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F. Brayboy Obituary
Strong Christian family foundation and principles were the cornerstone that guided Frederick Edward Brayboy's belief system. These same values shaped his life and allowed him to obtain a very fulfilling level of peace to the very last minute of his departure.
At an early age he became a member of Friendship Baptist Church in Aiken, S.C. Upon moving to Newport News, Va., he became an active member of Bethel Temple Assembly of God and served faithfully with the Usher and Abounding Grace Ministries.
He was a 1966 graduate of Martha Schofield High School, received his Bachelors from Hampton Institute and his Masters of Education from The College of William & Mary.
He was employed with Newport News Public Schools for over 29 years in alternative and continuing education and central office administration. In the interim, he worked in substitute administration. He came out of retirement in 2005 to become Principal of Newport News Juvenile Detention School.
Ed leaves to cherish his memories, his wife, Elaine B. Brayboy; his sons, Rahsaan (Akilah) Brayboy of Atlanta, Ga., Ade (Shonda) Brayboy of Newport News, Va., and Kysii Ingram-Brayboy of Atlanta, Ga.; five granddaughters, Tyler, Chelsea, Imani, Sade and Stacy; his sister, Audrey T. R. Haigler-Kirven of Florence, S.C.; nieces, cousins, other relatives and friends.
A viewing will begin Thursday (today) at 1 p.m. followed by visitation, wake, and Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Memorial Service at 6 p.m. at O. H. Smith & Son Funeral Home Chapel.
A funeral service will be held 4 p.m. Friday, Sept. 21, at Bethel Temple Assembly of God, 1705 Todds Lane, Hampton. There will be a private burial held at a later date.
Arrangements are entrusted to O. H. Smith & Son Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for F. Brayboy
Elaine Brayboy
November 29, 2012
ALTHOUGH YOU CAN'T BE WITH US.
WE'RE TRULY NOT APART, UNTIL THE FINAL BREATH WE TAKE.
YOU'LL BE LIVING OUR HEARTS.... LOVE YOU FOREVER
Rahsaan Brayboy
November 27, 2012
Dad,
Remembering you today. Time has gone by, but the imprint of your legacy remains etched in all of our hearts. Today I am reminded of what you told me once - to be a man and persevere. As I think of manhood, it means to rise to a level of God-given realization of destiny and purpose for yourself. The days are a little bit easier now as compared to the start of this Guestbook, but never the less I press on in life whenever I miss you. I'm a little bit older and wiser, and appreciate things more and more. You were/are such a blessing. Love your son,
Ade Brayboy
June 3, 2010
Happy Birthday Dad!!! I miss you. Love,
Akilah Brayboy
June 3, 2010
We are celebrating your life today. Thank you so much for all the love and laughs.
We miss you dearly!
Ade Brayboy
April 3, 2010
It's a beautiful Saturday morning. It is the day before we will celebrate "Resurrection Day" when Jesus rose from the grave. I reminds me of the day your spirit rose from your earthly body to be with the Lord. There is not a day that goes by that I don't forget your love and sacrifice for our family. I make it a point to remember your example of Christ and make sure my family doesn't forget you! Love your son,
Greg & Grace Lamb
October 30, 2009
To Missy:
continue to hold on to those special moments and memories of Ed. He was a grest person and will never be forgotten. We don't understand WHY things happens as they do, but we can be assured that we must trust God even when we don't understand. You both have blessed us in so many ways and I want to thank You.
For His eyes is on the sparrow....
Greg & Grace
Greg & Grace Lamb
October 30, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
September 21, 2009
TO MY FRIEND,MY LOVER, MY HUSBAND, AS I type this tribute to you, I still can't believe you are gone. I know that I can no longer hold you,talk to you, laugh with you or you looking at me with those huge, beautiful brown eyes. I feel so surrounded by your presence. I loved you so much that I can't even begin to describe how much. I am so grateful that we always said the words "I Love You". I know that God watches over all His children and nothing happens without it being in His perfect His will."Not," for you to decide to be with the Lord on that precious evening of September 18th,it had to have been a wonderful transition. For all those years we had been discussing God and making Him a part of our lives, you now know what we were talking about. My heart is rejoicing that you are with Him. It was truly a privilege that God chose me to be your wife. I can truly say this from my heart. If it took this sudden illness for you to sacrifice your life, it was the will of God so that others may know Christ and come where you are "Baby." Well, I am in agreement with God and you. I WILL meet you there! Love you with all my heart, Your loving wife
the hiphop chef
September 21, 2009
I meet your father Once ... this was a long time ago we all had food and ate together.
Kysii Ingram
September 19, 2009
On this special day. I pull out my memory banks how great a father you have been. Not everyone was so lucky to have a man of such stature, integrity, wit, character in their lives. There was never a day that went by where we didnt smile, speak of something innovative / thought provoking. You were the cornerstone of the family and molded and shaped an image you laid out for us to live up to. Of course you will be missed but never forgotten, and not even "missed" because we each carry a part of you in our hearts and manifest that piece daily. We love you.....And continue to honor you as one of God's sons....
Thank you
Rahsaan Brayboy
September 18, 2009
Dad,
You are loved and missed so much. Thank you for being the best father and role model I could ever have.
Akilah Brayboy
September 18, 2009
Time continues on just as the great memories we have of Ed in our hearts. We miss him dearly. I was just thinking of how he would always encourage me on the days I especially needed a word from the Lord. Such a blessing to your life and to ours. Take courage and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you...
We love you...
Melissa Spielberger
September 17, 2009
Missy,
Ed will be missed but he is still so very much alive in our hearts. He was an amazing man. He centered on God and family and still had plenty of time to nurture others. He touched us all. He was always exactly what we needed him to be, a mentor, a friend, someone to make us laugh. He made me laugh almost everytime we spoke. He is alive with us as we share his stories and Ed continues to make me laugh even now. Missy, I love when we talk about the crazy things he did and look at old pictures. I will think of him often and smile when I do.
Angela Lawrence
September 16, 2009
Missy,
As the second anniversary of our beloved brother's passing approaches, please know that Donald and I will always there for you. We are blessed to have been a part of Ed's life for over 35 years; along the way we have some wonderful memories to hold on to. I can say without any doubt, Ed was the love your life and vis versa. You and his boys were the center piece of his life. I pray that the family unit that you and Ed have nurtured all these years remains strong and serves as a powerful example to my nephews, Kysii, Rayshaan and Ade. You have always been there for these young men. I pray that they understand the huge void you have in your life without their father. In any case, God will take care of you my dear sister. To our brother Ed, aka "Egor", we miss you terribly, but God needed you more. Forever in our hearts...
Kysii Ingram
September 15, 2009
And as the day nears to my father's memorial I'd like to post a fitting poem that spoke of the rememberance of a great man who kept everyone smiling.
Miss Me - But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road,
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room;
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little - but not too long
and not with your head bowed low,
Remember the love that we once shared.
Miss Me - But Let Me Go.
For this is a journey we all must take,
And each must go alone.
It's all part of the Master's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart,
go to the friends we know.
Bury our sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss Me - But Let Me Go.
Ruth Bell
September 15, 2009
FROM THE HEART OF YOUR "Mother-in-Law"Ed lived a fruitful christian life. He loved life and people. With his great sense of humor,he would liven up any gathering. Anyone that could call him friend was truly blessed. He was a loving, caring son-in-law. I WILL MEET YOU THERE!" Love you with all my heart, Mom Bell
Linda Wilson
September 14, 2009
Dear Missy,
Eventually life test us all. There isn't a human being alive who has not faced defeat. The question that we must all ask ourselves is not: How are we to avoid pain? But rather: When sorrow comes, how can we muster the resources to recover from the pain? I did not know personally Mr. Brayboy, however I have been touched by his love just by knowing you and with just that I know he was a wonderful man. Missy I share with you as you gracefully perservere on this journey of recovery and understanding. I say to you as I ask God to help Me...To Remember: God, what I fear most is forgetting him. I've lost his presence in my life, I will not lose his presence in my mind, my heart, and my soul. Yes, Missy, Remember it all...his touch, his smell, the look in his eyes. Your conversations, your silent moments, even your disagreements. Remember him in all his complexity, in all his imperfection, strengths and weaknesses. Remember Missy, as you make your way through your busy and sometimes lonely days, may your thoughts of him lead you back to times of smiles and laughter. Let your tears and pain be eased by the comfort of his memory. It is okay to cry...whenever...But REMEMBER to carry the lessons he taught with you always and live upp to the example he set for you...And you do--I see it in your smile as you speak of him, I see it in your eyes and know of his spirit and strength. So you see...he lives; just as Larry still lives within me and I recover and live but Always REMEMBER...and.. TREASURE your days you shared together.
Much Love To You...May God continue to watch over you with gentleness, with love as he strengthens and comfort now and always.
The Word of God says:
Be Strong and of good Courage, and do it: fear not, nor be dismayed: for the Lord God, even my God, will be with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee, until thou has finished all the work for the service of the house of the Lord.(1Chr28:20)
Your friend Always,
Tracey Williams Walker
September 13, 2009
Dear Mr. Brayboy,
Though this Legacy Guest Book is closing and these entries written will be the last, there is no comparison to the entries that you have engraved in our hearts. When I read all that everyone has written, it shows the impact of your unconditional love to all of us. You were a remarkable man...a man who is missed more than words can ever say. You've now been gone for two years and to us it seems like an eternity. When you went home two years ago, my Mom and Dad were there to see you off, but little did my Dad know that he would be joining you five months later. I remember Dad showing you his toy (the 5th-wheel RV) and I remember thinking, "Dad, please don't bore him!" and you came out smiling with that quiet chuckle of yours and I looked at you rolling my eyes. I know that the two of you are walking the streets of gold with our Heavenly Father, I know you're safe and free from pain...but the human side of us misses you tremendously. We await the day to see you again. I see your love continuously through your beautiful wife and your three strong sons whom I have always adored: Ade', Rahsaan, & Kysii. We will forever cherish your memory and continue to speak of you. Thank you, we love and miss you always!
September 11, 2009
Ade Brayboy
September 11, 2009
Thank you Dad
There are not enough words to express the true blessing it is to call you our dad.
Thank you for those perfect moments of hugs, laughs, and smiles we would share together.
The values you taught and love you gave is something that will stay with us forever. Thank you for those phone calls to brighten our everyday.
The times we would seek out advice and answers, you would always guide the way. Thank you for showing us a strong work ethic, to overcome the challenges of the days. For always being by our side to celebrate our success, with encouragement and praise. Thank you for teaching us to be cordial, respectful, and professional when difficult situations and individuals can bring us down.
Your passion, inspiration, and sheer courage will always astound.
You taught us, no matter how tough and difficult our day – Be kind to the people you come upon – for they are dealing with their own daily struggles in some way.
Thank you for the days you would stop in to play with your granddaughters and talk to us. For your warm, tender love, comfort and care is an example we will follow, for as long as we live.
Thank you for always sharing Godly wisdom from the Word and life lessons you’ve learned.
We’ve witnessed your wisdom, determination, and sacrifice year after year.
But the real lesson you revealed was to touch someone’s life and truly hold them dear. Today we’re consumed with pain and sorrow that cuts deep in our hearts like no other. Our only solace is in knowing you’re re-united in Heaven with your father and mother. Thank you for the wonderful loving memories, they will never fade away.
They will carry us through, until we meet again on that glorious day.
Though, we’re most thankful for and will sorely miss having the honor to call out to you, that special word-DAD… We love you & Miss you.
– Always your sons Rahsaan, Adé, and Kysii.
Priscilla Broughton
September 11, 2009
In Loving Memory of Ed Brayboy
On a lazy day,
You were a smile away.
You always found the time to give good sound advice,
to help someone through the difficulties of life.
TIME was something that you always had,
even when your health was failing, you'd say "oh, I'm not doing too bad."
Missing you is a vague way to express how we feel,
yet the memories of you always fill our hearts with cheer.
Your position in life was held with the highest esteem,
But your position in Heaven is what you worked hardest to achieve.
You will live on forever in our hearts & memories!
You loving sister in Christ,
Mrs. Priscilla S. Broughton
September 10, 2009
The memory of such a giant of man, Mr. Ed Brayboy is so touching and inspiring! There was no challenge that was considered a problem. His warm and tender response was always uplifting and supportive. Mr. Brayboy touched our lives in Newport News Public Schools. We will always nest his memory in our hearts and minds. I am so grateful that I encountered Mr. Ed Brayboy.
With The Spirit of Deep Admiration,
Dianne Blakeney
David Flowers
September 9, 2009
I MISS HAVING YOU AROUND .I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES AS WELL AS THE BIG BROTHER ADVICE.WE MISS YOUR LEADERSHIP HERE @NEWPORT NEWS PUBLIC SCHOOLS. WE LOVED YOU,BUT GOD HAD ANOTHER PLAN FOR YOU IN HIGHER PLACES.WE THANK GOD FOR BLESSING US WITH SUCH LOYAL INTEGRITY. YOUR FRIEND DAVID
Karen Price
September 8, 2009
I miss you my buddy so much...! They say no pain no gain, is there such a thing as a good pain...? Not if it hurts so bad you can't do anything about it, yet it hurts to miss you and when I smile I know that you were a part of it, the pain fades and gets drowned out with the tears and it gets better with time. In time I know I'll gain for having known you. I miss you my friend I can't believe your gone still to this day I talk about you. Thank you for being a part of my life, a part of my smile, a part of my heart, it's not fair sometimes when I need you to talk to, maybe I'm a little selfish but you're one of the ones I trusted next to my Dad for a mans point of view..., so if we weren't laughing we were talking. Thanks for being a great man. I love you Ed.
Always ~
Karen :)
Your Loving Wife
September 7, 2009
Another year has come Baby and I still miss you so very much. My heart still aches, I still feel the pain. I wish you were here. I know God's Will was done but it just hurt so much missing all the different things that was done by you. Most of all your smile. I told our New Pastor that he would have loved and enjoyed you. We Thank GOD for blessings us with YOU a wonderful husband, father and friend, Baby you were truly loved. Well you know already that I LOVE YOU so very much. YOU HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS WHERE YOU'LL ALWAYS STAY. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU FOREVER. "LOVE YOU BABY"
Akilah Brayboy
June 3, 2009
Mom Brayboy,
We are sending birthday wishes to Dad. Not a day passes when we are not reminded of his love, kindness and friendship. We love you and I am grateful to be apart of the Brayboy family.
Rahsaan Brayboy
June 3, 2009
" Pay close attention now: I'm creating new heavens and a new earth. All the earlier troubles, chaos, and pain are things of the past, to be forgotten. Look ahead with joy. Anticipate what I'm creating: I'll create Jerusalem as sheer joy, create my people as pure delight. I'll take joy in Jerusalem, take delight in my people: No more sounds of weeping in the city, no cries of anguish; No more babies dying in the cradle, or old people who don't enjoy a full lifetime; One-hundredth birthdays will be considered normal—anything less will seem like a cheat. They'll build houses and move in.They'll plant fields and eat what they grow. No more building a house that some outsider takes over, No more planting fields that some enemy confiscates, For my people will be as long-lived as trees, my chosen ones will have satisfaction in their work. They won't work and have nothing come of it, they won't have children snatched out from under them. For they themselves are plantings blessed by God, with their children and grandchildren likewise God-blessed. Before they call out, I'll answer. Before they've finished speaking, I'll have heard. Wolf and lamb will graze the same meadow, lion and ox eat straw from the same trough, but snakes—they'll get a diet of dirt! Neither animal nor human will hurt or kill anywhere on my Holy Mountain," says God.
Dad,
We think about you everyday. It is almost as if you are still here, but gone on an extended trip.
You were loved and admired by everyone you came in contact with and that feeling will continue on always.
As the Bible verse says above, no more weeping in heaven! Although we still hurt while you are gone, we memorialize the extraordinary father, husband, friend, and mentor you were to all of us.
matthew zuliani
June 3, 2009
Happy birthday. Mrs. Brayboy is the best nurse in newport news public schools.
DoJin Shin
June 3, 2009
happy birthday c:
i'm a 8th grader here at hines middle school.
i love mrs. Brayboy :D <3
Bonnie Wallace
September 22, 2008
Dear Missy,
You have been on my mind today. I thought about you going through your work last week and never saying a word about what week it was. I am so happy to have been blessed by knowing Mr. Brayboy. I got to know him well one summer at Washington Middle. What a character! He told such funny stories. When he laughed it felt like the whole room lit up and you were just friends sharing stories. He just had that way about him. I think of him often and miss his calls to the "infirmary" and his funny jokes. He always made you feel like he knew something about life that you didn't but it was all good. I am blessed to have know this wonderful man.
Love you Missy,
Aaron Fitchett
September 21, 2008
Live life to the fullest while giving a hand to someone else is the most important lesson I learned from Mr. Brayboy. Brayboy family, we will continue to celebrate and honor the memory of your father with all of you.
Reuben and Mazie Howe
September 20, 2008
Dear Missy,
The Lord truly blessed my wife and I with two wonderful friends (you and Ed). We dearly miss Ed. We will never forget him and the legacy that he left behind. May the Spirit of the Lord continue to strengthen you and your family hearts, and direct your footsteps as you continue to face each new day. We love you.
Gail Jordan
September 16, 2008
Over the years the Lord has blessed me with beautiful friends. I have grown to know & love Ed and you (Missy) with the love of the Lord. I will always be here for you as a confident, prayer warrior, and friend. Many, many abundant blessings!
Alvin Stancil
September 16, 2008
Dear Missy: For since the beginning of the world men have not heard, nor preceived by the ear neither hath the eye seen, O God, beside thee, what he hath prepared for him that waiteth for him. (Isaiah 64:4). I have had the pleasure of being on the same team (usher) with Brayboy and I just would like to say you always in my prayers. Love Alvin Stancil (Deloris and Horace, brother).
Deloris Stancill
September 16, 2008
Dear Missy: For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saiths the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not evil, to give you an expected end. (Jeremiah 29:11)... This scripture always seems to make me feel like I'm right in the will of God, so I offer this to you today and to express how very sorry I am in the passing of Brayboy, but according to the word of God He has taken on a highly classified job now, he's now in the presence of God worshipping Him with every bit of his ability which is his spirit. I will always pray for you that you will continue to do the will of God and find the peace that he offers us, love Deloris (Horace) Stancill, Jr.
lee wiser mcintosh
September 14, 2008
dear elaine, i have kept tabs on you through baby ruth and was saddened to hear about ed. we met once, when we were in the old house and had a lovely visit. i still remember our conversation. you and your family will be in my prayers and i pray that you will experience God's faithfulness to heal and comfort. love, lee
Joanne (Bell) Bennett
September 12, 2008
Elaine and family: Elaine, you will always be in my prayers. Ed was not only a good man, but a man who left a legacy you and your boys will always have in your hearts. I know you thank God each day for the memories he left. Be blessed.
Odessa (Bell) Cantrell
September 12, 2008
Elaine: May God be with you. I remember Ed when all of you came down at Christmas time. I thought of him as being a fine man. And I certainly enjoyed your visit. God blessed you in a wonderful way for a season, but continue to call on Him and He will always bless and be with you and your family for the rest of your days.
Gertrude (Bell) Coiley
September 12, 2008
Elaine: I am happy to say a few words about Ed. He was a joy to know. He always called or visitied when here in Atlanta. It's sad that he had to leave us at such an early age, but God knows when to take us away. I believe he had done the job he was called to do. He is looking down on us and especially you and the boys. Continue on the road God has planned for you. And see how He will direct your path. God bless you and family.
Chris and June Norman
September 11, 2008
May the Spirit of our Lord comfort and strengthen the heart's of Mrs. Brayboy and his loved ones. His loving spirit is so evident in the the souls of his children. May we all allow the love of Christ to shine through us as it did through this great man.
Michael Blackwell
September 11, 2008
Brayboy family,
It still seems unreal to think that Mr. Brayboy has passed. I remember the way he pushed Kysii, Ade and Rahsaan to be the best and I can truly say I know he has to be proud. I will always appreciate the words of advice and encouragement. Most of the information I received about applying to college and getting ready for school came from the Brayboys. Mr. Brayboy you will be missed. You were one smooth brother and that is how I will remember you. God Bless.
Jeffrey Nelson
September 10, 2008
To the Brayboy Family, as you go through this difficult time, know that God is with you each and every step. Lean not unto your own understanding, but know that he knows best. My prayers are with you now and forever. Be encouraged and keep your faith strong. You have now gained a Guardian Angel that will watch over and protect you . God Bless you and your family.
Tracey Williams
September 9, 2008
The legacy of Mr. Brayboy still lives on every day even though it was a year ago this month that he went to be with our Lord. I see him shine through the smile of his beautiful wife every time I see her...I see a "mini-me" of him when I look out my mom's kitchen window to see Ade' mowing the grass in his parents backyard. As I do yardwork myself, I can still vision Mr. Brayboy as if it were yesterday and I can remember the many "backyard-over-the-fence" talks that we used to have. We truly miss him, but know that the memories he has left us with will never be forgotten. So to you Mr. Brayboy...we think of you often, we miss you more, but we thank you for the many wonderful memories!!!
Deborah Dee
September 5, 2008
Yesterday Imani had homework and the assignment was to bring a picture of your family for show-and-tell. And Imani reiterated what the teacher said, "Your WHOLE family, pets, mommy, daddy, grandparents..." Well since I'm so organized, I shifted through several boxes before I ran into a pack of family pictures. And as I'm shifting through them, I'm came across the Brayboy family reunion photos that I attended before Imani was born. In fact I was still pregnant. So I pulled out a picture with the boys and a picture with Mrs and Mr Brayboy, and then a train horn sounded at the exact time I was looking at that picture. I just smiled, cause I remember how much Mr. Brayboy loved trains. So now everytime I hear a train I think of Mr. Brayboy no matter what time it is, noon or 5 a.m. But everytime I get caught by the train, I think that's Mr. Brayboy's way of saying to slow down, enjoy life, it'll still be there after the train passes, but with a big smile on his face.
Miss you Mr Brayboy (Grandpa)
Deborah Dee and Imani Ingram
Dorothy Harris
August 29, 2008
Ed Brayboy,
Forget you? Never! Your smile, your style, your loving devotion to your family and deep faith, wise counsel, and steadfast friendship will be greatly missed but never, oh never forgotten!
Clarine Saint-Ange
June 5, 2008
I can share this memory with Mr. Brayboy, as it is one of my favorite biblical passages:
Ecclesiastes
OR, THE PREACHER
3
A Time for Everything
1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 a time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 a time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 a time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
9 What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboreth?
10 I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.
11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.
12 I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life.
13 And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labor, it is the gift of God.
14 I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it: and God doeth it, that men should fear before him.
15 That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past.
May God bless, protect, strengthen, and guide you.
Holly Humphreys
June 5, 2008
We are constantly reminded of Mr. Brayboy's presence at the detention center. Little things or events will remind us of his infallible humor and his mischievous laughs. We truly miss him!
Ade Brayboy
June 4, 2008
It's June 3rd, Happy Birthday Ed!
Your legacy lives on in us, your family. May the Lord forever hold you in His arms.
3rd District VA - Congressman Robert "Bobby" Scott
May 27, 2008
It was with sadness that I learned of the passing of your husband, F. Edward Brayboy, on September 18, 2007. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of bereavement. Mr Brayboy served the Newport News community through his distinguished teaching and administrative career with the Newport News Public School system and Newport News Juvenile Detention School. His legacy will continue through the changed lives of the thousands of young people he guided as a teacher and administrator. His efforts were often the last opportunity for a young person to decide to turn his or her life around. He will be sorely missed.
Very Truly Yours,
The Family
May 22, 2008
Elaine,
Ed has been such an inspiration to us all and has bonded this family in ways words are not enough to explain. We just want to let you know that we love you & will always be there for you. Your spirit shines through us all and most importantly the Lord.
With Love
Eleanor Novakoski Silva
May 22, 2008
I was shocked to see this obituary in the paper! I called Mrs Sherman, I couldn't make the funeral because I read the paper after it took place, but she said it was beautiful. Ed was such a good man, & Christ shown brightly through him. He so obviously loved you and the boys. Weren't you all so very blessed to have been loved by him? I am praying for your strength as you learn how to go on. God bless you
Carolyn, Vernon, Cheque' and Scooter Beck
May 22, 2008
May Memories bring you comfort
As One whom his mother comfort, so will I comfort you, (Isaiah 66:13)
Missy, May you be comforted by God's love and the precious memories that abide forever in your heart
Delores McKinney
May 22, 2008
I just want you to know that although you loved your husband and wanted to keep him here. Our Heavenly Father wanted him there with Him, more! Be comforted in the truth that you will see him again, because his testimony attested to that fact! I have not lost my husband but I have lost 3 of the most precious people in the world to me, but I have the assurance that I will see them again one day. You hold on to the truth that you will see your loved one again! You have your children to lean on in this time of sorrow, and let them be there for you, you need each other at this time. Again I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you and the family in prayer. Love in Christ,
Reggie, Sylvia, Charles and Annie Cook
May 21, 2008
Keeping you close in prayer, not just today but through the days of hopeful healing ahead. Ed is rejoicing in the Lord! We will meet him again which is a comfort within itself
Ellen and Chip
May 21, 2008
I was so sorry to hear that you lost your husband. Chip and I had been praying for him. I wanted to come to the funeral but Chip hasn't been feeling well, the last few weeks. I know you'll miss your wonderful husband. I'm sending some verses that helped me when I lost my mom. I know the Lord will hold you close. We love you.
Kristi and Kristopher Tharpe
May 21, 2008
I know He will help you and I am praying for you. I sincerely understand what you are going through and I will keep you in my prayers. Time Heals
Kysii Ingram
May 21, 2008
Many thanks to the kind people who shared their thoughts and reflections of my father with everyone. He definitely was a beacon of light in this community, city and state. He was well loved by all that knew him. He taught us, is sons to be astute, respectable and proud and he led by example. He was the true head of the family and was supported very genuinely and lovingly by my mother. They were the epitome of a very solid family. Although my dad has left the earth, he left lasting memories with all that will not be forgotten. He touched lives, spirits and all and he will continue to do so.
Beechlake Community Association
May 21, 2008
May you find comfort in memories and strength in each other's love throughout this very difficult time.
Darcelle and Shadeed
May 21, 2008
When God Calls Our Loved Ones Home
We Feel so Sad when those we love Are called to live in the home above. But why should we grieve whey they say good-bye and go to dwell in a cloudless sky. For they have but gone to prepare the way, And we'll meet them again some happy day, For God has told us we'd be together In a better place He calls "Forever"
Ross M Hines
May 21, 2008
May tender memories soften your grief May fond recollection bring you relief, And may you find comfort and peace in the though Of the joy that knowing your loved one has brought. For time and space can never divide Or keep your loved one from your side. When memory paints in colors true, The happy hours that belonged to you
Ruth Swindell
May 21, 2008
My heart aches for you at this time. So sorry to hear about your loss. I remember how kind you were after my husband passed, and you saw me struggling with some bushes in our yard. Your kind offer of assistance has never been forgotten. Now I offer you my assistance if you should ever need help. Remember that I'm on the other of the street. Keeping you in my prayers as yu face this difficult time.
Casper and Bernice Whittaker
May 21, 2008
Your Loved One was a Blessing -
Some people are a blessing, to everyone they meet, and their passing leaves fond memories behind, both sad and sweet.
May God Comfort you in your Loss
Marjorie Lucas
May 21, 2008
I am very sorry bout your sadness, but God will continue blessing you with Strength and Peace. I'll see You
Mary and Romeo Gardner
May 21, 2008
With each moment with each hour, as you honor and remember your loved one. May memories and love cradle your heart with the gentle warmth of heaven's embrace.
Matt Thompson
May 21, 2008
I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you, your husband and your family. When I traveled overseas to Kenya I looked through the obituaries and instead of seeing "Death Notice" above each picture it said "Promoted to Glory." I Know that God called on Ed to return home, and promoted him to Glory. He was an excellent boss and he took me in as if I were a son of his.
Sadie Carter
May 21, 2008
It is healthy and honorable to weep at the loss of someone we love. Healthy because such passion must be released. Honorable because it is respectful to admit the importance of people who have loved and supported us. people whose footprint cannot be matched
Sandra Patterson-Davis
May 21, 2008
Dear Missy & Family,
My prayers are with you. I know that God will answer mine and yours. He alone will help you to see the sunshine again. Please know that if you need a shoulder or an ear do not hesitate to call. Ed was a wonderful friend and co-worker and I know he was a good husband and father. May God continue to bless you and the boys.
Wayne and Becky Lett
May 21, 2008
We extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Ed's calm demeanor and ability to work with everyone will be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The National Hampton Alumni Association
May 21, 2008
With Sincere Sympathy On Your Loss
Our hearts were saddened when we learned of the death of your loved one. May you find comfort in knowing that others sincerely care and share your loss. We offer prayers to you at this time of your bereavement. May God Bless and comfort you.
Patricia Barresi
May 21, 2008
Those We Have Loved - Shine On...
Ed was a very special man and was there for me on many occasions. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by many. I wish you much love and support as you go through this difficult time.
Rahsaan Brayboy
November 29, 2007
Although the pain continues to be great, we press on with our daily lives. It has been 3 months and it still feels like yesterday when my father passed. Thank you all again for your thoughts and kind words.
Benjamin Rawles
October 13, 2007
To Ade, Rahsaan and Kysii I always remember your father back when we were in high school. He was always a great guy to be around and it reflects in his sons. Me and my wife are sending my codolences.
Keith and Angela Taylor
October 5, 2007
Mrs. Brayboy, Ade', Rahsaan, & Kysii, and family, words cannot convey how deeply hurt that we feel about your great loss. Yes, we can rejoice and know that Brother Brayboy is at complete peace, but he will be greatly missed. We will mostly miss his smile, laugh, and early Sunday morning talks that he gave us. He was so encouraging. We will truly miss his presence. Brother Brayboy was an example of a man of God, and a man of his word! Sister Brayboy, we love you so much.
Tennyson Wright
October 1, 2007
Dear Family,
Please accept my condolences on the passing of our loved one Edward. Edward was a dear friend and classmate. Not only did we grow up together in Aiken, SC, but we had the opportunity to work together one summer in Holderness, New Hampshire. What a summer! When we were in college, we visited annually in Hampton, VA when Livingstone College played Hampton University. I'll never forget his love for the drums and his performance of "Take Two" on stage at Schofield High School during our senior year.
Edward will always be remembered as a kind, intelligent, caring and humble person. I am pleased to know that he found God and is now at peace in Heaven. May God bless Edward and keep you in his protective graces.
Sincerely,
Tennyson J. Wright, Ph.D.
Sherri McIver
September 30, 2007
You have my deepest sympathy on the passing of your love one. May God forever keep you in His care.
Kevin Lee
September 30, 2007
Dear Missy, Ade’, Rahsaan and Kysil,
We were so sorry to hear of Edward’s passing, he was truly a wonderful friend. It was a blessing to have known him and I, like most of those whose lives he has touched, would like to say, “Thank you for sharing your Husband and your Father with us.” There maybe nothing that can be said that can ease the lost you are feeling, but the bible tells us, “That to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.” We are sorry we did get the chance to see you both during your visit to NYC this past July. My friendship with Edward began in Aiken, in 1962 and continued through the years in the Bronx and Newport News, never wavering over time. He was there for me to council my son, during a time when I was unable to be in Newport News. A true friend, I will always remember. I believe joy, peace and happiness would be his desire for all of us that he has left behind. Missy, our thoughts and prays are with you and your sons during these difficult days of sorrow, but as long as Edward lives in our thoughts and memories, he continues to live. We will stay in touch.
Love,
Kevin and Trudie Lee (Peekskill, NY)
Beverly Person
September 30, 2007
The Return Home
For something,I have been awaiting
Awaiting my place in line.
I stamd and I hear Next.
My feet begin to move slowly.
Hesitant are my feet as my begins to recount
Memories of the past race through my body.
I say body,mind; soul have fely all I Have enjoyed
A joy of having the ability to experience
I have experienced love,family,friends the closeness of heartache.
Memories have complete recaptured my soul.
My step has quickened, they no longer feel weighted with closed eyes my footing has been assured the way.
Abruptly, athought but a single word.
A mistaken word Next ; was thought to be said
I was not Next said, but Ready Edward.
I replied.
Yes, I say as my eyes open.
Yes I am, I repeat. I am now on board.
A long journey has been taking place
My journey has begun to slow
Feeling of warmth and familiarity overwhelm me
Once shadowed figures now become clear and vivid
I Know who is waiting to greet me.
My family now awaits me.
Arms open and embrace with a love offered only by family.
I respond to this love and can only say,Ihave missed you.
Inside my heart, I give thanks.
For those who have not completed their journey
Thank you for preparing me.
Without your help I would not have
known the joys that fill my heart.
For my God,
Thank you for letting me be a Husband, a father,brother,grandfather,uncle,brother-law,son-law, and a friend.
I am not Next, I am Ready
I have never been leaving,I have been on my way
I have not been Coming Home, Coming Home.
Hmmmm My heart now sings
Sing with a joy some may every know.
I sing I am Home I am Home, God it is good to be home.
Ms.Beverly Person
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Rahsaan Brayboy
September 28, 2007
Dear Friends and Family,
Thank you so much for your kind words and reflections. I can tell that not only was he loved by his family, but many many others as well.
He was the kind of husband my mother treated like a king.
He was the kind of professional that others sought after.
He was the kind of father that said to me, "Rahsaan, I've accomplished much, but do you know what my greatest accomplishment is?...... You and your brothers!"
There is not a day that goes by that his actions and memory will not depart from me. I just hope that I can be for my family - the great example that he set forth in his personal as well as professional life.
When we are young, perhaps we seek perfection from our parents, but if we look closer, hopefully we will find crown jewels of prudence and practicality.
Grace and Peace in God to you all.
Thank You.
Carolyn Pollard
September 25, 2007
Dear Elaine & Family,
My heart breaks with sorrow as I read Ed's obituary. I pray that you will find strength in God's love and joy in the memories that you have of time spent together. May God bless you and heal your heart.
Rev. Harris Hollwoay
September 24, 2007
May God's love and peace comfort you at all times. Although my last conversation with Edward was a few years ago, he expressed his love and proudness of his family. From Aiken Graded School thru Martha Schofield High, and into adulthood, he was a gentlemen who will be missed.
Pamela Williams
September 24, 2007
Mrs. Brayboy and Family,
My condolences and prayers are with you and your family at this time of loss.
I cut Mr. Brayboy's hair years ago and always enjoyed our conversations, I thought of you and your family often over the years.
Take care and God's grace to each of you!
Ade Brayboy
September 23, 2007
On behalf of the family, I express sincere thanks for all of the messages sent through this guestbook regarding my dad. He was truly a great, courageous man. While, he is missed very much. We have peace that he is with the Lord.
Afi Johnson-Parris
September 22, 2007
Dear Mrs. Brayboy, Ade, Rahsaan, and Kysii,
I was so sad to hear about Mr. Brayboy's passing. I have fond memories of you all as neighbors and friends. Please know my prayers are with you.
Novlet Jarrett M.D.
September 22, 2007
To Missey(Elaine)&Family:
Words cannot express how deeply we will miss Ed. He was such a great person and most importantly a man of god. Missey, I pray that god will grant you peace that passes all understanding in this time of grief. You and your family are always in my prayers. God Bless.
David & Donna Lambert
September 22, 2007
We share your grief. Please know that our love, our prayers and sincere sympathy is with you.
Charles and Carolyn Miller
September 22, 2007
Dear Family and Friends, During my thirty two years working in Newport News there was no one I respected more than Ed Brayboy. He was a hero to me and to many many others who were touched by his kindness and caring. Carolyn and I send our deepest sympathy.
James & Mary Joe
September 21, 2007
To The Family of F. Edward Brayboy
We share your grief. Please know that our love, our prayers and sincere sympathy is with you.
During this time of loss, may God's promise of eternal life bring you hope...and, may His ever-present love bring you peace.
Risa Pleasant
September 21, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss, Ed will be greatly missed.
Risa
Dorlyne Washington-Brown
September 21, 2007
Mrs. Brayboy, My prayers are with you and your family, I pray that you will stay strong and keep God first, hold on to the HAPPY TIMES that you shared with your love one.You wull always be in my prayers. Kineta, Kendra and I will always be here or you
Kineta "Washington" Thompson, Kendra L. Washington
September 21, 2007
Nurse Brayboy from Menchville High Shool, When we heard of your lost We sarted praying for you and your family. Stay strong, we will always remember and keep you in our hearts.
Angela Swanson
September 20, 2007
To Mrs. Brayboy, Ade, and Family-
Just to let you know that I am praying for you all during this time. I pray God provides the comfort for you and your family that only He can give.
Love,
Angela Swanson
Dr. Stanley P. Jones
September 20, 2007
Dear Brabrand Family,
I worked in Newport News Public Schools with Mr. Brayboy many years ago. You all have my deepest sympathy. May God give you strength now and in the days ahead.
Ruth Odom
September 20, 2007
Dear Missey and Family
Even in your sadness, may your find comfort in knowing that the angels must be smiling because your loved one is among them now.
We will see you soon.
Love
Odell & Ruth Odom
Denise Wilbern
September 20, 2007
Dear Elaine and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. You and Ed were always a joy to visit
with. I hope you and your family
will find comfort in knowing many
are thinking of you with fondness.
Denise Wilbern (formerly from Dr.
Edwards' office
Michelle Strong
September 20, 2007
God has spoken when he chose to create such a beautiful man of God.
HE knew the exact day in which to bring Ed to this earth and the exact woman to complete his life while here. And HE knew the exact day in which HE would bring Ed back home to HIM. Ed had a smile that could light up the darkest room. He embodied what I believed to be a true man of God, one in which I could even learn from his silence. I know God is saying, "Job well done, my good and faithful servant" Ed, your face will be missed, but you will remain in my heart.Until we meet again in heaven.
My life was better just by knowing you. Michelle
Frank Strong
September 20, 2007
May the good Lord continue to comfort your family during this time. Mr. Brayboy was an inspiration to my family and our neighborhood. May Jesus Christ continue to order your footsteps...
betty scott
September 20, 2007
To the Brayboy Family, With deepest sympathy for the lost of your loved one and our Martha Schofield High schoolmate. Edward was a beautiful person. May peace be with you all.
Betty W. Scott (Atlanta, GA / Aiken, SC
Teresa Blaum
September 20, 2007
Dearest Missy, Ade, Rahsaan, and Kysii,
There are no words to say how much this dear wonderful loving man will be missed in my life. He was like my big brother and life advisor for so many years. His friendship meant the world to me, and his wisdom helped to keep me grounded many times. Remember Missy, when we all went out with you and Ed on one of your first dates. He was crazy crazy in love with you, and it never stopped. I have a big empty hole in my heart,and I hope you know you all are in my prayers for strength and understanding. I know you are peaceful that he has a better life now. Missy, don't you think he and Linda are there having a really good chuckle. They both knew how to really laugh and enjoyed every day of their lives. All my love to u, Teresa
Gordon Bullock Jr.
September 20, 2007
To the Brayboy Family:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Mr. Brayboy always had a kind word, a funny story, or a great suggestion for my family every time he paid a visit. We will all miss him dearly.
Cassandra Meacham
September 20, 2007
Dear Family,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of a childhood friend and fellow Hamptonian, but I am so pleased to know that he was loved and honored by so many. May peace be with you until you meet again.
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