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Melinda Oakes Obituary

Melinda T. Oakes, 65, of West Chester, died Saturday, May 25, 2013, at the Neighborhood Hospice Inpatient Unit in West Chester.
She was the wife of Robert F. Oakes, with whom she had shared 31 years of marriage.
Born in Minneapolis, Minn., she was the daughter of the late Russell Thompson and the late Patricia Thompson.
Melinda had worked as a quality assurance specialist for more than 25 years at QVC.
She was a founding member of Beth Chaim Reform Congregation.
Melinda enjoyed crafts, making quilts and jewelry.
In addition to her husband, she is survived by her daughters, Laura Honig and Anna-Rachel Oakes; stepson, Matthew Scott Oakes; and grandchildren, Jacob Honig, Benjamin Honig and Jalen Oakes.
Relatives and friends are invited to her memorial service at 1 p.m. on Tuesday, May 28, at the Church of the Loving Shepherd, 1066 S. New St., West Chester, where a reception will follow the service.
Interment will be private.
Contributions may be made in her memory to the Chester County Hospital Foundation, 701 E. Marshall St., West Chester, PA 19380; or the American Cancer Society, 1626 Locust St., Attention Memorials, Philadelphia, PA 19103.
Arrangements are being handled by DellaVecchia, Reilly, Smith & Boyd Funeral Home Inc. of West Chester, 610-696-1181, www.DellaFH.com.

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Published by Daily Local News from May 27 to May 28, 2013.

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Penny Pace

May 30, 2013

Hold onto the wonderful memories you have of Melinda.

Ronnie DiGregorio

May 29, 2013

Melinda was a wonderful person and so great to work with, so sadly missed.

Ann Moran

May 28, 2013

Melinda was a wonderful, funny, bright and bubbly friend and coworker.My sympathy and prayers to her family.

Chris Alizio

May 28, 2013

It was a pleasure to know you for so many years. I'll never forget our trip down to Virginia for the NASCAR race. Driving Miss Daisy! You'll be missed greatly. God bless

Roseanne (Travers) and Nelson Neill

May 28, 2013

We are sorry to hear of your family's loss.

Frank Carter

May 27, 2013

Melinda, may you rest in peace. It was my honor to know & love you. You will be missed always. Sincerely, Frank

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