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Randy BOWER Obituary
He fought courageously against colon cancer and was preceded in death by his father, Garland Bower; and three brothers, Ronnie, Stan and John Bower.
Randy served others for more than 25 years as a law enforcement officer on a city, county, state and federal level. He was diagnosed with cancer in 2006 at the age of 42. He faced his battle with unwavering faith, strength and courage as well as brave determination.
In this life, Randy was a wonderful example of a loving husband, son, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. He touched and inspired so many and will live on forever in our hearts and minds.
Randy is survived by his wife, Neona; daughters, Noelle and Deniece; son-in-law, Thomas Cahoon; mother, Tommie; sister, Sarah Guyer; brothers, Ernie and Junior Bower; two beautiful grandbabies and many more family and friends whose lives were touched by this extraordinary man. He will be greatly missed.
A memorial service will be held at 4 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 2, 2010, at Menchville Baptist Church, 248 Menchville Road, Newport News, Va. The family will receive guests immediately following the service at the church.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, 11835 Canon Blvd., Suite A-102, Newport News, VA 23606.
Arrangements are under the care of Altmeyer Funeral Home-Riverside Chapel. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Randy BOWER
Darrell Cole
November 25, 2023
Family I think of Randy a lot especially now that I am retired. He was such a good man who loved his family. He is missed every day. One if the jokes him and I would talk about was taking our wife's to Salam MA for Halloween which he loved.
Darrell L Cole
November 26, 2021
I can't believe it's been 11 years since you left. I still think of the things we were going to do. I pray for your family and they are doing well.
My Dearest Uncle, and Livs Great Uncle... I am blessed that you were able to be a part of Olivia's life as well as mine. You will be dearly missed
Stephanie Cook
December 12, 2010
December 7, 2010
friends of Heidi and BOB Clayton and Teri Smith (Neona's mother, stepfather and sister send deepest regrets for the rest of the family. May time heal the pain felt at this sad loss.
Lisa Uzzle
December 3, 2010
To the Bower Family, I worked with Randy at NNSO and it is with deep sadness to learn of your loss. Your family will be in our prayers.
Lisa Uzzle (formally, Gaidowski).
James Rhodes
December 2, 2010
I remember Randy when he and I started in the Sheriffs Office many years ago. Neoma, Kim and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
James and Kim Rhodes
Sherry Sindle
December 2, 2010
So sad to see Randy, go the love of your life Neoma, but know he is pain free and full of life now. You were of great support to me when Richard passed away and it has almost been a year Dec, 6 will make a year, just know that my thought and prayers are with you and your family and if you need anything please let know, love you.
Mike Koeniger
December 2, 2010
Neona and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Randy was a good neighbor and I will miss our chats in the front yard. If there is anything we can do, we are right across the fence. We are praying for you and yours.
Megan and Mike Koeniger
Mrs. Zelda Parker
December 2, 2010
May the grace of God and sweet memories of your loved one sustain you at this time. You have the prayers of my family.
Barbara Bowen
December 2, 2010
My dear Neoma,
Please accept my sincere condolences upon the passing of your husband. Just remember, "Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal". You and your family are in my prayers.
Lovingly yours,
Teresa (Matte) Trapani
December 2, 2010
Dear Neoma and Family, I am so sorry to hear of Randy's passing. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anthony and Sherri LaBanca
December 2, 2010
I pray you get lost in the good memories and find peace in the new ones. We enjoyed your company and wished we knew you better. All of our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Trish Marshall
December 1, 2010
Neoma,my dear friend and sister, I am so very sorry and saddened for you and your family. When I met Randy, he was already fighting his battle with cancer. His positive attitude, strength, determination, and courage was truly inspirational. Randy demonstrated his joy for life and his love for his family and friends every day. Even when you knew he was feeling bad, he never complained and always had time to listen, offer kind words or a smile when you were feeling down or having a bad day. He was a rare and special person and will truly be missed by everyone whose lives he touched. Godspeed Officer Friendly and watch over us that are left behind. Your memories will live on in our hearts always. Love and peace.
Dawn Griggs
December 1, 2010
I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Randy was such a great guy..I am blessed to have known him. You all were such a wonderful couple and exhibited the true meaning of love. May God comfort and bless you and your family. With deepest sympathy, Dawn Griggs
Darrell and Pat Cole
December 1, 2010
Randy you left us too early, so much more to do. We were supposed to make a trip to Salem MA and see the light house of the Great State of MI. You were a great friend to Pat and I and the long talks we had while watching the traffic go out of the base will be missed. Our friendship has not ended with you moving on. I will cherish our friendship till I join you in our father’s heaven. Rest assured that I will do all I can to keep your memory alive, by being a kind friend a loyal officer and most of all a good person. Pat and I will never forget you or your family and will be there if they need us also. God Bless you bud, I do hope that you have the new patrol cars in heaven and the gates are shorter than at Naval Station Norfolk. Miss you partner Darrell and Pat Cole
Robin O'Connor
December 1, 2010
Little Brother, You were a bright smile any time you came into headquarters, never an ugly word or remark. When I think about how many times you came into my office and I was made. You would just chuckle with that side grin of yours and you would open my frig and say Robin I think that you need another Pepsi. No matter what treatment you were going through you would always try and get right back out on patrol. Little brother you have my word that me and Danny will be here for your girls, Neoma, Grandma, Noel, Deniece and the grand babies. My Maw-Maw always said GOD takes the best first and he really does. Little Brother I love you and will miss you forever and YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. Just don't think I can't still whack you for NEOMA cause I have a bunch of hillbilly relatives up there with you.
Carol Wagner
December 1, 2010
May God Bless you & comfort your family.We will always remember what a nice, kind funny person Randy was.We are so sad in our hearts for your loss. Bless you all. Sincerely, Carol,Mike & Brock Wagner
December 1, 2010
Randy was the best of men! We will miss him but never forget him. Our love and prayers are with you all. With much love,
David, Janet , Kyle and Caleb Graham
December 1, 2010
My earliest memory of Randy is when his family moved in next door on Fox Hill Road. For some reason we laid underneath the moving truck together thinking that nobody could see us. We quickly became friends. Going to school (Phillips Elementary), together, playing at each others house, hanging out at the 7-11 across the street and visiting our girlfriends together. We shared many experiences and many laughs together. But somehow time separated us with college, jobs, marriage, kids and we lost touch with another.
Randy was always a very kind and caring person. Knowing that he served in law enforcement to protect others comes as no surprise. He was to be the policeman and I was to be the Fire Fighter.
I believe that Randy is in a better place and has a new body and for that I am grateful. But I am sad. I am sad that my friend's life ended so early and leaving behind his family that will miss him so much. I'm also sad that we didn't keep in touch over the years.
Neona- my prayers are with you and your family during this season of mourning.
JC Slone
Beavercreek, Ohio
Misty Bartleson
December 1, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this unimaginably difficult time. Randy was a wonderful human being who touched countless lives. He will truly be missed. Rest in peace Officer Friendly.
Love,
Misty and family.
Cathy Bower
December 1, 2010
Neona, Noelle, Granny, Sarah, Ernie, Junior and Deniece - please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the passing of Randy.
God saw that Randy was getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around Randy and whispered "come to me." With tearful eyes the family watched you Randy, and saw you pass away. Although we all loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.
With Love,
Cathy, Kevin and Brooklyn Bower
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