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Karen Trueheart Obituary

Trueheart, Karen

Ellingson

Pittsford: Born March 10, 1945, to Marcia (nee Randall) and Mark Ellingson. Died September 2. Predeceased by her parents, and her sister, Laura Ellingson Chapman. Survived by her husband, Harry Trueheart, son Eric Trueheart of Los Angeles, daughter Kathryn Trueheart of Park City Utah, brother Jon Ellingson and wife Kathy of Missoula Montana, sister Louise Ellingson of Branson, Missouri, and brother and sister in law Drs. John and Pamela Burch of Pittsford, NY.

Karen was married to Harry Trueheart in June 1965 and returned from Cambridge Massachusetts to Rochester when Harry joined Nixon Hargrave Devans and Doyle, now Nixon Peabody LLP, where, in time, he served as Chairman and CEO from 1994 to 2008.

Karen and Harry had two children, Eric, a screenwriter in Los Angeles, and Kathryn, a Physician Assistant and acupuncturist at the University of Utah Hospital in Salt Lake City.

Karen's father was president of the Rochester Institute of Technology from 1936 to 1969. Her grandfather, John Randall, served as RIT president from 1922 to 1936. Karen was a member of RIT's Women's Council. Her husband serves as a member of the RIT Board of Trustees.

Karen had degrees from the University of Vermont, Boston University and the California Institute of Integral Studies.

A fine athlete, Karen was a teaching tennis professional and the President of the Ski Valley ski area. An accomplished horsewoman, and an excellent trainer of dogs, Karen loved animals and seemed to have an intuitive understanding of them.

Integrating the wisdom of the world's spiritual traditions with modern science, Karen became a widely loved teacher and counselor. Karen served on the faculty of the California Institute of Integral Studies and became Director of the Center for Psychological and Physical Health there. More recently, she was an East-West spiritual teacher and counselor for Christ Episcopal Church in Pittsford, New York. She also taught at the Center for Spirituality and Psychotherapy in New York City.

She was Board Chair of the M.K. Gandhi Institute for Non-Violence at the University of Rochester and the Founder of Heartprints for Humanity, organizations dedicated to using compassionate and pragmatic means to create a more harmonious world. Karen also served on the Boards of United Neighborhood Centers of Greater Rochester, a project of the United Way; and the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children.

Karen and her husband Harry were summer residents of Blue Hill Maine. She quickly became a beloved member of the community and was one of the guiding lights of the first Downeast Spiritual Life Conference. She served on the steering committee for the conference and was scheduled to be a workshop presenter until the cancer she had been fighting returned.

At the time of her death, Karen was working with writer Victoria Harris on a book titled Dancing With Uncertainty and had completed a CD of her teachings and guided meditations.

Over the years, Karen's perceptive and wise counsel earned her the gratitude not only of family and friends, but countless others who will miss her very much.

There will be a celebration of Karen's life on Saturday September 15, 2012 at 11am in the Panara Theater at Rochester Institute of Technology. A reception will follow in the Dyer Arts Center at 12 Noon. There will be no calling hours.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in remembrance of Karen may be made to the M K Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence (www.gandhiinstitute.org ); Rochester Institute of Technology Ellingson Scholarship Fund, or Christ Episcopal Church, Pittsford, NY.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Sep. 6 to Sep. 9, 2012.

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Kathy Bonk

August 31, 2022

Karen's spirit lives on in the beautiful monarch butterflies that visit us all summer long. We often say -- hi Karen...

Laura Seligman

October 3, 2012

Cherished friend and sister companion on the path. I carry your brilliant clarity and open heart with me.

Mae Nan Ellingson

September 12, 2012

I am grateful to have known and loved this wise, caring woman. Harry, Kate , Eric, Jon and Louise, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, mother and sister. I wish I could be there with you. With heartfelt love and sympathy, Mae Nan

Kathy Bonk

September 10, 2012

Karen's spirit, wisdom and love will continue to be remembered and cherished. Her CD is wonderful and will sustain us as we mourn her passing and forever carry with us her friendship.

Rob Maggs

September 10, 2012

Our deepest synpathies to Harry and family. Debbie and Rob Maggs

September 10, 2012

Karen your beautiful spirit will be with us always. It was such an honor to know you and have you in our lives. You added to the quality and depth in my life and touched many others lives as well. Blessings to the family. Eileen Cowey

Diane Macchiavelli

September 7, 2012

Dearest Karen,
Now you are one with the great light that you so skillfully shared with others. You were a wise and compassionate intelligence upon the Earth. Thank you for sharing your brilliance. My deepest sympathy to your family. Love, Diane

Nancee Bender & Richard Freeman

September 7, 2012

Life was too short for Karen to allow us to gather in Blue Hill. We lived in Pittsford for many years before moving to Blue Hill but during our first meeting at Harry Brunos, Karen exuded a very bright spirit and presence. Our condolences to your husand Harry and your entire family at their severe loss of your presence on earth. Although our contact was very brief, it only gives us a glimpse of how you must be missing Karen and we wanted to offer our thoughts to you.

Jan Premich

September 7, 2012

You touched my life with friendship and my Being with spiritual guidance. Thank you, dear Karen.

My condolences to Harry, your children, and your family.

You live in the love of many hearts.

September 6, 2012

My beloved friend, a spiritual sister, and a guide to all who knew and loved her. How greatly you graced the lives of others, how much your wisdom comforted others, and how thankful I am to have shared so many years of friendship. For Kate, Eric, and Harry, my heart and prayers are with you and will continue to accompany you all. LouAnn

Peter Boulay

September 6, 2012

To Eric and the family. I am sorry for your loss.

Maryann & Greg Riley

September 6, 2012

It's been some time now since the Chesham Way days, but the memories still linger of neighborhood happy fun times. Karen was an enthusiastic part of it. A special person remembered with sympathy.

September 6, 2012

Karen's spirit was a light to me in her life here on earth...I can't wait to see what it will be from Heaven. With much love and admiration, Mary Ramerman

Walt Fritz

September 6, 2012

Your friendship was a gift I treasure. Peace to you, Karen.

Sue Stewart

September 6, 2012

Your love, wisdom and light heart were a great gift to all who knew you. Sue

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