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Robert REDFERN Obituary
Born Jan. 25, 1937, in Wilmington, N.C., he was the son of Robert H. Redfern Sr. and Marie Harrelson Redfern.
He is survived by his loving wife, Betty Davis Redfern, who he was married to for 32 years; his daughter, Leslie Redfern Smith and her husband, Robert of Charlotte, N.C.; and stepson, Daniel James Wilson Jr. of Virginia Beach, Va. Also surviving are his brother, Victor Edgar "Ed" Redfern and wife, Pat, of Lake Jackson, Texas; and sister, Kathryn Ripley and husband, James of Fredericksburg, Va.; four grandchildren, Jeffrey Garland Smith, Daniel John Wilson, Kyle Wilson, Darby Wilson; and one great-granddaughter, Kaya Wilson.
He was predeceased by his sister, Martha "Nell" Robertson of Irving, Texas.
Bobby graduated from Norview High School in 1955 and attended Old Dominion University and Christopher Newport College. He retired from Newport News Shipbuilding after 37 years of service as a Nuclear Design Engineer.
Bobby was a member of Bayside Baptist Church and previously a member of Lynnhaven Colony UCC Congregational Church. His philanthropy to this church included a variety of activities associated with the Child Development Center. He had a lifetime love of all sports, but in particular basketball and was a member of the ODU Big Blue Men's Basketball. His other hobbies included boating and fishing. Bobby had a love for running, and in healthier days participated in both state and local marathons.
Much appreciation is extended to our extended family of Adrian "Porky" and Betty Willis, Rick and Connie Kumer, and Joe and Clare O'Brien for their love and support during Bobby's illness and passing.
Additionally, a special thanks to all the nursing staff and Palliative Care Team at Sentara Virginia Beach General Hospital, especially to his nurse Felicia.
The family will receive friends from 7 to 9 p.m. Friday, Oct. 22, 2010, at Rosewood-Kellum Funeral Home, 601 N. Witchduck Rd., Virginia Beach, Va. A celebration of life will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Oct. 23, 2010, at Bayside Baptist Church, 1920 Pleasure House Rd., Virginia Beach, Va. Burial will follow at Rosewood Memorial Park. Please share your love and condolences with the family at www.kellumfuneralhome.com. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert REDFERN
Amanda Howie
November 2, 2010
Betty,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please give Kaya a hug for me.
Sincerely,
Amanda Howie
Joyce Coleman
October 31, 2010
Dear Betty,
Please accept my sincerest condolences, and my apology for being so late in writing a note to you. I was in China and did not learn of Bobby's passing until I returned.
You were clearly the light of his life and he was blessed to have you with him so many years. You have many precious memories of your time together...those memories will become sweeter and more cherished as time goes by.
I remember when we were in the 5th grade, he spent his lunch money on packages of Kool-Aid so we could all lick our finger, dip in the package and have red and purple teeth and lips (and fingers). hahaha It was fun. I remember him most as being quiet and shy but shall remember him most as being a thoroughly good person.
Louise C Gaskins
October 30, 2010
Betty,
I was so saddened to hear of Bobby's passing. I had heard that he was ill.
My condolences to you and to all of
your family.
Bobby was very important part of my years at Norview High, as a friend and fellow classmate.
Louise Carpenter Gaskins
K & James Starboard
October 29, 2010
Dear Leslie, We hope it is not too late for you to receive this note, but we wanted you to know how very sorry we were to learn of your Father's death. Please know that you have been in our thoughts and prayers during these days of sadness.
We were reminded of another sad time in your life many years ago when you were just a teenager and so near to our hearts. We have often wondered how you were and what paths you had taken in life. How happy we were to learn that you are married and have a son. We pray that all is well for you and your family, and may God bless and keep you close to His heart.
Our love and prayers,
The Starboards--Kiddy & James
Michelle Lard
October 28, 2010
To my wonderful friend of sixteen years, May God continue to lead and guide you during this difficult time. Mr. Bobby was a great man, who was a wonderful husband and friend to you.
Michelle Lard
October 28, 2010
To my wonderful friend of sixteen years, May God continue to lead and guide you during this difficult time. Mr. Bobby was a great man who was a wonderful husband and friend to you.
Michelle Lard
Drema Gantley
October 25, 2010
Dearest Betty. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Keep your memories of the years you shared together close to your heart. Know Bobby is with you, watching over you, every day. Drema
Judy Oates Beecham
October 23, 2010
Betty,
Don and I are saddened to know of your loss of Bobby. May God bless you and your family.
October 23, 2010
Betty,Dear,
i'm sooo sorry to hear about Bobby. I was at the church but couldn't go to the cemetery as i can't free stand for long periods of time, but i wanted you to know i cared enough to come. You were REALLY there for me when i lost my stepmom, long after the funeral when i'd put the cards away, i went thru a time that people would forget her and i got YOUR CARD, showing me people would NEVER forget Mags. I hope you have someone dear that will do the same thing for you.
Love, Linda from Altrusa
October 23, 2010
Dear Betty and Family: We are so sorry to hear about Bobby's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. God bless and keep you thru this time. Sincerely, Graham and Ellen (Baker) White
Sonny and Janie Campbell
October 22, 2010
Betty,Sorry we can not make it to the service . We are getting over being sick. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love in Christ. Sonny and Janie
Sonny and Janie Campbell
October 22, 2010
Betty, sorry we cannot make it to the service we have been sick. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love in Christ. Sonny and Janie
October 22, 2010
Betty, I'm so sorry about Bobby. I remember him from Norview (I was in class of '56). I recently went to the Platinum Pilots lunch (my first) and I intend to continue, and I remember you talking about Bobby's problems. I know you will miss him, but take comfort in the fact that he's now at peace and without pain. Again, my sincere sympathies to you. Take care, Carol Maccubbin Williams
October 22, 2010
We love you Betty! Laura, Justin, Mackenzie and Trystan
October 22, 2010
Betty, Bruce and I were so sorry to read about Bobby's passing. We enjoyed talking at the basketball games, and he was such a nice person. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy, Bruce and Fran O'Connell
Linda Hopkins
October 22, 2010
Betty, Zenas and I were so sorry to hear about Bobby. You will always have those wonderful memories af your years together. Zenas and Jo Hopkins
Barbie Ritter
October 22, 2010
Betty and family, I was so sad to hear about Bobby's passing. He was such a wonderful person. Herb and I will always remember our fun times at Harborfest. Bobby was such a lover of life and people. He will be missed greatly.
October 22, 2010
Betty, I'm so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I know how much you loved him. You are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Thomie Dyson Williams
Hal Bonney
October 22, 2010
Dear Betty, I am so sorry you have lost Bobby, BUT it's only for awhile. I was really touched to learn of this sadness. I would come to the visitation and services, except I had 10 hours of surgery recently and am still recovering. You all are in my prayers. Mr. Bonney
Charlie Pugh
October 22, 2010
Will be thinking of you during this time of sorrow and wishing you all the best. Your neighbor, Charlie
Flora Randall
October 21, 2010
Betty, Leslie, Daniel,and all of the family, my Deepest Sympathy on the passing of Bob. I was just recently talking to him about the shipyard at Newport News, the different ships and today he has gone on. There are many wonderful memories of his days at the shipyard and how he trained and supervised many young designers to mature and move on up through the ranks. We all are so appreciative because he left a landmark of dedication. May his memories live on with each of you and be a comfort to you in times of need. -Flo
October 21, 2010
Betty, I am so sorry to learn that Bobby has passed away. He was such a wonderful man, so full of life and such a warm person. He had a smile that could light up a room. You two were so good together and your happiness rubbed off on all who came in contact with you both. You are in my thoughts and prayers, Betty. I am so sad he is gone. I can only imagine the sadness in your heart. You have many people who love you and care for you and know that I will hold you in my heart. Jennifer Holsen
October 21, 2010
Betty, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Janice Branch
October 21, 2010
Betty, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Robert. My thoughts
and prayers go with you at this time. God Bless!
Maury Bailey-Norview,Class of''43
October 21, 2010
My deepest condolences and prayers go out to you, Betty, and your family. Bobby was a wonderful man, and I enjoyed his company. Love, Christina and Clare.
October 21, 2010
May the peace of our Lord and Saviour be with the Redfern family during this difficult time. My thoughts are brought back to the great times and fond memories from the Norview days and the Essex Circle gang.
Ed Solomon,Jr
Debbie, Joseph & William Jefferson
October 21, 2010
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
WrapMaster Inc.
October 21, 2010
You're in our prayers.
October 21, 2010
Betty, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Gloria & Jack Howell
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