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Rick Glasgow
November 30, 2024
Think about him always great friend made me welcome when I moved to irving
Elaine Taylor
April 10, 2012
To Teresa and family: Very sorry to hear that your brother Tim died, and sorry to be so late with condolences. I had a cousin, Leigh, who died (in 2004) of the same disease. I still recall bowling in 1979-1980 in the same Saturday league that your brother was in, by the way.
Steve Pronko
April 26, 2010
Condolences.
Jackie Shoemaker
May 14, 2009
Tim,
I'm so sad to hear you lost your battle with ALS. I just found out last year that you were fighting that battle. I missed the last reunion, but enjoyed the conversations we had at the 25 reunion. You were always in my prayers when Kim told me the news last year. I know you are now at peace and with our heavenly father. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family durning this difficult time. I know you will truely be missed.
God Bless,
Jackie Shoemaker (Wempe)
Debby Ingram
May 14, 2009
I only met Tim a few years ago. He was such a fun and sweet person. A real inspiration for me and a person I will never forget. Your bright light will shine forever. God Bless.
Love,
Debby
Greg Gilbert
May 13, 2009
While I knew this was coming, it is hard to put into words the feelings I had when I heard the news but I would like to try.
I first met Tim in 1st grade when I moved to the neighborhood. I fondly recall those very early days hanging out on Sam Mateo court with our group (Curt Leonard, Tim and I and later with Dave Wooldridge and Liz White). What a grand time we had growing up, riding bikes, swimming in Tim’s pool and chasing locust!!
I, along with many others, visited Tim over the last couple years (but for me, not as much as I should have). We talked about life, the days of our youth in Irving, his family, my family, schoolmates and where there are now, and most importantly about death and grief.
I was somewhat shocked how I connected with an old friend that I really had not kept in touch with in years prior and how he could know me better than the folks I work with every day. We also talked about losing touch too easily with people we care about most and the price we pay for letting that happen. I can say that it brought back memories of those special, fun filled, almost glorious days of youth spent in our neighborhood. It also brought home to me that I took way too much in my blessed life for granted as I saw Tim gradually fade a way. We were ALL lucky and blessed to know him. He was a good man, who loved his family, kids and his friends. With Tim's passing, I felt a strange part of my life pass as well; those "Wonder Years", if you will. But with his passing, it also opened my eyes to not forget those days and their importance in who I am today. Tim's gift to me I guess.
Most importantly, Tim handled his diagnosis with resolved dignity and he never seemed to give up hope. I also saw him focus on absorbing like a sponge all those things that were most important in his life: his family, kids and friends. I will also never forget the devotion and caring that I saw from his long time friend David Wooldridge. You can’t get much better of a friend than David was to Tim.
Tim is now at peace. We now mourn his passing but also celebrate what he meant to us. I know that’s how he would want it! In my vision, I see Tim playing 18 holes on the best golf course in heaven. Other may see him bowling, or playing softball, but whatever vision we have, we know he is smiling that smile of his!
I wish his family peace as well. I, as I know many others, will carry Tim’s spirit with me for the rest of my days.
Diane Dillingham
May 13, 2009
It was a battle. Now you are at peace. Things change whether we want them to or not. There were some great times with us on the farm throughout the years. We have to move on to the present and look forward to the future.
God Bless
Love
Tim and Diane
Peter Talleos
May 12, 2009
Tim, I just found out about your passing. my prayers go out to you and your family. i will always remember you as being fair man with integrity especially when we worked together in the City of Irving. May our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Take and give you peace right now as you enter into Paradise.
Deborah Somer
May 12, 2009
Dearest Tim, it is you now who knows Heaven's secrets as we are all left to guess and speculate. Your incredible grace and courage, as you watched your life quickly slip away, has earned you a special place in Heaven among the sacred ones. The last two years knowing you through phone calls and emails enriched my life and my greatest regret will be not having met you in person. I sent my kitty Tequila to welcome and hug you as you entered your new realm. Tequila has been there since last Fall and I'm sure he had to squeeze himself in between all your other family pets who also have come to greet you. You are in the light of pure happiness and love and we will all remember your special magic. My blessings to your family, especially your two beloved children. I look forward to meeting the entire family and apologise it has not been sooner. My love, Deborah Somer [Ray Kokojan's daughter]
Greg Hall
May 12, 2009
I have been so blessed to have known you as a true friend. I will always cherish the memories and the fun times we shared. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
Christie Williams
May 12, 2009
I remember your outgoing personality and the fun you brought to the City of Irving Print Shop. Great memories. God Bless you and your family.
Cathy Ramey
May 11, 2009
Your friendship will always hold a special place in my heart. Your courage was inspirational and I am so grateful for the time we spent together catching up on old times. My thoughts and prayers are with your children, family and many friends. You will be missed so very much. God Bless.
Paula Davis
May 10, 2009
You will be sorely missed by many. I am truly thankful for your friendship. I truly enjoyed working with you and bowling with you. You were always there for me when I needed a true friend. My prayers are with your children and family.
Love and miss you!
Christi Curry
May 10, 2009
It's been a difficult week for all. I had no idea it would be this hard; I thought I was more prepared. You were such a special person and a great friend. It just dawned on me this week that I haven't bowled in a league since we stopped bowling together. I will never forget all of your support and encouragement when I decided to go back to school. You will be sorely missed. God speed my friend. And how wonderful you can hug your mom this Mother's Day. Love you.
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