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May 21, 2018
Dear Ray and JoAnn, I am heartbroken (at this late date) to hear of the death of your precious Daughter. From what I read she was a truly cared for, accomplished, beautiful, and loving young lady who is deeply missed. I'm certain that her great-great-grandfather, Carmen, and her grandfather, Carmen are smiling with her in heaven. I hope you will often feel the warmth of those smiles. I am Ray's father's (Carmen) first cousin but have been out of touch for some time. It is sad that life so often separates from those we love. I am sending you my deepest condolences and will keep you in my prayers. - Carole Congelli Martin
Patty Pascale-Perullo
March 26, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure her spirit will go on. I've heard so many praises of her. Everyone who has known her is lucky to have had her touch their lives.
March 24, 2011
i am so sorry for your loss. i did not know carmen. my son in law teaches history at the high school. she was very brave through it all. now she rest in piece. may her memory always live on. sincerely virginia rigillo
Robb & Lori Taylor
March 24, 2011
Our deepest condolences to the congelli family. I never had the honor of meeting your daughter. My husband is a custodian at MHS and my son a senior.You may know my son Trevor. He was Carmens male counterpart in the class portraits that hung in the lobby. When they told me she was sick i prayed for her every night. My prayers were answered as all prayers are. Just not what i had asked for. I would ask myself why God didn't answer my prayers the way i wanted, but, i already know the answer. It's gods will for whatever reason. One day we too shall have the answers. Until you meet with our lord and savior and your precious child again, I ask our lord god, for comfort for the family and friends left behind.

March 23, 2011
JoAnn and Ray: Our hearts are broken and I can not begin to comprehend your sorrow. But through the strength, power, love and memories may you both find the courage and hope to carry on.
Corinne Gannon
March 23, 2011
My sincere condolences on your devastating loss. The loss of a child is like no other. Losing a child to cancer is like no other. I lost my son to neuroblastoma five years ago. So I know your pain. Your daughter put up an amazing fight and is now at peace. There really are no words of comfort at this time. Just know you are not alone.
Deb & Chuck Maxwell
March 23, 2011
JoAnn and Ray: Our heart felt sympathy goes out to you in your time of sorrow. She is free and smiling down on you. All our love. Chuck and Deb
D G
March 23, 2011
To the Congelli Family,
Although I never met your daughter, please know that she is truly an inspiration to all. We sometimes ask "why?", and it is far beyond our comprehension why these things happen, but she showed such strength, courage and grace through it all. Our children are gifts to us from God and are only on loan to us. Keep your faith and believe that Carmen's purpose here in this life has been accomplished not to our plans but HIS plans. She has drawn a community together, has made us hold our children closer, has given us the strength to go on in our daily lives, and has made us realize how precious life really is. She will live on forever in a place where we all long to stive to get to. May God give you the comfort of His love and his Blessings to help you through this most difficult time.
Anne Sierawski
March 22, 2011
Ray and JoAnn,
Carmen was truly an amazing woman and of course softball player. Getting to know her in the depths of the Grand Canyon was one of the most inspirational and memorable times of my life. She will live on in spirit in everyones hearts and memories. Know that my family was touched by your family and that we are praying for you all. RIP Carmen... next time I go to the Grand Canyon I know you will be sitting on the front of that boat laughing and holding on tight to that rope and enjoying every moment! Love ya girl!
Dawn Thomas
March 22, 2011
I did not know your daughter, Carmen but wanted to extend my sincere condolences on your devastating loss. I can not begin to comprehend your sorrow but will keep you and your family in prayer... in the hope that God will wrap His arms around you and provide you the strength during this most difficult time.
Lynn Alexander Nazzaro
March 22, 2011
I did not have the pleasure of meeting Carmen, but have followed her story. I am 42 and was diagnosed w breast cancer in October of 2008. I also have a love of softball, and have not stopped playing. I just wanted you to know what an inspiration she is for me. I am so sorry for your loss, may she always shine down upon you.
Greg Ceragioli
March 22, 2011
Joann and Ray, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Carmen was the light that lead many. Her life with us was very short but her strength, courage and personality will live in all that she knew and many she didn't even know. We all will miss her terribly.
Olivia Pagano
March 22, 2011
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. Please remember that she is with the Lord and the Lord is with you.

summer 2010. Mid Hudson Rebels
Mary Suits
March 21, 2011
Joann and Ray,
We were so honored to have Carmen be a part of the Rebels Family this past year. Her strength and smile will always be an inspiration to the girls lucky enough to have her on their bench. we are all better people for having known her. our love.
Mary, Ron and Laura Suits
claire teller
March 21, 2011
im so sorry for your loss..Carmen was an amazing girl and an outstanding player...she will be miss greatly

summer 2010 Mid Hudson Rebels
Mary Suits
March 21, 2011
Sharon Alm
March 21, 2011
I never meet Carmem but my Daughter is a Teacher at Marlboro and talked about Carmen often. I am so sorry for your loss.
Elizabeth McCavara
March 21, 2011
I'm so sorry for your loss. She has had a tremendous impact on everyone in the community and the district.
March 21, 2011
Joann & Ray, We are so very sorry for your loss. I know there are no words to help you at this time but I hope Carmens strength and courage will help you get through these most difficult day. Your Guardian Angel is now looking over you both and I pray you allow yourselves to feel her love each and everyday from up above. Always keep all your great memories close to your heart. Those memories will help you during the darkest and thoughest moments. May God Bless you both! Love the Vacca Family
Middle School Staff
March 21, 2011
Carmen's Beautiful spirit will always be remembered.We are dedicating mile 7 to her at the More Half Marathon on April 3.
God bless and comfort your family
Brenda Travers
March 21, 2011
We are so so sorry for your loss. She was such an inspiration for so many. Our prayers are and will be with you forever.
"Pain is Temporary, Pride is Forever"
Love, Brenda and Mark Travers
Debbie Porcelli
March 21, 2011
Ray and Joanne our family is so saddened by the loss of Carmen. She will forever be in our hearts. She is the most courageous and inspirational person our famliy has ever had the pleasure of knowing. I'm so glad that my daughter Angela knows what true friendship really is and she learned that from your daughter .Angela will forever remember the special relationship she had with Carmen her big sister. We love you. Debbie Porcelli (Marlboro NY)
March 21, 2011
I can never understand why the best are taken from us so early.
I am so sorry for your loss.
ray storms
March 21, 2011
So So very sorry for your loss ray storms staatsburg
March 21, 2011
It seems that God needs beautiful, young souls in heaven, too. It always pains those here on earth to lose them, but Carmen will remain young and beautiful and will inspire others forever.
Diane & Fred
March 21, 2011
We are saddened to hear about the loss of Carmen. Even though we only had the privilege of being in her company a few times, she will always be an inspiration to both of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Lawrence Koutcher
March 21, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Carmen was an absolutely extraordinary human being who lived life to the fullest until the very end. I will always remember her and admire her.
March 21, 2011
Very sorry to hear of Carmen's passing. Her obituary could not have described her better, she was a remarkable young lady. She fought every day to live her life to the fullest and remained very courageous throught her battle with cancer. I admired her a great deal.
Christa L. Mitchell RPA-C
St Francis Hospital
Lawrence Koutcher
March 21, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Carmen was an absolutely extraordinary human being, and I will always admire her for how she lived life to the fullest right up until the very end. I will always remember her.
Ren Adams
March 21, 2011
Very sorry for your suffering. We have a senior in HS daughter and a 15 yr old son in a coma from a mva. Our children are everything to us. May you find peace and calm. Ren and Dave Adams Millbrook, NY
Linda & Joe DeMarco
March 21, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with JoAnn, Ray and the family ! Carmen is a beautiful Angel with that beautiful smile that will always be remembered. Peace and comfort to all of you...
Nancy Marcojohn
March 21, 2011
To the Congelli Family - although I didn't personally know Carmen, my daughter went to school with her and always spoke highly of her and what an inspiration she was and will continue to be. Anneliese and my thoughts and prayers are with you now and always
Dominick Puccio
March 20, 2011
JoAnn, Josie & all family members our deepest sympathy & condolences on your tragic loss. We pray that God gives you all the strength to get through these very difficult times. Although we never had the pleasure of knowing Carmen we all share in your loss.
Love,
The Puccio Family
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