John Pace Antokol GlenvilleJohn Pace Antokol, 40, beloved son of Judith Pace Antokol and Richard M. Antokol, passed away peacefully at his home on Saturday, September 14th. John was born in Niskayuna and was among the last graduating class of the former Linton High School. He attended Carlton College (MN), earned his BS at the University of Washington, attended Lewis and Clark Law School and received his MBA from Union Graduate College. John loved to travel the world, and among all the places he visited, his heart belonged to Phuket, Thailand. He was a master deep water diving instructor who trained Navy Seals. He was passionate about music, especially the Grateful Dead, who he followed religiously for two summers. John was a beautiful person. He had a big presence about him that was filled with vibrant energy and excitement. He found a lot of peace and joy in the Buddhist way. He was predeceased by his wife, Angie. Survivors include his loving and devoted mother, Judith Pace Antokol; loving father, Richard M. Antokol and his wife, Joyce Empie; stepbrother and stepsisters, Scott Empie (Susan), Jennifer Grace (Kevin) and Anne Empie-Ryan; he is also survived by many dear friends. A memorial service will be held on Friday, September 27th at 6 p.m. at the Ferrari Funeral Home (in Jones Funeral Home), 1503 Union St. (at McClellan Street), Schenectady. Calling hours will precede the service from 4:30 to 6 p.m. Following John's generous example, in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in his memory to the International Campaign for Tibet at www.savetibet.org. Online condolences may be made at www.ferrarifuneral home.com.
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I've written before but am glad to remember John's beautiful spirit. His Mom Judi was a dear friend and we vacationed together up in Maine one summer when my son and John played together. We were all so happy. John was only 6 or 7 at the time and was a delightful child, as his mother was a delightful friend who is now with John. I know in my heart that they are at peace and off on new adventures and horizons. We are all only here for a blip in time and life continues undiminished on the other side. When remembered with love shared, my spirit is uplifted instead of feeling diminished.
Jean (Perel) Fitzgerald
Friend
September 16, 2020
Dear Judith & Richard, & your extended families...We learned of John's passing from Matthew and are so saddened by your deep loss. We hope that every good memory you each hold will lessen the pain in some way, and will enlarge your own spirits as you continue to bring love and good work into our world, which often cannot hold for too long a soul such as your John. May he find peace in a much larger world.
Rosemarie & Vince Amendolia-Treanor
October 1, 2013
Judy,I'm so sorry for your loss.
Jim Fitzgerald
September 28, 2013
Dear Judi and Dick:
I knew John as a delightful, sweet and brilliant little boy and young man. I believe he is at Peace and at Home but my heart is greatly saddened to hear that he has left us. May the memory and living presence of his Spirit help support you in your journey.
Jean Batzell-Fitzgerald
September 27, 2013
Dick / Judy - I have many wonderful memories of John, going all the way back to our days at Open School. I will hold those close and hold John in the light.
Maggie Rush Vinciguerra
September 27, 2013
I am shocked and at a loss for words. John was a dear classmate and friend at Linton. My heart goes out to his family.
Demond Burwell
September 26, 2013
Dear Richard, We are so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in prayer.
Sue & Dwayne Moore
Susan Moore
September 23, 2013
Dearest Judy, My heart breaks for you. May The Sweet Peace of God's Arms surround you.
September 23, 2013
So sorry for your loss Richard. Joyce and I will keep you and your family in our prayers. As difficult as one's passing is to accept..there is comfort in knowing that he is in a better place.
Bill Glock
September 23, 2013
Dear Dick, Joyce and Judi, our hearts are saddened by this news and we are truly so very sorry for your loss. We hope you will delight in the wonderful memories of your son, his happy demeanor, thoughtful intelligence and that smile that made everything just right. Our deepest condolences to each of you. We will truly miss John.
Gerald, Michele, Julia Christie
September 23, 2013
So sorry for your loss. May God be with you all during this challenging time.....
Suzanne Alfiero
September 22, 2013
Dear Richard . Very sorry to learn of the loss of your son John. My condolences. Paul Tocker
Paul Tocker
September 22, 2013
You have my deepest sympathy. May the good memories of John provide consolation for your family during this challenging time; and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again in Paradise. John 17:3
Toni
September 22, 2013
Deaer Richard and Renee---so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers today. Laurene OBrien
Laurene O'Brien
September 22, 2013
I will miss the laugh you had when you threw your head back and your eyes glistened. You laughed so similarly to me and it only made me laugh more! I will hold the memories of our 20's and the fun we had. It was a hoot to have a little brother and I know we got SUCH a kick out of telling everyone I was your "sister". You know that I loved you and I know you loved me. You are with God now and I am confident that he came to you in those final moments. Rest and find the peace you longed for...Anne
Anne Ryan
September 22, 2013
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