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Hilda SCHABE Obituary
Hilda was born in London, England, on Jan. 21, 1938. She relocated to New York to fulfill a position with Bank of New York, as coincidence would have it, on April 9, 1961. Shortly after her arrival, she met Richard Sr., and married on Sept. 8, 1963. Richard preceded his wife in death on Jan. 20, 1998. They had a long marriage in which they had five children, all of whom survive both their parents. Although she came to this country to further her career, once she had children, they became her life and she dedicated all her time to them.
She will be greatly missed by Jennifer Valentino and her spouse, George; Patricia Torr; Richard Schabe and his spouse, Erin; William Schabe; and Pamela Woods. Mrs. Schabe is also survived by what she considered her greatest asset - her 14 grandchildren, George, Joseph, Matthew, Richard, Melissa, Bryana, Amanda, Amber, Samantha, Katie, Sara, Whitney, Britney, and Jaidyn. Her grandchildren loved her immensely and look forward to continuing her legacy.
Funeral service, officiated by Pastor Maurice A. Carpenter, will be held at 1 p.m. Monday, April 12, 2010, at Hogg Funeral Home, Gloucester Point. Interment will be private in Calverton, New York. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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May 8, 2022
You have two of my fur babies now please take of them now I got the one down here for now this one is a diva though and super needy but you already no that . I miss u lots happy mommy´s day love
Ricky
May 8, 2022
Happy Mothers Day!
Jenn
April 5, 2022
Jenn
April 5, 2022
Jenn
April 5, 2022
Jenn
April 5, 2022
I know you are up there working overtime things have been a bit rough . I thought hey if we can get past 2020 . 2022 is proving to be a bit more challenging . Please look over us all ! But especially Our Slink And thank you for staying close to Rich .
Patty
April 5, 2022
Momma please take care of our Delilah please. You will love her she is the sweetness!!
Ricky
January 21, 2021
Missing you and dad....
April 9, 2020
I have to believe in heaven cause if that's so one day we will be reunited ! Love you ! Miss you my heart is heavy tonight . What gets me through is my siblings and my grand children . Please watch over us ❤
Patty Slink
April 9, 2020
Well when I posted to you this past Sunday just thinking about you and pops telling you that we were struggling but hoping that everyone in our family would be OK. As you know Jackie passed away uncle Rons daughter. I really hope there is a heaven and to think that youre with your mom your sister your brother my cousin and of course pops. Love you guys so much
April 5, 2020
Really missing you both we are struggling and hope our family will all be fine. Love and miss you both dearly mom and pops.
September 8, 2017
Happy anniversary......
April 25, 2017
Thinking of you .not one day goes by that i do not think of you or Dad most of the time it brings a tear , or a chuckle, sometimes its the small things sometimes big...Miss you...
February 14, 2017
Xoxo
June 8, 2016
Today I saw some pictures that made me think nothing but you. It hurts so bad Nana. I love you so much and miss you so so much.
July 12, 2015
Momma
March 20, 2015
Wow, almost 5 years. For the most part, the pain is a lot less. Then I go and do something stupid and read every entry in the guest book and it is like a ton of bricks fall on me, one at a time to represent how much losing you hurt. I hope the life I am living makes you proud. Not by material but by the value I give to those around me. I love them as much as I loved you and I know you loved us. Your loss is still such a heavy burden to bear. Most days I bear it well while others still give me mini panic attacks. We all still want you here. Love you mom.
February 10, 2015
Still missing you ! Will it ever be easy I love you
Pammi "O"
December 25, 2014
Merry Christmas!! to you and Daddi "O", miss you guys a lot especially this time of year. It is hard for me to comprehend that next month will be 17 years since you passed Daddi "O". Love and miss both of you everyday!
December 24, 2014
Can't stop thinking about you guys today. Why should this holiday be different than any other. Love and miss you both so much. I will be happy with a tinge of sadness. Thankfully, my memories are still strong and it will be like you are sitting next to me, smiling, like me, at my children.
November 28, 2014
Still so hard, celebrating without you. I love and miss you both so much. So many things from today were about you. So many things every day are about you. As always, thanks for everything.
Sammy
November 25, 2014
It feels like forever you have been gone I miss you and wish you could see where everyone is at now, in life.... Miss you terribly nana love you so much
November 9, 2014
i miss you still very much <3
June 14, 2014
<3
March 23, 2014
Always thinking of you and Pops...miss you everyday, I always thought life was hard and it only gets harder esp. without you here love you Momma.
January 30, 2014
<3
January 13, 2014
Sitting at work and looking at the calender. Not one day goes by and you are not thought or spoken of!!! Holidays are especially bittersweet. Love ya!
J
November 7, 2013
Thank mom and dad for watching over richie and answering my prayers please continue to help me ! I miss you both so much ! Today was a rough one ! Love me
November 5, 2013
Thinking of you today and always.. You have been hanging out with us a lot lately. Matthew is constantly putting his thumb between his fingers. It is starting to get cold here. Let's go have a cup of tea!!
May 12, 2013
Happy Mother's Day mom. I love and miss you so much. Wish you were here - I know you would get a kick out of Jaidyn and Matthew! Seems Matthew is as good a listener as Billy and I were.....lol
April 10, 2013
Love and kisses to you and Pops both.Missing you always.
Whitney Woods
April 9, 2013
Nana, I miss you so much . You were my only grandma that was pretty much there for me, I miss you TONS! Can't believe 3 years ago ... It broke my heart . I was in pain, and still kinda am, but I get through . <3 still wish you were here . Love you tons! Tell papa I said hi! Love you BOTH tons! Xoxox
April 9, 2013
Love and miss you mom. Pain is a little easier to bear but still wishing you were here. Went to the cemetery over the weekend and Jai was sure to hug both you and PopPop. She is my 'other' sunshine that makes things like this a heck of a lot easier. And my original sunshine was there as well :-)
Pammie Schabe-Woods
March 18, 2013
Miss you Mom, especially days like today! 37 seems old to me sometimes but too young to be without my parents! Love and miss you and Daddi "O" immensely!
November 17, 2012
Wow. Been a little while since I have written but a day does not pass that I don't think of you. Especially this time of year. With both joy and pain. The joy has started to edge over the pain. I just get so upset sometimes that as I was living it I didn't appreciate it nearly as much as I do now. When I look back, yes there were some trying times, but there were also many, MANY good times. I thank you so much for the gift that is my family. We're crazy but we love each other and push comes to shove, we have each other's back!
September 9, 2012
Thinking of you always. You and Pops were both around this weekend. Love you both!
September 8, 2012
I love you Nana and Papa . Happy Anniversary ! I miss you more then anything . I love you both ~ Your 12th grandchild, Whitney .
September 8, 2012
Missing you both, everyday is hard but it is benchmark days like this that it is really hard! Happy Anniversary Mom and Daddy "O"
September 7, 2012
Love to you both. Still missing you.
May 16, 2012
Hey Mom Hey Dad...He is here Joseph Patrick Jr ...I felt you both today and the first time I set eyes on him I saw you Dad especially his ears.....:) I love and miss you today was bittersweet as I wanted you here ...Love Me
May 13, 2012
Happy Mother's Day Mom!!!!!
April 10, 2012
<3
April 9, 2012
Today and every day I miss you Momma.
April 9, 2012
2 years. I guess it has gotten better. I think about you every day, most of the time in happy remembrance now. But there is still pain. I miss you so much. I just wish.....heck, there are so many thing I just wish. I love you Mom. Jaidyn misses you. Every once in a while she will say or ask if Nana and Papaw(Erin's dad) is still in the hospital. Everyone misses you. Matthew is getting to an age where we can start introducing him to our memories of you. We'll keep on 'keeping on' until we can see you again.
April 8, 2012
;-(
January 20, 2012
Have a Bud with Dad today and make sure he gets you a 7 and 7 tomorrow! Love you guys....always.
January 20, 2012
Still missing you both so much ...still so hard to put into words...the only way to describe the pain at times is the world has a little less color in it....I love you .....
January 19, 2012
Tough weekend coming up. Tough 2012 already. We love and miss you so much. It still sucks hard, no other way to put it.
Samantha Woods
January 8, 2012
I miss you so much nana! Things are rough but praying is all I can do, and I pray about you all the time. Well I love you and miss you, as does everyone else. xoxo
-sammy
December 24, 2011
Merry Christmas Mom and Dad!!!!!
December 2, 2011
This time of year is so wonderful. Seeing out children believe in what use to make us smile. As we get older our beliefs have changed. We now reconize truth vs. fairytale. As the saying goes sometimes the truth can hurt. I sometimes wonder what Jai thinks when she says she misses Papa and Nana... In her little mind where have they gone? How does one answer such a complex question? All I can say is they love you very much, always will. So as I started,, the holidays,, I will make sure to have my piece of Panettone and watch the snoopy special sipping my cup of tea. Different things make me smile. Now I have to think of memories, which is hard. But I am grateful for every moment I can remember.
November 24, 2011
Thinking of you and Missing you both today and always...Listening to Frank Sinatra Christmas.....Watching the parade saw SNOOPY!!!!!! Funny memory ,,yesterday at work I heard myself say I am going to kill one bird with two stones and remember as clear as it was yesterday POPPOP why do you want to kill birds...still makes me chuckle...Georgie is still that young innocent why kid :) Love ya
November 24, 2011
Thinking of you and Dad Love and miss you Momma
November 23, 2011
It is hard every day but the holidays seem the toughest. We still have so much to be thankful for but sometimes it is hard to see the joy thru the pain. We all just miss you and dad and others we have lost SO MUCH! It is true that death is a part of life and even though we know it will eventually happen, you just never think of all the facets of your life it impacts. We will still be thankful for all that we have but will never forget what we have lost.
November 20, 2011
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here is a rose for you.
I love you and ALWAYS will!Miss you nana <3 . I miss you
October 30, 2011
Thank You for today. Family is a gift :)
October 29, 2011
(((((HUGS)))))) to you and Dad and whomever needs one.......Love Me ;)
October 28, 2011
Need you in my corner the next several days. I love and miss you so much. It's just still so crazy that you are not here but I know that you are 'here', ya know?
October 24, 2011
luv u mama
September 29, 2011
Thinking about you alot today love you and miss you so much.
September 8, 2011
Happy Anniversary to you both up there miss you and love you !!!!
September 8, 2011
Another day I am grateful for :)
September 7, 2011
Thought of you both all day today. Maybe since it closed down here there is an Ed's Bay Pub in heaven and you can have a few tomorrow! Miss and love you both immensely.
September 1, 2011
Got to use dad's radio during the storm. Oh, how long has it been since I saw 'natural disaster watch' dad! Only upset I did not have a barometer to tap on! ;-) Love and miss you both SOOOOO much.
August 18, 2011
Today is like every day. Missing you, wishing you were still here, wanting to talk to you, love you.
August 10, 2011
just one of those nights where I woke up this morning hoping it was a bad dream but it wasn't.....I miss you so much
July 7, 2011
Thank you for today. And every day. I love and miss you so much....we all do!
Whitney Woods
July 5, 2011
Miss you thIs much!!!
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Amanda Torr
July 4, 2011
though of you today miss you love you bunches<3
July 4, 2011
Love and Miss you !!!Especially during the good times....Miss ya during the bad too it was nice to know that you were always there!!!Wish i Knew then that some the best times of my life were those simple times...
June 10, 2011
Katie got into college!!!! Katie got into college!!!
June 6, 2011
Woke up thinking of you today miss you and love you!!!!
May 19, 2011
To whomever paid to keep this online ....I love you bunches :)
May 8, 2011
Happy Mother's Day Mom!
May 6, 2011
Love and miss you so much!I was watching Regis yesterday and was cracking up and remembering how much you enjoyed him..then I get into my car yesterday and what is on the radio but Pennies from Heaven with no other than Regis :)You were with me yesterday as you are everyday ...Happy Birthday Dad love ya !
May 4, 2011
Another Mother's Day is fast approaching. Another Father's Birthday missed. And let us not forget the 9th, when our mother lost her mother. I miss you the same each day. I just still can't believe it. Like I am waiting to wake from a nightmare. But I know it is not true because there are still so many things that bring me joy. I guess you can't trade one for another as you don't know what else that may cause you to miss. The universe unfolds as it should, huh? May the love we have for you keep you forever burning bright at whatever plane you may be.
April 27, 2011
Never knew that a mother's love was the greatest gift of all.
April 26, 2011
How is it possible that sometimes the pain is as intense as if it just happened? I miss you every day but somedays it is so much worse. As if someone just told me seconds ago.
April 24, 2011
Happy Easter Mom and Dad! I love you and miss you so much. We all do. Jaidyn and baby Matthew say hi!
April 19, 2011
Still thinking of you.And the mail that said someone wrote in this it was in spam!You don't deserve to be in spam!Love you
April 10, 2011
Miss you bunches love you so badly ?
Whitney?
April 10, 2011
Somedays I hear you in my head, somedays I dream of you and me walking on a beach.But, when I wake up I know it's not true.I wish it was It's been 1 year and 1 day since I've seen you.I miss you and love you nana.? you SO much
April 9, 2011
One year, still the tears fall, can never go back, would love to tell you how much I love you , one more time, thats all I ask, Missing you still Momma
April 9, 2011
MISSING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 27, 2011
Missing you more and more everyday....Trying to be strong just as you would want me to be ....The kids are my strength !! Jaidyn and Baby Matthew gives us lots to be thankful for ...As do all of your grandkids....Love ya Mom
March 25, 2011
Always in my heart Momma, I love and miss you so.
March 24, 2011
As we get closer to April 9th, I keep finding myself wishing that the world got stuck on a constant loop of February 1, 2010. That way you and Papa Cannella would still be here and at home where you wanted to be......
March 9, 2011
Today has been a sad day,, just thinking about my dad and you. Thanks for stopping by to say it will all be okay.. Every time Matthew puts his thumb between his other two little fingers,, I know you are here.
February 21, 2011
I see you every day. In the expressions and actions of my children, I see a little of you. We love and miss you so much. I truly hope you are at peace. If any of us deserved peace and the ability just to take it easy, it is you. Love you.
Number 15!!!!
February 9, 2011
February 4, 2011
Love you mom. Miss you so much. Thanks for looking after Matthew up until now. We'll take it from here. LUV U!!!!!
January 27, 2011
January 24, 2011
January 24, 2011
January 21, 2011
Love you Momma....
January 21, 2011
I'm writing this to Nana from my heart.
Ok Happy Birthday, I love you soo much and also miss you I can never forget about you.I think of you every minute of everyday and I hope I always will. I miss you being around and talking I won't forget about you never ever would I.Happy Birthday I love you miss you ~Whitney Woods~
January 21, 2011
Happy birthday Nana I love you and miss you I give you all of my heart
Sammy Woods
January 21, 2011
Happy Birthday Nana.
I love you and a dearly miss you.
God bless. ?
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