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Thomas BRIGHTWELL Obituary
A resident of Hampton for the past seven years, he was born in Richmond, Va., and was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas A. and Shirley R. Brightwell.
He leaves to cherish his memory a daughter, Lyssa Rae Johnson Brightwell; his sister, Lynn R. Brightwell of Punta Gorda, Fla.; brother, Edwin Brightwell (Deana) of Provo, Utah; niece, Tyler Brightwell; and nephew, Robert D. Douglas Jr. He was also fortunate to have in his life the special friendships of Margie and Daniel Gengo, a wonderful community of friends with ties that forever bind and his ex-wife, Lyn Johnson. Tommy was an avid Redskins fan. He loved Southern cooking and Southern rock. He was a FOB for more than 35 years by living one day at a time.
The family will receive friends at a Remembrance Service from 5 to 7 p.m. Wednesday, April 14, 2010, at St. James Deliverance Church, 5010 Jefferson, Avenue in Newport News, Va.
The family thanks Berceuse Cremation Traditions of Hampton, Va. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas BRIGHTWELL
Billie Jo Brewer
April 23, 2010
I will miss you very much Tom, You always made me laugh, I am so sorry to Margie and Dan , Tom loved you two very much . RIP TOM Wish I could have said goodbye
Tom Sims
April 19, 2010
I remember Tommy from Tabernacle. I am so proud to know of all he achieved - especially as a friend of Bill W. and of all Bill's friends. I am sure that in 30 years, Tommy touched many lives through that fellowship and helped many people find health and sobriety. His legacy will live on. These are deep, dark times of sadness and God is with you. So are my prayers. - Tom
Carol Carter
April 18, 2010
My sympathies are offered to those Tommy left behind. May God wrap his arms around you all in your time of sadness. Take comfort in your memories of Tommy and the mark he made in this world.
To this day, whenever I remember the sign he put on his car when he was delivering chicken, I laugh until I cry. Thank you, Tommy. Rest in peace.
Toni Banks
April 16, 2010
Tommy,
We are going to miss you. I hope the Redskins take it all the way this year just for you.
Vern
April 15, 2010
Be comforted in knowing that God is with you during this difficult time and that there are friends that also share your sorrow with you. I find Psalm
121 to be very comforting during these times.
Cheryl Danner
April 15, 2010
Please accept my deepest sympathies
Kathleen Watson
April 15, 2010
To Tommy's friends and family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Bonnie Barnes
April 15, 2010
Lynn and Family,
So sorry for your loss.
Margie Gengo
April 15, 2010
Tommy, you were gone so quickly..no time to say goodbye..You are greatly missed..For 10 years I got to know you and have you a part of my life..I still see your smile, hear your laugh..I cherish the wonderful times with you..goodbye my dearest friend.
Billie Evans
April 14, 2010
I have so many fond memories of Tommy in my early recovery...poker games filled with laughter till the wee hours of the morning, the way Tommy had to get the coffee in the morning AS it was dripping, not after. His desire make a mark in this world. What a gentle spirit...My sincere condolences to his family.
Linda Carr
April 14, 2010
Tommy was a good friend in many walks of life. He was there for me in the beginning of my recovery and then some. Prayers are sent to the Brightwell family...
Michael Weldon
April 14, 2010
Tommy saved my life at the beginning of my recovery and will cherish the memories of him. God Bless him and his family.
Jimmy Brooks
April 14, 2010
Tommy told me he once went to a Kris Kristopherson concert and when Kris asked was there any FOB in attendance. Tommy and another friend went and hung out with Kristopherson after the concert. It was my pleasure to get to know Tommy.
Tracy Weldon
April 14, 2010
Tommy was a great guy. I'm glad I had the chance to know him. I have many fond memories of Tommy through the years. My sincere condolences to his family.
April 14, 2010
thank you all for lighting candles of hope, well wishes and prayers for the Brightwell family.
Talyn(Lyn)Johnson-Brightwell
Deborah Chesser
April 14, 2010
Your family is in our prayers. Love Aunt Marge Sowle and Deb Chesser
JOHN WHEATLEY
April 14, 2010
FOB SENDS THE LOVE AND SUPPORT IF YOU NEED ANYTHING PLEASE CALL 2409380 IWILL DO MY BEST. LOVE, JOHN WHEATLEY
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