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Carmine DeStefano Obituary

Carmine DeStefano ColonieCarmine DeStefano, 93, of Colonie, passed away suddenly on Wednesday, March 20, 2013 at Ellis Hospital. He was born in Ardsley on the Putnam, NY, and was the son of the late Dominic and Mary Severino DeStefano. He was predeceased in January of 2013 by his beloved wife of 59 years, Anna M. DeStefano. Carmine was a decorated WWII Army veteran and a distinguished recipient of the Bronze Star and a Purple Heart. He had been a Colonie resident for over 55 years. Along with his wife, they had owned the Friendly Tavern and Carm's Place in Colonie. Carmine was an avid golfer. He had owned race horses and enjoyed time at the track. Carm had a unique ability to tell a story and could engage anyone in conversation. His sense of humor always left a lasting impression. He was a longtime member and former president of the Albany County Restaurant and Tavern Association. He is survived by his daughters, Barbara Ann Stevens of White Lake, MI, Carmina Marie (Thomas) Miller of Clifton Park and Carol Ann DeStefano (Ralph Squailia) of Clifton Park. He is the brother of Albert (Laura) DeStefano, Jean Merriman, Gloria Duchin and the late Grace Jewels, Frank, Daniel and Edward DeStefano. He is the grandfather of Anthony, Shawn, Christopher, Kevin and Daniel. Great-grandfather of Jayden and Lily. Several nieces, nephews and friends also survive. Funeral services will be Tuesday morning at 11 at New Comer Cannon Funeral Home, 343 New Karner Rd., Colonie. Visitation will be Tuesday from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment will be in Gerald B.H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery, Schuylerville. Memorial contributions are encouraged to the Wounded Warrior Project, PO Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675 in memory of Carmine DeStefano. To leave a special message for the family online, visit NewcomerAlbany.com


Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Mar. 24, 2013.
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When Carmine would come to coffee hour; he'd talk about his boyhood, his time in the military, and how he fell in love with his wife Anna. He'd always leave saying "I've got to go. Anna is waiting for me." He was a gentle gentleman. I think that the world lost a good measure of it's brightness with his passing. But he had to go because *Anna was waiting.* My deepest condolences to his children, grandchildren and family. You are in my heart's thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Deborah Linebeck

March 27, 2013

When Carmine came down to the coffee hour... he would talk about his boyhood, his time in the military, and how he fell in love with his wife. He would always end his conversations with... "I've got to go... Anna is waiting for me." For me, this world is not so bright a place now that he is gone. But he had to go because *Anna was waiting for him.* I will celebrate the fact he lived and that I knew both Carmine & Anna. My deepest condolences to their children, grandchildren & family. You are in my heart's thoughts and prayers.

Deborah Linebeck

March 26, 2013

carol shawn and danny
so sorry for your ur loss carm was a great man one i will never ever forget i loved him he always made me smile wit his handself i remember me telling him if only he were younger i can still see the smile on his handsome you will be greatly missed rip buddy

nancy VERMETTE

March 26, 2013

Carol and Shawn we are so sorry for your loss of a great man he is and always be with you both jimmy and I are always here for you both rip pat you will never be forgotten love Jim Tracey jimmy Ashley

Tracey Vermette

March 26, 2013

carol sorry to hear about your dad.

janis smith

March 25, 2013

My condolences to the whole family.

Jennifer Meyring

March 25, 2013

So sorry for your lost.

Barbara Lombardi

March 25, 2013

SO sorry for your loss DeStefano family. Ill never forget Carm and Anna at Carms Place and how they made me feel so comfy and at home. I had the best time of my life there! Rip Carm. We'll all miss you and your humor.

Linda Ryan (rosamino)

March 25, 2013

Carmine was one of my Dad, Angelo Abbadessa's best friends. He also became my best friend. He was like a dad, a brother and a true friend for 52 years. He helped carry me home from the hospital when I was born. His charisma and sense of humor were part of his unique persona. He always reminded me of Dean Martin and Phil Harris. He was all about making you laugh and fell like your friend. RIP Pally! Love,
Frank

March 24, 2013

To the Destefano Family:
Janet and I and my family send sincere condolences to you. Pat and Anna were dear friends of ours and we will neveer forget the laughs and memories.Iam sure that he is bringing laughter to those in Heaven.
Ed and Janet Hirt and family

March 24, 2013

I great guy, and always a pleasure to be around.

Jere Gaul

March 24, 2013

I will miss you and anna.i will miss all your stories when you were a little boy. rip

judy brunick

March 24, 2013

I will miss you and all your stories when you were a young boy i miss anna also.your neighbor at colonie terrace. judy

judy brunick

March 24, 2013

rip pat, tell aunt anna hi , and i know you are where you want to be together again.

cyndi graham (marcia's daughter)

March 24, 2013

There are no words to describe the loss I feel. Carm was my mentor and dearest friend. Rest in Peace.

Tommy De Rouville

March 24, 2013

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