1931 - 2015
1931 - 2015
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Lynda Steinmetz Dezura
January 31, 2025
Wow now it’s 10 years! Doesn’t seem possible! Still miss your smile and laughter and catching up on life!
Lynda Steinmetz Dezura
January 31, 2022
Wow it´s been 7 years. Doesn´t seem possible. I think of her all the time. Miss seeing her to catch up on our lives.
Tracy Ann Schommer
August 12, 2015
Vicki and Family so sorry for your loss. God Bless
Natalie Czyz
August 1, 2015
Vicki, my prayers are with you & your entire family. Know that God is with you & He will comfort you. Your mom is with you, hold on to memories. I recently lost the one true love of my life & I understand your pain. Please know you are not alone. God bless you, sweetie.
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Donna Putnam
July 27, 2015
Vicki I love watching you on the show and I respect you on so many levels. When I saw the episode about your mom I cried so hard, you were so close to your mom.
July 22, 2015
Hi Vicki and Billie. I am a fan of the Housewives and the episode of your Mom passing just aired. I feel compelled to send a note saying how sorry I am for your loss. I lost my Mom 7 years ago, I was on vacation in Mexico when my sister Lori called me with the news.....I know how you are feeling when you cant be there at the end....you feel helpless. I hardly remember the flight back to Vancouver, sobbing most of the way. Time does help, but there isnt a day that goes by that I dont think of her........just remember all the good times. Your mom seemed like a real character and fun to be around just from the couple of minutes I saw her on the show. By the way Vicki keep being who you are in the show, you seem like a real down to earth women and I like that in people. Take Care to all of your family.
Sharon Church (Richmond BC Cananda)
Joanne
July 22, 2015
Hi, Vickie and Billie...
I lost my own Mom just two years ago and your loss has touched me to the very core. I live in Palatine and went to drop off a rose for your Mom today. She is with both of you...
Joanne
Tracey Stuard
July 16, 2015
Vicki &The Entire Steinmetz Family,
Vicki, I just watched the episode where you found out the passing of your mom. Im so sorry for your loss. Ive watched the show from the very beginning. I send my condolences to you. Your an amazing person. Your mom was an amazing person and,the most funny person as well. My love sent your way.
Dave Mann
July 14, 2015
Vicki:
Learned of your mother's passing on the show. You could tell the close bond you had with her. Remember the many fine memories you have of her to help get you thru these difficult times. My condolences to you and your family.
Mischa Griffin
July 14, 2015
I never knew you but you gave birth to a beautiful family ..may you Rest in Peace beautiful lady
Stephanie
July 13, 2015
Vicki,
I watched the episode. I am a long time fan. I am so very sorry for the death of your Mother. You have been blessed in your life, you are so inspiring, a successful single strong woman with wonderful children and a grandchild. You're an amazing person and you're in my prayers. From Long Island, NY.

connie mccorkle
connie McCorkle
July 12, 2015
Vickey & Billy im so sorry for your loss, my heart filled love goes out to you all, god bless your family & friends, your mother was a wonderful Lady,
Helen Jacobson Vanderspool
July 12, 2015
So sorry to hear about Joanne's passing from the Taft Newsletter. I knew her from Onahan Gradeschool & Taft HS. I had kept in touch with her many years thru a group of us ladies who met a few times a year & served on the HS Reunion Com with her. She was a great lady and will be missed by all especially her family. You have my utmost condolences. Helen Jacobson Vanderspool
Cherie Magness
July 11, 2015
Vicki
I watch the show all the time and have since its been on. I am so sorry about your mom. She was a funny lady! I lost my mom when I had just turned 13yrs and today I am 51. It gets easier as time goes on but her memories are with you always. Just remember she will always be your guardian angel. Sending prayers to you and your family.
Natalie Rios
July 11, 2015
Dear Vicki,I lost both my parents also I feel ur pain when I saw ur show on Mon... I know it will b hard for along time I also lost my only sister, which makes me a orphan,I thank God I have 2,kids n 6 wonderful grandkids n my life.. I hope through the yes that it will get better, memories piks anything that reminds u of her keep them close to ur heart,my sympathys to all ur family...
Matt F
July 10, 2015
Vicki, Billy and the entire Steinmetz family-please accept my deepest sympathies and condolences for the sudden passing of your mother. I lost my mother almost 7 years ago and she, too, was my best friend. Please take comfort in knowing that she is looking down on all of you from Heaven with great pride and will be waiting for you with open arms when your mission here on earth is complete. Take care and God Bless
July 10, 2015
Vicki i am sorry for your loss your mom was a great lady my condolances to your entire family. Deb ocampo
July 9, 2015
vicki,i felt so bad for you beleive me ive watch the show along time and will never forget the episode,god bless you and your family,jim from troy michigan.
Donna Petersen
July 9, 2015
Viki, I sw the episode last night where you received the
Phone call. I cried right along with you. I wish I could
Have been there for you. Stay strong and keep the faith!
Aunt Donna
July 9, 2015
Vicki, I saw this Episode last night, it broke my heart for you. May her memory be Eternal.
Pam Nelson
July 8, 2015
ears If tears could build a stairwell and memories were a lane, I would walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken no time to say good-bye . You were gone before I knew it, and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness, and secret tears still flow. What it means to lose you, no one will ever know. Anonymous~
Roland Sanchez
July 8, 2015
Vicky were sorry to hear about your mom I bet she left great memories for many people in time you will feel better as I do I lost my mom as well so us TV viewers wish you the best and may your mom RIP.
Skye Newman
July 7, 2015
Vicki I just seen the episode & am so so sorry for your loss...watching I felt your pain and I cried uncontrollably hard. Hope you fine peace and continue to be a wonderful mom/grandma/sister & friend to all as your mom was...
Charles Valenza
July 7, 2015
Vicki,
I am so sorry about your mom passing, she was a wonderful person. You are your mom in many ways. Your mom was the best. She is now with your father and they are both together now. They both are proud of you and are looking down from heaven. I and my family send our sincere condolences to you and your entire family. Hugs xoxo Whoop it up :)
Maureen Tarara
July 7, 2015
Billy I just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear of your moms passing you don't know me but I always like seeing you on the show with Vicki you guys always made me laugh I don't know if you lived with your mom but I thought you did cause you were so close I know it will be hard you where her baby boy she's smiling with your dad so just think of all the good times
Maureen Tarara
July 7, 2015
Vicki and family I just saw on the show that your mom passed I felt so bad for you I loved when she'd be on the show especially when she told you your hair looked yellow she was so funny and cute just hang in there your mom is with your dad I'm sure their smiling
Anthony Walker
July 7, 2015
So very sorry for your loss
Kathy J Parenteau
July 7, 2015
My Mother My Angel
Once upon a time an angel held my hand,
she wiped away my tears and helped me understand.
Our time on earth is brief, there's lessons to be learned,
each precious day God gives us another page is turned.
Every chapter full of memories, times of joy and tears,
triumphs and defeats through every passing year.
She loved us unconditional always by our side,
when no one else would listen in her we could confide.
With gentle words of wisdom she led us on our way,
down the paths of righteousness if ever we did stray.
She saw the light in everyone and gave with no regrets,
always from her heart let's us not forget.
Angels come in many forms, for me it is my mother,
with love I cannot say in words there'll never be another.
Every day I turn the page in my heart will ever remain,
everything she taught me as I stroll down memory lane.
Thank you God for giving me the most priceless of all treasures,
help me Lord to keep alive her memory here forever.
I pray that I can some day be everything she hoped I would,
that she's smiling down from heaven knowing she did good.
As we gather here today there's no ending to her story,
another chapter has begun full of grace and glory.
God's called her to his heavenly home part of his great plan,
although it may be hard, we all must understand.
Faith is what is hoped for, things we cannot see,
Heaven is promised to all of us if only we believe.
Written By Kathy J Parenteau
Copyright © 2012
ANGELA KINSEL
July 7, 2015
Still praying for your family. May God keep his arms wrapped tight around you...
Tonya Wall
July 7, 2015
So sorry for the loss of a beautiful life.The loss of a Mother is one of the saddest ever.A Mothers love is unconditional and pure..My thoughts & prayers go out to you all.
Natalie Shapiro
July 7, 2015
Vicki we are so sorry for your loss,
To see your pain was heart wrenching, thier are no words that can make you feel better right now other than she lived a long beautiful life and now she's with your dad and they will be watching over you forever..
I am so sorry :(
Cher
July 7, 2015
Rest in peace Angel Girl.. Prayers sent to the family.
Mary Jane Struck
July 6, 2015
I lost my mother several years ago. Memories, of my mom, keep her alive and I cherish them. I am happy to have had a wonderful mom who gave me all of those moments and advice in my life. Your mom stays alive within you and you can share those memories with future generations.
Gale Tickner
July 6, 2015
So sorry for your loss Vicki. May your mom rest in peace.
Heather Olson
July 6, 2015
May your beautiful light continue to shine through your offspring. See you in that far off sweet forever. Rest in peace.
Mary Ann Seiber
July 6, 2015
My prayers are with the family and friends of Miss Joanne. R.I.P. precious lady. To Vickie my heart goes out to you sweet lady ...I cried tonight as this tragic news was on the show earlier tonight...I cried with you I know how it feels I lost my mom the same way. Prayers for you Vickie. God Bless
Bette Wilmot
July 6, 2015
Vicki and family, I am so so sorry for the loss of such a vibrant woman - your mom. I can't imagine how you are all feeling. Losing someone so suddenly that you love so deeply is never easy at age. Nothing can replace a mom. Remember to keep all the wonderful memories close to your heart. I only wish words could help ease the pain. Take one day at a time, one foot /one step at a time. My mom was also a Taft Eagle as well, graduating three years ahead of your mom. I suppose in a strange way we have a shared connection with our moms. I would like to think possibly our moms knew each other in HS. I will keep your family in thought and prayers. May your sweet mom rest peacefully in the arms of your dad, and may God continue to give you peace and comfort each day.
Bette Wilmot, Hoffman Estates, IL
Heather Olson
July 6, 2015
We love you Vic and the beautiful light that shines through you from your mother.
Brenda Kerr
July 4, 2015
Vicki, So sorry for your loss. Your mother is always watching over you. She is the breath of fresh air around you. So many blessings for you in life to come, it's from your parents.. Happier times will follow for your family!
Michelle earles
February 20, 2015
I only knew you off the television as Vicky's mom. You looked like a beautiful person. God bless
Donna Petersen
February 20, 2015
Vicki, how are you? I think of you every day. I know you
Are going through a hard time now. I think of your mom
All the time too. It's hard to believe she is gone, I had just
Talked to her and we had a great conversation, talking
About old times etc. we had. Lot of laughs. I've been looking
Through some old pictures of some good times we had.
especially the camping trips! Vicki, I'm here if you ever need to
Talk. Feel free to call me any time. Your mom is with your dad
Now together again. Always remember the good times
Love you, Vicki!
Aunt Donna
Jodie Sanders
February 17, 2015
Thoughts are with the family at this sad time xxx
February 11, 2015
Wow, what a shock when Vicki called me to tell me about Joanne. My deepest sympathies to all of the family. Joanne and I go back all the way to Kindergarten at Onahan Grade School in Norwood Park with Mrs. Hannaman as our teacher. We did a lot of activities together, biking, playing tennis, movies and sleepovers. A true and great friend always. Just recently we had been in contact with each other over the phone, trying to catch up on each other and our families. We both loved to play bridge and talked a lot about how often we played and what fun it was. It was such a shock to hear of her untimely death but she is now reunited with her husband Bill. My children all send their sympathies also. Joan and Don Schroeder
Lynda Steinmetz- Dezura
February 9, 2015
There are no words that can say how bad I feel. I am devastated . I don't know when it will sink in. How many times I would be at home in Mchenry and there she would be in front of my house with Maggie. And before that with Sheba. And the years past when we were younger playing Yatzee! So many memories. I remember a gold beaded dress she wore to a party . She looked like a mermaid beautiful. And what a personality! And what a jest for life. It doesn't seem possible that this has happened. My parents are gone Billy is gone and now she is gone. They are now together. I will miss her forever. I am sorry for her whole family's loss. She was a wonderful cousin and more importantly a wonderful person.
Bob & Betty Bussenger
February 8, 2015
We share the heartache the family is going through at this time. We loved Joanne dearly and enjoyed being with her during our visits to Lisa & Terry and our grandchildren. She brought us so much joy and happiness just being with her. She will be truly missed. We will cherish our thirty years of sincere friendship. To the family, you can be so proud to have had a loving and caring Mother. You too, will cherish her memory always.
February 7, 2015
Kirk and I have only known Joanne for a short time as her neighbor. We loved talking with her when we had a chance. She was very kind we enjoyed maggie too.We send our condolences to her family. She will be missed. Kathie and Kirk
February 7, 2015
Hugs and Prayers.
Hank and Martha Curcio
Christi Genovese
February 7, 2015
May God Bless you and your family and give you Peace and strength the surpasses you all! Love you so much and so sorry for this Tragic Loss! I can only imagine what your going through here for you always ! Love you ! Christi G??????
February 7, 2015
My deepest sympathy Phil and Barb Bue
February 7, 2015
Praying for the family.
Colleen Pugh
February 6, 2015
I remember her always laughing. So sorry for you loss. Such an amazing loving soul.
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