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Julie MITCHAM Obituary
Julie met her husband of 25 years, James R. Mitcham III (Jim), when he was stationed at Fort Benning, Ga. They dated for four years as he patiently waited for her to complete her Bachelor of Science degree in Biology at Columbus College. They were married at beautiful Lake Martin, Alabama, where they shared some of their most precious moments. Their life with the U.S. Army transported them to many assignments including Fort Bragg, Fort Campbell, Korea, the Pentagon, and finally, Fort Monroe, Va.
Julie and Jim established their home in Yorktown in 1997 where they raised their two beautiful children, James and Lauren. Julie defined motherhood in her love and dedication to her family and community. She was loved and admired by many. She was a swim team organizer, cheerleading coach, a lacrosse coach, a marathoner, a great running partner and wonderful friend. While usually a little late for appointments, Julie was taken too early to Heaven in the opinion of those who loved her.
Memorial services are planned for Friday, Dec. 10, 2010, at 1 p.m. at St Luke's United Methodist Church, 300 Ella Taylor Rd in Yorktown, VA 23692, with a reception following in the Fellowship Hall.
We ask that expressions of sympathy be made as donations to the Sarcoma Foundation of America at www.curesarcoma.org. Arrangements are by Berceuse Funeral and Cremation Traditions, 757-825-8070. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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for Julie MITCHAM
Bruce Palmatier
December 15, 2010
Dear Jim,
Dorrie and I extend our deepest sympathies and have you, your children, and, of course, Julie in our prayers.
Toni Mudd
December 13, 2010
Dear Jim,
I send my heartfelt condolences to you & your family on the loss of your dear Julie. Even when she was fighting this horrid disease, Julie was concerned about how we were doing and it was so appreciated. I recently heard that God must have needed more good angels in heaven and I am holding on to that comforting thought. May the good memories you have sustain you through this very tough time. God's blessings on you & yours, Toni
Brenda Ivey
December 13, 2010
I knew Julie in high school, and she was always so nice and kind to everyone. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Mike & Darlene Lilienthal
December 13, 2010
Jim,
I was deeply saddened to hear of your wife's passing. I have never had the opportunity to meet her but by knowing you, I know she was a wonderful woman. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
Hugh & Valerie Way
December 13, 2010
We were saddened to hear of Julie's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
John & Anneliese Wilson
December 12, 2010
Dear Jim, James & Lauren,
With many kind thoughts and deepest sympathy in the loss of Julie.
We all met 13 years ago when we all came to Ft Monroe at the same time. Julie helped me getting used to the new place and I don't think I thanked her enough for it.
" God saw you getting tired, he knew your time drew near, you went to rest. Knowing that God's heaven just received one of the best."
Our thoughts and prayer are with you.
Dave and Joanne Buto
December 10, 2010
Jim, James, and Lauren,
We were deeply saddened to hear of your untimely loss. Julie will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tracy Thornton Obert
December 10, 2010
I am so saddened to hear of Julie's passing. She was a sweet, dear, loving friend to me. I was only 16, Julie 20, but she was an amazing person then and I knew she would always be an amazing person, wife and mother! I will never forget her phone call to me to let me know about the wonderful man, Jim, she had met and would soon marry. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and hope you will find comfort knowing she is at peace.
Sara, Tony, Paige & Chloe Hartian
December 10, 2010
Julie's "dash in between" influenced so many. She always had a compliment for me and my girls. The Manta Rays and Titans will swim and play on with the strength and grace of her spirit.
Nancy, Ron and David Thompson
December 10, 2010
Dear Jim, James and Lauren, our deepest sympathy goes out to you for the loss of your wife and mother. Julie had a wonderful way of making everyone feel special. She will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Karen Fallon & Butch Peebles and Macy, Shannon and Mallory
December 10, 2010
Jim, Lauren and James - Please accept our deepest and heartfelt condolences. Julie was truly a wonderful friend, an amazing mother and an inspiring woman. We were all blessed to have known her. Julie will be in our thoughts and prayers.
December 10, 2010
Dear Jim, James and Lauren;
Julie will be missed by everyone who knew her no matter where they crossed her path in life. May your memories bring comfort in the days ahead. With heavy hearts and our deepest sympathy,
Amy, Madison and Sam Landers
Gail, Roy & Lauren Neff
December 10, 2010
Jim, James and Lauren, We are so sorry to hear about Julie. She was such a warm and beautiful person and will be greatly missed by everyone that knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God bless.
Don, Liz and Anne Rowe
December 10, 2010
Dear Jim, James and Lauren, we are so sorry at the loss of your wife and Mom. We are praying for you and wishing you peace and comfort in the coming days. If there is anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. All God's strength and blessings to each of you.
Rick and Janet Bainbridge
December 10, 2010
Jim,
Please know you and your family are in our prayers at this time. May God's loving presence comfort and strengthen you now and forever.
Bob & Marcie Bassler
December 9, 2010
Jim,
We were very saddened to hear about Julie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children as you mourn her loss. You have our deepest sympathy.
Valisa Schmidley
December 9, 2010
I went to Jordan High School with a beautiful girl named Julie Register. I remember her fondly as being warm and sweet-- a cheerleader with a winning smile and a kind word for everyone she met. I am sad to see that she has passed so soon and wish God's peace to all of her loved ones.
Dwayne Dorminey
December 9, 2010
I am so sad to hear of Julie's passing. What a great lady and may she rest in peace. I am praying for Allen and all of her family during this time and will pray God's peace on them.
Cathy Swiney
December 9, 2010
Mitcham Family,
I went to school with Julie(JVHS)had her in my homeroom and enjoyed every moment knowing her and calling her my friend. She was a beautiful and successful woman. I am so sorry for your loss. Our loss is Heaven's gain.
Cathy Pollock-Swiney JVHS c/o 1977
Marianne Knowlton
December 9, 2010
Jim, James and Lauren,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife and mother. We only spent a few days with Julie on the Caribbean cruise Summer 2009 but she made a lasting impression. God bless you all and our prayers are with you always.
John,Marianne,Veronica and Cassandra Knowlton
December 9, 2010
Jim & Family,
We're so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Frank & Grace Prindle
Pride of the Corps
Rachel McBride
December 9, 2010
Jim, James, and Lauren,
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife & mother. I love the picture you've chosen from her wedding day--she was a beautiful bride! I pray God comforts you with joyful memories like this one and how she touched the lives of those around her. She will be very missed because she was very loved. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve Trauth
December 9, 2010
Dear Mitch,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will remain in our prayers. Heidi and I ask God to give you each strength and comfort during this difficult time. In reverent respect,
Pat and Mike Rogers
December 9, 2010
Jim,
We were so sorry to hear about Julie's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Diana George
December 9, 2010
Dear Mitcham Family;
I had the pleasure of briefly getting to know Julie while working out with our trainer. She seemed to have such a sweet & humble spirit about her. I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that your going through. It has been your pain to lose someone so dear to your heart, but Heaven's gain to receive her with open arms. God bless you all!
Cory Martin
December 9, 2010
Jim, James, and Lauren,
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and mother. I didn't know her well, but I could tell how much she cared about her kids. She did her best to make sure James and Lauren would be successful in school. Your family remains in my prayers.
Howard, Gisela, Alison and Joseph Harmatz
December 9, 2010
Dear Jim, James & Lauren,
Please accept our deepest and heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your dear Julie. She was truly a wonderful and special person, that we feel blessed to have known during our years together. We will never forget her kindness, as well as the strength she demostrated over the difficult months of her illness. We know she is with God now, and that His love is eternally there for her. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Glenn Wilkinson
December 9, 2010
Jim,
It is always difficult to lose a family member especially a spouse. The good news is she is now in a wonderful place with the Lord and you will be reunited once you have completed your missions her on earth. May peace be with you and your children.
Carol Romeo
December 9, 2010
My name is Carol Romeo, a former Coast Guard Blue Dolphin mom, and mother of two sons, Matt and Zach. I can recall sitting through swim meets with Julie, and am so saddened by the news of her passing. May you and your children find peace, hope and understanding. God bless you all.
Genine & Patrick Pettitt
December 9, 2010
Dear Ramona, Jim, James and Lauren,
Your daughter, wife and mother was the epitome of grace, beauty and strength. I am lucky to have known her. Please know that our family is keeping all of you in our prayers as you cope with the immeasurable loss of such lovely and special woman.
Joe Frankie
December 8, 2010
Jim, we are saddened to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers. May the Peace and Love of the Lord be with you.
Tamzen, Mike, Will, Jack and Noelle Pickard
December 8, 2010
Jim, James and Lauren, we were so saddened to hear about Julie's passing. She was a beautiful person and wonderfully committed mom. You will all be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Jim Grunseth
December 8, 2010
Dear Jim and family,
My heart breaks with yours over this great loss of Julie. My wife, of 20 years, also named Julie, fought breast cancer for 7 years and passed away back in 1994. I know the tremendous pain you are going through. I am always here for you, Jim. My prayers are for the Lord Jesus' comfort and very real presence in your lives these days and months ahead. He will be with you for sure. Deuteronomy 31:8
- Jim Grunseth, West Point Class 1974
262-642-5092 [email protected]
Sylvia Crabb
December 8, 2010
Dear Mitcham Family,
My name is Sylvia Crabb and I was one of the secretary's at Mt. Vernon Elementary School during the time that James and Lauren attended. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.
December 8, 2010
Jim,
It is sad news that Julie lost her valiant battle against breast cancer. My prayers are with you and your family. As you grieve Julie's death, I pray that you know how deeply she and you are loved by God and respected by many.
Rick Pate, Salinas, Ca.
Pete Stuart
December 8, 2010
Jim,
May God bless you and your family during this difficult period. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark Dominguez
December 8, 2010
Jim,
Denise and I are so very sorry for your loss. I know Julie will be missed by your entire family and community. You and your family remain in our prayers.
Tracy Tourneur
December 8, 2010
Jim, I am very sorry to learn of your loss. My condolences go out to you and your children. You will be in my thoughts and prayers; and I know the heeling power of God's love. I am sure God is welcoming your wife to his table and wrapping her in his loving arms - may you feel his love and peace too. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you or your family. Sincerely, Tracy R. Tourneur (Redmond)
Dave and Anita Wallinger
December 8, 2010
Jim,
I was sorry to hear of your family's loss. You and your family are in Anita and my thoughts and prayers.
Jim Dixon
December 8, 2010
Jim, please know that you and your family are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and comfort you.
Jim Dixon
Pride of the Corps
Lou Gelling
December 8, 2010
Jim,
Karen and I are so sorry for your loss.
Our prayers go out to you and your family. We know that she is no longer in pain and that she is in a better place. We know that it will be hard but know that there are a lot of friends praying for you and your family. May God bless you and make you strong during these most difficult times. Let us know if there is anything that we can do for you.
Karen and Lou Gelling
Shawnee, KS
Fr. Jeffrey Anderson
December 8, 2010
Jim, James and Lauren,
May the Peace of God which passes all understanding keep your hearts and minds in the knowledge and love of God and of His Son, our Savior, Jesus Christ. May light perpetual shine upon the dearly departed. And may the blessing of God Almighty, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost be upon you and remain with you always. +
December 8, 2010
Jim, I've known you only briefly through Mr. Bolino's group but in that short time I could tell how much you loved Julie. My heartfelt prayers are with you and your family. Trish Chalmers (Portsmouth, VA)
Chuck and Godlove Kuklenski
December 8, 2010
Dear Jim,
Please extend my deepest sympathy to your family on your loss. It has been 2 years since my wife's breast cancer surgery, Godlove is doing well, which makes every new day special! You and your family are in our prayers.
Sincerely Yours,
Godlove and Chuck
Bill Albrecht
December 8, 2010
Jim,
I was very sad to learn of your loss. Though I've not seen you in a very long time, I always fondly remember our time together as cadets. Julie must have been a very special person, and I cannot imagine how difficult this must be. I lost my sister earlier this year to the same tragic disease. I'll say a prayer for you, and please know I'm thinking of you.
Bill Albrecht
USMA '74
Coach Deborah Wright
December 8, 2010
Dear Lauren,
You, your brother and father are in my prayers. Only having known you the few short months you played on the CHAMPIONSHIP TABB TIGERS field hockey rec league, I know how much your mom meant to you and how much she loved and supported you. I can only hope you and your family know how many people you have who love and care for you and who will miss your mom. She really was a wonderful woman. May God cherish her as much as she cherished you and your family!
WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU!!!
Tammy & Terrence Keith
December 8, 2010
We are all so sorry for your loss! We were blessed to have known Julie. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the kids.
Mark Rindler
December 8, 2010
Jim & family, please accept my sincerest condolences. Mark Rindler
December 8, 2010
Jim,
So sorry to hear about your loss.
You'll be in our thoughts,
Brian Hall
Gwen and Delinor Vantree
December 8, 2010
Sir,
Tree and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. We are praying the God will sustain you, Lauren and James during this time of sorrow. She will be greatly missed but she will live on in your memories.
Mary Miller
December 8, 2010
Reagan, Tom and I were deeply saddened by the news of Julie's passing. Words just cannot express our feelings. We often think of the days at Lake Martin and Forts Bragg, Benning and Campbell when we were all together and all the great memories we have shared. I knew when I introduced you and Julie you were destined to have a great and wonderful life together. Please accept our deepest condolences for you and your family. Tom and Mary Miller
Steve, Phyllis & Taylor Katona
December 8, 2010
Jim, James & Lauren. We are deeply saddened by the passing of Julie. She was a wonderful person and we know that her spirit will live on. May God comfort you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Allison Osborne
December 8, 2010
Jim, your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time. May God bless you and your family.
The Turner Family
December 8, 2010
Matthew 5:4
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Dear Jim, Lauren and James,
The Turner family have you all in our prayers. Julie will be dearly missed, but heaven was truly blessed.
With respect,
Travis and Andrea Turner
December 8, 2010
Jim,
My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please know that God is still in charge.
Melvin Walton
Joint Test and Evaluation-Suffolk
Steve and Andrea Kostoff
December 8, 2010
Jim, we offer our deepest condolences on Julie's passing. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Donna Augustine
December 8, 2010
To know Julie was to love her, She was truly one of the most loving, caring and compassionate people who brought out the best in everyone she knew. Her greatest joy in life was her family, I have had the privelige of knowing the Mitcham family long enough to see James and Lauren grow up into fine young people who have their Mom"s wonderful spirit.
Ramona, Jim, James and Lauren, my heart goes out to all of you. Julie will be missed by many and the world will not be the same without her. Her goodness and strength and love will go on in all of you.
Kirsten/David Soistmann
December 8, 2010
Julie was a beautiful and strong woman who will be missed. Jim, you and your family are in our prayers.
Kirsten Soistmann
December 8, 2010
Julie was a beautiful and strong woman who touched many peoples lives. She will be missed. Jim, you and your family will be in our prayers.
Lisa and Jeff Helmick
December 8, 2010
Jim, Lauren and James..The Helmick family is saddended to hear of Julie's passing. You are in our prayers and thoughts. Jeff and I thought the world of Julie and we are so grateful for having known her. May God bless you. - COL Jeff and Lisa Helmick/Yorktown, VA
David / Debbie Lloyd
December 8, 2010
Mitcham Family, Jim,James,Lauren,We are so very sorry to learn of Julie's passing.Our hearts and prayers go out to you.
Darlene Strickland Bristow
December 8, 2010
So very sorry for your loss. Julie was such a beautiful woman from the inside out and I will truly miss her. May you all have a peace that passes even your own understanding during this time.
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