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Phyllis GARLOW Obituary
She was born on Dec. 2, 1951, in Norfolk, and had lived in Newport News for many years. Her greatest love and joy was graduating from Riverside Nursing School in 1984. Her nursing career touched many lives from Riverside Hospital to Brookside Home Care. She also was an angel to many at Virginia Oncology before Alzheimer's started to take her away from all who loved her.
She was preceded in death by her mother, Cella Manes Brady; and father, Colon Lee Brady.
She leaves behind her husband, Roger A. Garlow; a daughter, Shelly Mayfield (Terrah Jones and Josh); son, Robert Mayfield Jr. (Kristy); grandson, Robbie Mayfield; granddaughter, Brittany Mayfield; a sister, Ann Malik; and brothers, Tom Brady (Carol), and Lee Brady (Dottie).
A special heartfelt thanks to Gisele Bennafield (Garlow), Phyllis' special angel of Visiting Angels, and all the other angels; and, of course, thanks to Hospice Community Care, Sam, Trish, Brenda and Melissa.
There will be a memorial service at 1 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 12, 2011, at Weymouth Funeral Home. A reception will follow at RJ's Restaurant and Sports Bar.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in honor of Phyllis to Alzheimer's Association, Southeastern VA. Chapter, 6350 Center Dr., Suite 102, Norfolk, VA 23502; or American Legion, Post 992, P.O. Box 287, Mt. Morris, PA 15349.
Arrangements are by Weymouth Funeral Home. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Phyllis GARLOW
Ms Gisele Bennafield
November 3, 2025
Tinkerbell's Mom. It has been 14 years since you left & opted for a new home with a new body. No more sickness, no more pain. I miss you Phyllis...you have taught me so much from the time I was allowed to care for you. A heart of compassion was my greatest lesson & I owe it all to you. Continue to watch over your family. It's really growing. I miss & love you dearly.
November 12, 2011
Phyllis...miss you girlfriend...we did everything together growing up. GA's, Girl Scouts, riding the bus downtown to the library, giggling the whole way about the cute sailors...PJ parties at my house putting tooth paste on the lips of those that fell asleep...many, many good memories. See you in heaven girlfriend...you "woke" up in heaven on Thursday. I will see you again someday!
Sherry Hill Page
Lee Lillard
November 11, 2011
Roger, it has been many years and many Coast Guard events later but I remember Cookie well. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Lee Lillard (widow of L. Samuel Lillard).
Dot Brady
November 10, 2011
You will always be in my heart. I will continue to yearn for the years that Alzheimer's stole from us. I will never forget your laughter, your smile, and your love of life. One day we will meet again. Until then, know that you are loved and you are missed.
P.S. If you see my Dad, please give him a hug from me.
Gisele Bennafield
November 9, 2011
FOREVER IN MY HEART:MY SNICKERDOODLE-Phyllis Mayfield Garlow
Gary Lane
November 9, 2011
Roger,
Cher and I are absolutely heart broken because of the loss of Phyllis. You both have been great friends to us for quite some time. I hope time will be able to help you heal your sadness. She was a wonderful lady that loved you very much. We love you very much and want you to know that we are always here for you. Love, Deuce and Cher.
Shelly Mayfield
November 9, 2011
Sitting in a booth at Doumar's, you told me when this time came to be strong and focus on the time we shared. Your famous last words will stay with me forever, "life is not fair!" Although Alzheimer's robbed me of many years with you, the diagnosis made me very aware of our limited time we would have together. It was the hardest thing to watch you gradually fade away, but I have comfort knowing that I was able to spend so much time with you over the years. You were the greatest mother in the world! I love you, Tinker Bell. You will live in my heart forever.
Now it is your turn to watch over me.
mary nelson
November 9, 2011
I met Phyllis when she first found out she had alzheimers, and she and Roger came into regis to get her hair colored. The thing that I remember most is what a good spirit she had. She was a wonderful person and I always looked forward to seeing her and Roger come in the shop. I could tell how much they loved each other. Roger you are very special, Phyllis was blessed to have you ! You also helped me when I found out my dad also had alzheimers. He passed away this September, and I miss having him physically here but I know that both him and Phyllis are their old selves again.
Memory Walk October 22, 2011
Shelly Mayfield
November 9, 2011
Paula Peoples
November 9, 2011
Roger,
So sorry to hear about Phyllis. Thinking of you.
Paula
Sheila M. Camp
November 9, 2011
My heartfelt condolences go out to Roger and the rest of Phyllis' family and friends. Although I never met Phyllis in person, she was pretty much part of my everyday life, as her "special angel," Giselle would share in her daily love and care for Phyllis! I went through her good days and her bad days with Giselle and she was never far from my thoughts when I spoke to her! May God bless and keep you all and also to my friend Gisele for Phyllis will be deeply missed by her as well!
Joe Legat
November 8, 2011
Roger, So very sorry, If theres anything, call me.
Cindy Sorensen
November 8, 2011
Roger, I enjoyed working with Phyllis when whe was at Virginia Oncology, she was always so pleasant, caring and sweet. I know that her patients gathered alot of strength having her as their nurse. Cinsy Sorensen
Teri Brewer
November 8, 2011
Roger and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
(Memory People)
Donald Mc Cormick
November 8, 2011
Roger and family. Our heart and prayers go out to all of you. Wish I could be there for you.
Kathy Bostwick
November 8, 2011
Roger please take comfort in knowing she is at peace and you were her angel on earth - praying for you during this difficult time my friend
Wanda Strickland
November 8, 2011
Mr. Garlow:
I am so sorry to hear about Mrs. Garlow. You are in my prayers and thoughts. The few times I was able to come and help take care of her were very special.
Visting Angel Wanda
Larry Harty
November 8, 2011
What a beautiful picture of Phyllis. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this awful time. Your loving support through these tough years is just amazing Roger. We will all miss her dearly. Lee and I are here for you should you need anything. God Bless….Larry and Lee.
Harry Vaughan
November 8, 2011
Garbanzo,
I'm here. Take care of yourself. Harry
Gary and Jenny Cleary
November 8, 2011
Roger, Phyllis was a beautiful lady, inside and out. We are so sorry for your lost. We love and miss you.
Hazel Urban
November 8, 2011
Roger, we will keep you in our prayers and in our hearts during this time of sorrow. Wish we could be there with you. Take care.
Cassandra Bieber
November 8, 2011
Phyllis was a beautiful woman who touched my life in a way only she could. Her husband Roger stood beside her through it all and his love for her never waivered. I am grateful for the friendship I have with both of these people. My heart grieves with all of Phyllis' family and friends. I am blessed to have both Roger and Phyllis touch my life, and my heart.
Harry Urban
November 8, 2011
Roger
Phyllis walked the walk to a better life. Always treasure those memories. Love, peace and hugs
David Stewart
November 8, 2011
The suffering is over and the time of peace is at hand. Bless you Roger and your family. Phyllis will always be loved and remembered.
Betsy Smith
November 8, 2011
Roger-my sincere condolences. I am thinking of you and wish I wasn't so far away. I know that Phyllis is smiling down at us all. Bless you and I'll be thinking of you.
Steve/ Joan Hambrecht
November 8, 2011
Roger and family,
Phyllis was one of the most beautiful, caring, loving, spirited women I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. She will be missed by so many people as she has touched more lives than she will ever know. My thoughts and prayers go out to you as I know this woman was the love of your life and will be dearly missed every day.
Joan and Steve Hambrecht
Karen Jackson
November 8, 2011
Roger, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in all of your precious memories of Phyllis. God bless you!
Bob and Deidra Kuebler
November 8, 2011
We are truly sad that Phyllis is gone Roger, but very happy that her pain and sufferings are over. Her good work has just begun; her smile is everlasting. Know that she has not left us Roger, she's there, just in the other room, and will be waiting with open arms when it's our time to visit.
Carletta Bush
November 8, 2011
Phyllis was such a special lady, so full of love and laughter. Today, she is in heaven, standing in the sonshine of the love of the Father, healthy and whole, and, I am sure, laughing! Love you, cuz, Carletta and Robert
November 8, 2011
While remembering Phyllis on this day, I am comforted by so many memories. May God be with you,Rodger, and all your family.(Lowell T.)
Leeanne Chames
November 8, 2011
Roger, I am so sorry for your loss. Phyllis will never be farther than your heart, and I'm praying that your sweet memories of her and the life you had together will bring you comfort now.
Peace, and Blessings..
Dave Jarrett
November 8, 2011
I'm so sorry Roger, she is in a better place full of joy and love.
Charlotte Bamsch
November 8, 2011
Roger and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know Phyllis must have been a very special lady because she was surrounded by such love that only one deserving of that love could earn. Peace and blessings.
Charlotte (Memory People)
Rick Phelps
November 8, 2011
When someone you love becomes a Memory, that Memory becomes a Treasure....
Ms.Gisele Bennafield
November 8, 2011
To The Loved Ones Of Phyllis: 1Th 4:13-14 Tells Us:But I do not want you to be ignorant,brethren,concerning those who have fallen asleep,lest you sorrow as others who have no hope.For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again,even so God will bring with him those who sleep in Jesus. This has been a long road for Phyllis but she endured to the end.She is free from this horrible disease that has robbed her of life but she is now resting.I pray that God will comfort you, strenthen you & give you his Peace, which surpasses All understanding. I Love You All & I am Truely Going To Miss My Friend{PMG}
Anna
November 8, 2011
Roger,
Your memories will keep you untill you meet again..Stay strong, keep your head up. Know that you are loved by many.
Robin Johnson
November 8, 2011
Bobby,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Although, I never had the pleasure of meeting your mother, I know she was a special person, just as you are. I hope all of the good memories you shared with her, will help you during this difficult time. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love to you and Kristy.
May God Bless you all,
Robin
Donna & Smitty Smith
November 8, 2011
Roger, this is a beautiful picture of Phyllis. The way we all remember bubbly and always a smile for everyone. We will miss her dearly. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Just think of this way once she passes over the rainbow bridge she will be like her old self no pain and seeing everyone she knows. Take Care, Donna and Smitty
Don & Eleanor Hubbard
November 8, 2011
Such a loss. There have many prayers for Phyllis during her confinement and for you Roger. We love you. Don and Eleanor
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