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February 5, 2011
Dave and Amanda,
I think of your sweet family every day and pray for you to always have the sweet comforting Spirit with you.
Little Bennet was such a bright delight in our ward. I miss seeing him walking with his dad in the hall and in the nursery.
Your comments at the funeral were very heartwarming and comforting to all.
My love, Bev Hansen
February 3, 2011
Dave and Mandy,
Our deepest condolences and most sincere thoughts and prayer go to both of you and your lovely family! May Bennet rest in peace!
Tiebin & Dong (Columbus, IN)
Troy and Camille (Thomas) Russon
January 30, 2011
January 30, 2011
Dear Mandy and family,
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you. We are so sorry for your grief and are touched by your love and faith. What a very beautiful boy and family.
Sincerly,
Heather Schmidt
January 30, 2011
Amanda, David, and Kjar family.
I just heard about the passing of such a young spirit. This is such a wonderful reminder that life doesn't end here. As was said, this isn't a Goodbye, but a See you Later. I understand that pain of loosing one you love. And know that pain is so very real. But the strength of the Kjar family, will be not only a strenth, and example to you, but to so many others who know you. My prayers and thought will be with you.
Joe Kjar
January 29, 2011
Mandy & David, We just want you to know family prayers carry special blessings and we are praying hard for you and your little ones. God Bless you and may He strengthen your faith at a time when faith could very easily be weakened. Much love, the Joe & Annie Kjar family (Mork's).
Ricks Creek Ward member
January 29, 2011
Mandy, I know you only as shift change came in the Library. Your little family eager to be with you, Dave wrestling little Bennett, who was determined to get to you. Your classic Kjar features make a strong statement. I could always see Grandpa Scott in your baby. May your sorrow be turned to nurture the hearts of your other children at this time. May your empty arms be filled by our Savior.
Alicia Sorensen
January 28, 2011
Sister Kjar and your sweet Wilkinson family,
My heart is so soft.You have been in my thoughts reapetedly since I got the news last night from Ray Esparza. I am in Love and appreciate your spiritual maturity. I dont know what to say besides I love you
Sister Hutchings and Family
Jennifer Webb Kotter
January 28, 2011
My heart is aching for you and your sweet family. What a beautiful tribute to your angel baby.
January 28, 2011
Dear David and Amanda,
We were so sad to read little "Bennett's obituary on line. Sorry we never got to meet him, but he must have been wonderful, as all children are. They know how to make your day.....the best therapy god gave us. And as grandkids come along, the experience is only enhanced. Even though it has been quite a while, we still miss having you in our ward. Amanda, a more beautiful alto voice.......I have never heard. Please keep your chin up and pray for Heavenly Father's strength. He WILL be there for you. I recently lost my parents, and I got a glimpse of Heaven by reading a book called, "The Message"....deseret book. It gave me alot of comfort. Just wanted to let you know how much we care. Love you both, Jim and Julie Ridd
Teresa and Bryan Bartholomew
January 28, 2011
Dear Wilkinson Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your amazing little Bennett. We couldn't even make it through the wonderful tribute of Bennett without tears flowing. You can tell your family was one that shared so much love and compassion for one another. You don't personally know us, but I am friends with Katie and Kalia. What a blessing to know and understand the Plan of Salvation. May your family continue to be blessed as you go through this difficult time.
Jennifer Rasmussen Rose
January 28, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Aaron and Timmie John
January 27, 2011
David and Amanda, our hearts are with you! We are sending you our love...We know dear Rendell is taking care of your sweet Bennett. Hugs to you...love Aaron and Timmie
a sister
January 27, 2011
I am touched by the strength and love conveyed in the words offered of your son. What a sweet tribute to a soul of great importance in the Lords eyes. May you feel the comfort and guidance only this new relationship can bring as you discover the talents your angel will send to you.
Elizabeth Hatch
January 27, 2011
Dear Kjar Family,
My heart breaks for you, but I hope there is peace and healing, and knowing your family, you will turn to the Lord and find tremendous strength in him and in each other. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Elizabeth (Foster) Hatch
Becky Murphy
January 26, 2011
Dear Kjar Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet grandson. What a precious child, and so beautifully perfect. Know that our thoughts and our prayer are with you and your amazing family. I will always cherish the 4 years that I spent in that ward, and am grateful to know your family. Your family is such an wonderful example to me. May the "Lord bless you and keep you" and help you find peace in his wonderful plan. Love always, Jason and Becky Murphy
January 26, 2011
Amanda, David, Little Bennett and family, I did not know any of you until that day that your boy was called back to a higher power. I was amazed at how strong your family was. I saw your grief and felt it with you even though I could not fully understand. I fought back my own tears. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
A first responder
Marty Hardy
January 26, 2011
Mandy and David,
I can tell by your sweet tribute that your hearts rejoice in the Plan of Happiness. Yet,my heart still goes out to you in your sorrow. May you continue to feel the peace and comfort of the Spirit through the coming months and years.
Glade & Kathleen Knight
January 26, 2011
Precious Amanda and David,
God bless you in this difficult hour. We read your beautiful tribute to your beloved son and shed a tear, a tear of sorrow, but also a tear of gratitude for the glorious plan of our Father in heaven, and for amazing parents so grounded in FAITH, HOPE and CHARITY. You are Christ-like examples to all of us. Bless you DEAR ONES.
January 26, 2011
Mandy and David, My heart is aching for you and praying for your comfort and peace at this time. May the Lord be with you and strengthen you as you long to understand our Father's purpose for little Bennett and your family. Sincerly, Natalie Smoot Stevens
GARTH & KAY LYNN WAKEFIELD
January 26, 2011
Dearest Maryellen and Stan - and your entire family,
We learned about the passing of little Bennett this morning through a mutual friend and we are so very sorry. Please know that we care so much and that we are thinking and praying for all of you. Maryellen and Stan, what wonderful great-grndparents we know you were to little Bennett, as well as your other great-grandchildren. You are such strong, contributing, loving people! Your family is just amazing! We wish so much we could do more but these "things of the heart" just kind of have to be endured, and understood, as we are sure you are already experiencing.
What a great blessing the gospel brings! We know that little Bennett is already in his Heavenly Father's loving arms, telling Him all about his sojourn on this wonderful earth, telling Him about his wonderful eternal family. His life was short, but for him it was probably all he needed to get him where he is now. I am sure we would love to keep our families - forever - and you have accomplished that. It will be a blink and you will all be together once again.
Please know we love you and your family and are really praying hard for you.
Tracy Cherry Haws
January 26, 2011
Amanda and David and Wilkinson Family, My heart goes out to you. I'm a better person for having known you both and though it's been years since I've seen you, I know that your committment and foundation in the gospel of Jesus Christ is still your cornerstone. I'm so grateful for the plan of salvation; I just wish the heartache and pains of mortality didn't hurt so bad. I'm sending you my prayers, my love, and faith. I wish I could be there in person to give you each a hug.
Rachel Egelund Miller
January 26, 2011
Mandy, I am so very very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you, so I can only imagine how much more yours is aching. What a beautiful tribute to such a special little boy. Continued thoughts and prayers headed your way.
Jennifer
January 26, 2011
There are no words to comfort you during this time. Though you and your family do not know me and I do not know yours, My heart aches with you over the loss of your son. Tears have been shed and prayers said that god will heal your hearts in time. May he bring you strength when you are powerless and hope when you are lost.
January 26, 2011
David and Amanda,
I see little Bennett reaching through the fence to capture our Calvin's attention, with Calvin wagging is tail.
What a ray of sunshine Bennett is.
Heavenly Father's work is the essence of everything. In the grand scheme of things the worth of every soul is great in the sight of the Lord and His work is to bring His children home. If we could see on the other side what Bennett is doing, I feel all of our grief would turn to rejoicing. We are so glad we had the blessing of having Bennett so close by us. We are all here for you and our prayers are with you that you may find peace, comfort and trust in our Father in Heaven taking Bennett when He did.
Hugs,
Mac, Marie and Abbey Garrabrants
January 26, 2011
Dave & Mandy,
Words are weak distillations of strong emotions conveyed more completely in person by a touch or a tear. We have not enjoyed the depth of emotions you now struggle to contain and understand. But time will give you perspective as we do what we can to support you in Bennett's change of venue.
Love,
Greg & Sue
Shae and Evelyn Cook
January 25, 2011
Our heart aches for your family and want you to know that we love you. You don't know us but your family has touched us in an amazing way. What a beautiful testimony of courage and strength. We will hold your entire family in our prayers.
A Mother
January 25, 2011
What a wonderful tribute to a beautiful little boy. My heart aches for you and I am so sorry for your loss.
Shauna Steed
January 25, 2011
David and Amanda,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious children. Thank goodness for our faith and belief in eternal families. May the Lord's blessings and comfort be with you and Emma, Gracie and Ashton. We are glad to have you as neighbors. What a wonderful tribute to your precious little boy.
Val and Shauna Steed
Kimberly Futey
January 25, 2011
Dear Wilkinson Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your darling son's passing! You are in my thoughts and prayers! How grateful I am for a loving Heavenly Father and the Plan of Salvation! I know you will hold Bennett again in your arms. God bless you at this time of sorrow and always! Love: Kimberly Checketts Futey
Erin & Merilee DeSpain
January 25, 2011
We are absolutely heartbroken for you and your family. We wish that you may remember and cherish all of the precious moments and feelings that you have had with your little boy. The time you had with him was a treasure and a gift. We pray that you can remember them with happiness and feel the warmth and love of God in the knowledge that he is loved and in His care until you are both able to meet together as a family again. We send our thoughts and prayers.
January 25, 2011
Wilkinson family - May the precious memories of little Bennett help to comfort you at this time and let them live on. May you be full of the loved shared. Families are forever. Our hearts go out to you, so hard to go through. Our prayers are with you. Newton family
Melissa Beckstead
January 25, 2011
Bennett you were blessed to have such loving family! You will be greatly missed. Best wishes, prayers and sympathy to your family.
January 25, 2011
We just wanted to pass along our love and let you guys know we are thinking of you and we love you.....BJ and Amy
January 25, 2011
We were soo shocked and saddened to hear about your little one Bennett. Kalia talked of him often. Our hurt aches for your loss. May the Saviour comfort you at this time and always. With concern and Love, The Dale Edwards Family
April Schow
January 25, 2011
Amanda and David,
What a beautiful little boy! How wonderful that we have the knowledge that we will be together again with our loved ones. Our prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
Steve & April Schow
January 25, 2011
The Robinson Family
Henri de Baritault
January 25, 2011
David,
I have only met you once. You are a wonderful loving and caring man, and must have been a great father for Bennett. I feel for you and your family and am sorry for the lost of your son. I love the positive ending note above.
Scott & Rachel McKeon
January 25, 2011
We offer our sincerest condolences to you Dave and Amanda, and pray the Lord to sustain and succor you. We wish we could be there to be His hands, but we know He will be with you! We Love you.
Desiree Nordstrom
January 25, 2011
An absolutely beautiful tribute to your lil Bennett. Thank you for your words. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Natalie & Jake Lundquist
January 25, 2011
Mandy and Dave, this tribute was so beautifully written and is unlike any I have ever read. We love your entire family and pray for peace and understanding during this difficult time.
Amy Chandler
January 25, 2011
Prayers for the whole family!! Your family is such a strength and light to everyone around you and we pray that all who you have touched can help you now during this difficult time. We love you and will pray for you. This obituary truly is the most touching I have ever read. Thank you for sharing it with us!
The Cracrofts
January 25, 2011
Dave & Amanda,
I had to wait for the tears to clear before I could add this brief message. That was such a touching tribute to Bennett. Our hearts ache for you because of his absence from your home, but we admire your faith, your resolve and the positive attitude you are keeping with this unexpected challenge, knowing that his absence is only temporary.
We love you.
Justin & Amanda
Another Mommy
January 25, 2011
So sorry for your loss... I am so thankful to know that families are forever...
Britney Ericksen
January 25, 2011
So beautifully written. Our prayers are with you.
Much Love, Britney
Paul and Heather Phillips
January 25, 2011
All our prayers...
January 25, 2011
Words aren't enough to express the depth of our heartache for your sweet family. We pray that you'll feel the Comforter's warmth and our Heavenly Father's love and concern. We love you!
Wade, Nicki and family
Alyse Essig
January 25, 2011
What a little angel boy. Dave & Mandy-- Landon and I look up to you more than you could possibly know. You two are the most amazing individuals and have the most beautiful family. Our hearts break for you. Your tribute to your sweet little boy is so tender and touching. You are truly a light to the world.
So much love,
Stacy(Dautel) Johnson
January 25, 2011
My heart breaks for your loss. But I am so grateful you know the truth and that you will be with your baby again. My thoughts and prayers turn to you at this very difficult time.
January 25, 2011
Our hearts are heavy at hearing the news of your little man Bennett. Please know that the Wilkinson family will be prayed for. Blessings on you. Toby and Jan Anderson
Lis & Nathan Cook
January 25, 2011
Kris,
Our hearts & prayers are with you & your family at this time. The obituary was written so beautifully, he was well loved & will be missed for now. What a blessing the Gospel is in our lives, & the opportunity we have to be with our loved ones through the eternities. ???
Allyson Clark and Family
January 25, 2011
I weep as I view this beautiful tribute to little Bennett. My heart aches for his incredible family. Scott and Stanna, I love you dearly and pray for peace and comfort for your family.
Brandon and Joyelle Turley
January 25, 2011
Our warmest thoughts and sincerest prayers being sent your way. Heaven has the sweetest angel. xo
Heather Woolley
January 25, 2011
Beautifully written for a beautiful boy. Brought tears to my eyes again. Love to you all.
January 25, 2011
Never before has an obituary touched me the way this one has. I cannot stop crying. What a lucky little boy to share such an amazing legacy. Prayers for your peace and comfort at this difficult time.
Cherie Hall
January 25, 2011
Dearest Wilkinsons--we are tremendously saddened by your loss and praying for you in this sacred time. May you see tender mercies of the Lord right now is our prayer.
Cherie Hall & family
January 25, 2011
Heartfelt condolences to the Smoot, Kjar and Wilkinson families. Bennett is so fortunate to be a part of such amazing families. May you have peace and comfort, each and every day, until you see him again.
Krikor & Julie Arslanian
January 25, 2011
Such Wonderful Sentiments from such a Beautiful Family!
May the Lord hold all of you closely - today and always...
FAMILIES ARE FOREVER!!
Brooke & Dan Liljenquist
January 25, 2011
Our hearts are heavy for the sorrow you feel as you miss your beautiful boy. But we rejoice that the blessings and promises of the gospel are yours to lay hold upon. How sweet a truth that families are forever and that Bennett will one day be in your arms again! Our deepest love to you.
Julianne Johnson
January 25, 2011
To the Wilkinson, Smoot and Kjar families: I am sorry to hear about little Bennett's passing. I know he his with our Heavenly Father and we will see him again in a better world. He is with family and friends that have gone on (like my mom Mary Ellen Rigby). May the Lord Bless you and your family at this time of separation.
January 25, 2011
A touching tribute to Bennett. Dave & Amanda, Emma, Gracie & Ashton--you have our hugs & prayers. Steve & Miyoko Baldridge
January 25, 2011
Mandy
Only you could have written the perfect tribute to your precious son. You captured him perfectly. Your faith in forever shown through every word and comforted all the rest of us who mourn with you. Our hearts continue to be drawn out in prayer for your family. We love you!
Becca Carver
January 25, 2011
Dear Amanda, What a beautiful, beautiful tribute to a very handsome and sweet son. You and your family are in my heart and prayers. Much love, Becca
Todd Brotherson
January 25, 2011
We love you all so much. Our hearts are with you, our thoughts are with you, and our prayers are with you. May the Lord envelop you in the peace and comfort that only He can give. He is certainly keeping Bennett safe and close, loved and perfectly held.
Love,
The Brothersons
Prayers Always
January 25, 2011
I came across your babies obituary and though you do not know me nor do I know you your family will be in my prayers. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and could not imagine the pain that comes with losing a child. May GOD carry you through these tough times and the memories help to keep a smile on your face. God bless you.
SarahAnne
January 25, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, David. Thank you for sharing that beautiful tribute and remembrance of your son.
Shauna Brown
January 25, 2011
Dave,Amanda,Emma,Gracie and Ashton, What a beautiful family! We the Brown Family are so blessed to be able to visit, teach and live by a wonderful family. I will cherish the time I had with Emma and Gracie in my primary class and what a blessing for the time I was able to spend with Ashton and Bennett in nursery. The memories of Bennett's little arms reaching for me to hold him, assuring him he was loved and his mommy would be there soon. Thank you for choosing to be part of our world. May God wrap his arms around each of you and may the spirit carry you through this difficult time.
Bennett- See you later Buddy!
All our love- Dann, Shauna and Keegan
Jason & DIana Bowler
January 25, 2011
Beautiful tribute for a beautiful child. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
Hailey kandell
January 24, 2011
Love you Bennett, Ashton, Dave, Mandy, Emma and Gracie. You are in our hearts and prayers. No good byes just see you laters where we will all be together and no seat will be empty.
Love you guys forever.
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