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Tom Wolf Obituary

Tom Wolf
WOODSTOCK- There will be a party in celebration of Tom Wolf's life on the evening of Sept. 6, 2014 from 5:30 p.m. to 11:30 p.m. at Keegan Ales in Kingston.
Wolf (or Wolfie), as he's been known since his days on Onteora's basketball court, was front and center at most of Woodstock's iconic entertainment landmarks and gathering places starting in the early 70's and including the Corner Cupboard, Joyous Lake, the Pinecrest Lodge, the Cafe Espresso, the Tinker St. Cafe, the Bearsville Theatre, the Woodstock Golf Club and the Reservoir Inn.
Although Tom seemed almost to be a Woodstock institution himself, he was born in the Bronx in 1954. By his own special reckoning, Tommy became a "country boy" in 1964 since he had lived half his life in Woodstock by then. His grandfather taught him to fish in the Little Beaverkill which was in Tommy's backyard in the mountains of Wittenberg on land that would become Wilson State Park. More than four decades later, Tom married the love of his life, Joann, there in the park, in the most beautifully touching, and simultaneously, the most hilarious, wedding ceremony ever performed by a bare-legged brewmaster in a knee-length, maroon choir robe, as a couple hundred friends surrounded them in the valley below those mountains, looking out over that same stream.
Family and friends and fishing were the most important things in Tommy's life. Tommy and Joann grew up together as kids and over the years grew closer together to become a family that included Joann's son, James. James had the good fortune, as his Aunt Kathy says, to start life as Tom's godson and to grow up as Tom's stepson. Tom had the good fortune to see James begin a happy life with Theresa.
Although Tommy's mom and sister, Jean and Jessie, moved to Colorado in 1973 and ultimately made their separate ways to California, Woodstock always remained "home" in their hearts because that's where Tommy was. In 2001, Jean moved back to Woodstock to be near Tom and Jo and their family while Jessie and her husband Richard continued to travel back and forth between California and New York, spending several weeks in Woodstock almost every year.
As Tom's friends have described him, he was a true gentleman; a great story-teller; a fount of humor and wit; a caring, generous person who was loved and respected; and while at work, he was frequently "the calm at the eye of many a late night storm" as one friend put it - a man who could take a bad situation and make it better - as he did during the year that he was living with cancer.
Over the years, Tom and many of his best friends dangled fishing lines off his rowboat on the Ashokan Reservoir. Tom and Joann also floated through several special moonlit nights together there. In recent weeks, when loading the boat in and out of the Ashokan got more difficult, Tommy put a boat in up at the Pepacton where the long drive was offset by the easier launch because he was going to keep fishing no matter what.
As the Manager of Keegan Ales for the past 7 years, Tommy planned many special events. And in the final days of his life, Tommy and Joey Beesmer spent hours sitting on Tom's front porch making plans for this bash. Many of you may remember Tommy's unique rendition of taps on the trumpet for "last call" at the Tinker St. Cafe. Please come join Tommy's family and friends for one more "last call".

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Published by the Daily Freeman from Aug. 16 to Aug. 17, 2014.

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Danielle Ferrusi

August 10, 2025

I miss you Wolfie! You were the best!

Danielle Ferrusi

August 10, 2023

I miss you Wolfie! We had so much fun together, laughed until we cried. So long gone from my life but forever in my heart.

Charlene

August 10, 2020

Such a great kid to grow up with in town. Wolf was the best, sweet, kind, generous, quiet. A great boy pal for this tomboy girl. We use to climb 100 tall pines on the Mnts around town. In the winter, we would all go ice riding on local streams. Dangerous but such a thril.

Elizabeth Carlson

August 10, 2020

Tommie, as I knew him, was, as described, my friend Jessie’s little brother. What I remember about him, when I would visit Jessie for her birthday party or just a visit, was even though young (9?), and younger than us, he was terrifically gentle, well-spoken, and a gentleman beyond his years. He greeted us warmly instead of running away, entertained us . . all within the bounds of how much a younger brother could permissibly interrupt; he didn’t tease us . . yes, I remember that very well. My condolences to his loved ones, especially Jessie, whom I haven’t seen perhaps for more than fifty years

BRIAN MURPHY

September 6, 2014

ALWAYS A GENTLEMAN IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD

Garrick Justesen

September 5, 2014

I am proud that I had the good fortune to work with Tom at the Tinker Street Cafe. It led to a great friendship with a great man. The type of guy where one conversation with him sends you with years of wisdom. I Love you and will miss you my friend!

Lynn Vezina

August 27, 2014

Thank you for encouraging me to pop into Keegan Ale one day when I was just passing by years ago. My husband and I have gone there almost every week ever since. We miss you madly. Rest in Peace Wolf! Lynn and Roger. Kingston.

Darlene Custodian CrownSt. Kelsey Gaal

August 27, 2014

God Bless you and your family.

Danielle Ferrusi

August 22, 2014

RIP Wolfie. I can't believe we knew each other for 40 years. From the Corner Cupboard, The Espresso, Tinker Street Cafe, Keegan Ales...and I remember you walked everywhere and I would always give you a ride, even if I wasn't going in the same direction. I think I scared the tar out of you more than once...but you still took those rides. I was devastated when I found out that you left us. A true Woodstock icon. Forever in my heart and I will always laugh at our pranks. This sucks.

joe medwick

August 22, 2014

always treated me and every musician I knew with love, care and great humor...he will be profoundly missed by many....love you Tommy....thanks for the good times...

Karen (Olsen) Kennedy

August 20, 2014

It's been years since I saw him, but I have only the best memories of talking and laughing with him years ago.
He was someone who brightened the life of everyone he knew. My condolences to his family and friends.

August 20, 2014

Thinking of you Joann Mark and Maryann

Val

August 20, 2014

Tom Wolf may you live on in our memories, hearts through friends and family. Val

Dane Fullenweider

August 20, 2014

A big man in so many ways with an even bigger heart!! Thank you Tommy Wolf for being my friend.

Marika

August 19, 2014

Thinking of you, Joann.

Mark Hoffstatter

August 19, 2014

No matter where we ran into Tom, it would brighten our day. Truly a great guy.
Mark & Annie Hoffstatter

Maureen deHaan

August 19, 2014

Thinking of you Joann - sending lots of strength, love and peace to you and your family.

melody Cooke

August 19, 2014

Prayers to the family..

Bryan Wolff

August 18, 2014

You always had great words of wisdom and a great joke to go with it. You will be missed.

Paul Lewandowski

August 18, 2014

He was always an amazing person to talk too. I'll miss him dearly.

Paul Rakov

August 18, 2014

There are those who do good things for the community and then there are those who are just good for the community...Wolf was both.

MJ Reiss

August 18, 2014

Such a big heart and wonderful husband. Joann, my heart goes out to you for your loss.

Terry & Pierre Leroy

August 18, 2014

We are neighbors from around the corner. Remember Tom working in his garden and being inspired. Love to the family.

August 18, 2014

Back home in Wittenburg in the late 6o's Tom and I used to 'shoot hoop' at my grandmothers barn...just a hoop no net no backboard....what a hoot we used to have.

Best wishes to all his family members. RIP Tom.

Russ Cashdollar

duane lester

August 18, 2014

Thanks for the wonderful memories Tommy, RIP my friend. You will be missed!

Barry (Sweet)Jackson

August 18, 2014

I've known Tommy for many years, from the Expresso to Keegan's. He's been a good friend, and we've worked many shows together. I will miss him, and pray that I will see him again.... Barry (Sweet)Jackson

August 18, 2014

Joann,
I am so sorry for your loss. I first met Tom all those years ago in your little house. He was such a good friend to me and to all. The world is a little dimmer now without his light shining bright. He will be missed by everyone who knew and loved him. Such a special man. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Sigrun Olsen Mathews

August 18, 2014

My heartfelt sympathy to Tom's family. May Tom be at Peace in the Arms of Love and may the new chapter of his Life's journey be filled with Love, Peace and Happiness. I will miss you, Tom.

Karin Peters

August 18, 2014

You are a wonderful person and I know your spirit is watching over us all. You were always a joy to hang with late nights. Kind, caring and what a sense of humor!! You are loved and will be missed. I am sure the universe has welcomed you with open arms. We were all blessed to have you in our lives.

Wini Baldwin

August 17, 2014

Having last seen you behind your annual Halloween street grilling- for us big kids-know that you will be missed by so many people across the board. You'll always be bigger than life itself. Condolences to your wonderful family......

Mary Pat Gale

August 17, 2014

We send our sincere sympathy to Joann and family for the loss of Tom. We hadn't seen him since high school, but have learned that he was a great man.

August 17, 2014

From one HS BB star to another. The Fab Four will be together again some day on the other side. We miss you, Bro.

Theresa Lindgren

August 17, 2014

Nobody else like Wolf. I will miss him, his sense of humor but most of all his big heart.

Steve Chapman

August 17, 2014

Though we weren't a big part of each other's lives,and we went years without seeing other,Tommy was that kind of person that every time I thought of him,I had to smile and feel good -because he always made me laugh and feel good.He really did seem to love everyone.If I live to be 100,I'll remember him as a friend.One of a kind,for sure.

Mary Smith

August 17, 2014

a towering figure, fabulous local color - one of the people that makes Woodstock the town we love--RIP -loved, missed and remembered as a great guy-

August 17, 2014

many thanks tom,for all your true wisdom and coffee,salads from the corner cupboard.jeff wranovics-peace out.

Steve & Linda Chapman

August 17, 2014

Dear Joann & family. Thoughts & prayers to you and your family in dealing with your loss of Tom. Sincerely,

Eric Rowles

August 17, 2014

Tom Wolf a great man had some great times over at keegans i wish i could say more but im at a loss for words rest in peace Tom

Judie Stahl

August 17, 2014

Always a constant in the Onteora Band Room, assisting (managing) Mr. Simon and his students with kindness and patience.

Janette Molyneaux

August 17, 2014

My heart goes out to you Joann...I'm so happy tho that you and Tommy had each other. He and Joe were my best "guy" friends for 40 years and the numerous hysterical, if not outrageous stories could go on forever. I will always remember him and miss him terribly. What a loss to all of us and to Woodstock. xoxo

Helen Robinson

August 17, 2014

A Woodstock icon.We will always remember you.With condolences...Matt and Helen Robinson

Kathryn Langdon

August 17, 2014

I remember many a wonderful night at Keegan Ales sitting and talking to him. He could always make you laugh. He helped me plan my daughter's college graduation party at Keegan's after we lost our home to Hurricane Irene. He made everything so simple, and her party was great!
You will be missed sir !

David Keesler

August 17, 2014

I am sorry for your loss Joann

Scott Buley

August 17, 2014

Tom, May the waters in heaven be full of trout! I hope your reeling one in right now. Look after yourself in the afterlife and watch over the ones you love. You will be remembered as a good man in this great world. Joanne, may you find comfort in the little things, a sunset once shared, a cloud seemingly looking your way, taking shape of a rememberance once known between Tom and you, he will forever watch over you now until you see each other again. With my sympathies Scott Buley

Brandi Schneider

August 17, 2014

Thoughts and prayers, hugs and kisses, to all of Tom's family and friends. It was always a pleasure to work for him. RIP

Marissa

August 17, 2014

Thanks for always sharing some words of wisdom as well as a good laugh every time I stopped in. I'll miss you darlin'. Rest in peace Wolf.

August 17, 2014

A true friend, a classmate, an icon in Woodstock. We never knew where you would be next, Tommy, but it was always a welcome surprise when you were there to greet us with a drink, a smile, and a hug.
Not only were you a true friend of ours, but a friend to our sons. When you first met our son, Dustin, you treated him like one of your own. You were generous, helpful, caring and always there with good advice for him in his with his new business. After meeting our other sons, Shane and Cody, you were no less kind, and respectful to them AND their friends!
Tommy, you will be greatly missed by the Bryant family and our extended family! Hope you are sharing some stories and jokes with my Dad!
RIP Tommy.
Karen Wolven Bryant

Ruth Botwick Blair

August 17, 2014

Remembering all the good times and laughs at Tinker Street Cafe. He will live in our hearts forever.

Leonard Brice

August 17, 2014

Tom thanks for the great times back in the day at joyous lake,also seeing you again at keegan ales after the years gone by. (RIP)

Marabeth Brandt

August 17, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss Joann...I'm thinking of you today, and how much I always loved Tommy.

Kate Brayman

August 17, 2014

My dear sweet friend you will be missed but never forgotten for you did many great things and made many smile. ?

Greg Riley

August 17, 2014

Tommy Wolf-

Thank you for all of the great memories and laughs. God speed.

Irv Finkel

August 16, 2014

To great times at the Cupboard, the Espresso, the Golf Club, and wherever else. Bon voyage Tom.

Mike Rogers

August 16, 2014

Thanks Tom for all the fun memories and laughs at the Woodstock golf club.

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