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Florencia Napier
March 19, 2022
Mr Ashton was the most impactful person I had in my childhood. He was my sixth grade teacher, but truly so much more. I think of him often, I remember this time when he led a choir practice whilst holding baby Pearl. It was so beautifully apparent how much he loved being a dad.
April 21, 2018
Dear Debra,
I am so sorry to read about the passing of Mike. It's been many years since I last saw you both but you were on my mind and that's when I came upon the news of his passing. I see that it's been some years now since the accident but I wanted to send you a big hug and my love and well wishes to you and your children.
with love,
Christine Manning Berkouwer
This was at Deb's Birthday Party. He made me wait to take the picture until he could pose like this.
July 1, 2005
Jared Chambers
May 17, 2005
I was very grieved to hear of the loss of this wonderful man. I have known the Ashton family from the time I was born, as they have been neighbors with my grandparents for as long as I've known them. Mike was a great human being, with a big heart. I didn't know him personally, but I do remember his warm smile and friendly eyes. My heart and prayers go out to his family, his wonderful wife, and my good friend Mark Ashton.
Deanna Edwards
May 3, 2005
Dear Ashton Family: I just learned of your loss. I met him at Copper Hills Elem. He always helped whenever the PTA needed it, and he did it with a smile and a joke. He will be missed.
Mary Carroll
April 30, 2005
I'M SURE THAT MICHAEL IS ENJOYING SOME SPECIAL TIME WITH HIS DAD. AND I AM VERY SURE THAT HIS FAMILY WILL BE GREATLY BLESSED AND GUIDED DURING THEIR TIME OF SORROW AND ADJUSTMENT. I ONLY KNOW THAT THIS WORLD WILL BE A LOT MORE LONELY WITHOUT THE WOUNDERFUL YOU MAN. I THINK HOW OFTEN HE CAME TO HELP ME AND MY FAMILY OF THE YEARS THAT HIS FAMILY LIVED WITH HIS MOTHER AS HE WAS PREPARING FOR HIS MISSION, HIS EDUCATION AND HIS LIFE IN THIS WORLD I KNOW THAT HIE WILL BE WAITING FOR ALL OF US IN THE CELESTIAL KINGDOM ALONG WITH HIS DAD.
Jim Lowder
April 27, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
Even though I never really had the opportunity to get to know Mike on a more personal level, I have had a close friendship with his sister for quite some time now, and was saddened by the news of his passing. Reading each of the statements within this Guest Book emphasized the type of man he was - a thoughtful, caring, loving and spirited person that put his family and community above all else. His character embodies the types of qualities that we all aspire to achieve. My deepest condolences go out to your entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Donald and Patsy Fitzpatrick and Family
April 26, 2005
Ashtons,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. While we are more familiar with other members of the Ashton family, we had the opportunity to experience Mike’s gentle spirit and great character. In the short time we had his acquaintance, he touched our lives in a very special way. We’ll always treasure our memories of Mike.
Wendy Mitchell
April 25, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
I'm so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. My dearest friend Judy Soto sent me this article. She has been so sad at the news of Mike's death.
I have experienced loss many times in my life and would like to send words of comfort that families really are forever!!! Life does NOT end here and the Lord does bless those who are left behind. Take care! May the Lord comfort you and hold you safely in His loving arms!
Addie Ashton
April 25, 2005
For those of you who are reading these entries, I wanted to pass on some information on the fund set up to help Mike's family. It seems like there has been some confusion on the fund name & people have had a hard time donating money. The fund name is:
The Michael Ashton Family Memorial Fund. The person that I talked with at Wells Fargo said that any manager should be able to look up this fund by the last name. Please pass this along to anyone interested in donating.
Curtis Graf
April 24, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
May the Lord's blessings be with you and your family at this difficult time. I did not know Mike but I saw him with his young-men that Saturday morning, and our paths crossed briefly. It was a blessing to attend his funeral last Thursday with my wife and a young man from my ward here in Sandy. You have a terrific, loving family. The many entries in this guest book prove that Mike is a wonderful individual whose great example and influence has touched the lives of many.
Jerry Hahn
April 24, 2005
Jeff, Sheena and I are sitting here reading through the entries and we were all overcome with emotions and memories of the past. Mike and the Ashton family are such a big part of who the three of us are. Bishop Ashton took care of Sheena in her most trying times while taking Jeff and I in as his own. Mike (along with all of the Ashton clan) has always felt like family. We were sitting around the dinner table tonight reminiscing, laughing, and recalling memories of Mike: atomic sit-ups, stake dances, tee-peeing, car crashes (the Citation into the church building), checking our pool for sharks...we could go on forever as his legacy will. We are proud to have known him and grateful to have shared some time on Earth with him. I would say that we are a little jealous that he is up there with his Dad getting a "love tap". We love you guys always! The Hahns
Mark Wakefield
April 24, 2005
Dear Ashton family, Im sorry to hear of michael's passing. I only remember him as very young man he was not even in school yet. I was a friend of his mother and dad and grew up with his older brother kent. Im sure he will be missed greatly by his own family. I would love to be watching when michael and his dad see one another again.The whole Ashton family has been a great influence in my life.
Jill Boston
April 23, 2005
Dear Ashtons, My deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of sorrow. Remember but a lifetime or a moment and it will be time for a grand reunion. Love Jill
Charlie "Chuck" Gamez
April 22, 2005
Dear Ashton family, I have always loved how Mike would call me chuck. I didn't really know why mike called me chuck but I loved it all the same,Preston if you're reading this or anyone please know that I am sorry about mike's passing. I wish sometimes that we could control life and death and it hurts that we have to live with knowing that we have no control over it. I hope that one day mike will be reunited with you guys,and I understand or more likely chuck understands. God has a plan for all of us and one day we will find out what that plan is one day we will know, one day we will undrestand, one day we will believe
Steve and Angela Bentley
April 22, 2005
Ashton family,
We were devastated to find out what happened to Mike, your wonderful husband and father. We are daily praying for your family and know that Our Heavenly Father will send ministering angels to bolster you up. We morn with you and at the same time rejoice in the wonderful hope of eternal families. We love you.
Vester and Sue Stinnett
April 22, 2005
To the Ashton family:
Our hearts are full of sadness over your loss. Mike was such a wonderful young man and set such a good example to all around him. Your family should feel very proud
to have had him as one of your own. Anyone who met Mike had to love him. He was such an awesome individual. We love you all - you're in our prayers. May God bless you with peace.
Bradley Breedlove
April 22, 2005
To the Ashton Family,
I didn't know Mike really well other than through my Dad, Chris Breedlove. Mike used to work with my Dad, and I had the privlege of working with Mike while I tagged along. In the obituary it had talked about Mike's love foor the youth. I never had him as a young mens leader or anything, but I do remember him being really cool to me when I was younger when we were working with my Dad. I remember one time my Dad came down hard on me for being in the way or something and I cried over it, but I was afraid to cry in front of anyone. Mike came over to me and calmed me down. He always did that when we worked. Being a little kid I didn't want to work, and whenever my Dad would get frustrated at me for doing something, I got upset and Mike always made me laugh to cheer me up. He always made me feel included in the work we all did, and not just a kid in the way. Mike was truly a great person and mentor. The Ashton family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for your loss.
Stacy (Willis) Black
April 21, 2005
I have been so saddened this week at the news. In our growing up years, on Cavalier Drive, the Ashton family became family. This week I have reflected on so many shared memories. Those memories have included my memory of Michael being born, Michael being an occasional tag-a-long to the "little boys" as we often referred to Paul, Jimmy, Byde, and Guy. Michael and Kathleen riding bike and tricycle down to our house for an occasional goody. Cutting Christmas trees together in the mountains and coming home in the back of the suburban. The realization during Mike's early teens that he looked and acted so much like his dad. And in his adult years, the kind, helpful and happy Mike. The Mike that was particularly thoughtful of Cheryl and teased her along with the rest of us that know her well. And since I have been married and off to different places, I have come home during the holidays and been exposed to Mike's developed writing skills...beautiful poetry and stories. I have felt such a sorrow this week for Colleen, Kent, Claudia, Debbie, Paul, Jimmy, Kathleen and Mark. I have felt a deeper sorrow for Debbie, Mike's wife and their five children. Debbie must be a very valiant daughter of God, to be entrusted with such responsibility. I am sure her faith was something that drew Mike to her originally and will be magnified in the coming years. Our prayers are with you. May the Lord's tender mercies rain down upon you on the road ahead.
love,
Stacy W Black
Beth McMillen
April 21, 2005
To the Ashton family: I never met Mike but I know Colleen through work. She has always been a kind, gracious, giving lady. I can only guess that her children are just like her. From what I have read, it seems that Mike was very much like his mother. My heart and prayers are with you during this time of sadness.
vangie day
April 21, 2005
he was so nice to take the boys climing
Bill & Karen (and family) LaDuke
April 21, 2005
Dear Ashtons,
We send our love and will continue our prayers for all of you. We share in your loss and will miss Mike and his unfailing zest for life. That with his total sincerity touched all who knew him.
Our children cannot think of Mike without remembering how much fun he was to be around. Cameron says playing softball was always better when Mike pitched because he knew how to create an interesting game no matter who was ahead. We all saw him as confident, thoughtful, kind, non-judgmental, understanding. He was like a big or younger brother.
Mike was so much like his dad--genuine and with tremendous love for everyone around him (We can just imagine the big bear hug that took place on the other side.), which he extended to young and old alike.
Debbie, we are so glad Mike found you as you seemed so ready made for each other. We appreciate how you loved those whom Mike loved. As little as we saw you, we felt we had always known you. We pray that you will feel comfort and strength in the days and months and years ahead.
We will always remember Mike with exceptional fondness. We are happy to know that only his body sleeps for a while and that a glorious reunion will be yours and ours in time.
Raelyn Jenkins(Pugh)
April 21, 2005
It seems just like yesterday that we were playing ditchem at the cemetary, and I stuck to Mike(literally) because I felt safer. It feels just like yesterday that we were teepeeing the Ashton house and got caught. It feels just like yesterday that we were driving around in my parents minivan going to church dances and stuff that teenagers do. It feels like yesterday that we were at your reception and joking about how we would always remember eachothers anniversay because we got married on the same day. I haven't seen Mike in a long time, but it is good see the influence that one person can have in this life. My husband (Jeff) said that Mike was always happy to see you, no matter if it had been a week or 3 years. I don't think there ever was a time I didn't seen him smiling. My heart breaks for your lose. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Ashton clan.
With loving memories,
Raelyn and Jeff Jenkins
Pepper Aguilar
April 21, 2005
To the Ashton Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Mike, but I work with his mother and if he was anything like Colleen, then I know he was a wonderful person. The article in the newspaper described a person who will be greatly missed and whose Spirit I am sure will live on forever in the lives of all the people who were lucky enough to have known him. My prayers for you all.
Eddie Richardson
April 21, 2005
Memories of Mike Ashton:
My memories of Mike Ashton started of course right after Debbie moved down to Phoenix. It is amazing to me how things work out. Debbie had been dating Jeanette’s brother before his mission. Good for me, see, I had a bit of control who dated/ got interested in my sister. I have felt that way about all my sisters (and brothers). The less I was involved, the more nervous or “worried” I was.
Well, of course she meets some mysterious guy in Arizona, and they get serious pretty quickly. I was very concerned. I had to meet this guy. I didn’t have a chance, of course, until it was “too late”. They were engaged and then they went through with it without hardly any of MY input.
They were at least married in SLC. Where I could get a good look and keep a watchful eye. That is still my strongest memory of Mike and Deb, starting their life together. It is the picture that they gave to Dad and Mom, the picture from the back. Debbie’s beautiful wedding dress billowing out behind her and she rushed from one important location to another on that day. Hand in hand with her new husband. I received a witness then that Mike was a noble man and a great husband for my little sister.
Then time proved my witness correct.
I got to know Mike pretty well after that. There were a few times we got to go down to the desert, well Arizona, for a baby’s blessings and to visit. Mike immediately treated me just like a brother. Teasing, with just the right amount of “respect for his Elders”. It actually made me feel pretty special. That is until I meet his own brothers, and saw him interact with my other family members. He treated everyone the same way! But each with a personalized touch depending on exactly what you needed, it seemed.
Now Mike could be pretty feisty, I guess you could say. He was very competitive and always wanted to win. Ask Deb about that! It was actually interesting to see him lay down the law, or make sure things went the way he thought they should. Always with just the correct amount of love and pressure. I marveled at the skill, as a skill I wanted to learn. Until I realized it was simply a gift. Mike’s way. This was manifest in the way he worked with the boys, and especially from my view, my son Jacob (15). In helping teach Jake to excel at sports, for example. Sometimes trying to get Jake to do as he asked or learn to be more aggressive in sports, Mike would punch Jake in the arm. A little harder than just a playful tap! No one could do that and get away with it except a really good friend or a brother, or a Dad. Mike was being all three for these boys! Jake said to me, “ It was a pretty hard hit, but he was trying to get something through to me. It’s cool.” I don’t think if Mike did the “love taps” to any of the other boys or young men in the ward. I think just Jake. Maybe he did. Either way, Jake knew he had something special with Mike.
My daughter, Marie (13) also had her “run ins” with Mike. He told Marie to be careful because she was cute. Well actually beautiful, he said. She could have a lot of influence with her peers, and it should be the right kind of influence. He said she was a “socialite”. I think he meant that she is very at ease in social situations, and needed to be careful. And careful with the sensitive hearts of the poor boys she would encounter.
Caleb (6) got to play Xbox with Mike a bit. Mike really enjoyed the video games, not just to relate better to the boys. He was getting pretty good at it. Then Caleb comes up there and gives him a run for his money. Mike would “throw a fit” and get upset at Caleb for beating him so often. Boy, that made Caleb feel like one of the big boys!
All of my kids have wonderful memories of Mike. They are deeply saddened by his passing. Why would Mike single these kids out to give them personal, straight-to-the-heart advice? Because he TRULY loved them, with a straight up, Christ-like love. They got what he promised, what they expected.
When you expect something from someone with that sort of love, they respond. I think Mike understood that that is the only way to really change someone else’s behavior. Not by control, but by love unfeigned.
A very strong memory of Mike was the trip down to Havasupai. I was really struggling, physically on the hike, and I could tell Mike was faking a little like he was really struggling too to help me to not feel like too much of a sissy.
I saw him REALLY connect with the boys. Some people say that you can’t be too familiar or buddy-buddy with young men when you are in a leadership or father-figure role. If you are too familiar, they don’t respect you, they say. Well, Mike proved that wrong! Again, his love for them trumped any psycho-babble “rule”. One minute he was messing around like a teenager, and then he would get serious about the rules or their service project at the time. They responded immediately.
Then on that hike, I got the hair-brained idea (at least to everyone else…not to me) to leave and hike out with Jacob at night instead of in the morning with the rest of the group. I wasn’t in charge or anything, so I felt it was ok that I did and I wanted to spend some one on one time with Jake. That part was great. But, I also knew I was out of shape, and would need to take my time on the way out, and I didn’t want to slow everyone else down. Mike sat me down and expressed his concern and told me it was a dumb idea. We could get lost in the darkness and get into trouble. He stated his position and then said that I could do what I thought was right, and then he didn’t press the issue. The last thing he said was, “We will make sure and say a prayer for you!” I believe he did, and I am sure it helped us be safe. That is the type of person that Mike is. Very close to what Jesus would do, I would think.
I love Mike very much. He had a tremendous, far-reaching spirit. I had people at work that I told what had happened, who of course didn’t know Mike, just start crying. The same thing happened with Jake’s teacher when he had to tell them. She started to cry. They could feel his grand spirit.
I love you, Debbie very much. I am getting along mostly by just thinking of what Mike would be doing now if this tragedy had happened to someone else. I think he learned a lot of this at the sudden passing of his Father. Mike would say something like “get busy living”. He would be very serious about that. He would still love life, excitement and relationships…only deeper.
Eddie Richardson
Chad Snow
April 21, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
I am very saddened to hear of your loss. I have known Mike almost my entire life growing up together in the 26th ward and have great memories of him. We may have been the only Scouts in history to let the "Eternal Flame of Scouting" burn out while we played UNO all night!!
I think it speaks volumes about him that so many people have written from all over the country and that he had such a profound impact on so many people at such a relatively young age. There is almost never a day that goes by that I still don't think about Dave Ashton and what a life changing influence he had on me. I know that Mike changed many young people's lives in the same way. Mike is with his dad now and we WILL be with them again. THANKS FOR YOUR EXAMPLE MIKE!!!!
Linda Sieracki
April 21, 2005
To the Ashton family.
I am so sorry for such a loss at a young age and so much to do. But know he is getting ready to meet all of you once again. FAMILYS ARE FOREVER.
I have never met the family but go to church with Claudia and Kathleen, and I know they are hurting,as the rest of the family is. My Prayers are with you to find peace and comfort knowing where Mike is and that he is busy working. And he Loves all of you and and wants you to love the Lord and all things will be okay.
My Prayers are with all of you. I put your names in the temple tonight.
May God Bless and Keep You
Linda Sieracki Anchorage Alaska
Evan Christensen
April 20, 2005
Dear Cameron & Aaron,
I was really sorry to hear about your dad. I was at a scout camporee when I heard the news. I remember when we stayed at your house during the Olympics, your dad cooked us an awesome breakfast. It was fun to hang out with you guys while my dad and Lisa went to the see the bobsledding. It was also fun that your dad brought you to stay with us in California and go to the beach. I would really really like it if you guys could come again & visit. I always want to be your friend.
Kirk Snow
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family, I am so sorry for your loss and want to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. Mike was always Pual and Jimmy's little brother to me, but I remember him on all the church activities we had in the 26th ward. I knew then that Mike would grow up to be a great man like his father.
Barry Wilkins
April 20, 2005
We were so sorry to hear about Mike's passing. Mike obviously learned and exemplified the "BIG E" (example) that we learned from his Dad through a few "love taps". You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
zach taylor
April 20, 2005
sorry about your dad cameron. i will be there if you need anyone to talk to or play ball with. i will always be your friend.
sincerly your friend.
Roxanne Kearns
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
It was an honor and a blessing to work with Mike at Desert Garden School in Glendale, Arizona. Mike was truly a Master Teacher who had abundant love for his students. He listened deeply as they read their pieces of writing to him, and shared his writing with them. One day he shared a very funny story about a camping trip he went on as a child. During our next Staff Meeting I told the teachers that Mike had a very moving piece of writing to share with them. Straight-faced he read the hilarious story to them. His colleagues were red-faced and laughing by the end. Another time Mike shared his poem, "The Man in the Stands." It was beautiful, and this time his many of his colleagues openly wept. We weep now to lose such a wonderful, gifted young man. But we take comfort that he's with our Heavenly Father and the "Man in the Stands." God bless you. Roxanne
Melba Wilkins
April 20, 2005
One of our friends in old 26th/Rose
Lane Ward, Margaret Jackson, has asked that I send a note to you. Like the many who have written their remembrances of the Ashton Family, she expresses her love and
concern to each of you. (What a wonderful ward we had and what wonderful friendships have remained all through the years. We
of that old ward have formed long, and eternal friendships.) Love,
Margaret Jackson (via Melba)
Mike Mattina
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
Words cannot describe my sadness for your family. Mike was the husband, father, and friend we should all try to emulate. He had a zest for life that was contagious and made everyone around him a better person. While I only knew Mike through years of playing softball together, there is no doubt a small part of my heart is now missing.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Ashton Family.
Denise (Carroll) Barber
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
I just had to chuckle when I read my sister's entry to this tribute (Teri Gamez) because I too remember your dad as a little boy named Michael who used to show up at the door with Kathleen to ask for cookies and stuff. That's how it was growing up on Cavalier Drive. I remember waiting for him to be born...and then when he was, he wasn't just the Ashton family baby, he was our baby, too. I had babysat for his older siblings and we loved the family like our own. Your grandma Colleen used to take Teri, Joe and myself to Primary. Every week we all piled into the Suburban. We went early because your your Grandma was always involved as a teacher or something. When I graduated from Primary I was put in charge of pre-primary. We had that so that the children of the teacher's had some supervision before Primary while their mom's had Prayer meeting. I was in Jr. Primary with Jimmy and Paul. They used to act silly and crawl under the chairs and other stuff. I would just threaten to go get their Dad...your Grandpa Dave. Your dad has been compared to his dad Dave and I think that comparison is pretty true. I am so sorry that you all have to go through this and I wish there was more I could do to help ease your pain. Please know that you are thought of and loved by many at this time...and always. I will keep a prayer in my heart for all of you. Much love, Denise
Ann Alisa Richardson
April 20, 2005
Dear Debbie,
I have always admired your strength, your beauty, your loving kindness and your sense of humor. Mike was a perfect match for you, and brought more of these same characteristics into your family and our extended family.
Mike's love of life was impressive. His caring and accepting attitude towards the people he came into contact with (along with his humor and teasing) has touched many lives.
Cameron, Aaron, Pearl, Olivia and Genevieve your father is a wonderful man. Your mother is an incredible woman. Stay close to her and your family. They will always help you to remember and to honour your father.
Your father lived his life with joy and compassion for other people. He leaves a legacy in your lives and the lives of everyone he came in contact with.
Mike's life inspires me to be a better person and to live my life with more joy.
Debbie, may angels comfort you always and may God's servants here on Earth care for you and your beautiful family.
Love, Ann Alisa Richardson
Deb & Mike, Brighton - Feb. 2002
April 20, 2005
Deb & Mike, Brighton 2002
April 20, 2005
Brighton, Feb. 2002 photo taken by Mike & Lisa Christensen
April 20, 2005
Sarah & Jonathan Bush
April 20, 2005
We are very saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May our Heavenly Father bless you.
Anita Morris
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Mr. Ashton was an assistant principal at my children's school (Copper Hills Elementary). My son Taylor enjoyed playing basketball with him and we will all miss him greatly.
This photo has always comforted me, I hope it does likewise for all those remembering Mike.
April 20, 2005
Mike's friends had great hair in the old days (Mike Larsen,Guy Manning)
April 20, 2005
"THE END ZONE" Dave Ashton,Guy Manning,Mike Larson
April 20, 2005
I came across this looking thru old photo's
April 20, 2005
Emily Andrezzi
April 20, 2005
DearMr.Ashtons Family
I was in his sixth grade class. And i am truley sorry for your loss. I am deeply sorry.
Love
Emily
David Wilkins
April 20, 2005
Im so sorry for your loss..Mike was a great guy, I grew up in the old 26th ward w/him and many of you that have signed this book..although I havent had contact in many years, I can see from previous entries how much he was still loved and valued. There is no single family (aside from my own) that had more of an affect on my life than the "ASHTON'S". We will all miss you. If my family can ever help with anything just ask..May God Bless and Comfort you! ([email protected])
Dave banbury
April 20, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this emotional time. I had the privilage of getting to know the Ashton family for a brief time in my young adult years through Debbie Ashton. I was always very impressed with their example, closeness and desire to serve others. I know Mike is now reunited with his earthly father and you better believe they are spreading the word in the Spirit World.
Sinceely,
Dave Banbury
Jim & Edna Boston
April 20, 2005
To all of the Ashtons
Jim and I were very sad to hear about Mike's accident. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He will be missed by all of the Boston Bunch.
Edna
Beverly (Stevens) Hatfield
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family, I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Mike was a great example to everyone. You are all in my prayers.
Jessica Jazexhiu
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton family,
I have never met you, but am so sorry to hear of the tragedy in your family. I can only imagine how difficult it will be to cope with the loss and the impending changes in your lives. I pray for you all, but especially for Debra, who likely needs the most comfort at this time. May the Lord give you peace and hope and watch over you and your family.
Derek Mock
April 20, 2005
We sorrow with your family over such a difficult loss.
Jeanie Sharp
April 20, 2005
Dear Ashton Family, I want to express to you my deepest sympathy at the loss of your wonderful husband, father, son and friend. I do not know your family, but feel deeply for you and what you are going through. My beautiful 16 year old son died last May from a hiking fall in Snow Canyon. Your story is so much like my own. My heart breaks for you and the pain you are going through. I am praying for you that you might find comfort, peace and strength in the coming days, weeks and years. - Jeanie Sharp
Jeanette (Boston) Adams
April 20, 2005
My deepest condolences to the Ashton family.
Randy & Janie Stinnett
April 20, 2005
To the Whole Ashton Family,
May the Lord's choicest tender mercies be placed upon you at this time. Mike is a great young man and is already doing things with his father and others that have gone so young. From all of us in the Stinnett families, our prayers are with you. Remember families are forever.
Tim and Deede O'Meara
April 19, 2005
Dear Debbie and Family - We wish we could put our arms around you and take away your pain. We enjoyed the times we had with you and Mike during our softball days here in Phoenix. Just wanted you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We Love You.
jd ray
April 19, 2005
Dear Debbie & Ashton Family,We Have Been extremely shocked and saddened at the news of Mike's accident. Please know that our heart and prayers go out to your entire family and we are sorry we cannot be with you this week in your most difficult time. Mike was a shining star in our lives and you are so lucky to have had him as a husband,father, son, brother and uncle.Our love and thoughts will be with you and we know you will have many wonderful memories to cherish and comfort you. All our love,Ron,JD and Andrew Ray
Mark & Barbara Wilkins
April 19, 2005
We are saddened to hear of Mikes passing. Even tho it has been many years, probably 20+, since I've been around Mike in the old 26th ward, he will always be remembered as full of enthusiasm that was evident in all the Ashton family members, as well as their ability to have fun in any situation. It is pleasing to know that he was serving the youth of his ward and giving of himself to lead them. You will be in our hearts & prayers at this difficult time. God bless you.
Mike Malay
April 19, 2005
Mike, I always looked up to you. Our thoughts & prayers are with your family.
Scott Cooley
April 19, 2005
I was a student of Mr.Ashton. He was my favorite teacher that I had ever had. I willmiss him as well as my friends who aslo said that he was their favorite teacher. I will miss him. And I'm sure others will too. I will keep this articule in my file. I'm happy I got to have him as my 6th grade teacher.
Best wishes from Scott Cooley of Magna.
Bonnie (Pugh) Halliday
April 19, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
I have known all of you my whole life, growing up in the 26th and 17th wards. Mike was a great guy. He loved to tease me. He was always a happy guy, and loved to make others happy too. He will be greatly missed. My love goes out to all of you at this time. With Love, Bonnie(Pugh)Halliday
Elder Jay Greene
April 19, 2005
Dear Sis. Ashton and Family,
I am sorry to hear of Bro. Ashton's passing. He was always a big strength and example to me. I looked up to him a lot. My heart aches that he has passed, but I am so grateful that through the merciful plan of our Father that all of you can live with him again someday. I know this is true. My prayers are with you guys.
Love,
Nick Cook
April 19, 2005
I was granted the opportunity to meet, and work with Mike, all too briefly, at Hunter Jr HS in West Valley at the start of the 04 - 05 year. Mike had just left teaching 6th grade not long before, and I just left the patrol division for my first detective assignment, as the school officer. Mike was not just easy to work and get along with, he made the job fun. Mike always had a smile and a good story, and no matter how awful a day we were all having, Mike kept us from taking things too seriously.
I told Mike on several occasions, he should apply to the police academy. He was like a new cop just hitting the street, energetic, excited, can't wait to jump into the action, and the hairier the better. Mike reminded me a lot of why I got into public service in the first place. Mike would have been a great cop. He was clearly a great educator, and was a terrific administrator. I haven't seen a lot of people who had his love for young people. When most had all they could stand with the troubled kids, Mike would read to them. There's a lesson for all of us I think.
Life is full of regrets. I regret I hadn't corresponded with Mike more since he left Hunter Jr. I regret I didn't have the opportunity to meet Mike's wonderful family before. I regret this world no longer has Mike Ashton in it, when he is needed so very much by so many. I will never regret however, that even for a short time, I could call Mike, a friend.
Tim & Tammy Soto
April 19, 2005
I am very sad to hear of Mike's passing. He was a couple of years older than I, and I remember how he made me feel important and included when the people my age excluded me. It is a tragedy that his time here is done. He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts are with those who were left behind.
Robin (Charlet) Bryce
April 19, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
You all have been through alot, your family is the best example of how families should be through the good times and the bad. Mike was such a great guy, there are not to many people that die at such a young age and leave a legacy like he did. He definetly followed in his dads footsteps.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tom Charlet
April 19, 2005
Mike was a true friend and he will be deeply missed. I have many great memories of Mike, from scout campouts, road shows, young mens, father and son outings.... I could go on and on.. Mike was in the world, but not of the world. I am thankful for having the opportunity to know Mike and the Ashton Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Collin Cagle
April 19, 2005
I knew him briefly at work. He was a very friendly person. Loved his work. And enjoyed those he worked with as well as the students. He will be missed. The short time that I knew him was memorable. I enjoyed his company at work, and felt him to be a genuine friend to me.
Megan (Ray) Fechter
April 19, 2005
Dear Debbie, and all of the Ashton family:
I am so sad for the loss of such a special life. I have lots of funny memories of Mike, from the time I was little and he was "my brother's friend" to the time I became an adult, and we had kids that were the same age. I remember the roadshows, the softball tournaments, and especially going up to Salt Lake when Mike and Debbie were married, and how happy they were. Debbie, I know you are an eternal family. I love you and will continue to pray that you will be comforted.
Nancy Marcum
April 19, 2005
Debbie and family,
I will miss Michael so very much, and Bill will miss working on your vehicles. I am so glad that I got to see all of you at Thanksgiving last year, when we were staying at the Bier's across the street from Mark and Cindy.
He was such a kind, giving and loving man. May the Lord bless you and you family as you strive to get on with your lives. We just never know when the Lord is going to call us home. All I can think is that he has a special purpose to be with our Heavenly Father. Our love and thoughts are with you at this time.
Love,
Bill, Nancy Marcum and families.
Tracy Smith
April 19, 2005
To the Ashton Family...
As a friend and co-worker of Kathleen's, I send my most heartfelt condolences to you all. May the many memories always bring you smiles.
Cowley Family
April 19, 2005
My son Matthew had Mr. Ashton for his 6th grade teacher at Magna Elementary. He made Matthew like school again. He was his all time favorite teacher. He had such a postive impact on all of his students. Your loss is felt by children everywhere. Our prayers are with you, your children and your family.
nicole moran
April 19, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
my son is a third grade student at magna elm. and mr.ashton made such an inpact on him even though he had only been a substitue in his class a few times. we would like you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you
Chandy and Dave Bair
April 19, 2005
Dear Debbie,
My heart is aching for you. You and your family are in our prayers at this sad time. Mike was such a good guy. I don't know what to say...just know that you are loved. Love, Chandy and Dave
Reid Hall
April 19, 2005
I just wanted to express my condolences at Mike's passing. We appreciate the dedication he had to the youth of his Venturer Crew and the love he showed to the boys. Thank you for sharing Mike with us.
Reid Hall
Senior District Executive
Olde English Fort District #12
Great Salt Lake Council-BSA
Ellen Scholl
April 19, 2005
Ashton Family: My family, the Pughs, are sad to hear of Mike's passing. He was definately a fun, loving person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Ellen Scholl
Rhetta McIff
April 19, 2005
Debbie:
I could see the joy in your eyes this last winter while playing volleyball against you in Region. Little Genevieve tucked in tight and a happy smile on your face. You have been loved deeply by an amazing man!! You are so lucky to have a marriage built on love and trust and beautiful children. In all the times we have run into one another over the years I have always loved sensing the peace that lives in you. May you always feel Mike's love in your heart. We are always here to help and talk and play with kids. We love you and hope you feel the intense love all around you. Let it help you and heal you. Give your babies a hug.
Farrell Family
April 19, 2005
Dear Debbie and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Mike. He will be greatly missed. What a difference he made in so many lives! He was a great teacher, friend, brother, husband, father and all around guy. Debbie, my thoughts & prayers are with you and your beautiful children. It seems like just yesterday you were watching my baby for me while I worked. You and your family have always been thought of as an extension of our own. Thank you for touching our lives. My condolences and with much love,
Jennifer
April 19, 2005
Dear Debra,
I had Mr. Ashton in the sixth grade the first year he came to Utah. He was the best teacher I ever had because he didn’t just teach us math and spelling, he taught us about life and that is something I will never forget. You and your family will be in my prayers. Just remember that he is home and that he is watching over you and your children and he will never leave you. I will never forget you Mr. Ashton, thanks for everything!!!
Gaylawn Starnes
April 19, 2005
Debbie & Familiy,
I am a secretary at Magna Elementary. Mike and I still kept in touch from time to time after he left teaching to pursue admisistrative avenues. Knowing Mike was a learning experience for me. As I watched him with students, I admired the wisdom he had to see things clearly. He was able to sort out the nonsense and get to the heart and reality of any situation he dealt with and spent whatever time it took to resolve the problem. He was a calming influence. Mike taught me a great deal and touched my life for good. He was my friend and I will miss him.
Teri Gamez
April 18, 2005
Dear Mike,
We know that those things that are recorded on earth will be recorded in Heaven, so I’m assuming you of all people will find the connection (high speed of course) to be able to read this. I’m sorry it’s so long, but 33 years is a long time to know someone!!
You know buddy, I remember the day you were born, I thought I was so great ‘cause I’d just gotten baptized, and was going to be confirmed on August 1st. I went to church with the idea that I would be the center of attention (after all I had a new dress) and guess what…you stole the show. Not only were you born in front of the Bethany Movie Theater (who could beat that) but you chose to be born while Big Jake was playing. What else could your dad ask for, and needless to say when you got home and had that head of red hair, I knew that life on Cavalier Drive would never be the same. (I guess Deb and I could blame you for the locust story!!)
I remember how you used to make Kathleen come over to our house and bat her eyelashes so that I would give her cookies. Funny thing, I never really noticed her eating them, but you always seemed to have crumbs on your face??!?!
And then there were all the times you would tell me how hot it was outside so that I would invite you and the two little kids over to swim. As if growing up with your older brothers and sisters wasn’t exciting enough, with all of the neighborhood water fights and Christmas tree forts, but then you come along acting like that other big kid on the street…Big Dave!!!
Then there was the time that you were in 3rd or 4th grade, and you asked your dad how to spell your name. You were so used to having everyone call you Mike, that it never occurred to you that you would need to learn to spell Michael. The thing that was even better, was that you could care less if you knew how to spell that name…You knew that you were really MIKE!!!
I felt so sad when I was on my mission and you had your first surgery and I couldn’t be here to make you laugh. After all that’s what Debbie and I were really good at, ask Byde, he’ll tell you!! I saw though that Lyn wrote how you were her hero because of that, all I can say is Ditto.
And then there was the time that you and Billy LaDuke and Mike Malay were 3 men in a tub in the roadshow. Not very many guys would admit to being in a bathtub with their buddies. Not you though… You made sure everyone knew about it.
And then when your dad passed away, and I still didn’t see your family for about a year, that was so hard, but you were soooo awesome in bringing me up to speed, and helping me adjust to missing your dad. And I thought I was the one that was supposed to be comforting you!!!
Then when you were on your mission and had to come home for a short time, and even though you were home, and didn’t have to commit to going back out, you made every effort possible to stay in the “missionary spirit”. I don’t know many who would succeed at that, but you aced it.
When you and Debbie were first married and lived at your mom’s, you were so great. I think that’s when I really grew to love and appreciate you, as a friend and priesthood leader, not just Debbie’s little brother.
My kids think you are the best! Charlie has always loved the fact that you call him Chuck and the Chuckster. Joey loves playing basketball and video games with you and Mark, and it makes it even cooler that you’re Mark’s big brother who is “old” and can still beat him and Mark!!!
When my dad passed away, you guys had already moved out of our ward into Glendale Stake. But there you were, being loving and supportive at the funeral. And not just you, but Debbie was right there with you, helping to play the piano. Our family will be forever grateful.
Anyways, I don’t know the count of how many times you called Cheryl a bum, or held your mom’s nose, or threw cold water down someone’s back (‘cause that’s what Ashton men do) or how many times you mowed our yard without being asked, or how many times you were right there doing what you were supposed to, but I do know this… I love you like my own brother, and will miss you with all my heart.
We are devastated at your leaving us, but can only imagine how much work there is for you where you’re at. We promise to continue to look after Debbie and the kids, and that even little Genevieve will never wonder who her dad was or what he was like. The only thing I can think to say in closing is the same set of words we all have heard many times…Remember who you are, and that you represent us all. We will be here doing the same… Until we meet again.
Ro Kline
April 18, 2005
Ashtons: Your Alaskan family sends good wishes and prayers in your time of need. You have our thoughts with you, we are so sorry for your loss.
Steven and Rebecca Durfey
April 18, 2005
Dear Ashton Family:
While you do not know us personally, Steven and I work with Mike's niece and nephew (as well as his sister, Debbie, and brother-in-law, Brian) in our ward in Peoria and through baseball. When we heard about the accident, we called to talk to your niece Aubrey. It was a tribute to Mike to hear the stories and memories that Aubrey and Spencer share about their Uncle Mike. He has had a tremendous impact on their lives, and they are better people because of him. Our hearts hurt for you and your sadness at this time, and we pray for your family's peace in knowing you are loved and Mike is always near by.
Steve and Rebecca Durfey
Karine Romero
April 18, 2005
Dear Debbie,
We want to send our love and concern to you and you family. We were stunned and in disbelief to hear about this tragedy. I didn't know that my children knew Mike as well as they did. One son remembered him playing Halo with him and some of the boys from your ward, and another had great memories from Pete's hole. He made a difference in many lives, and that is a great legacy. I know you will all miss him very much. You live in a great ward, with so many people who love you. The entire community will be mourning with you, and hopefully can carry some of the burden with you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Romero Family
Genevieve Bryan
April 18, 2005
We are all going to miss Mike Ashton. He was my friend and also my teacher. I was in shock when i heard what had happened, i almost couldn't believe it. I saw him just a month ago, visited with him as a friend when he was our vice principal for a while at Hunter Jr. I wish i could've given him one last hug to say goodbye, but i can't go back. As long as he knows that i and all the people who knew him loved him very much, then i guess that will have to be good enough.
Ann Marie Wakefield-Lacey
April 18, 2005
Ashton Families: News of Mike's passing has stirred fond memories of our entire youth group - and what an outstanding part Mike played in bringing laughter and fun to those teenage years. What an amazing legacy he has left through inspiring young minds with his educational talents! Love and prayers go out for his wife and children who are blessed to have shared in his gifts and traits.
(Ephes 4).
Debbie Jenson
April 18, 2005
Our family was so sad to learn of the passing of Mr. Ashton. He was the 6th grade teacher for 2 of my daughters. He was an excellent teacher and was very kind, compassionate and caring to them. They really enjoyed having them as their teacher. He made a wonderful positive impact on their lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Herb Roberts
April 18, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
I was shocked to hear about Michael.I have many fond memories of living next door and watching Michael grow up.My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you.
lena luke
April 18, 2005
I miss Mr. Ashton since 6th grade my friend and I we both miss him very much ciera & I lena think he's a great teacher
lena luke
April 18, 2005
I miss Mr. Ashton since 6th grade my friend and I we both miss him very much
Jared and Rachelle Szymanski
April 18, 2005
Mike is a rare individual who never outgrew the innocence and exuberance of youth. We admired him and will treasure our memories of him and the Ashton family during our time as neighbors in Arizona.
Minnie Hodge
April 18, 2005
Dear Ashton Family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.
chanelle quibell
April 18, 2005
Dear ashton family i am so sorry i now micheal aaron ashton for 3 years he was my teacher for 2 years he was fun to be around he was kind,careing and the best teacher a 14 year old could have and a very very good friend.
Amy Malay
April 18, 2005
Dear Ashton Family,
This was very difficult news to receive. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers. I've had so many happy and funny moments with him.
Ashley
April 18, 2005
you where a good vice principal. Hunter Junior High will miss you alot. We love you
Kayla (Harris) Mack
April 18, 2005
Dear Ashtons,
We are all deeply saddened by the loss of Mike, your son, brother and father. We were able to meet Mike on several family occasions through Paul's family (I am Addie's sister). We know that Mike will be sorely missed by all who knew him. He was truly a wonderful person. You are in our thoughts at this sad time.
Lenny
April 18, 2005
Ashton Family, I am so very sorry to hear about Mike's passing, as he was really one of the great ones & will surely be missed. I had played softball with Mike for 7-8 years in Arizona, and some 500+ games, and never recall a more upbeat person in any situation. If they have a team in heaven, you can bet Mike's on the mound.
Jeff and Joilyn Luke
April 18, 2005
When my daughter Lena returned form school today she had learned that Mr.Ashton had died in an accident from her friend who were both in his 6th grade class last year...He was very patient with the children whom he taught and they all like him very much (which is hard for that age group)while he tried to prepare them for the next step in their lives (JR. HIGH) My husband and I are appriciate of what he had done with giving our daughter the confidence she needed to get to where she is...We are very sorry for the loss of your husband and your childrens father...Our thoughts are with you at this time if sadness..
Kristin Jenson
April 18, 2005
Mr. Ashton was my 6th grade teacher three years ago. i loved very much, and he was always my favorite teacher. he was nice and fair to everyone, and loved his family very much. he was a wonderful teacher, and helped me in my love for reading, which i love to this day. every time i read a book i think of him. i miss him very much and am devastated by his death. i wish in the afterlife he will find peace and happiness, as much as he has given others in his life. Mr. Ashton, i will never forget you.
Your Loving Student,
Toni & Ciera Brunson
April 18, 2005
Mr Ashton was my daughter CIera's 6th grade teacher last year and he was a wnderful person. We will miss having him at the school.
Ed & Molly Davis
April 18, 2005
To all the Ashton family, we are so saddened to hear of Mikes death. We know most of you, and you have always been so kind to our daughter Lisa, that, when we were notified, it felt like a family death. Our prayers are with each of you in the days to come. God Bless all of you.
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