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Pascal Kis-Horváth Obituary

Kis-Horváth, Mihály 1924-2013 Mihály Kis-Horváth was born on December 9, 1924 to Domonkos Kis-Horváth and Maria Hadarits in Petoháza, Hungary, a small town of farmers close to the Austrian border. His father died when he was still a child, leaving his mother to raise him and his older sister, Maria. As a child he contracted tuberculosis in his hip. After the removal of the infected bone, he recovered from the disease but remained handicapped for life. In the midst of these trials and suffering, his religious vocation was born. While studying in Budapest for his high school diploma, he lived in the residence of the young Cistercians attending universities there. All who lived through the long and terrifying days of the 1944-1945 siege of Budapest remembered the limping young man, full of jokes, encouragement and hope. He finished high school after the war, and on August 29, 1947, joined the Cistercian monastery of Zirc. Pascal took his first vows on August 30, 1948, even though the Communist government had confiscated the Cistercians' land and schools. Within two years, the government had completely suppressed the Cistercians along with most other religious groups in Hungary. Six weeks before the monks were disbanded and the abbot imprisoned, Brother Pascal, who knew the country's Western border from his childhood, worked out a plan to prepare the "Great Escape" by clandestinely leaving the country for Austria. Using a chain of acquaintances, Fr. Pascal with 20 other young monks successfully crossed the Iron Curtain (with its mine fields, barbed wire fences, watch towers, armed guards and watch dogs) on September 5, 1950 and passed into Austria. However, the Austrian police under the command of the Soviet occupying forces captured nine of the refugees, and returned them to the Communist rulers of Hungary. As the organizer of the escape and a nephew of Abbot Wendelin of Zirc, Pascal was dealt with particular harshly. In Abbot Wendelin's show trial, the government tried to use Pascal as a crown witness to prove a string of drummed up charges against his Abbot. Both Abbot Wendelin and Father Pascal were subjected to severe beatings and torture. Pascal, however, refused to testify against his abbot. He was sentenced to four years of prison. Pascal was still in solitary confinement when on August 30, 1951 his first set of temporary vows expired. As he later testified in a written deposition to the Holy See, in the absence of anyone to witness his vows, he wrote the renewal of his first vows on the wall of his prison cell. Three years later, when the time had come for his permanent, perpetual religious vows, he was still in prison. At that time, however, he was already allowed to work in a factory staffed by political prisoners with five Cistercians among them. In the lunch break of August 30, 1954, with Fr. Leonard Barta presiding, and four other Cistercians murmuring the text of their religious vows, Br. Pascal made his perpetual vows to seek Christ and his love in the Cistercian Order for the rest of his life. Soon after he was released from prison, a popular uprising made the Communist regime tumble for a few weeks, leaving the borders unguarded. At the advice of Abbot Wendelin, who also became free for a short period of time, Fr. Pascal left Hungary and joined other refugee Cistercians in Rome. After intensive theological studies, he was ordained a priest on July 21, 1957 in the Cistercian Abbey Church of Zwettl. For the following two years Fr. Pascal was chaplain in Hungarian refugee camps, and worked as an assistant pastor in an Austrian village. In spite of the request of many Austrians that he remain among them, Fr. Pascal came to America. From 1959, he lived in the newly founded Cistercian monastery Our Lady of Dallas, working in numerous parishes in Dallas and Ft. Worth. From 1976 to 1988 he was subprior of the monastery. Until 1990 he served as the bursar and cellarer. For many years, he worked at the parish of Saint Monica in Dallas, where he was highly regarded for his service in hearing confessions and providing spiritual guidance. Fr. Pascal had an extraordinary talent for understanding, guiding and consoling people of all walks of life and all age groups. His deep prayer life, warmth in human relations and pragmatic sense for solving real-life problems made him unforgettable for all who turned to him. The many physical sufferings that had accompanied him since early childhood made him an expert in understanding a wide spectrum of human situations and trials. Although he never believed he was able to live up to expectations, his confreres and friends admired him as a model priest and an exceptional blessing to all those to whom he ministered. The Rosary will be at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday August 13, 2013 in the Cistercian Monastery, Mass Wednesday 10.00 am, also at Cistercian. Interment will foll in Calvary Hill Cemetery - Dallas, TX.

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Published by Dallas Morning News from Aug. 11 to Aug. 13, 2013.

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Cathy

August 17, 2021

Fr. Pascal never leaves my mind for too long. I know he has been gone now for many years, but his impact on my life continues. I can't believe sometimes that this saint, this holy man was able to be the one to marry my husband and I, 35 years ago at St. Monica. What a blessing. Sometimes, when things aren't going well, I ask for him to intercede for us to this day. It is nice to know a saint in Heaven. We miss him and are thankful for knowing him.

Florence Crable

August 7, 2019

I carry Father Pascal's picture and prayer card in my car, next to those of my husband Bill's. We spent time with Father at Cistercian Abbey and Bill and I always came away smiling with happiness after our visits. My prayers are with you, dear Father. Six years have gone by and I still miss your very special sermons at Saint Monica's. May you Rest in Peace..... Florence Crable

September 18, 2013

While attending school in Dallas for one week I went to visit the Cistercian Abbey Our Lady of Dallas. Unbeknownst to me while I was visiting this beautiful monastery, there was a funeral in procession. I decided to stay and learned of Pascal Kishorvath passing. I decided to stay and attend the funeral. I prayed for him and later learned what a legend he left for us and was sad to not have met him in life. I have since read of Father Pascal's history
Clara, Houston, Texas

Kelli Duckett

August 13, 2013

I had the pleasure of knowing and caring for Father Pascal for the past 2 years at Avante Rehabilitation Center. Although my heart is broken by the loss, I am overjoyed knowing that he has completed his journey and is at peace. The impact he made in my life is without measure and I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to spend time with him and learn from his experience and strength.

Florence Crable

August 13, 2013

With much affection I remember Father Pascal and his love for lentil soup. He told Bill and me how the mother of one of the guards would give him a bowl of soup while he was imprisoned. He knew that I always have a bag of dried lentils ready to be cooked. I took a jar of lentil soup to the Abbey and had it placed in their refrigerator..no name on it, as I expected to be able to hand it over to Father Pascal. He knew that I had cooked it for him and he was grateful. I'll never forget you, Father Pascal. I'd give anything to be able to listen to one of your sermons again.. Florence Crable

Ernest Horvath

August 12, 2013

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

August 12, 2013

Fr Paschal,

May you rest in peace and in the comfort of Our Lord's arms.

Leo Pimentel

Ray & Elaine French

August 12, 2013

We were blessed to have had Fr. Pascal as a great and inspirational family friend who participated in social and spiritual gatherings with our family over more than three decades.

Years ago our daughter, Melinda, established the Fr. Pascal Kis-Horvath Endowed Scholarship Fund in his honor for the benefit of future Cistercian students.

Fr. Pascal is now one of our personally known saints to whom we pray.

August 11, 2013

I feel honored to have met Fr. Pascal. He is an inspiration to all of us. God bless him and I know that he is in Heaven now.

Mabel Martinez

Karen Martinsen Upton

August 11, 2013

Fr. Pascal was a humble man of God. I have fond memories of him from my days at UD and of his time at St. Monica. There is rejoicing in Heaven this day as he joins those who have gone before him.

Cathy Leonard

August 11, 2013

To all the priests at Cistercian, my sincere condolences go out to you all. I was honored to have known Fr. Pascal and to have him preside over the marriage of my husband and I. For many years I kept up with Fr. Pascal, calling him now and then asking for prayers and catching up with him. I was so blessed to have visited him just a few short weeks ago at the rehab facility. I was able to share communion with him that day when Fr. Thomas came to visit. I will always treasure my friendship with Fr. Pascal. He was a great man of God in my eyes. So humble and always so happy and peaceful no matter what the circumstances. May he rest in peace.

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