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David Barnes Obituary

HAMPTON - David Louis Barnes, 68, died Wednesday, Oct. 21, 2009.
A native and lifelong resident of Hampton, David was a 1960 graduate of Hampton High School and worked 27 years until retiring as an electrician from the Yorktown Naval Weapons Station in 1997.
David was a member of the Newport News Moose Lodge #1119, St. Tammany Lodge #5 AF&AM, the Forks of the River Hunt Club, and the VA Peninsula A.P.A.
He was preceded in death by his wife, Judith L. Barnes; and father, Louis C. Barnes. David is survived by his children, Steve Barnes, Paula Y. Riley and Tammy A. Smith; his mother, Doris Barnes; sister, Denna Zacharias; brother, George Barnes; five grandchildren, one great-grandchild; several nieces, nephews and his extended family.
A funeral service will be conducted at 1:30 p.m. Sunday, Oct. 25, 2009, at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, with interment to follow in Parklawn Memorial Park. The family will receive friends from 4 to 6 p.m. Saturday, at the funeral home.
Memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, American Heart Association or the American Diabetes Association. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Oct. 23 to Oct. 24, 2009.

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Frances Lee Lane

October 24, 2009

To David and Judy's children: I am your mother's cousin. My parents were Pauline and Wilbur; and Aunt Sarah was my daddy's sister. I remember seeing you all as little kids, but have not seen you in many years. I am so sorry to hear about your father. I remember seeing him a few times when we all were much younger. With all of Aunt Sarah's family gone, I just wanted to reach out from your mother's family and let you know someone is thinking of you in a special way at this sad time. Wishing you God's blessings and peace. Your second cousin, Frances Lee Thomas Lane

October 24, 2009

Mrs.Barnes and family, My sincere sympathy-David and your family are such dear memories of LaGuard Dr and my Hampton childhood.
Mickie (Marshall) Koch
Smith Mountain Lake ,Huddleston Va

Margaret Howard Davis

October 24, 2009

I remember that David could do almost anything. He worked in the garden, sold oysters, painted a car, scraped the paint off the house and played with all of us on LaGuard Drive. I am sorry to hear about David, but the wonderful memories we had will keep David in our thoughts.

julie waltrip

October 24, 2009

my deepest sympathy to all the barnes family , lots of memories of all of you living on roane dr. i thought a lot of david and judy they were good neighbors, that house on roane will always be the barnes no matter who lives there. my prayers are with you at this time. julie bond waltrip

Jamie G

October 24, 2009

Steve , Sorry to hear about your Dad! God Bless!

Teresa/Anthony & Chokin on the 8 Team

October 23, 2009

Tammy and Family,
I was very sadden to hear of your father's passing. He was a great man with a soft voice. I got to know Dave the last session that Ivy Farms was opened, for he was on my team.(We lost in the final round for Vegas)Know that he hurts and suffers no more. For he live a long life and has now entered his eternal resting place, a place we all must go one day. Hold your head up high for he knew you loved him and was there for him. He will forever be looking down and watching over you. Be BLESSED ! ! !

Melissa Burkham

October 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.

Sarah Barnes

October 23, 2009

It is nice to read all of these messages and memories from those who knew my grandpa. On behalf of our family, we appreciate everyone's prayers and thoughtfulness at this difficult time.

October 23, 2009

To Tammy and family,

I am real sorry about your dad. He was an awesome man. I will never forget him. He will be sadly missed.

Allison Fletcher and Family

Louise Parham

October 23, 2009

Paula,Steve,Tammy and A Doris,
You have my love and prayers each day
as you strive to deal with your loss.
Lean on God He is there for you.
I love you all, Louise

John & Lisa Souhrada

October 23, 2009

Tammy and family, we are so sorry for your loss.....our thoughts and prayers are with you....we will miss him shooting pool!

Gloria Copenhaver

October 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Anna Howard May

October 23, 2009

Mrs. Barnes, Denna, and George - I am so sorry for your loss. I happily remember playing in your yard on LaGuard Drive with David educating all the younger children and keeping us out of danger. What a wonderful time. What wonderful memories. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

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