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for Theo Smalling
November 28, 2009
I used to go to rodgers with theo we all were good friends and stood together in four winds all the time .i always knew theo would be great at b-ball because thats all he ever did when i was around . lool i sure do miss you brother u will be seen again in the new system . i cant wait to see u again . I love u from ur friend Shae-Shae
JON AND MARY BARGEN
November 20, 2009
Our family was so sorry to hear about the passing of Theo. We have kept him in our thoughts and prayers. Our son is a coach at Hampton University, and he had great things to say about Theo and how much he will be missed. We continue to light candles for him and your family. God Bless.
Jeromy Maxie
November 5, 2009
Theo I knew in high school an angel he really is. FOr his family my prayers go out to you. God has an angel in heavan and his job for the Lord is not done he will be missed!
Brenda Osborne
November 4, 2009
I was Theo's sixth grade teacher. Even then, I knew he would mature into a wonderful and special person. He loved everyone, and his love was returned. He always had a big smile, and you knew he had a heart to match. I am deeply saddened that he is no longer here for his family and friends. He will not be forgotten.
Brenda Foote (HU Alum)
November 4, 2009
Dear Family,
I did not know Theo, but as a part of the HU family, I was deeply saddened by his passing, and wanted to express my condolences to you. I cannot imagine the depth of your sorrow, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
November 3, 2009
When tragedy strikes and takes the life of our loved ones, many cry out with great sorrow. Your tears are not unnoticed by Our Heavenly Father. Although your deep pain will not easily disappear, prayer to God will bring comfort to you as you grieve. The Bible assures us God "is healing the broken hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spot." Psalm 147:3 Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Conni Walker
November 3, 2009
Shelley and Carl, I am so sad about Theo. I still can't believe this. I am praying for you both and for all the family. Theo was so awesome and had grown to be such a great person. It must be reassuring for you to know how many lives he touched.
Amber Parrish
November 3, 2009
I still cant believe you're gone, we've known each other since 5th grade..it doesnt seem real. You were an amazing person and impacted so many peoples lives! We all love you and miss you theo, you will never ever be forgotten!
Phyllis Springs
November 2, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Jasmin Branch
November 2, 2009
To Theo's family, Theo was an amazing person with a great presence, Im lucky to have known him and Im sure you are proud to have raised such a great man. The athletic family at HU will never be the same,HU alone will never be the same. Godbless
Marissa Vegeto
November 2, 2009
Shelly,
Our thoughts are with you through this time of grieving. I am terribly sorry to hear about Theo. I remember him from our Bronco days. He will be loved and missed by many!
Beverly Turman-Dawson
November 2, 2009
To the Parents of Mr. Theo Smallings,
They say the hardest thing a parent can experience in life is the loss of a child, no matter how old that child may be. But please find comfort in knowing there is nothing to hard for God and he will comfort you through this difficult time. My prayers are for you and your entire family.
Kimberly Bpyd
November 2, 2009
May God Bless your Family!
Anicio Holmes-Brown
November 2, 2009
To the Smalling Family,
I can not imagine the pain you are going through at this difficult time. I have children and I can't imagine this happening to either one, especially what is suppossed to be the greatest time in your life ( college days). I will keep you in my prayers for comfort and strength. God will place his arms around you and take care of you during this time. May God Bless you and Keep you.
Kyle Sullivan
November 1, 2009
Shelly,
I can think of no words to comfort you over the loss of your son, Theo. I know how it feels to lose a friend, a father, and a grandmother, so I know how much it feels like there is a piece of your heart, your soul, missing. I know that if there is something after this life on earth, Theo is there with Mary and Joanie and everyone else who knew Theo and cared about him. I'm sure he would want you to know hes peaceful and that he misses you as much as you miss him. Time heals everything and he will always be in your heart and thoughts. Blessed be.
sharon sullivan
November 1, 2009
I knew Theo when he was a little boy,he was adorable.All the things i've heard about him he was a great kid.Why things happen only God knows They say theres a reason for everything.
Steven Brown
November 1, 2009
To the Smalling Family
I did not know Theo and can only convey what I have heard about him and that was he was kind and witty.I understand that he worked hard to make the team and played himself into a scholarship ,Wow what determination. I must say to the family that our Hampton City and community has lost a bright,energetic and talented youngman.I am a father of two boys and I can only began to fathom what I would do if I lost them to a tragedy like you have suffered.My prayers and thoughts go out to you as you lay Theo to rest.God bless and may he comfort you doing this difficult time in your lives.
With deepest sympathy,
Pastor Steven L. Brown
Whilmenia Freeman
November 1, 2009
Thank God for allowing Theo to be and took him home, for he was not ours amd this earth is not our home.
Cassandra McMillan
November 1, 2009
To: Smalling Family, we did not know your son, but we have two children of our own, one whom we just sent away to college. we pray every night for his safety. we know that you and your family are highly favored by God during this unpleasant time. May God’s blessing smile upon all of you?
Respectfully,
The McMillan Family
DELPHINE CRUMP
November 1, 2009
november,1 2009 TO THEO SMALLINGS FAMILY, I DONT KNOW THEO BUT THE NEWS OF HIS DEATH AND WHAT HAPPEN DEVATASTED ME.I AM A mOTHER OF A bASKETBALL PLAYER IN COLLEGE.MAY GOD COMFORT YOU AND HELP YOU THOUGH THIS. DELPHINE,804-399-7506
Rachel Butler
November 1, 2009
I was member of the Lady Pirates basketball team 04-08 and was fortunate to develop a friendship with Theo.Theo was always smiling and cracking jokes and just full of life and energy. I can remeber playing cards during the holiday season when there was just the women's and men'd basketball teams on campus. He would always challenge me to play but seldom ever beat me...thank you Jesus for allowing us to borrow Theo for a little while and we know that you have better things in store for him. HU men's bball team, keep ya head up and do it this yr. for Theo.
Love always,
Rachel
Rachel Butler
November 1, 2009
I was member of the Lady Pirates basketball team 04-08 and was fortunate to develop a friendship with Theo.Theo was always smiling and cracking jokes and just full of life and energy. I can remeber playing cards during the holiday season when there was just the women's and men's basketball teams on campus. He would always challenge me to play but seldom ever beat me...just being competitive. Thank you Jesus for allowing us to borrow Theo for a little while and we know that you have better things in store for him. HU men's bball team, keep ya head up and do it this yr. for Theo.
Love always,
Rachel
Michael Freeman Sr.
November 1, 2009
May God be with you Carl and Shelly, Theo will always be with you, right now he is in the presence of God watching over you. Theo will be missed. M. Freeman Sr.
Karl (Rocky) CRuz
November 1, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Hilda Cruz
November 1, 2009
Theo we will always remember you. You are gone but will never be forgotten. You Karl (Rocky) Cruz, Ricky & Danny, spend many hours playing together. More than friends they were like brothers since the elementary school. Years passed but the friendship was always there. We will never forget you. I know that you will always be within us forever. May God give your parents the strength to continue on. I know that you will be sitting in heaven with all the angels. We will never forget you. And will for ever love you. You were part of our family. Love for ever Danna, Rosita, Frankie (Nonnie), Karl (Rocky) Cruz and Hilda Cruz.
J. A. King
November 1, 2009
Know that God will keep you in perfect peace, just keep your mind on Him. Theo will be missed but never forgotten. My prayers are with you all durring this time of sorrow.
Geneva Richardson
November 1, 2009
Carl and Shelly i am so sorry for your loss.Theo rest in peace
R. Freeman
November 1, 2009
I did not know Theo but I was so heart broken by the events of his untimely death. I pray for your family to have foregiveness and healing during this time. He will be an angel watching over his family and friends.
Tim M
October 31, 2009
Shelly, may God's Grace give you some peace and comfort during these sad times. You and your family are in all our prayers.
October 31, 2009
Hello Shelly I'm devastated and in total shock to hear about Theo. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was an awesome guy and was raised by awesome parents. Luv ya If you need anything please dont hesitate to ask.Love YA mISS ya. DeAnna Lawrence, Tampa,Fl
Luke Hauer
October 30, 2009
Theo,
You gave me some of my best high school memories on and off the court. I truly am sorry, and fully regret not making it to your game last year against FAMU. That was my mistake and I will never forget it. Thank you for being you, Big Theezy.
Rest in peace bro
Michael Miruzzi
October 30, 2009
Dearest Theo,
May God rest your soul.
Rest in peace, my friend.
Karen Niles
October 30, 2009
Shelly and Carl, I am so very sorry, I cannot express the words. Shelly , I know how proud you have always been of Theo-He was a Terrific Guy. You have been a terrific mom. My prayers are with You and Carl. I know Theo is with the Lord and may God bless all of you.
Love you Shelly-----Karen Niles
sasha s
October 30, 2009
My prayers go out to theo's family and friends. He was a amazing bball player and person. This is a terrible loss, but god has him now and he always knows whats best. R.I.P Theo Smalling
October 30, 2009
R.I.P. Theo! We celebrated your life at the memorial today!
Your family here at the real HU will truly miss you!
To Theo Parents, other relatives and fellow Hamptonians remember:
"Earth Has No sorrow that heaven can not heal"!
(Theo will always be with us)
~Love, Shalonda (of Hampton University 12')
HU Dispatcher Bergeron
October 29, 2009
To the family of Theo,I am sorry for your loss. During his service today at HU I wanted so much to attend.He was a beautiful young man and a lot of staff and friends here still greive his loss.May God bless and comfort You all through your hurt and pain. I feel like he was my son too.
melissa
October 29, 2009
Carl, Jen & Rudy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! We are deeply saddened by this loss, we feel your pain and if there is anything we can ever do always know we are here for you.
We Love you all!
Melissa, Emily , Ryan Landon - Valrico, Florida
Cynthia Aaron
October 29, 2009
May God comfort you in this hour of sorrow. Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.
Jamie Graves
October 29, 2009
God Bless the Smalling family! He will be sadly missed and forever remembered!
A terrible terrible shame.
jamie Figueredo Alyssa and Joshua Costa
October 28, 2009
Theo
Alyssa Joshua and I are all stunned by your death. I remember the times you "hung out at our house with andrew and Alyssa. alyssa loved you and loved being a cheerleader for one of the Great Bulls Players. I always laugh when I think of how Amazed Joshua was at the size of your feet! You were a gift from heaven, and now you watch over your friends and Family
Tracy Fersan
October 28, 2009
To Jen, Rudy, Carl and Shelly, Please know that we are all praying for you and are truly heartbroken over Theo's loss. He was blessed to have you all as his family. We love you all and send you hugs, prayers, and well wishes. -Your Marblehead/Hamilton family
Cristina Coca
October 28, 2009
I will never forget my freshman year and going to watch the basketball games. I will never forget how awesome of a player Theo was there and how much of an amazing person he was as well. He brought a lot of character to Bloomingdale Basketball and I know he continued that in College. Theo, I will miss you!!! You and your family are in my prayers! Rest in Peace. I will always remember you.
Cathy Floyd
October 28, 2009
Shelly,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Remember that the love of Jesus will sustain you through this difficult time.
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Coach Chapin
October 28, 2009
I remember your first JV basketball game in the locker room. Cummings was giving his famous "Running of the Bulls" speech. I was trying not to make eye contact, but when I looked over at you, you smiled at me with a big grin. I would grow to love that smile, and saw it often. Throughout the years, the conversations we had about life, is what I will miss the most. No matter the situation, you always told me the truth, and sought my approval. I hope that your time here, you knew just how very important you were to me. Thank you for accepting my family. My children adored you, and thought it was so cool that someone they knew was on tv. I love you, and miss you. You will always be a part of my family.
Darlene L
October 28, 2009
May you find comfort through loving memories and strength through Gods grace.
Angie, Bailey and Bryce Chapin
October 28, 2009
Theo,
We truly considered you a part of our family. I watched you blossom from this skinny freshman, into a man that I was so proud to know. We are taking your death really hard, and we miss you more than words can describe. We remember how you used to watch over Bailey at practice, and at the away games. Now we know your doing the same from heaven. We love you, and will remember you forever.
October 28, 2009
I am praying for you. May God take you by the hand and carry you through this tragedy. At Philip. 4:6 & 7 we read, "Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus." Embrace the love of family, friends and strangers, it will give you support.
Danny Larson
October 28, 2009
man i knew theo i went to school with him RIP MAN LOVE U MAN
Mary Ellen Vegeto
October 27, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Shelley, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you grieve. Theo will be forever loved and missed.
Father Pacella
October 27, 2009
I had Theo as a student in Humanities. He was a gentleman and a great student. The last time that I saw him on campus he said: "Fr. Pacella give me a little love, give me a hug." I mourn his death. RIP THEO...
Fr. Michael Pacella III
Audrey Anderson
October 27, 2009
To the parents of Theo - May the Lord strenghten you in the time of your grief. Though we think his time with us was too short he left behind a huge footprint on this earth that no one can replace. Thoe's love and wonderful memories will be etched in everyones heart forever. Borrowed Angel rest in peace as you will be forever loved, forever missed, never forgotten.
Love you all Audrey and Clive Anderson, NY
steve moran
October 27, 2009
I remember you as a skinny freshman..dominating jv....I told Chapin to move you up..he finally did after 7 games...I watched you mature over the next 4 years in to a man...I was proud to have coached you and also to follow your career at Hampton. You always had a special place in my families heart ...we will miss you more than any words can describe.....1..2..3..family.
Jonathan Chase
October 27, 2009
I love you man you know all of us in the old crew will miss you more than one can imagine. Watch over us and guide us where we need to go. I know you already are.
Lori Pate
October 27, 2009
Gone too soon. My son's very first friend, Johnny Pate and his family will never forget your gentle soul. Condolences to your family, but you are in a better place now. The world will miss you.
Cari Vidosh
October 27, 2009
Rest in Peace hunny I know this has hit a lot of people, more than you know! We all miss you and love you Theo. My thoughts are out to all friends amd family.
Heidi Capozza
October 27, 2009
God bless you and may you find peace and love during this sorrowful time. I can not image how painful this is for your family and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jessica Kramer
October 27, 2009
Rest in Peace my dear friend . I miss you & love you big Theezy .
Lucy Guerra
October 27, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Travis
October 27, 2009
Rest in peace.
Jem Hartley
October 27, 2009
Theo was a close relative of mine. It is terrible that time and unforseen occurances have taken such a young life. The bible speaks of a resurrection of the righteous and the unrighteous(John5:28,29) and that hope is extended to Theo. Unfortunately, at this time we must suffer such losses.
I pray for the Theo's dear friends and the rest of our family.
He will be dearly missed!
dahlia martin
October 27, 2009
I hope Theo's family finds peace. Theo was a loan from God. We all regret his seemingly untimely death. We will never understand, we may never know, but Theo obviously touced many lives. Mom, dad, I can only imagine your pain. Think of your son's determination, think of his strength. Be strong. Trust God.
My son and I met Theo about 5 yrs ago. My son was about 7 yrs old. He was amazed at the size of Theo's feet. When I tried to remind him who Theo was on Saturday, he had a difficult time recalling. Then I remembered how excited he was about Theo's big feet that summer, 5 yrs ago. I mentioned Theo's feet and in a flash he remembered.
Those feet will walk Theo through the gates of heaven.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his parents, family members and friends.
Dahlia and Jordan
Sylvia Albert
October 27, 2009
All of our sympathy is with you in this hour of sorrow. My son Nathan still would get together with Theo and play basketball when he came in town from school. I can only imagine your hurt right now. God bless.
Jeff Albers
October 27, 2009
As a referee, I watched Theo grow into a mature young man with a lot of God-given talent through his 4 years at Bloomingdale. I'm sure he was a credit to his team at Hampton as well. What a tragic loss. My condolences to his family.
Simone Allen
October 27, 2009
Your gone but never forgotten. I remember back in the days when we would go ball at Providence Park, hang out joke around. Your skills were mean on the court. Such a gentlemen by heart and was raised by good parents. You are always in my heart. Love ya miss ya always
Debbie Coca
October 27, 2009
When my daughter was a Freshman, we would go to the Bloomingdale Basketball games and watch Theo play. He was an amazing basketball player. He will be missed - may he rest in peace - and may the family find comfort in knowing that he left a wonderful legacy of being a great basketball player and a wonderful person.
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