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Arlene STEFFENS Obituary

WILLIAMSBURG - Arlene Chapman Steffens, 100, passed away on Dec. 31, 2009, in Williamsburg. She was a resident of Patriots Colony.
She was born in East Moriches, Long Island, N.Y., on September 25, 1909, the youngest child of Joseph and Welcome Eva Chapman. She attended Center Moriches High School, transferring her senior year to Patchogue High School, where she graduated in 1926. In 1929, at age 19, she graduated from Plattsburgh State Teachers College, Plattsburgh N.Y. Teaching High School commercial business subjects, she initially taught in South Fallsburg and Philmont, N.Y. From 1932 to 1937, she taught at Hampton Bays, Long Island. While there she coached the five year straight championship girl's basketball team. She eventually taught in Center Moriches and Eastport, N.Y.; Indian Head and Highpoint, Md.; Roosevelt High School in Washington D.C.; and Berkley, Calif. She lived a full and interesting life, living and making friends in eight states.
An early aviator, in 1932, she earned her private pilots certificate, flying from her brother's "flying field." Arlene loved her dogs, playing bridge, gardening and golf. She was a member of St. Bede Catholic Church.
She was preceded in death by her husband of 70 years, George Brown Steffens.
She is survived by her son, Rodney Chapman Steffens of Williamsburg, Va.; her nephews, Jacque Chapman of Wallingford, Conn., and Richard Smid of Brattleboro, Vt.
A graveside service will be conducted at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, Center Moriches, New York.
In lieu of flowers, please send memorial donations to St. Bede Catholic Church, Williamsburg, Va. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Jan. 3 to Jan. 4, 2010.

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Tom Mylum

January 15, 2010

Rod, sorry to here about your mother passing away, but was talking to Cliff and he told me. Those we love don't go away, They walk beside us every day, Unseen, unheard, but always near, Still loved, still missed, And very dear.
Tom & Peggy Mylum (Williamsburg, Va.)

Russ Panneton

January 8, 2010

Rod,

Doug passed on to me the news of your mom's passing. Please accept my thoughts and prayers for her passage into whatever comes next. Hopefully she passed painlessly and your surviving family is doing well. I can remember her being so friendly from visits to your home on Sherwood drive when we were kids. I am so impressed that she had a pilot's license! Was that an initial source of interest for you? Take care, Russ

Doug Kitchener

January 5, 2010

Rod, please accept my condolences on your mom's passing. She was a wonderful lady, I always felt at home at your house. It was a privilege to have known her. Get in touch if there's anything I can do.

Best,

Doug

Peggy Lewis

January 5, 2010

Rod,
Although I never had the honor to meet your mother, I know that she was a very special lady from the stories that my daughter has shared. May your happy memories sustain you throughout these most difficult days ahead. You are in my thoughts and my prayers.

John Floyd

January 4, 2010

My deapest sympathy to the family. I worked with her as a caregiver in Williamsburg and found her to be very kind hearted and easy going. To her son Rodney, I can tell you she looked forward to your visits, and always spoke of you with a smile on her face.

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