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William Quillen Obituary

William Tatem Quillen

AGE: 81 • New Castle

William Tatem "Bill" Quillen, age 81, died suddenly and peacefully on August 19. In addition to his parents, Robert James Quillen, Sr. and Gladys Tatem Quillen, he was predeceased by his wife of 56 years, Marcia Everhart Stirling Quillen; his brother, Robert James Quillen, Jr.; and his nephew, Robert Irvine Quillen. Bill is survived by his daughters, Carol Everhart Quillen (George McLendon) and Tracey Tatem Quillen (John Carney); his grandchildren, Caitlin Everhart Lohrenz, Samuel Quillen Carney, and James Tatem Stirling Carney; his sister-in-law, Barbara Flinn Quillen; his niece Anne Quillen Donecker and her family; and his Tatem and Quillen cousins.

Bill grew up in New Castle, where his father and uncle, and then his brother, ran Quillen Brothers Ford from 1926 through 1982. For Bill, New Castle was essential to his identity, and his father and brother remained his heroes and role models of "usefulness" throughout his life. He was a lifelong member of and adulthood leader in the New Castle Presbyterian Church. Bill graduated from Wilmington Friends School in 1952, and considered his Quaker education and the friends it brought him another foundation of his identity. He was legendary for keeping his classmates in touch with him and with each other, and greatly enjoyed their recent tradition of annual reunions in Florida. He graduated from his equally beloved Williams College in 1956, received his LL.B. from Harvard Law School, and an LL.M. from The University of Virginia School of Law. He was grateful to Marcia's parents for sharing "The Pink House" in Ocean City, NJ, so generously with him, and he enjoyed his time there continuing through this summer.

Bill was a devoted fan and, with his family, longtime season ticket holder of University of Delaware football. He yelled at the radio and television through countless Phillies and Eagles games. He was a fan of the original Blue Rocks and enjoyed enlightening all who might not know about the greatness of Robin Roberts. Bill was always among the most loyal—and loudest—Friends School sports fans; as he said, "I fell in love with the School in seventh grade when someone handed me a football uniform." He also played basketball and baseball, and received the School's "Spirit Cup," not for the best athlete but for best representing the spirit of Friends athletics. He cheered for the Quakers, including his daughters and grandsons, every season of his life, and made great friends among his bleacher buddies. He was especially proud to have had a chance to nominate Coach Bob "T" Tattersall, with whom he rehashed every football game, for the Delaware Sports Hall of Fame. He also traveled to Texas to see his granddaughter compete in cross country and track, and was proud to attend her 2015 graduation from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. In recent years, since his daughter, Carol, became President of Davidson College, he added the Wildcats and then, via Steph Curry, the Warriors, to his athletic devotions, and was grateful for the welcome to the Davidson family he and Marcia received from Coach Bob McKillop and his players.

A Roosevelt-Kennedy Democrat, Bill had a passion for politics and history, and considered staying informed to be both an obligation and a joy of citizenship. He devoured news, often reading aloud to whoever was in earshot from the paper and non-fiction books. He was a genuinely public-minded and -spirited person; it was instinctive to him to weigh the common good first. He had one political campaign of his own, running for Governor in 1984, and was involved in many more, including the careers of Vice President Joe Biden and of his son-in-law, Congressman John Carney.

Bill was more than once accused of not being able to hold a job, with the recognition that he always had a good one. He started as an officer in the JAG Corps of the United States Air Force and then served as a law clerk to Judge Charles Terry, before working briefly but gratefully as an Associate at Richards, Layton & Finger. He became counsel to then-Governor Terry, who appointed Bill, at just 31 years old, to the Delaware State Superior Court. Bill thereafter was known to most Delawareans as "Judge." He served on each of the State's major courts, including as Chancellor and as a Justice of the Delaware Supreme Court. He had what he modestly described as an 11-year "frolic" in the private and political sectors—working in the Trust Department at Wilmington Trust; serving proudly, and again most gratefully, as a Partner at Potter, Anderson & Corroon; running for Governor; serving as General Counsel of the Howard Hughes Medical Institute, then the world's largest charity; and teaching Ethics and Constitutional Law, and one course for daring undergraduates, at Widener University. He returned to full-time public service when he was appointed as Delaware's Secretary of State by then-Governor Tom Carper, who completed the professional circle by appointing Bill once again as a Judge on Delaware's Superior Court. After what many thought was his retirement, Bill found new valued colleagues, formal and informal, at Drinker Biddle & Reath and at the firm then known as Seitz, Ross, Aronstam & Moritz. At the time of his death, Bill was working on a biography of Collins J. Seitz with his friend and Judge Seitz's son, Supreme Court Justice, New Castle resident, and leader in the New Castle Presbyterian Church, C.J. Seitz.

Along the way, there were numerous influential opinions, incorporations, overseas trips on behalf of the State; visits to leading academic medical centers across the country to help chart the future of medical research; service to the World Affairs Council and the legal community; the planning and building of a $75 million headquarters for Hughes, the planning of the Delaware Archives; a book about the Delaware Court of Chancery and many articles; the preservation and celebration of the history of New Castle; awards, recognitions, and terms of charitable and corporate board service. Of special value to Bill were the Order of the First State, the Delaware Heritage Award, and the Friends School Alumni of the Year Award.

But what Bill was most grateful for were the mentors and colleagues who gave him opportunities to contribute, and the clerks, students, and young lawyers to whom he was able to offer guidance; as he said, "anyone younger than I am is young." Bill's family would like to thank all of you, past and present. Leaving out many who deserve to be mentioned, we especially thank Vice President Joe Biden; Governors Terry, Tribbitt, du Pont, Castle, and Carper, who made Bill's judicial appointments, and the members of the Senate who supported them; Irv Shapiro, Charlie Crompton, Bruce Stargatt, Jim Gilliam, Rod Ward, Jack Porter, Fred Pardee, and the rest of the Class of 1952; the Presidents and Law Deans of Widener University; the partners of Potter Anderson, Drinker Biddle, and Seitz Ross; Ned Davis, Jim McGinnis, Darrell Baker, Lin Herndon, Jim Soles, Frank Biondi, Henry Topel, Vince Bifferato, Frank Balotti, Norman Veasey, Jean Ashe Crompton, and all of his law clerks and "younger" friends who continued to inspire him as a lifelong learner and leader.

We are also comforted that Bill and his beloved Marcia are together again, grateful that he was blessed to live and die as he would have chosen and for his personal as well as professional legacy,

Family and friends are invited to a memorial service at New Castle Presbyterian Church on Saturday, August 27, at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, please consider contributions in Bill's memory to either New Castle Presbyterian Church (23 East Second Street, New Castle DE 19720) or Wilmington Friends School (101 School Road, Wilmington DE 19803).

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Published by The News Journal from Aug. 22 to Aug. 26, 2016.

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David Schaffer

August 31, 2016

I will miss him.

August 30, 2016

Delaware has lost one of it's finest citizens. A true gentleman and an exemplary lawyer. My condolences to his family.

Paula Winchester Mutzel

David Burroughs

August 27, 2016

Bill Quillen was the finest individual I have met in my life. Justice Quillen was a true gentleman; a man of integrity and generosity seldom seen in this day and age. Despite his many accomplishments in life Justice Quillen was a humble man always prepared to lend assistance to others. While his passing is a deep personal loss to his family, it is a profound loss to the State of Delaware.

MARGARET CHEVRIER

August 26, 2016

Dear Quillen Family,
Bill Quillen was one of the kindest, respectful, smartest, and most humble men I have ever met. He,also, had a great sense of humor. His biography is impressive and his accomplishments were many. He lived a life filled with shining examples for others.
I have fond memories of time spent with Bill and Marcia and I am very saddened to hear of his passing. But I know he is happy to be with Marcia again; he always said she was the driving force in his life.
Please accept my sincere condolences at this time.
Maggie chevrier

Anthony Rapuano

August 26, 2016

Tracy and John, very sorry to hear about your father/father-inlaw

Jack Henriksen

August 26, 2016

In my opinion, Bill Quillen was Delaware's finest judge. Several years ago, while on an Inn's of Court trip in London, my then 21 year old son was very impressed by Judge Quillen, who had conversed much with my son, John. John's conversations with Judge Quillen, for some reason, caused John to ask me to try to become a judge. Bill Quillen was the main speaker at my investiture as a Family Court Judge, an experience I truly loved. He told my wife, Ginger, i should still take out the garbage, even though I was a judge. Judge, Chancellor, Justice Quillen will be truly missed, but never forgotten.

Trina Tjersland

August 26, 2016

I was in a body cast back in 1977 and my mom took me down to visit with Marcia to get me out of the house where I was driving her crazy! I couldn't sit I had to either stand or lie down and the Quillens' house was hard to get horizontal in on the first floor so Marcia had me lie down across her bed. My head was sticking out on Bill's side of the bed. I said, " Marcia, there are a lot of penny loafers over here."
"Oh," she said with her characteristic dryness,"penny loafers are all that Bill wears. Look closer and you'll see some of them have little pieces of grass on them from when he cuts the grass."
"In penny loafers?" I asked.
"In penny loafers," she replied.
I was always checking out Bill's shoes after that...always clad in loafers somewhere between grass cutting-friendly and work pristine!
Funny...as I write this...I begin to think it COULD have been tassel loafers...strange that I can't remember that specific detail! Dead certain they were loafers though! Maybe Tracy and Carol can set me straight on that...

John Buckley

August 25, 2016

I am sorry to hear about the passing of Bill. He and Marcia were grandparents of the highest order. I would see them after coming from a sporting event of one of their grandchildren. They always had a kind word. My condolences to the whole family.

Greg Sheppard

August 25, 2016

Dear Dr.Quillen & Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your father. May he reunited with his wife and your mother; and rest in the arms of our Lord and Savior,Jesus Christ.

REMY - BATTIAU '52 Liliane

August 25, 2016

I shall miss regular letters and news from Bill. I want to express my condolences to Bill family and faithful friends from early Wilmington.

Liliane Remy-Battiau '52
Avenue du Midi 57
4130 Esneux
Belgium

August 24, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope Jer. 29: 11,12 brings you comfort during this difficult time.

J. M. Hyde

August 24, 2016

Bill and I grew up together in New Castle, although he was 5 years younger than I was which I never let him forget. Tributes to his judicial manner and skills are well deserved, but when it came to political and institutional loyalties especially if it involved verbal or athletic battles were a quite different matter. Bill attended Wilmington Friends School; the Hyde kids attended Tower Hill School an institutional rivalry that is among the oldest in the state of Delaware. When my mother passed away, we asked that contributions be made to Tower Hill in her memory. Bill responded by making a contribution to the New Castle Historical Society in her name; I'm not going to give a cent to that school he explained to me.
At the next level of education, Bill and I graduated in 1956 from Williams College which is located in the Berkshire hills of western Massachusetts which meant our institutional loyalties were not divisive. The athletic rivalry between Williams and Amherst College is one of the oldest in the history of intercollegiate activities in the United States. In the 1990s, Williams was on a winning streak of 6 games in the football rivalry with Amherst. On the evening of the 7th game, Bill called to ask the score. My reply was: Bill! I'm sorry but we lost. There was an explosion at the other end of the line! What do you mean you're SORRY!' You should be OUTRAGED! What are you going to do about it.
Oh how I shall miss him! I intend to make two contributions in his memory one to Williams College and one to Wilmington Friends School.

Kevin & Danielle Sullivan

August 23, 2016

We can all celebrate Judge Quillen's contributions to the state of Delaware. He lived a life in which he put the needs of others first. He and Marcia built a wonderful family and were such active and interested grandparents. We appreciated his presence on the athletic sideline cheering on his grandkids in a positive way. He will be missed and we know the family, during this tough time, can return to wonderful memories of him.

John Romagnoli

August 23, 2016

Dear Quillen family,

We send our sincere condolences for your wonderful Father.

We keep you all in our prayers.

John Romagnoli and family

Barbara & Len Togman

August 23, 2016

Dear Carol and Tracy: Your Dad was a wonderful man. We were privileged to know him. He will be greatly missed.
Fondly,
Barbara and Len Togman

Charles and Barbara Keil

August 23, 2016

Bill was a gentleman of the highest order. His legacy in the courts and government will continue.

We extend condolences to his family.

Sincerely,
Charles and Barbara Keil

Ed Pankowski

August 23, 2016

Delaware has lost one of our best leaders of all time in Bill ............A mentor to me as a young lawyer doing criminal defense in his Courtrooms, where Justice and Fairness always presided. ..also helped Bill on his 1984 campaign..............a Pillar of the Old New Castle Community................May Peace be with the Family of this great man...............

August 23, 2016

Bill was a dear friend to all who knew him. As a colleague, I valued his advice on many subjects. A hole now exists in the Delaware judicial system which cannot be filled. He truly was a great and warm human being.

jim carney

August 22, 2016

He was a man of substance and judicial stature. glad to have worked for him however briefly. jim carney.

Leslie Porter

August 22, 2016

What a fitting tribute to a model civil servant who held family and friends close to his heart. Judge Quillen's legacy now lives on.

August 22, 2016

One day back in 1975, I asked my dad who was the smartest man he knew. Without hesitation he said, "Bill Quillen". Some things you just never forget. My sincere condolences on behalf of the entire Hackman family. Mr. Quillen was indeed a great man.

Charlie Hackman Jr.

Ira Ellis Jr.

August 22, 2016

Sorry to hear. We will miss You

Ted Berg

August 22, 2016

Few men earn the right to be placed on a pedestal and perhaps even fewer men could never be removed from that pedestal. Bill was always on a pedestal in my mind because of his love of family, integrity, academic and professional accomplishments, kindness, humor, sincerity, and just being all-around great person. He was a role model for many, and certainly me. I am lucky to have been able to call him my friend and to have been influenced by him. He graciously attended my father's funeral recently and through several emails thereafter, he once again passed along wisdom to me. My condolences to his great family. May the many wonderful memories you have of him help ease today's tears and bring tomorrow's smiles.

Ted Berg

August 22, 2016

Carol and Tracey-

I was so sorry to hear the news. We had such a fun encounter in my office the other week. Your father was in a great mood and teased me relentlessly. I will miss those encounters. I adored both of your parents and it was an honor to work with them for the past 24 years.

Fondly

Richard Laird

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