Search by Name

Search by Name

Toshiko ARNOLD Obituary

GLOUCESTER - Toshiko Koike 'Pat' Arnold, 82, died on Thursday, Dec. 24, 2009, in Riverside Walter Reed Hospital.
She was a native of Tochigi-Ken, Japan, and was the widow of James Edward Arnold. She attended First Presbyterian Church in Gloucester and the Taylor Trade School where she learned to sew.
She is survived by her daughters, Janet Lee Searls and her husband, Ron of Gloucester, Judy Ann Lowman; five grandchildren, Heather Loraine Hanson and her husband, John, Nichole Marie Smelser and her husband, Bryan, Danielle Teresa Russ, Jessica Ashton Lowman, and Zachary Lowman; and four great-grandchildren, Tanner and Peyton Hanson, Marcus Smelser, and Ashton Lee Kiser.
A memorial service will be held on 7 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 30, 2009, in the chapel of Andrews Funeral Home.
Memorial donations may be made to the Adult Day Break Center in Gloucester, c/o of Bay Aging, P.O. Box 610, Urbanna, VA 23175.
Andrews Funeral Home, Gloucester, Va., is in charge of arrangements. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Press from Dec. 27 to Dec. 28, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Toshiko ARNOLD

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

December 28, 2009

To Heather& the Arnold Family

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Short Stay Unit
Sentara Williams Regional Medical Center

Susan Cottle

December 28, 2009

Dearest Janet, Ron and family,

Words cannnot express the sorrow in my heart over the loss of your precious mother, "Ms. Pat". I, along with my staff at Gloucester Adult Day Break, are honored to have had the privilege of knowing her, loving her and caring for her for the past two years. We will truly miss seeing her walk down the steps of the "blue and white van", adorned in the most beautiful clothes, that her tired hands had so meticulously created. She was a most charming and classy lady, whose beautiful and heart-warming smile, shall never be forgotten.

"Ms. Pat" truly enjoyed herself at Day Break. She loved to do her chair exercises, using the hand weights to upbeat music! She always had something to offer during the morning group discussions and loved to work on crafts, hers always being the "neatest"! Just this past Wednesday, December 23rd, she had the most fun at our Christmas party, especially when Santa made a surprise visit!

Janet, the times that I talked to you over these past two years, you were always expressing your gratitude for our program and the loving care that your Mother was receiving. I would do my best to convince you that no thanks was needed, that it was OUR privilege and that everyone here was just doing what they loved to do. Janet, it TRULY was our privilege........................ thank YOU, for the "gift" of your beautiful Mom.

We love you and you will ALL remain in our thoughts and prayers,

Susan Cottle
Director of Gloucester Adult Day Break (and your forever friend!)

John Marshell

December 28, 2009

I gained from knowing Pat, a small gracious lady with a large presence of caring and charm, elegance and style. I will miss her pleasant smile and warm personality who expressed delight at my singing old WW11 era songs. She liked Filipina Baby and Sentimental Journey.
My sympathies to her loving family.
John

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in Toshiko ARNOLD's name

Memorial Events
for Toshiko ARNOLD

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Toshiko's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Toshiko ARNOLD's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more