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for Candy Ponder
March 26, 2010
Candy Sue made this Talladega newcomer feel welcome, and was my "rock" on more than one occasion. I treasure memories of her, which never fail bring a smile to my face and heart. I am very grateful to have had her in my life.......Georgi Hainer
March 26, 2010
I have sweet memories of Candy Sue when I attended Southside Baptist Church. We were in the Youth Choir and traveled and sang the Word Of God. We ate pizza at Pasqueles after church on Sunday nights. Candy Sue and Charles were true blessings to me in those days.
Brenda Warren
March 25, 2010
To my extended family…..Candy Sue was such a blessing to have in my life and my daughter's. With her friendship we also established new friends with Charles, Emily and Jon Paul and this we are thankful for. Whether you banked with Candy Sue, went to school with her children, attended church with her or fortunate enough to graduate during the 70’s. Candy Sue left a mark on everyone she met. She loved life and lived it to its fullest….We all know how much she loved to go shopping; Hallmark was one of her favorite stores and she kept them in business for years with all the cards she would send. A God given talent, she always knew when you needed a card……
My prayers for the family is that God will guide you through this dark period and his love with comfort you during this difficult time. Your loss is felt my so many and I am here if you need anything.
Miss you my friend but I thank God everyday for giving me such a wonderful friend and “THANKS FOR ALL THE MEMORIES”...
March 25, 2010
Candy Sue and I love to talk on the phone about the "Goray" family...I love her and do miss her very much...Jo Ann Liner
March 25, 2010
Before Candy Sue and I got our drivers licenses, she would ride her Daddy's riding lawnmower from her house up Heath Street to my house. The first time she did it, I heard noise and ran out onto the front porch, and just LAFFED! Here comes Candy Sue, and she is SERIOUS!!! She would also wake me up REALLY early on summer mornings, or weekends, when I wanted to sleep late, and say "Come ON!!" And I always did...and always had fun. Rainy summer days playing Rook for HOURS with Shane, Len, Ernie and Candy Sue. TRYING to get our hair to be straight, no success. She taught me how to roll hair on big curlers with perfect precision. I never knew!!! I love that girl. We learned to waterski together, at her Daddy's lot down on the river. Jon Paul and Emily, I have pictures of ya'll from the very beginning. Candy Sue is so proud of you. OH, and the grandbabies??!! Well, you know how she is.... :) :) Love ya'll
Jimmy and Cindy Waites
March 25, 2010
Candy Sue was loved by so many because of her big heart. She will be greatly missed. Our thoughts & prayers go out to the family.
Cora Bethune
March 5, 2010
My prayers go out to the Ponder family, Its been 2 weeks and 3 days since her passing, I just found out today when I went to the bank to say hello to her. I was crushed. May God bless you all and please know that my prayers go out to you all. I was her baker and made cakes for her family. God bless you all again and I am deeply sorry for the loss of one of God's Angels.
Jim Gambrell
March 1, 2010
Candy Sue meant a lot to me and my family. When my mother was stricken with cancer in 2002, Candy Sue sent her a card everyday for months. When my brother passed away she was there for our family. Since I live so far away, she would take flowers, etc. to the Hepzabah Cemetary for me. She will be greatly missed as she had a heart of gold. For her family I feel your pain.
Kay Huffaker
February 28, 2010
Candy Sue will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Our Prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Tess Waites
February 27, 2010
My heartfelt condolences to Candy Sue's family.
Sandra Patterson
February 27, 2010
My prayers goes out to all of you, so sorry for the loss of Candy Sue, she will be missed by many.
Wes and Sandra Patterson
Wanda Willingham
February 27, 2010
Many hearts are breaking.If those of us left behind can only strive to be to each other what she was to us we will see her again. I pray the Lord will bless and comfort her wonderful family and her many friends.
JAMES & JOANN GORAY
February 27, 2010
We`re so sorry for our loss of 'SWEET CANDY SUE'.She will be 'GREATLY MISSED' by family and a host of friends.She blessed many people just with her presence. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. GOD BLESS and ' WAR EAGLE' CANDY SUE.
JAMES & JOANN GORAY
February 26, 2010
We`re so sorry for your loss of 'SWEET CANDY SUE'.She will be missed by her family and a host of friends.She blessed so many just with her presence. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.GOD BLESS AND 'WAR EAGLE' CANDY SUE.
Don Lewis
February 26, 2010
Candy Sue was one of the kindest people I have ever known. She was always willing to help anyone. She loved Talladega, Talladega High School, and Talladega College. I know she is missed by Charles and the family. I regret I am not able to come back to Talladega this week to personally say these things in person.
May God Bless you all. Candy Sue is happy and safe.
Don Lewis
Anne Barber-Ingram
February 26, 2010
Dear Charles, Jon Paul, and Emily,
I was so sad to hear of Candy Sue's death yesterday. I know that your hearts are heavy and there are many questions in your minds. Please
know that Candy Sue's influence, friendship and love for God have been far-reaching, and and her loss has been felt by all who knew her. You and your families will be in my prayers in the coming days and weeks. Love to you all.
February 26, 2010
Charles sorry to hear of your loss, " she is beholding him"
Neal Barber, Jacksonville , Fl
Veronica Tuck
February 26, 2010
My prayers and condolences are with all of you. Please find comfort in knowing that God makes no mistakes. Candy Sue will be dearly missed among all who knew her. Her memories will always hold a special memory in my heart.
Samantha Lackey
February 26, 2010
Charles, Jon Paul, Emily and family, I am so saddened by Candy Sue's passing, but I know she is in a much happier place. It's so easy for us to be selfish when we are grieving. She always made me smile and I'll miss her so much. Please know there are so many people praying for you. She was so special. May God bless. Sam
Jimmy/ Mary Webster
February 26, 2010
Charles and family no words can be said that has already been said to each of you. God has control and intervened ! He is surrounding you all during this time of sorrow. May God Bless and keep you safe through this time and the days ahead. Love all Jimmy and Mary Webster
Jimmy Walker
February 26, 2010
" I will miss Candy Sue, known her since high school days. I am very sorry for your loss, i will pray for her and her family. Good bye, Candy Sue." Jimmy Walker
February 26, 2010
Charles, John Paul and Emily,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for all of you. She was such a sweet lady. I know she will be greatly missed by everyone who knew her. God bless all of you.
Gina Thomas
Margie Morgan
February 26, 2010
Candy Sue was a great friend and a dynamic witness for Christ. Her life touched and blessed so many people. I will miss her so very much! God bless you Charles, Emily, Jon Paul and all your family. I'm so thankful to have known Candy Sue and to know I will see her again one day in Heaven.
Corliss Pruitt
February 26, 2010
Candy Sue will be missed by so many people. She touched many lives over the years. I am glad that I had the honor of our friendship starting in school and also knowing her mom and most of the family. May God Bless all of you and help you in this time of sorrow. I will pray for all of you.
Larry Green
February 26, 2010
Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.May you have comfort in knowing that you will be re-united with her again someday.Until then, your precious memories will sustain you.God Bless you All, Larry , Jean, Shelly and Larry Green, Talladega,Al
Vicky Poss
February 25, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kevin Campbell
February 25, 2010
Charles,
My deepest sympathy to your family. I'm sorry I could not pay my respects in person, but please know you and your family are in my prayers.
Bucks Wrecker Service
February 25, 2010
Sorry for your loss. Miss Candy Sue will be missed by all. She was a very sweet lady.
February 25, 2010
My deepest sympathy to all family members,of Candy Sue Cummings,she was a dear friend,just an all around good person anyone would like to know or be with,My Prayers Are With You All.
GOD BLESS MIKE THOMAS
Bobbie Bishop
February 25, 2010
Candy Sue was a great person and full of life. She will be missed by all, Her being a loyal War Eagle would bring a smile to any Alabama Fan. God knew he had a special Angel when he made her. My thoughts and prayers are with all Charles, Jon Paul, Emily,Karen Kay and all her Grand Babies..We will Miss you for a long time Candy Sue..LOL Bobbie Bishop and Family....
Mike Thomas
February 25, 2010
My deepest sympathy to all family members,of Candy Sue Cummings,she was a dear friend,just an all around good person anyone would like to know or be with,My Prayers Are With You All.
GOD BLESS MIKE THOMAS
ANN BROWN MOODY
February 25, 2010
CHARLES AND FAMILY, I'AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. HANG ON, GOD CAN BRING YOU ALL THROUGH. BELIEVE ME, WE KNOW.
Bobbie Thomas
February 25, 2010
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
February 25, 2010
Candy Sue Ponder was indeed one of the greatest girls I ever knew.. Always a cheerful smile and always ready to help anyone with their banking problems.. Regions Bank will not be the same without Candy Sue and we have also lost a loyal WAR EAGLE. I pray for the family and hope they are comforted knowing Candy Sue is with her LORD.. She is probably laughing and talking and having a good time in Heaven waiting on some of the rest of us to get there! God bless Candy Sue Ponder and the joy she brought to all who knew her.. Thanks, Candy Sue!! Faye Kemp
Jill Landers
February 25, 2010
To the family of Candy Sue Ponder. So sorry for your loss. She had touched so many lives and she will be truly missed by everyone. Will keep her in my thoughts and prayers as well as the family. God bless you all. Jill Machen Landers and family
mike phillips
February 25, 2010
God was having a real good day when he made Candy Sue...
moonpie
February 25, 2010
God was having a real good day when he made Candy Sue...
Hazel Moncus
February 25, 2010
Presbyterian Oaks Apartments staff members are thinking of you and your loss.Candy Sue was a good friend and working buddy she will be truly missed
Presbyterian Oaks Apts..
kimberly patton
February 25, 2010
May the gates of Heaven open wide for a true earthly angle to come inside,never a nicer person or friend.I know you will enter in.You will truely be missed. My heart goes out to the family.
Kimberly Patton
Johnna McGowan
February 25, 2010
Candy Sue was much loved by the community and will be sorely missed. I will remember her always with great fondness. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this time of loss. May God strengthen you all and give you peace.
February 25, 2010
Candy Sue and I worked at the Talladega National bank in the late 1970's. Many times ,I marvelled at her quick mind and her quick typing of bank account numbers that had to be programmed into a really fast computer. She had a quick mind ,and as quick as she was doing all that, she was just as easy going and humorous, and did not mind laughing , making others feel at ease around her. I knew her as a good friend, my mother's friend and I will never forget that laugh! I am an Alabama fan, but Candy Sue was a big Auburn fan. Maybe the biggest fan ever! I want to say , I loved Candy Sue, I will miss her so much. -Lisa Williamson
Rhonda Jackson
February 25, 2010
Candy Sue was a kind, caring, and funny lady and was always willing to help anyone. She was so helpful to my elderly mother and will be greatly missed in this community. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. She loved those grandbabies!
Dana Jacobs Stratton
February 25, 2010
I've known Candy Sue since childhood. Recently when I moved back to Talladega after the loss of my husband she there with words of encouragement and help. I'm going to miss her smile and our little Auburn/Alabama rivalry! My thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Ponder and the kids.
Timothy & LaResea Embry
February 25, 2010
To the family of Candy Sue: She was truly one of God's best. Placed for purpose and touching the lives of soooo many people who knew they could depend on her no matter what. She never judged your mistakes, but made you laugh through it. Her living was not in vain. Some things we may never understand, but trust that God will see you through this difficult season. Thank you all for sharing her with the us.
Denise Mitchell Rucker
February 25, 2010
Candy Sue always had a kind and loving heart. She was such a wonderful person.
February 25, 2010
I am very sorry for your loss. Candy was a nice lady. Praying for your family,
Jeb and Connie Fannin
Grady & Gail Reynolds
February 25, 2010
Central High School staff and students are thinking of you, Mr. Ponder, and your family in this time of sorrow. We are so sorry for your loss.
Patricia Goray Lawhorn
February 25, 2010
To the family of Candy Sue...I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Candy Sue will be greatly missed by all that knew her. May you find peace in your hearts as you hold onto the great memories you have as a family. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Sandra Davis
February 25, 2010
Charles, Jon Paul, and Emily: I am so very saddened by Candy Sue's passing. There are many, many fond memories of her and our work together with school, band boosters, and the community. Her thoughtful, compassionate, and caring nature will truly be missed by all the lives she touched in such a positive way. Have comfort in knowing that she was loved and respected by so many people.
Patsy Rich Weaver
February 25, 2010
Candy & I were long time e-mail friends. All though I never met her, I feel like I knew her just by sharing e-mails. We had a lot in common. To the family, sorry for your loss...and mine! I will truly miss her.
February 25, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with Candy Sue's family. She was a very sweet person. She helped me with my dads account at the bank. We know that she was a devot christian. Walter and Malinda Morrison, (Talladega, AL)
Amy M. Calhoun Bishop
February 25, 2010
I will cherish my memories of Candy Sue...just as I know you will do the same. Her smile that she so graciously shared with everyone she came in contact with, and her loving, caring heart. I don't believe I have ever smiled so hard, as when I did after seeing Candy Sue.
I pray for each of you...her family and friends, during this difficult time. She will be missed by all who knew her. May God Bless you all.
Robert and Rita Nabors
February 25, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Anita Hrster
February 25, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Shirley & Bill Harmon
February 25, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Doug & Angie Whaley
February 24, 2010
Candy Sue was a wonderful lady who will be missed greatly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Charles, and your family.
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