived by his wife, their children Glenn Gaffield of Northford, CT and June (Gaffield) Keniston of Gorham, ME, daughter-in-law Anna (Heinzel) Gaffield and grandchildren Kira Bethany and James "Conor" Keniston. Besides his parents, he is predeceased by his sister Faith Gaffield Grady and nephew Bruce Grady. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, October 8th at 11am at Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home in Monroe, CT. In lieu of flowers a memorial contribution may be made to a charity of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.SpadaccinoFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Sep. 30, 2016.

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Richard Fischer

October 4, 2016

I have fond memories of John from our years at Norwich. He was my classmate, Brother in Sigma Nu, and fellow member of the Regimental Band. I'll remember him as a bit shy until we became friends, totally genuine, fun-loving with a dry sense of humor, and a fine skier. I will miss him.

Dick Fischer NU '58

The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home

September 30, 2016

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