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Jarin SIMS Obituary
Jarin was born April 23, 1992 in Newport News, Va. He was the son of Douglas J. and Vanessa G. Sims. He confessed Christ at a young age on Aug. 30, 1998, at New Beech Grove Baptist Church. He was a senior at Menchville High School and was due to graduate June 2010. Jarin was very charismatic and lived life to the fullest. Stranger was not a word in his vocabulary and he made friends wherever he went. He was loved by many.
He leaves to cherish his precious memories his parents, Douglas and Vanessa Sims; two sisters, LaKeisha Sims and Tamika (Justice) Telfare; and one niece, Zaire Black, all of Newport News; his grandparents, Jesse (Bobbie) Humphrey of Cortland, Ohio, Virginia Sims of Youngstown, Ohio, and Betty Humphrey of Richlands, N.C.; five aunts, Victoria (Carlos) Rush of Warren, Ohio, Jeanette Diehl-Cook, Joann (Carrington) Robinson and Tanya Mims, all of Youngstown, Tammie (James) Burgan of Yuma, Ariz.; and one uncle, Reginald (Kathryn) Humphrey of Northridge, Calif.; and a host of cousins, other relatives and friends.
He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Douglas Sims; aunt, Brenda Sims; and cousin, Dirk Robinson.
Viewing will be from 1 to 7 p.m. Friday at Nickelson-Cummings Funeral Home. The family will be present from 6 to 7 p.m. Words of reflection can be expressed at that time. A celebration of life will be held at noon Saturday, Jan. 2, 2010, at New Beech Grove Baptist Church, 326 Tabbs Lane, Newport News, VA. Interment to follow at Peninsula Memorial Park.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Menchville High School, in memory of Jarin Sims, Class of 2010, 275 Menchville Rd., Newport News, VA 23602. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jarin SIMS
Leslie Cummings-Howell
January 26, 2010
I am just finding out today,so I am truly shocked and sadden...To my precious Vanessa,I'm glad you are a strong christian,and I will be undergirding you and Douglas,LaKeisha and Tomika in prayer.There is nothing or no words that can really comfort at this time,is is a process that may take a lifetime.The both of you raised a well adjusted loved young man who made a great mark on people:the gift of humor(fun-loving)--Continue holding on to God's hand.Much Love
<3 Kai
January 26, 2010
I didnt know Jarin very well, but my heart and prayers go out to the family. Menchville isn't the same without one of it's students. I pray that Jarin is watching over his classmates as we speak. Gone but never forgotten.....
Michele Heald
January 22, 2010
Vanessa and family -- I am so sorry to hear about your son. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I look forward to seeing you back at the wellness center. Please know that you are loved and missed.
jasmine dales
January 16, 2010
i love u jarin u will be in mi heart 4eva we rode the bus together u was to funny to me i love u so much
Sheretta
January 14, 2010
Vanessa,Doug &Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss.My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Kerin B
January 13, 2010
Jarin we went 2 middle school together i didn't know you that well but my friends at MHS say you were just like one of us you are gone but never forgotten
hannah
January 12, 2010
i didnt really know you at school but im still super sad :( rip jarin
Diamond
January 11, 2010
Rip Jarin ! ily babyy !!!
Laura Reid
January 8, 2010
Vanessa and Family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers.
raven
January 8, 2010
Jarin your gone and NEVER will be forgotton. I will soon see that pretty smile again save a spot <3 prayer go out to family and friends.
Pat Lindsay
January 8, 2010
Doug and Vanessa,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Doug, we worked together at NNS and I was privileged to know you and through you, your family. Know that your son is with God now.
keya woodard
January 7, 2010
i love u jarin
Cynthia Harges
January 7, 2010
My heart goes out to you. May your memories be filled with your love rather than your loss.
Katherine Davis Small
January 7, 2010
Vanessa,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your friends at VIMS are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Margaret Fonner
January 7, 2010
Vanessa, You and your family are in my prayers. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
January 6, 2010
Our deepest sympthany goes out to the parents Douglas and Vanessa Humphrey , family and friends. We have been praying that God will comfort and keep you during this time of sorrow. Remember God will not put on you more than you can bare. Love Valarie Garrett Tousant and family.
January 6, 2010
Vanessa & Doug,
May God provide your family strength, comfort and peace during this time of your loss. Hold on to the memories Jarin has left you with because they shall last forever. Take comfort in knowing he is now in a much better place than we are... with Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. You are not alone. If my family and I can do anything for you, please let us know. God Bless!
Michael and Reba Lyons and Family
Trisha C.
January 6, 2010
Jarin had a smile that would light up the room. His smile made everyone else smile. He will be missed. Tamika, You and your family are in my prayers.
shalissa walker
January 5, 2010
hey mr and mrs. sims i just wanted you to know that my whole church family has you and your family in our prayers
Shawn Burton
January 4, 2010
Vanessa & Doug I'm sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts go out to you at this difficult time.
CHELSEA MILLER
January 4, 2010
JARIN I KNOW I DID NOT KNOW YOU WELL ENOUGH BUT IM GOING TO MISS AND LOVE YOU FOREVER
Datric Johnson
January 4, 2010
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I have seen the "RIP Jarin Sims" on many cars in town. Even though I do not know your family personally I feel that I must express my condolences. I am in the United States Army and seeing this I am reminded how short life really is. May God give you the strength to carry on through this difficult time. I will keep your family in my prayers. RIP JARIN.
January 4, 2010
may God bless the family and be with you. now Jarin is at a better place .
Elaine Morris
January 2, 2010
I am so sorry, I just found out about this today and I am just in shock as I know you are as well. I know there are no words that will comfort you, nobody knows how you feel. No matter what feelings you have, they are yours. It will take time to cope with the sorrow, but the sadness will always be there. I pray for you all to have strength and get through this terrible time. Please call me if you need anything at all.
Shari Smith-McKinney
January 2, 2010
Vanessa & Doug,
May God comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time. You are in my prayers.
Danny & Shelia Tice
January 2, 2010
Words cannot express our deepest condolences for your lost.We will keep your family in prayer. Blessed be to God,even the father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort.Who will comfort ypur family in all of your tribulations,that the Sims family may be protected from any trouble and hurt as God walk with them. My God seal the family with his love through the grief of losing their love one.
January 2, 2010
Doug & Vanessa:
Words cannot express my deepest condolences for such a great loss. This beautiful young man left this earth much too soon. But we know that only God can bring us through the rough times. Keep your hands in His and He will see you through.
Roxann Norman
President, Crown Financial Ministry
Diane Reed
January 2, 2010
To Vanessa and her family, no words can possibly express the sorrow that is felt at the loss of your beloved son Jarin. Please know that my family's prayers and hearts are with you all at this time. Jarin was such a blessing and bright spirit to everyone and his memory will be engraved with us forever.
Kathy Fleck
January 2, 2010
Vanessa and family,
My heart aches with you. I cannot begin to imagine your pain. JARIN will be missed by many. I pray that God gives you comfort at this very difficult time. Know that you are loved and your God and your family and friends are there for you.
HUGS
Kathy
Ruth Perry
January 1, 2010
To the Sims Family
I'm very sorry to hear about Jarin's passing. I truly enjoyed him as a youth usher at NBG. He always came in with a smile on his face. A very sweet and happy young man that I am glad I had the opportunity to know. By reading his many posts I learned that he touched many lives. Be comforted in knowing that many people loved him. Continue to lean on God to get you through this difficult time. Jarin will be missed.
Hilda Canady
January 1, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Donna Love Sealey
January 1, 2010
Vanessa... There are no words to express ... my heart aches for you and your family... I pray that you find some peace in knowing that your precious angel has gone back home...
January 1, 2010
To the Sims Family,
We were sorry and sadened to hear of your loss, Jarin was a fine and cheerful young man and please know that he touched so many lives in a good way. You will never be alone in missing him and may your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived by Jarin. He will always hold a special place in all our hearts and memories too. The McNeil Family
Brad and Terry Stanfield
January 1, 2010
To Doug and family, You are in our prayers and thoughts. Brad and Terry Stanfield
Selena Penn
January 1, 2010
I met Jarin a few summers ago. He was such a nice guy. He had an amazing personality. Jarin always found a way to make me smile. We have a lot of memories that I can never forget. I will truely miss him and there's not a second that goes by when im not thinking about him. I love you big bro.
JoAnn Morgan
January 1, 2010
To Vanessa and family,
You are in my prayers daily.
Tanesha Koonce
January 1, 2010
I knew Jarin as a student of another teacher's class. He always wanted everyone laughing and joking right along with him. I remember him to be bright and always loving a laugh at anytime. He would even try to get a laugh, even when he was in trouble!
To Jarin's parents, family, friends, and classmates: Its hard to understand the work of the Lord. May the Father give you comfort, understanding, and peace that this life is temporary and there is a reward in the afterlife. Jarin is in Heaven looking down and watching over you as you continue to live this life in God's light and know that your reward will also come and you will see him again. God Bless You Always!
Nick Quinn
January 1, 2010
Jarin you will forever be missed my friend. The memories we have shared over the years will always stay in my heart. You will be beside me in spirit at graduation. Love you, Miss you.
The Browns
January 1, 2010
Our prayers are with the family at this time of their loss. May GOD keep you close.
Children are a heritage from the Lord. —Psalm 127:3
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life. —Psalm 23:6
January 1, 2010
Jarin i never thought i'd see the day when you would be gone..i wish i couldve had the chance to say goodbye but maybe it was better this way because i wouldnt have been able to say it.when i met you at bushe gardens i knew you were sweet and kind.i wish we wudve stayed in touch in the last three months...i cant wait to see you in heaven one day,we miss you and will never forget you
Theresa Miles
December 31, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
December 31, 2009
To the Sims Family,
Surely it is difficult when death comes so unexpectedly to a loved one; especially a child. I pray the Lord will comfort your hurting hearts with tender care and an ever present hope of an eternal reunion.
Marvel in the blessing that made an imprint upon so many lives.
Miranda Cross & Family
Rebecca Chaklos
December 31, 2009
Just before I found out about Jarin's passing, I dreamt of the Dancing Shiva. For those who may not know, the Shiva is one of the three main Hindu Gods. I was afraid because She represents destruction, pain, and suffering. Fearing what was to come, I received the tragic news. While remembering Jarin, I cried and I laughed. But amidst my emotions, I feel a glimmer of hope. My hope comes from this image of the Dancing Shiva because She represents more then destruction and suffering. When her dance is complete, life is renewed, reborn. I believe my hope comes from a place in my heart and soul which has been touched by Jarin. The bits of his goodness in each one of us are not a result of this tragedy, but of his life. The pieces of Jarin in each of us must be nurtured and allowed to blossom. I am certain he is peacefully resting.
Nia Wilson
December 31, 2009
Jarin , although i never got the chance to know you as well as i should've , your life touched my soul. your candle lighting was absolutely amazing.despite the cold weather , and despite my feet being frozen it was all worth it. &, it was breathtaking to hear how one person can touch HUNDREDS of lives ... .
& Jarin,... i cant wait until the day i can meet and thank you for the inspiration . you were an amazing kid and id say your life and your story CHANGED MY LIFE. i know you are sitting PRETTY up there with our Lord God. keep smiling , [ i know you are ! ]
? nia wilson .
Shawanda Robinson
December 31, 2009
Jarin,
I really wish i would have had the chance to say good bye. Now all i have is memories and wishes that i would have at least called you often to see how you were doing. I remember meeting you in 7th grade. You were one of the reasons i looked forward to school. Great personality and a smile hard to not smile back at. Workin at McDonald's is a memory as well. You justy made everything so much funner than it really was and appreciated tjhe small things. Even though i'll be walking with Denbigh's class of 2010, i will carry a piece of your spirit with me. You will definitely be missed for now, but i hope to see you again someday.
December 31, 2009
Whati remember about Jarin was that big bright smile when he ran off the football after he made a play an he would always come to side line an say coach did you see that hit? Thats the moment i have in my heart gone but never forgotten you will be miss .My heart an prayer goes out to the family .My God Bless You .Coach Richardson And Family .
December 31, 2009
I met Jarin several years ago when he was a young kid. He was your typical young boy, but he also came across as sweet and sensitive. He was also a little cutie. I am so sorry for the loss of this young man. My condolences and prays go out to his family and his friends. Find comfort in the Lord and know that Jarin is fine. When you think of Jarin smile often.
Gwen Johnson
December 31, 2009
Doug, Vanessa, and Family
Our Deepest Sympathy in the loss of your son Jarin. We pray your strength in the Lord.
(For this is God, Our God forever and ever; He will be our guide even to death. Psalm 48:14
Johnson Family
marie cooper
December 31, 2009
i didnt know you well but your are a great kid from what i hear may you rest in peace .... you will always be a graduate of class 2010
Rakeem Kersey
December 31, 2009
class of '10 keep your heads up and be successful in memory of jarin, keep his legacy alive and carry it across that stage with you when its time to graduate.
jessica grimsley
December 31, 2009
jarin was an awsome kid! i did not know him well,but i do go to menchville and saw him in the hallways.menchville will not be the same with out him. my thoughts and prayers are with everyone
rip jarin d sims
from the grimsley family
Brandon Moore
December 31, 2009
I send all my prayers to the Sim's family. Jarin was like a brother to me and I had lots of love for him. R.I.P. Jarin. He will always be in my spirit.
caylaa blackwell
December 31, 2009
danqq jarin yuh meant alot to me. i love you alot and im sad that you had to leave early buh i kno that yuh are in a beter place. all the times that i spent wid yuh was really fun . i will never forqet any of dem - always sayinq the word really - we was always qettinq madd at each other danqq im just qonaa miss seeinq yuh in school wen i can - seeinq yuh in ur car just a ridinq lol - seeinq yuh at my house meetinq all of my friends - everythanqq - yuh always had a smile on my face abnd kept me and my friends lauqhinqq - my prayers qo to u and yur familyy - love yuh soo much - resst in peace <3
December 31, 2009
Dear Jarin Sims ,
Im Really Gonna Miss You Jarin , Them Lil Bit Of Times ii Hunqedd Widd You , ii Knew You Wass a Good Person && You Made Everbodyy Lauqhh , All Them Danqq Jokes You Saidd Aboudd People , Hadd Mehh Weak , ( You Eat Buscuits Like There Pepperments ) lol , Imma Miss You Jarin , Everybodyy Downn Here Misses You Too , And Sead Tears For You , Oh Yeahh ii Went To Your Cadle Liqhtt && It Was Freezinq Outsidee , Buh ii Had Too Stay Out There For Youu , Well ii Am Never Gonna Forqet About You . ii Miss You && Lovee Youu <33
Lovee Youu , Gabbyy
calvin langford
December 31, 2009
i was so glad to be able to meet jarin he was a cool laid back individual who always wanted to keep a smile on everybody face and joke around wit everybody. i remember all the days in 5th grade wen me and jamaica use to pick wit yu and justin and youll would throw crayons at us lol them was the days then these last to years we met back up and yu would always say wen i came in class wats good cal and dap me up and mrs earl would get mad cuz me yu and breon would be up talking after the bell rong man imma miss them days foreal but even tho yu gone yu will never be forgotten. live on forever jarin and watch over us. one love. rest in peace.
Adam Hunter & Family
December 31, 2009
Jarin,
Im really going to miss you man, as is all of your friends and family because of the great impact you had on peoples lives. I remember all of the funny laughs and good times we shared and how ambitious you were. My heart goes out to all of your family and you will always be remembered. Please look down on us and one day we will join you my man.
Rest in Peace.
Phillip Stringfield
December 31, 2009
i was so happy to have been able to have met such a funny and outgoing person as Jarin. I will never forget the fun times we had working together at Busch and hanging out together. Im glad he has been able to touch my life and many others as well. He and his family will for always be in my heart. May he rest in peace.
Christine Bosch
December 31, 2009
I didn't know Jarin well, but what I did know of him was that he was a happy go lucky young man who knew how to treat a lady. He was kind hearted, respectful and looked up to by so many of his peers. It's such a shame to see such a wonderful young man gone so early. But his memory still remains and the way he touched people's souls is clearly evident. My heart goes out to the Sims family in this time of sorrow. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. "And I heard a voice from heaven saying, "Write this down: Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on. Yes, says the Spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from their hard work; for their good deeds follow them!" Revelation 14:13
lawrence stokes
December 31, 2009
dear sims family i am greatly hurt to hear of your lost i always loved jarin and his spirit he will be greatly missed fromm coach lawrence coach marcus and the whole op football family and the stokes family we are praying your strenghth in the lord
Ashilei Ross
December 31, 2009
I didn't want to believe it when i heard about what had happened, i was so shocked. We didn't talk that much, but it still hurts. Im going to miss seeing you at church, especially coming in that nice purple shirt, me & sarah's favorite : ) I know your in a better place and theres no need to be sad. Its gonna be hard, but we can make it through. Our goal is to now smile and not be sad, because we know you would smile for anything. You were sent down here to do the things God wanted you to do, and your job is complete. You have taught so many people, different things. Last night, i learned from you, that you should smile over even the little things in life. Im glad that you can now spread your pretty wings & look over us. To the Sim's family, i am here if you need anything, I love you. Jarin, its never see goodbye its see you later, so i'll see you one day so save me a good spot up there : )
Rest In Peace.
Love,
Ashilei<3
December 31, 2009
R.I.P.
Valerie Kenney
December 31, 2009
Having Jarin in my history class at MHS was always a bright spot in my day. He was a wonderful person. My heart and prayers are with his family and his hundreds of friends.
Amelia Hodges
December 31, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. Sims,
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. We have never met but I share your grief and terrible loss. I know what it is to lose a child. You see, I lost my 20 year old son under very, very similar circumstances three years ago. The days, weeks, months and years will be difficult ones but know that God is an ever-present comforter. I pray that you will also find comfort in the many memories you have of Jarin. God bless.
Theresa Chaklos
December 31, 2009
As I remember Jarin, I remember all the great stories: such as his first Mother's Day present (to "be good"); the time I got the call from your alarm company that the house alarm was set off after Jarin, a mere kindergartner, scaled your 6' high privacy fence to drop off his school bag and grab a snack before heading to babysitter's house. In general, his positive outlook, pleasant and friendly personality and his resourcefulness are qualities we should all strive for and pass on as Jarin did. Rest in Peace Jarin, you will be greatly missed and you are greatly loved. Terry, Sabrina & Rebecca Chaklos.
December 31, 2009
Doug and Vanessa,
I was terribly saddened to hear of Jarin's death, yet, at the same time, it thrills my heart to know that he accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. There is no greater gift one can receive in this life time than salvation through Christ. I pray this fact brings comfort to you in your time of grief.
raquelle woodard
December 31, 2009
jarin we love u and u will be in my heart
Laura Wiesen
December 31, 2009
Vanessa and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep every wonderful memory of Jarin close to your hearts because those memories will bring you great joy in the future. You are so loved by so many, and we are all praying for each of you.
Much love,
Laura
Dana & Jasmine Madison
December 31, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of bereavement. May God continue to bless you and give you confront as you continue to face the days ahead without Jarin. He touched and was loved by many. Hold on to the memories and his smile. Know he is now dancing and making those around him in heaven smile. God Bless Each of You!
December 31, 2009
Doug, Vanessa, and Family,
You are in our prayers. We love you!
Ronnie Cook (CNU)
December 31, 2009
Vanessa, I was very saddened to hear about the passing of your son Jarin. I extend my heart-felt condolences to you and your family. May God be with you and keep you close to Him during this very difficult time. Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.
C Forrester
December 31, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Simone Williams & Family
December 31, 2009
Jarin, you will be greatly missed by all. We all love you here on earth, but God loves you best. Keep that pretty smile as you walk around heaven now, smiling with the Angels. To the Sim's family, remember, God makes no mistakes. Remember the good times and all the laughter that Jarin brought to your family. We love you and we will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
December 31, 2009
I personally did not know Jarin or his family but my children go to Menchville and my daughter is a senior and knew Jarin. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and freinds.
Stephanie Ice
December 31, 2009
Jarin was a fine young man, I must say I didnt know him and my heart goes out to his family..
December 31, 2009
JARIN WE LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU RIP THE ALLEN FAMILY
c council
December 31, 2009
I do not know you, but last Saturday I came upon the accident and I said a prayer. I know your family and friends will miss you. Their love and memories will keep you close to their hearts.
Joshua Storms
December 31, 2009
Our Prayers go out to you and your family at this time of such great sorrow. From the Storms Family
December 31, 2009
Jarin will always remain in our heart and prayers. We also pray for God's comfort to be laid upon the Sims family and all Jarin's friends. This is just a short time while we are here on this earth...soon,,,we will all be together in a much more beautiful place....our home in heaven!
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