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for Steven Speca
kendrick fidler
April 21, 2024
I miss you...
Jim Christaldi
March 21, 2021
Every now and then I'll get an email from legacy.com about an old friend who had passed away with regard to remembering him or her. I need no reminder of how much Steve is missed. It's been a long while now and he is still missed greatly. What a good guy and I'm lucky to have known him and had a lot of time to hang out with him back in the day. What a damn shame that he's still not here today.
April 2, 2013
I just read this with a sad and heavy heart. Haven't seen any of the Speca's for sometime, but all are remembered so fondly. Mel,prayers and thoughts are with you and the family at this difficult time. Brian and Claire Gustafson
Cindy Bell Gerber
January 23, 2013
Mrs Speca, Bob & family, I just found out about Steve's passing. I grew up around the corner, went to school with Steve and belonged to Drexel Swim club. I will always remember his big smile and how kind he always was ,such a great person. My thoughts and prayers to all of you during this difficult time. God Bless.
Angel Speca
January 7, 2013
January 6, 2013
Dear Steve: Although we thought there could be no Christmas for us without you, we did, after all, manage to make it special. I think the past months have been a heartache; difficult without you for Mellen. But,again,she has come through with her strength and capable parenting skills, with the plan to take the kids to a different venue this year for Christmas. They would take the Baby Jesus with them and go to warm and sunny Can Cun, Mexico for His birthday. They were all excited and happy to go, and it turned out to be "awesome"and "amazing" they said. It was a happy adventure and a wise thing to do. Your little family misses you: your guidance and advice, your support and strength, your laughter and your love. They continue to fulfill, in a huge way,their promise to make you proud.Danny has won many honors,is loved and respected by many and continues to make good choices. Chrissie continues to be the lovely,smart,kind and loving young woman,enjoying her years at Villanova. She tells me that she must work very hard, but it is worth it because she is learning so much. She will be an exceptional nurse, making a contribution to society that will surely make a difference. Greg sounded joyful when he told me that he finished his first semester post graduate as a physical therapist. Your kids love and honor and respect their mother,as it was your example that you set for them. Your strength, your goodness, your kindness, the effort and the love you put forth in your short life here have blossomed into three beautiful beings. Greg said to me, "Memom, I find that I am more and more my father's son. I love my mother so much, and I feel responsible to hold this family together. We must all stick together." God bless them -- Danny, Chrissie and Greg, all three of your children (young adults almost); for as much as they relied on you for advice and guidance,they seem well prepared to handle life,to some extent,without you; with grace and maturity. No worries, Stevie; the kids need and love their mother and she is there for them.You taught your children well.
Stevie, my son, I miss your warmth and comfort so much and I pray that I will see you again with your dad. If you see him today, the 13th anniversary of his entrance to heaven, tell him I love him. I will love you forever. MOM
September 5, 2012
I had the pleasure of knowing Steve in college. We were teammates together on the WSCU football team. I've always appreciated Steve for his determination and "true grit" on the field. As I remember Steve back then, he was a quiet type of leader who let his actions speak for himself. Steve was intelligent and had a certain calmness about him that I admired. Steve will be sorely missed by all his former classmates and teammates. My apologies to the Speca family for not responding sooner. May the Lord's blessing be upon all of you during this difficult time. God Bless.
George Verplank
Nebraska
August 21, 2012
Mrs Speca's words are beautiful. Steve was a true gentleman. His kindness will live on in everyone's life he touched.
Angel Speca
August 20, 2012
It is said that time is the healer, but the past months have only made more indelible the pain in the reality that our beloved Steve will no longer warm my heart and make my day with his warm and comforting voice and his sparkling smile and laughter. He was my confident; my support, there for me, trusted with my feelings, my fears, my hopes and concerns; joyful for my joy and sad for my sadness. It never occurred to me for a moment that I would lose him so soon. Although I let him know often of the love and respect I had for him, why did I take the blessing of his existence for granted? He was my anchor, our rock, and his brother and I are lost without him, as are his three amazing children. My constant,fervent prayer was for the safety and well-being of my sons and grandchildren. That was all I asked of Him, but God chose to answer my prayers like this, the way He deems right for me, calling on my trust in Him. I believe Steve was sent to us to raise and parent these three children as only he could. His mission well done, though not quite complete, He got to go Home early. Could he not have stayed with me a little longer? Your words and prayers are a comfort to us and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your kindness and generosity.
Janet Stoner Meehan
April 28, 2012
Geez. Just found out about this. My condolences to the entire Speca family.
Janet Stoner Meehan - Drexel Hill Swim Club family
Tricia Cosgrove
April 22, 2012
Dear Mrs. Speca and Bobby, This is Tricia Cosgrove from Drexel Swim Club. I haven't seen you all since 1969 but this morning on CBS i saw Bob do his interview on the dominos. As I then found out about Steve's passing, I am spending my belated condolences to all of you.
April 15, 2012
To the Speca family,
My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to all of you. My heart reaches out to Angel, my neighbor and friend, and to all those who knew and loved this gentle man and gentleman.
Barbara Drizin and family
Chris, Laura, Dana Mathers
April 11, 2012
Condolences from the high school band mates of Steve. Chris, Laura and Dana Mathers.
Cynthia Stoviak
April 11, 2012
To the Speca Family,
I had the privilege of working with Steve at AT&T and was deeply saddened to hear of his passing. My deepest thoughts of sincere sympathy are with each member of his family. He was a wonderful colleague and I will truly miss him. I was blessed by his presence and the opportunity to have known him and to have worked with him.
Blessed thoughts
Cynthia Stoviak
April 2, 2012
My thoughts and prayers to the entire Speca family. I did not know Steve well but he was a classmate at Marple Newtown. And our children have also been classmates at Downingtown West. Take comfort in your memories of Steve.
Leslie Linton Soster
Richard Anthony Jr
March 31, 2012
"His life was gentle, and the elements
so mixed in him that Nature might stand up and say to all the world, 'This was a man!' "
Tom Caridi
March 31, 2012
Although I can't say I knew Steve as a close friend, he was my spiritual mentor in the Alpha program at St. Joseph Parish years ago. I'm not sure how we teamed up, but he helped me through the journey. We shared a room during retreat and enjoyed a few beers together the night before. From that moment on, I considered him a friend because of his character, love of God and family. I am shocked and saddened, yet forever grateful that I came to know Steve Speca.
March 30, 2012
Mellen and Family: We are so saddened to hear of Steve's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this most difficult time.
In Christian Love,
John, Rebecca, Jessica & Jeffrey Gamble
Sandy DeFrancisco
March 30, 2012
Words are inadequate at such a time as this. I am deeply saddened to learn of the sudden passing of Steven Speca. My late husband and Steven's Dad were classmates at Girard College and I met
Steven and his brother, as young boys, just briefly when we were visiting with his parents at their home. My deepest sympathy to all the Speca family. May it help and console you to remember that many comforting thoughts and prayers are very close to you.
In Christian Love,
March 30, 2012
Mellen and family: we are very sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and in our prayers at this difficult time. Sincerely, Bob, Lena and Michael Farrington
Debbie D'Angeli
March 30, 2012
Angel and Bobby, I was startled and saddened to read about Steve's passing earlier today. The last time I spoke to him was when you were in the hospital, Angel, and he impressed me how caring he was to you. I know you were all very close and that will continue. He is always with you. He is being welcomed into eternal rest by his loved ones, including your beloved husband and Father, Bob, and my dear parents, and many others. May that thought comfort you as you look forward to being reunited once again when your time here is completed. Keeping you in my constant thoughts and prayers.
Chris & Kelly O'Connor
March 29, 2012
Mellen, we are so saddened by the loss of Steve so young. He was such a warm, good-hearted friend who would always smile and bring a smile to our faces each time we met. Our prayers are with you and your family, and we are here to help.
Rick and Nancy Dougherty
March 29, 2012
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We met the Speca family at Pennypacker Swim club where we have enjoyed watching each others children grow up. We have a lot of respect for each of the family members and are so sad for the loss of such a great dad and husband and friend.
Tami Griffith-Ludwigsen
March 29, 2012
Mellen,
It has been many years since I have seen you and Steve, yet I always remember his smile and infectious positive attitude. May God lead you and your family through this time of trial. Words just do not convey what is in our hearts at a time like this...
Randy Lawrence
March 29, 2012
Mellen,
Trish and I want to send our deepest condolances. Steve and I were in the same class our very first day at AT&T. He was one of the nicest guys I ever met! Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!
Frank Simosik
March 29, 2012
Mellen,
My deepest condolances to you and your family. You know how close Steve and I were and he is forever etched in my mind. Mat God give you the strenght to go thru this trying times. Im beside myself....
The Shaw Family
March 28, 2012
So sorry to hear this as we know the Speca family from sports. Please know that our prayers are with you.
Rea McAveney
March 28, 2012
Mellen, I wanted to express to you and your family my sympathy for your tremendous loss. Know that I will keep you all in my prayers. You have always been dear to my heart and I can't imagine what you're going through. If you ever need an ear I'm here. May God fill you with His strength, wisdom and understanding. I wish you peace and love.
Anthony Maffei
March 28, 2012
Our most sincere condolences from the whole Maffei family. we have fond memories of spending a lot of time at Drexel Swim Club with Steve & the rest of his family.
Robert Speca
March 28, 2012
Steve was the best brother ever. He was so loving, and will be truely missed. Many friends from Marple Newtown and Drexel Swim Club have been in touch, and they have related their experiences with photography, golf and other sports. It makes all our memories more vivid. Thanks to all who keep him in their prayers and memories...it helps ease the pain.
Kevin
March 28, 2012
Although I had only recently met Steve as a part of our golfing foursome, (Steve was really the only Golfer) he was one of the most friendly and laid back person I have ever encountered. The only thing that would change his demeanor was when he spoke about his family and their activities, they always took presidense over golf. I will miss him.
March 28, 2012
Mellen and Family-
We are thinking of you all daily and wish you continued strength. We are very sorry for your loss.
Nichole, Sally, and Stephanie
Darcy, Larry, Morgan and Ian Jones
March 28, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Jackie Zima-Evans
March 27, 2012
Mellen, Greg, Chrissie, and Danny: My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do at this time.(your favorite babysitter)
Greg Muller
March 27, 2012
Our condolences to the entire Speca family. It had been a long time since I last saw Steve and family, but always enjoyed my time with him in the neighborhood and at the ballfields. Someone earlier said it well, "the world is less now". RIP Steve and may your loved ones find comfort in their faith, family and friends.
March 27, 2012
Mellen, we just don;t know what to say. We are so very sorry for your loss. Please let us know if we can do anything to help you and the children or anyone for that matter. So very Sorry. Jim and Sharon Fogarty
March 27, 2012
I am so very saddened to hear of Steve's passing. My condolences to all of the Speca family. I had worked with Steve in the very brief time he had spent in Cardiac Rehab at PH as well as gone to MN with him.
Brenda Borgh Bartlett
Jim Christaldi
March 27, 2012
Bob, I am SO sorry to hear about Steve passing away. I feel so bad for all of you. I have no other image in my mind than Steve always smiling and just being such a great person. I remember some good times back in the day and Steve was there for so many of them. He will be missed on this rock. Too damn young to be gone! Stay strong brother!
Denise Ricci-Vizzini
March 27, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Speca family. Steve was a fellow classmate of mine in high school and although I didn't know him well, I was so sad to hear of his passing. May you find comfort in your memories and the love you shared together.
The Griffith Family
March 27, 2012
Our sincere condolences to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Billy And Danny
March 27, 2012
Though it has been many years since I have seen Steve, I have never forgotten about him and the times we had together. He always had a gentle demeanor and spirit that belied his physical attributes and penchant for combat sports. I think everybody knew who Steve Speca was and wanted to be just like him in their own special way. Steve had that affect on people. We send our heartfelt prayers to yours, Steve, and know you are looking down on your loved ones with your own grief for theirs. When the mourning process subsides just an iota, I know you will let them know that you are fine and God is standing with you as well as looking upon them.
I am sure you are with Danny now. Let him know I love him. I love you too, Shader.
Donna Harrison and Family
March 27, 2012
Although our paths haven't crossed in a while I am so very sad to hear about your loss. I have fond memories of a sometimes soft-spoken gentleman with a genuine smile who always made my day a little better. He will be missed
Debbie Nucifora-Stellabotte
March 27, 2012
What can I say about Steve? He was a kind, sincere,family loving man who never had a bad thing to say about anyone or anything. I had the priviledge to have grown up with him since elementary school and live in the same neighborhood. Although I had not seen him in many years I will remember him with fondness and am so lucky to have known him. Prayers go out to his wife and children, his mom and brother, and all of us who knew him, as we have lost a good man, but heaven has gained an angel.
Steven Listino
March 27, 2012
I'm very sad to hear of Steve's passing. Steve was truly a class act at Marple Newtown. My thoughts and prayers go out to entire Speca family during this very difficult time.
March 27, 2012
"I have sooo many wonderful memories of Steve from High School. He was truly a "Gift" and we were blessed to have him in our lives at one time or another. My sincere condolonces to his family." Ramona (Bilotti) DiBattista (Logan Township, NJ)
March 27, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Speca family during this diffult time. May God Bless you.
Todd, Karen and Dalton Reed
Joan Jackson
March 27, 2012
I have fond memories of Steve and his family from back in our high school days. My condolences to his wife, children and others.
Ann Winte Sheafer
March 27, 2012
Steve is one of the finest people God ever placed on this earth. Anyone who spent time with him knows that they were a bette person for having known him. He was always the gentleman. I hope that in this time of terrible sadness that his family can take some solace in the kind words of his friends. While he made earth a better place, I am sure that he is lighting up heaven. It was a privilege to be his friend.
Marian Holland
March 27, 2012
My sincere condolences for your loss. Steve was a stand up guy and will be missed.
March 27, 2012
Steve was a pleasure to work with over the last 10 years and I will miss his interaction. My prayers are with you during this time of loss.
Patty Pappenfort
Joe Fauls
March 27, 2012
I have had the pleasure of working, golfing, and seeing Steve for over 10 years, and he would always speak of his family. He loved you all very much, and he was a very proud dad! Your loss is shared, and he will be missed by us all...my sincere condolences to you.
March 27, 2012
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless our West friends,
Anthony, Lauren and James Damiano
Brett Peterson
March 27, 2012
I feel for his wife and children. A Tragic loss losing a husband and father. As a former classmate at Marple Newtown back in 1977 i remember Steve as being quite iconic. Before the punk rockers and body pierced rebels of todays culture. Steve wore a small earing in his left ear. I thought at the time he had a lot of guts and was real secure in who he was. It did not hurt that he played football, rugby and wrestled. i always
remember his as soft spoken and had not seen him for quite a few years except for bumpimg into him walking around marsh creek lake. I will keep his family in my prayers. This life is
short. Eternal life with Christ is forever.
Bob Morgan
March 27, 2012
My condolences to the Speca family. Although I have not seen Steve for years, he was a great buddy in High School and we shared a lot of memories and laughs together. You are in my thoughts.
Amanda Blickos
March 27, 2012
Aunt Angel, Bobby, Mellen, and to my cousins Greg, Christine and Dan, I am so so very sorry for this sudden tragedy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Joe Rossi
March 27, 2012
My sincere condolences. Steve was a man of quality. The world is less without him.
Laura Grabell Messinger
March 27, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you my love and prayers.
Heather Mcnicholl
March 26, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss. Steve & I went to Marple Newtown together. He was a great rugby player and so much fun. I'm keeping Steve & your family in my prayers.
Heather Murdoch McNicholl and family
March 26, 2012
Sending our love and prayers to your family at this very sad time.
~ Dan, Lori and Tess Mailey
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