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James PATTERSON Obituary

WILLIAMSBURG - James Coleman Patterson Sr. answered the Master's call and peacefully entered into eternal rest on Wednesday, Jan. 13, 2010, in Sentara Williamsburg Regional Medical Center.
His life began on Jan. 10, 1923, the third child born to the late Margaret L. and Charlie Patterson Sr., of Williamsburg, Va.
He attended York County Public Schools. Throughout his life, James was known as "Coleman" by his family, friends and by all in the community. Coleman was a productive and contributing member of his church as well as in his community. He was a lifelong member of St. John Baptist Church. He faithfully served his church as a member of the Men's Chorus and the Men's Fellowship.
He was joined in Holy Matrimony to the former Ruth Anna Cary. Unto this union, they were blessed with many years of happiness, three children and two grandchildren.
Coleman also was a member of the District No. 6, Grand United Order of Oddfellows. He proudly served his country in the United States Navy and was Honorably Discharged on March 20, 1944, in Grand Lakes, Ill. He was a Licensed Master Plumber and a noted small-engine mechanic. He retired from the Yorktown Naval Weapons Station, after 39 years of service. Following his retirement, he was employed by the Williamsburg-James City County Public School System as a bus driver. He was highly thought of by the students, their parents and the school's personnel. Over his celebrated life, Coleman received several honors for outstanding service and performance from his church, community and his places of employment. He was a loving and kind person who was known for his amusing sense of humor by everyone he met. Coleman's life was a blessing to everyone and will be greatly missed by his family and friends.
He was also preceded in death by his brothers, Charlie Jr. and Alfred Patterson.
He leaves to celebrate his life his wife, Ruth Anna Cary Patterson; his daughter, Delores J. Patterson; his sons, James C. Patterson Jr. (Floydette) and John W. Patterson (Kimberley); his grandchildren, Christian C. Patterson and Ashley McCoy; his sister, Everlean Thompson; his sister-in-law, Alice Cary-Patterson; numerous nieces, nephews, other loving relatives and many caring friends.
A funeral service, celebrating the life he lived, will be held 1 p.m. Tuesday, Jan. 19, 2010, in St. John Baptist Church, 1397 Penniman Road, with the Rev. Walter Hudson and Dr. Solomon M. Wesley officiating. Interment will follow, with military honors, in the church cemetery. Family and friends will assemble at 1351 Oak Drive by noon Tuesday. Mr. Patterson may be viewed in the funeral home from 5 to 7 p.m. Monday.
Professional services entrusted to the Staff of Whiting's Funeral Home, 7005 Pocahontas Trail Williamsburg, Va., 757-229-3011. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Jan. 14 to Jan. 18, 2010.

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Lorraine Jackson Bell

January 19, 2010

Dear "Aunt Ruth"

The entire Patterson family will always have a special place in my heart. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of "Uncle Coleman". May God keep you and the family in His loving arms during your time of sorrow.

With sincere condolences

January 19, 2010

Brother Jimmy & Family,

You have our deepest sympathy during this time of sorrow. May God give you peace and understanding.

Ralph & Renorval Travers Payne

shelonda henry

January 19, 2010

"It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died.
Rather we should thank God that such men lived." -George S. Patton, Jr.

Everyone who knew "Pop" will always be thankful for their time with him. My condolescences and love to the entire family

January 18, 2010

Jimmy and family,
You have our condolescences on the passing of your father. Just know that God had a plan for his life here on earth and a much better life for eternity. Your dad was a wonderful man. We are glad to have known him.
God bless you....
Cynthia and Curtis Lassiter

Rhonda Lassiter

January 18, 2010

Mrs Ruth and Johnny P,
My heart goes out to you at this difficult and trying time."Mr P" played an important role in the lives of the Lassiter kids. He was not only a family memeber, but as our bus driver he kept a close eye on us and watched us grow into the adults we are now. He wil be truly missed by us all. Much Love To You

NaKia Williams

January 17, 2010

I extend my deepest condolences to the entire Patterson family! and may the Lord be with you in your time of bereavement. Love you all
NaKia Williams and Family

January 17, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of Mr. Patterson's death. We know he will rest in peace with God and greet the rest of us with joy. Please accept our sympathy for your loss.
Vincent, Patricia, and the girls

Jacqueline Clemons

January 17, 2010

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

John Lee

January 16, 2010

Dear Jimmy and Family,

We are deeply saddened to learn about the passing of your Father. May
you find comfort in knowing that others care and love you; and that
God loves you best. The Men of Mt. Nebo - West Point
John Lee, Fellow Musician

the chapman family

January 15, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Brenda Pryor-Small

January 14, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Turner Clemons

January 14, 2010

Dear Ms. Patterson and Family;
I am in deep sympathy for you upon the loss of your loved one, but try to remember what our former pastor, Shields once said of a family that lost a loved one, "The wife said to her visiting friends, that if God is not with me now, He never was", So remember that God is here, and there, all the time. Keep looking up Ms. Patterson.
Turner Clemons, Jr.

phyllis carter ely

January 14, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Theodore Douglas Parsons

January 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Patterson family. May you find strength in knowing that he is resting in the arms of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

The T.D. "Doug" Parsons Family

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