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Cornelius Ivey Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - Cornelius Carver Ivey, 59, passed away peacefully on Thursday, Nov. 5, 2009, at Norfolk Health Care Center. He was born in Halifax County, N.C., and had been a resident of Newport News for most of his life.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Willie D. and Mrs. Mildred B. Ivey.
Cornelius leaves behind three brothers, Ray (Lynette), Bernard (Phyllis), Keith Sr.; four sisters, Carolyne DeBerry (Wayne), Maria (fiance' Earl), Deborah of Newport News, Va., and Faye Preston (Vada) of Hampton, Va.; a host of uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, cousins, relatives and friends. Special thanks to Newmarket Davita Dialysis.
Viewing will be held from noon to 7 p.m. Monday, Nov. 9, 2009, at M. E. Fisher Funeral Home, 2117 Madison Ave. N.N., VA. A Homegoing service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Nov. 10, 2009, at M.E. Fisher Chapel, with Elder James Wright, of Perfecting Saints Ministry, Officiating. Burial will follow in Hampton Memorial Gardens.
Service of celebration and remembrance are entrusted to M.E. Fisher Funeral Home. 757-245-3302. www.mefisherfuneralhome.com. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Nov. 7 to Nov. 9, 2009.

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The Toombs Family

Audrey Toombs

November 11, 2009

To the Ivey Family:

Our hearts are sadden at the loss of Roland...but rest assured we all have to go the same road one day. Roland and Miss Mildred were a joy to be around and they enriched your life every time you saw them. The world would be a better place if we had more people in it like the Iveys. Rest in peace Roland and we know you and your Mom are rejoicing with The Angels.

Janet Whitaker

November 10, 2009

To The Ivey Family,
Extending Deep and Heartfelt sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your Brother Roland. Many thoughts, prayers and Love will be with you through these sorrowful days. Praying that God will grant you strength, courage and peace. Love Thelma Neal and Family

November 10, 2009

U will be greatly missed 4 your outgoing ways! The Justice Family

Carolyn Lockett

November 9, 2009

To Maria and family, I was so sorry to hear that Cornelius had passed. I am in Florida at this time, so I will not be able to attend his services. However, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cornelius and I go way back, and I will never forget him. God bless you all. Carolyn

Lynne Harden

November 9, 2009

I would like to send my condolences to the Ivey family. I had the pleasure of knowing Mr. Cornelius by way of hi sister living next to my grandmother. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. May God keep you strong and your fond memories of your loved one keep you smiling.

Denyce Tate Clark

November 9, 2009

His conversation, smile and laughter will be truly missed. His humor and honesty to his friends can't be replaced. May your family be filled with his love and sweet memories to brighten each day. God Bless You...Denyce Tate Clark

Priscilla Guynn

November 9, 2009

To Carolyne DeBerry and Family May God be with you and your Family.

Love You
Priscilla Guynn

Rhonda Glover & FAMILY

November 9, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Bazemore and Scott Family

November 9, 2009

Carolyn,
We were sorry to hear the news in the passing of your brother. Our prayers are thoughts are with you at this time. May God's blessings continue to be with you and your family.

Keith (Lil'Keith) Ivey

November 9, 2009

I will always love my Uncle Cornelius which was like a brother to me more than a uncle. We have been through so much together and now you're in the hands of christ. I will miss you and momma! I love you

Kim Wheeler-Jones

November 9, 2009

To the Ivey Family

I remember when my family opened a dry cleaners on Ivy Avenue years ago. Cornelius was a blessing to me. Being that I was a young lady, Cornelius used to check on me all the time and told me that "I'm not going to let anyone mess with you". He became friends with my entire family. We will miss him dearly he was a great person to everyone and could dress very well.

Lendora Dale

November 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The Crisman Family

November 9, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Cornelius. He was such a free spirit and everyone loved him. May GOD continue to bless the family. Keep his memories close to your heart. GOD BLESS!

Ms. Loretta Anderson

November 9, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Daniel Goldstone

November 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Karen Manley

November 9, 2009

Carolyn, Faye and The Ivey Family, I know that your heart is heavy but just remember Cornelius is in a better place. May God continue to bless you and your family during this very difficult time.

Pamela Thomas

November 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 9, 2009

To The Ivey Family,I Love myself some cornelius and i will miss him very much.I was once his Medical Transpor-tation Driver. and a he was a honest friend. Cornelius attend Dialysis with my sister helen woodson and my brother-in-law walter woodson which has also has also passed away. Just keep praying and God will take care of you all i am a witness. Love You All Sandra Faulcon Flood

Linda Pretlow

November 9, 2009

I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the Ivey family. I met Cornelius back in the 60s and everytime that I would run into him, whether on the streets, store or wherever, he was always the same ole humorous Cornelius.

I will truely miss running into him and sharing a lot of laughs.

Tracy Marks

November 9, 2009

To the family of Cornelius , my heart
felt sympathy goes out to you all at this time of sorrow. He will be greatly missed.

Phyliss Washington

November 9, 2009

To the Ivey family, sorry for your loss of such a amazing person. My prayers go out to you and your family at this time. Sorry i could not come down for the homegoing of Cornelius,but my daughter Ree will be there for me and my family.

Ree Williams

November 9, 2009

To the Ivey family,my prayers are with the family in this most difficult time.He was a great friend and will truly be missed.

Jesse James

November 9, 2009

To The Ivey Family: Cornelius and I go back as far as first -5th grade,then on to Carver High. When I saw him earlier this year at his aunts funeral we laughed and laughed when we saw each other and as always we laughed about the good times we had in class growing up...When I saw him in Wal-mart I hugged him and told him I was praying for him to get well soon...my heart will always be full of joy whenever I think of him...He always made me laugh ,when you come out of Newsome Park there's always a soft spot for those you grow up with, we never judge, our only thoughts are "Are you alright if not what can I do to help"I can still see him when we were in the fourth grade laughing about my red socks. I couldn't find my socks that morning and my mother made me wear my sister's socks to school and a week later the same thing happened to him .(hahahahahha)I'm going to miss him but something he left for all of us is a smile whenever we get sad,a laugh whenever we want to cry and a friend whenever we want to think of him.....To the family he will always be thought of as a smiling light as he was....God bless you.....his friend Jesse James..."68" Carver High School....

The Mizell Family

November 9, 2009

Cornelius has been a family friend for many years. He ignited many laughs and smiles. His compassion and love for life will always be remembered. May God comfort the entire Ivey family as they truly have lost a special one.Rest in peace Cornelius. Your work has been done.

SHARON ALSTON/ FAMILY

November 9, 2009

TO THE IVEY FAMILY,
WE SEND OUR CONDOLENCES, CORNELIUS TOUCH MANY HEART'S AND HE WILL BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN, MAY U ALWAY'S SMILE WHEN U TALK OR THINK OF HIM.AND HOW HE COULD HAVE THE WHOLE ROOM IN TEAR'S WITH HIS SINCE OF HUMOR .

Cynthia Vaughan

November 9, 2009

To The Ivey Family,

Our hearts are sadden by the passing of Cornelius, may God strengthen you The Walker family Kim. Carolyn, Debra,Anita My Sisters and The Vaughan Family (Cynthia)

Sandra Woodridge-Coney

November 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mary Davis

November 8, 2009

To the Ivey Family,

May God comfort you during these difficult times. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sorry I can not be with you.

Mary Davis and daughter

Moses Avent - Drumgold

November 8, 2009

Sorry to hear of Cornelius passing. He was a wonderful cousin and will be missed. The family is in my thoughts and prayers.

November 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in the passing of your loved one. To know Cornelius was to love him. My family loved him and I can still remember my mother Linda Wortham telling my sister and I that Cornelius used to babysit us when we were young. I can still remember that beautiful smile he always had when he came to Grandma Bootsie house. Keep the memories in your heart and in your thoughts and may God continue to keep and Bless your Family.
The Wortham and Greene Family

Irma Edge

November 8, 2009

Truly Roland loved all his Brothers and Sisters with all his heart. To know Roland is to love him as the loving person he was. He could always bring laugher to you when you did not feel much like laughing. I send sincere condolence to the Ivey family for we all loved Roland but God loved him best. Roland will deeply be missed by all. My last words with Roland was he loved all his brothers and sisters, neice and nephews. God Bless the Ivey Family my Prayers are will You.

terry smith

November 8, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Toy Mitchell

November 8, 2009

I have known Cornelius since I was a little girl, when he and my cousin Paula Futrell use to hang out. He would always come over my house with her or my Great aunt Dee-Dee Mines... I just wanted to extend my prayers and comfort out to his family..

Sherri McIver

November 8, 2009

May God keep you in his care in your time of grief.

Reanard Britt

November 8, 2009

To all my Cousins,
I send you prayers of love and healing for the life and loss of your brother, Roland. I still can remember the laughter Roland brought to various family gatherings, which I truely miss. Although I won't be able to attend his homegoing, know that my heart is with you. Remember there is no sorrow that GOD cannot heal. I would also like to propose that the 3rd generation branches from the roots of Grand-daddy Love and Grandma Celia (there are over 30 of us) plan a family reunion for 2010. I will be in contact. Love ya,

November 8, 2009

Cecelia A. Harrell I send my condolences to you all at such a time like this....RAT

Jacqueline Wheeler

November 8, 2009

May God bless,strengthen and keep each of you during this time. May you find comfort in the precious memories that you have of Cornelious. My prayers are with you.

Lena Wilson-Brown

November 7, 2009

To The Ivey Family:
Cornelius has been like family for many decades. His sense of humor, was one of a kind, and to know him was to love him.
Our extended condolences are extended in the loss of your loved one. May all those wonderful memories you have of your beloved, brother, and uncle strengthen you, and guide you. Know that God makes no mistakes, you loved him, but God loved him more. Ms. Mildred is greeting him with open arms, and no more pain for him here on Earth.

The Moore, Wilson, and Brown Families

Debra Denise Proctor

November 7, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Michelle Johnson

November 7, 2009

TO the Ivey family COrnelius was like family to me and my children. I feel a great lost in my life. His smile and humor always made me smile when times were hard. I know he is at the gates of heaven and smiling down on all of us. I will miss him greatly

November 7, 2009

To the Ivey family Roland has given me plenty of laughs and I am very sorry to hear of his passing. I loved his smile and his spirit.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Love Mollie,Maria,Frezzle,Dina,Felecia,Hubert,Thomas Martin and Percell Family

Annette Crawley

November 7, 2009

I'm sorry to hear of Cornelius' passing. He is now in the gates of Heaven with his mom and our Lord. No more hurt, nor pain. Rest dear friend, you will be missed but never forgotten.

Lovingly Submitted

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