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Ethel ARNOLD Obituary

HAMPTON - Ethel A. Arnold, passed to eternal life on Dec. 22, 2010. She was the widow of Lt. Col. Albert Arnold (U.S. Army, Ret.).
Ethel was born in Bridgeport, Conn., on Aug. 4, 1908. She moved to Brooklyn, N.Y., at an early age. While living in Brooklyn she retired in 1941 after working 17 ½ years at the Federal Reserve Bank of New York. She was a former member of the Ladies Auxiliary of the General Phillip H. Sheridan Council of the Knights of Columbus and a member of the Long Island Chapter of the Columbiettes K of C, both in Brooklyn.
Ethel became a resident of Newport News in August 1950. She worked 28 years at St. Vincent de Paul School/Peninsula Catholic High School as the secretary, bookkeeper and office manager, retiring in 1987. She was a member of St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church since her arrival in Newport News and was a member of its Senior Citizens.
Also preceding Ethel in death was her mother and father, stepfather, three sisters and one brother.
Surviving are her loving sons, Albert and his wife, Jo-Ann of Newport News, their three sons, Albert and his wife, Beth of New Kent and their sons, Connor and Ethan, Douglas and his fiancEe, Susanne, Matthew and his wife, Jenni and their daughter, Abigail both of Newport News, her son, Thomas and his wife, Ann of Hampton and their daughter, Anna Petrolia and her husband, Charlie of Yorktown and their daughter, Brianna. Also surviving are her sister-in-law, Mary Burke of Staten Island, N.Y., and a number of nieces, nephews and a host of friends.
The family wishes to give special thanks to the staff of the Hidenwood and to the Odyssey Hospice for their care and love.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to St. Vincent de Paul Church Back Door Ministry, 230 33rd St., Newport News, 23607 or Peninsula Catholic High School, 600 Harpersville Rd., Newport News, 23601.
The family will receive friends from 3 to 5 p.m. Monday at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home in downtown Hampton and from 1 to 2 p.m. Tuesday at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church. Immediately following at 2 p.m. a Mass of the Resurrection will be celebrated by Rev. John J. Dorgan. Interment will be in Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.
Arrangements are by R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, 245 S. Armistead Ave. in Hampton, 757-723-3191. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Dec. 26 to Dec. 28, 2010.

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Elizabeth Cunningham

January 3, 2011

What a lovely lady she was and I know you will miss her deeply. May your hearts be lightened with the peace of Christ's love for her and for you.

January 2, 2011

My prayers are with you. I remember all my years at St Vincent and Peninsula Catholic how she helped me get through some rough times, What an honor to have known her. Terese L Colton-Panecaldo

Lynn Didrickson O'Toole

January 1, 2011

We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Mrs. Arnold was so kind and helpful during our 2 years at PCHS, and I enjoyed seeing her at one of our Class of '74 reunions. I know she will be greatly missed by the many people she touched in her lifetime.

Curtis & Juanita Brown

December 30, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Janel Cutler Revier

December 28, 2010

My heartfelt sympathy and fondest memeories of a life that touched so many through the years. She will be remembered.

Tomeka Watkinson

December 28, 2010

Ethel was such a lovely lady. It was an honor to have known her.

Bill and Debbie Vaccarelli and Staff, Danny's Deli

December 28, 2010

We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our hearts and prayers.

Joan SEDBERRY

December 27, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Your mother was very special. May your memories of her give you comfort at this time.
Sincerely,
Joan Kearns Sedberry and George Sedberry

Teresa & Brian

December 27, 2010

Really wish we could be there. Alas, God had a different plan and gave us a snow storm. I have so many fond memories of Aunt Ethel, including all of the family visits up north to Staten Island and Freehold during the summer, weddings, funerals & birthdays. We will miss her. Thomas and Albert, we hope you are all hanging in there during this difficult time. May all your fond memories comfort you at this time. Love you all.

Lauren Hill

December 27, 2010

Such a wonderful woman she will never be forgotten

Beverly Lehman

December 27, 2010

Thinking of the family; remembering your mom; and recalling fond memories at St Vincent's. Love and Prayers

Danny Malarkey

December 26, 2010

God bless her. She was like a second mom to us growing up. Hard to think she is gone. She will be missed. Love Danny Malarkey and Family.

Danny Malarkey

December 26, 2010

God bless her.She was like our second mom growing up.I know she's at the gates now but it's hard to believe she won't be around, I'll always love her. Love Danny Malarkey and Family.

Lisa Malarkey

December 26, 2010

Arnold Family,
Sure have a lot of fond memories of your mom and grandmother. She sure was a good friend to Mother and that we'll always remember and appreciate. God Bless you all. Wish I could be there. Will be in spirit. Love to you all. Lisa and Danny and Fanily

Maggie Mamer

December 26, 2010

A grand lady who taught me much - Thank Mrs. Arnold!

Justin (Tina) Hayman

December 26, 2010

Albert, Tom, Joann,
A real matriarch has passed! She will be missed by so many, especially at St. Vincent's, where she was an integral presence. Her obvious love and pride for you her family was an inspiration to us all. After over 100 years on the planet, she surely earned her wings in Heaven! I send love to her on her journey there and also to each of you... tina

pat behrens

December 26, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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