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Thomas Scalise Obituary
"The Fifth Beatle"
East Rochester: June 6, 2013, at age 60. Survived by his parents, Anthony & Connie Scalise; his brothers, Tony Scalise (Eileen Earley) & Tim Scalise (Tracy); a niece & nephew, Brandi & Sam Scalise; aunts & uncles, Caroline Napoli, Carmen & Harriet Scalise, Thomasina Pullano and Frank & Rose Barbero; several cousins including John, Jo Ann & Joe and many dear friends.
A Memorial Mass for Tom will be celebrated at 10:00am on MONDAY, June 10th at St. Jerome's Church. No prior calling. Interment will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution in Tom's name to either, St. Jerome's Church, 207 Garfield St., East Rochester, NY 14445, or The Highland Hospital Foundation, 1000 South Ave., Rochester, NY 14620.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Scalise
June 16, 2013
Dear Family, With much sorrow, please accept our deepest sympathies for the loss of Tom. Tom was always very kind, considerate and a blessing to be with and know. Love The Cimicata Family (Mike, Pat, Steve, Dan)
June 14, 2013
I had the pleasure of knowing Tom for many years, because I worked with him at Legends. I am so sorry I didn't keep in touch, because he always made me laugh. May he rest in peace, he was a great guy...
David Segal
June 13, 2013
Dear Scalise family,
My thoughts are with you. I will miss Tom - his jokes, the stories, the laughs, and having coffee with the guys.
Sincerely,
David
Mary Kay Knorr
June 10, 2013
Sorry to hear , many thoughts to family and friends!!
Nanette Salvaggio
June 10, 2013
Tony, thinking of you and your family during this time.
Best, Nanette
Mary Pat Lally
June 10, 2013
Tony, I just heard about your brother's death. I'm so sorry for your loss. May memories comfort you and your family at this difficult time.
Tom Riccio
June 10, 2013
Mr. and Mrs. Scalise, Tony, Tim.....so sorry to hear of your loss. I will sorely miss him. Wish I could be there.
"I will often stop and think about him."
Kim & Dan Ostrowski
June 10, 2013
Matthew 11:28
"Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of GOD, family and friends.
Much Love Always - Kim and Dan
Jim
June 10, 2013
Aunt Connie,Uncle Tony,and family, Sorry I could not make it home for Tom's funeral. All my thoughts and prayers are with you today. Love, Jim
Mike Dorofy
June 10, 2013
Tony,
Sorry to hear of your loss, may God bless you and your family at this difficult time.
Ray and Toni Parrotta
June 9, 2013
Dear Connie & Tony,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you, to your children, & to all your family at this time of sadness.
May you all find comfort in Tom's memories; his smile, his laughter, and the happiness he brought to you.
As you share, talk & remember, may you find the one you love so much,
is still living in your hearts.
Our sympathy, our prayers, our love,
Kevin Lootens
June 9, 2013
I worked with Tom years ago and kept in touch ever since. There would always be laughter when we got together. I am deeply saddened by his passing and will miss our conversations we would have. Rest in peace my friend, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Paula Ludwig
June 9, 2013
Rest in Peace, Tommy. You will be in our hearts forever.
Franchesca Scalise
June 9, 2013
Ian deeply sorry to hear of your family loss..
Sending prayers and condolences at this most difficult time...
June 9, 2013
MAY ALL THE PAIN BE GONE NOW CUS, @ MY THE LORD ACCEPT YOU WITH OPEN HANDS
Fred Cerretti
June 9, 2013
May God comfort Tom's family and dear friends. We will miss you Tom. God, please welcome Tom in to your kingdom.
Cynthia & Andreas Klein
June 9, 2013
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
steve scalise
June 9, 2013
tom you were a great cousin and friend
i will miss seeing you and hearing you say to me how are you cus. i was thinking of you on saturday june 8th while watching the belmont stakes race. you will be missed so RIP CUS
June 9, 2013
Everytime I heard a Beatles song, watched Antiques Road show or bought some scratch off tickets-I thought of you...you will be missed...
Yvonne Mousso
June 9, 2013
So sorry for your lost My prays go out to you and you family God Bless
Jeffrey Kokinda
June 9, 2013
Tom may God open his hands and welcome you to Heaven now, I enjoyed your laughter as we would tell jokes and stories of the past, rest in peace my friend. May God also comfort your family and many relatives as you depart this earth.
Chuck Lauricella
June 9, 2013
Ive known Tom for many years and he was like a brother to me and we will all miss him very much and he takes a part of my heart with him .
Bob & Rachelle Allen
June 8, 2013
Tom was the best "Best Man" there ever could have been. He made our wedding day special and memorable for all the right reasons. We will miss him terribly.
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