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Jason Seidnitzer Obituary

HAMPTON - Jason Thomas Seidnitzer, 29, a native of Hampton, went home to be with the Lord on Saturday evening, Nov. 7, 2009. Jason is free now and resting with the Lord he loves. He graduated from Woodside High School.
Jason loved life. He was a lover of all music and with his friends he enjoyed dances, bowling, and swimming events. Many of his friends and family gave of themselves to bring joy and sunshine to his life. The Washington Redskins were his favorite football team, while they were winning, otherwise his loyalty was with the Dallas Cowboys. He was a member of Faith Baptist Church of Hampton.
Jason was a gift to all of us. He truly was his mother's world and she was Jason's. He was a teacher to many, and put a smile on everyone's face who knew him. Jason will be missed by all, and will always remain in our hearts.
He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Delia Seibel, Frank Seidnitzer and Paul Palmentera III.
Jason leaves behind to cherish his memory his parents, Christal M. Seidnitzer and Thomas T. Seidnitzer; his fiancEe, Sherri; his grandmother, Ann Palmentera; brother, Thomas J. Seidnitzer; sisters, Christina Vega and her husband, Mike, Ericka Seidnitzer and her boyfriend, George Rome, Jr.; nieces and nephews, David James "DJ", Brittany, Larissa, Christian, and another little one on the way; and numerous aunts and uncles and a host of cousins. Also surviving are his beloved faithful furry companion, Susie, and his feathered friend Bobby.
Friends are invited to visit from 6 to 8 p.m. Friday, Nov. 13, at Parklawn-Wood Funeral Home.
A Celebration of Jason's life will be at noon Saturday, Nov. 14, at the Deer Park Baptist Church, 826 J. Clyde Morris Blvd., in Newport News 23601. Interment will follow in Parklawn Memorial Park.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Prader-Willi Syndrome Association (USA) 8588 Potter Park Drive, Suite 500, Sarasota, FL 34238 www.pwsausa.org
To all Jason's friends and family, he wanted you all to know how much he loved you and to never forget how important you were to him.
Friends are encouraged to visit www.parklawn-woodfh.com to share memories and words of condolence with the family.
Arrangements are under the care of Parklawn-Wood Funeral Home, 2551 N. Armistead Ave., Hampton. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Nov. 11 to Nov. 13, 2009.

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Kimberly Walsh

December 3, 2009

Aunt Christal & Family..... My thoughts and prayers are with my family . Jason was the sweetest man I knew. I always told Jason he was my favorite cousin but not to tell the others but we all know Jason... that was the first thing he did was tell the others lol . Me & Jason was six months apart and were very close. I had the opportunity to be one of Jason's care givers and those couple of years were the best. If it was my day off when I would return he would tell me I was his Kimmy and he loved me and miss me so much . Just hearing that would put a smile on my face and make my day . If you were having a bad day all you had to do was be around Jason and he would turn it around . I would always ask him who was his favorite worker he would say me but then a couple days later I would fine out it was his sister Tina or Brenda lol . I would say I thought I was and then he would say you are. He didn't want to hurt our feelings that's just how Jason was. Me and Jason had this thing if he didn't like what was going on I would tell him hes the boss so we have to listen to him .So then if he couldn't get something he wanted he would tell me hes the BOSS.... and I had to do it lol. Well Jason would get so excited and have his little fingers just a going when I would tell him he was my no#1 Jason and my boyfriend Jason was no#2 . He would ask me what my boyfriend Jason had to say about that. Well he said you are my no#1 I thought I was your no#1 I said nope my cousin Jason is my no#1 he was the first Jason in my life. Jason would get so excited about that. He would always tell me I'm your no#1 Jason and I would say yes you are. Well Jason taught me some of this song that one of the nurses he had taught him. Well me and him would sing it some days. "Its not about us its all about Jesus..... "Its not about us its all about Jesus ...I loved to hear him sing. It was so cute how he did it. Well Jason loved to sing happy birthday when it was your day. Well Jason, Aunt Christal and grandma all sang to me on my machine on October 28 and I will treasure that message forever.Their are so many more sweet memories that I have with Jason that I would like to share but I cannot mention them all right now. He is my "no#1 Jason" and I am his "Kimmy" . That's how it will be forever . You will always be in my heart and you will never be forgotten.I know you had to go but I just wish you could have stay a little longer. I know your with god and your in a better place now. Where you can run and play all day. God has a sweet angel now. I know your watching over us Jay Buggy " You Sweet Angel" So make sure you save me a spot near you I will see you again one day but until that day comes I want you to know I Love You Jay Buggy and Miss You So Much.... I love you Aunt Christal and my family. I want my family to know I am here for all of y'all.....

Brittany Seidnitzer

November 24, 2009

Nanny Christal
I'm so sorry. He should have had so much more time on earth. He was an amazing man and a wonderful uncle. He will forever remain in our hearts. He wouldn't want any of us to be sad. So Smile! :)
I love you.

K Chernicky

November 18, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

betty & shawn bateman

November 17, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

pamela austin

November 17, 2009

I am so deeply sorry to here of jasons passing.MY father just told me, my heart sunk. Iremember babysitting for him and tina when they were babies and i actually enjoyed it.Jason was an angel then as he still is now in heaven. I know this is hard but know that you have the lord on his side and yours as well.He sure new how to flirt ,and to make people laugh something ill never forget.If you need anything dont hesitate to ask.May god be with you in your time of need and always here on out.Love you all,pamela austin/rilee.

Debbie Vega

November 13, 2009

I am so very sorry for your loss.Life stuns us with the wrenching away of a loved one! Our hearts are broken and the need to find meaning is real.

Jason brought so much love into all of your lives...and was such a gift to his mom.In his memory he would want you all to be happy in your lives.

The first time I ever met Jason I walked in Cristals door and the first thing Jason said to me was "do you have a boyfriend?" I said no but I have a husband". He looked away...and (my daughter was behind me) he went straight for her and asked her also! LOL.. He was not shy around the girls!

One thing I know Jason had alot of, was the love for his family and they for him. Love seems short sometimes,never forgetting someone is long and understanding is longer still.

I hope you can find comfort in the days to come knowing that beyond this world there is another that exist, where there is peace for Jason.

May the grace of God fill your hearts and help you through this difficult time.

Dave Matthews

November 13, 2009

I never got to meet Jason, but I've known the Seidnitzer family for a few years. My heart goes out to Crystal, Tommy, and the rest of the family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Brandy & Brad Howell

November 13, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Jason was obviously well loved and will be greatly missed.

Trish Lively

November 13, 2009

To Jason's family,
I had the pleasure of having Jason in my Home Economics class when he was a student at Eaton Middle School. He was always such a joy and accepted his personal needs when we "cooked" with a smile.
I have kept up with Jason's progress over the years through his uncle, Frank, and remember when his high school graduation picture was in the paper. I know you were proud.
My thoughts are with you're family and know that he is in a better place. I hope my daughter (who passed away at age 29 a year and a half ago) will meet him again in heaven.
God Bless,
Trish Lively

Deborah Moody-Gaddis

November 13, 2009

What wonderful memories I have of that guy at the ball field cheering his "girlfriend" Hannah to victory. I don't think of it without getting a smile on my lips and a tear in my eye.
I also recall seeing a devoted mother leaving "no stone unturned", on a constant mission to seek out and provide the best care available for her precious son.
I cannot imagine your grief.
Please know that I am a better person for knowing Jay and you.
Your friend always.
Debbie

meryl snow

November 12, 2009

Jason was so very special to me and it was an honor to take care of him. I don't know what I'll do without those home visits to see Jason's smile. You are such a special family. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your lives. Much Love, Meryl J. Snow

Kimberly kelly

November 12, 2009

To the family of "J": So sorry to hear about your loss. As a home health nurse I have come into contact with so many patients, but jason was truly so special to me. His infectious laugh, jokes and gentle spirit reminded me why I became a nurse. I'm so grateful to him for that. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.

Karen (Brauer) Holloway

November 12, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Karen (Brauer) Holloway

November 12, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Zia Paige

November 12, 2009

I remember the first day I met Jason at Willbrook. He was just a big ole heap of happiness sitting in the floor singing and shaking those hands. That angelic face smiling so bright.I am so sorry for the loss of your angel, Christal. He's home now and healed. Praying for you and your family.

Ashley Harris

November 12, 2009

When I think about memories with Jason I think about the summers he would come to my nanas (Aunt Tre to Jay) and swim in the pool with us. He was such a funny guy with such a great joy for life. When I think about Jay I will see his forever sweet smile and it will make me smile. My thoughts and prayers are with my Seidnitzer family and everyone else that loves Jay the way we do.

Barb Stokes

November 11, 2009

For my dear friend Christal, and the family that dear Jason left behind, you will be together again one day. I never met Jason in person, but I felt the love he had for his family through his sweet Mom's words and stories. Jason & I spoke a few times on the phone, and he always sent his love. Christal, Ann, Christina, Erika, Thomas, be strong, and keep loving each other as Jason did you all. Love to you all -

Beulah Davis, LSW, Riverside Hospice

November 11, 2009

Christal and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss of such a sweet, gentle, loving and precious person as Jason. I remember the last time I saw him and he wanted me to bring him something. Well, I didn't get to give him a Slurpee, but I sent up a prayer asking God to comfort him and your family. I also asked God to lead and direct you and Jason as you dealt with different interventions.
I could see how much Jason was loved and definitely will be missed amongst you.
We cannot fully know what the plan was for Jason's life. But, we do know that bringing you all and others joy, love and hope was part of that plan.
May you be comforted in knowing that the good memories of Jason's life will bring you joy in days and years to come. Your immediate pain of loss is only natural and will be respected by others.
You all take care of each other as Jason would want you to.
Be encouraged and blessed.

Cindy Holland

November 11, 2009

Dear Christal, Tommy, Kristina, Ericka and entire family,
You are all in my thoughts during this terrible time of such great loss. Just remember all the great time we have all shared with Jason through out his life. What great memories I have of Jason over the years, always trying to run Joe off of Macon Road. I am so glad I was able to give him a kiss and a hug last month. I guess I needed to go back to Va. for more than one reason. I wish I could be there with you all now, but that's not possible. Just know that my love is with you all.
I am so sorry. I will be praying for you all.

Love to you all,
Cindy Holland

Ericka Seidnitzer

November 11, 2009

As everyone knows, Jason was my brother my BIG BROTHER! My favorite brother!!! Jason I will miss you very much and I love you very much! I will see you again one day.. n i'ma remember you just as you were before you got really sick... I love you Buck A Boo! You were the best brother any person could ask for! You inspired me and a lot of people to be better people! I love you very and I will miss you very much! It's going to be hard to come to mom's n not see you here but i'll be fine i'll stay strong n have you this lil niece or nephew n i'll be strong for mama n tina because I know that's what you would want! I'll see you soon! I LOVE YOU!!

Liz & Babygirl

November 11, 2009

Christal, as your neighbor I saw you endure many things with Jason but most of all I saw your love for him and him for you. Know in your heart that you were a wonderful mother and caregiver and know that Jason took that with him. I will always remember the first day 25 years ago when I moved in my house and I saw him sitting on the front porch and went over and spoke to him and it never stopped from there. I watched him grow and he was an extraordinary young man. He was sweet and kind and he loved gossip and could never keep a secret. It makes me smile to remember how he loved being the first one to snitch. Nothing got past him....nothing. There will be an emptiness in your heart forever but just know that God will keep you in perfect peace if you keep your mind stayed on him. May God Bless you and the whole family during this time of deep sorrow.

November 11, 2009

"Christal, Tommy, Christina and Erica," So sorry about Jay. Glad that we got to see him on halloween, he was so happy seeing all the kids. He will be missed greatly. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. If there is any thing that we can do just let us know.

" Candi and Jessie Schwartz"

Bubba Cox

November 11, 2009

Jason and the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I will cherish the memories that we made and had together.

Herman/Joan Schlageter

November 11, 2009

Dear Christal,

Joan and I send our deepest sympathy.
We are saddened for the loss of Jason.
Please remember that your sorrow will ease with time, but your memories will last fo ever. There will be times when a smile will come to your face for remembering something funny he said or done. Those moments you will remember and cherish.
You are one of the strongest women we know.
God bless you and your family,
Love,
Joan and Herman

Shannon Seidnitzer

November 11, 2009

Oh lord Jay! I bet your singing right now "Heaven here's your Trouble! T.R.O.U.B.L.E." LOL - One of the many memories I have of you silly guy! You are in a much better place now, rest in peace. Give our Seidnitzer grandparents a kiss for me! Until we meet again... Your cousin, Shannon

November 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jason was full of life and always loved coming into the office. It is sad that he is gone but has left you with many happy memories. God bless you all .
Jana Gillespie
Children's Clinic

Lawrence Gholson II

November 11, 2009

Jason or "J Boogie" as we knew him was truly the life of our Willbrook family (the group home in which he lived earlier)... it saddens my heart to know that he is no longer with us- but it is such an inspiration to know how determined he was and DID have a good life full of fun, family and friends.

J will be missed greatly and his memories will continue to live on through the myriad of "captured moments" we have been blessed to share with him... he has taught us all how to fight the good fight of faith...

"He shall hunger no more neither shall he thirst any more but God will wipe away every tear he cry"

~family be encouraged always-because to Jason "family matters" most~

November 11, 2009

Christal, Tommy, and Family -
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about Jason's passing. He was always able to overcome such tremendous hurdles and challenges in his life that we just knew he would overcome this one too! Take comfort in the fact that he knew he was loved by all and that he is at peace now and out of pain.

In Deepest Sympathy,
Robert, Jodi, and Kristina

Crissy Rammelt

November 11, 2009

I am so sorry for your lose Christal I have heard about Jason for years from Aunt Rita I know he had a great life and that you guys are wonderful parents and did everything to the fullest for him and that is so wonderful keep all those wonderful memories in your heart forever and know that our thoughts and prays are with you at this time. sincerly love aunt Rita's niece Crissy Rammelt

Benita Patrick

November 11, 2009

To the family of Jason Seidnitzer,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I was surprised and sad to read of Jason's passing this morning. I was Jason's speech teacher at Bassette Elementary School in Hampton several years ago. I will never forget Jason and enjoyed working with him and your family at that time. Please accept my heart felt condolences. May God Bless your family.

Lee

November 11, 2009

My sincere condolences to the Seidnitzer & Palmentera family.
Jason is still an inspiration in my life & will continue to help me when I am feeling down & out. Jason brought laughter & joy to everyone he was around, his memory was the sharpest I ever seen in an individual. Jay would not forget anything that was said or any situation that was going on around him. Jason never gave up in anything he did, even as an avid Redskins fan he might have jumped a few fences but always pulled for the Skins! Jason I going to miss you! Your legacy will live on!
P.S. Jay please don’t drop dime on me in heaven.

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