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SHIRLEY MAYNES Obituary

Shirley Jeanne Nelson Maynes 1929 ~ 2009 Shirley Jeanne Nelson Maynes returned to the loving arms of her Heavenly Father on December 28, 2009. She will be happily reunited with her parents, relatives, friends and her beloved grandfather.Born February 26, 1929 in Murray, Utah to William Albert Nelson and Isabell Hardcastle. She lived in Sandy, Utah her entire life. Shirley graduated from Jordan High School in 1947 and attended both the University of Utah and the Brigham Young University. She was a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Shirley served in many ward and stake positions. She became a "Golden Gleaner" in 1952. Shirley was devoted to the Mormon Battalion Association and Auxiliary. In 1991 she began 11 years service as the National Auxiliary President. Her goal was to honor and remember the "Women of the Battalion." Shirley wrote the following books concerning these women: "Five Hundred Wagons Stood Still," "Families With the Battalion March 1846 to 1848" and "Third Edition of Women of the Battalion." Shirley was a member of the Utah Trails Consortium and Chairperson of Pioneer Park/Fort Restoration Committee. Shirley received three service awards from the Sesquicentennial Committee during the 1997 celebration. Shirley married Gaylen Despain Maynes on March 17, 1949 in the Salt Lake Temple. She is survived by her husband and three sons, Michael G. Maynes (Melanie), living in Valdez, Alaska; Bruce J. Maynes, living in Sandy, Utah; and his twin, Bryan W. Maynes, living in Sandy, Utah; seven grandchildren, Clint J. Maynes, Ryan J. Maynes (Kortnie), Natalee J. Maynes, Corinne J. Maynes, Ashlee J. Maynes Peterson (Brandon), Andrea M. Stewart (Brian), and Jaron M. Maynes; and six great-grandchildren, Weslee, Deidre, Corwin, Caleb, Olivia and Hailey; and the adopted family of Fred and Wendy Kat and their three children, Amberie (Sam) Fehr, Errissa and Chadsen from Chino Hills, Calif. Shirley was preceded in death by her parents; her sisters, Maxine (Owen) Allmendinger, and Sandra (George) Park. Funeral services will be held at the Mount Jordan 1st Ward, 8950 S. 400 E., Sandy, Utah on Monday, Jan. 4, 2010 at 11:00 a.m. Afterward Shirley will be laid to rest in the Sandy City Cemetery. A viewing will be held at the Goff Mortuary, 8090 S. State St., Midvale, UT on Sunday, January 3 from 6-8:00 p.m. and on Monday at the church before the funeral from 10-10:45 a.m. Shirley was loved, honored and respected for her service and dedication. All who knew Shirley will miss her. Her family wishes to express a special thank you to Sunbrook Hospice and all the medical personnel who helped her through her fight with pancreatic cancer. We are also grateful for the strength and support of our many friends, relatives and neighbors who stood with us during this battle.

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Published by Deseret News on Dec. 31, 2009.

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Dorothy Jensen

January 4, 2010

I was saddened to hear of the passing of Shirley Nelson Maynes. We were neighbors--kitty-corner (the Andersons) and Shirley was my ideal because she loved to write. (She was editor of the Sandy Jr. High Flashlight.) My sister, Glenda, was
good friends with Shirley's sister Sandra. Miles and years have separated us but I still cherish the memories of Shirley as a studious and ambitous teen-ager.

January 4, 2010

Dear Gaylen and Family,
Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time. We have wonderful memories of Shirley that will live on in our hearts.
Love,
Bob & Marilyn Hardcastle

January 3, 2010

Dear Uncle Gaylen and Family,
We will truly miss Aunt Shirley. She was an amazing lady. We have great admiration for her and her accomplishments. Memories of Aunt Shirley are cherished in our hearts.
With Love, Creig & DeAnna Maynes

Billy and Pauline Crump

January 2, 2010

We are saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. She was a true lady of class and an example to us all with her service in the community. We cherish our memories of her in our home as her and her husband served as faithful home teachers. Our condolences to her family. She will surely be missed.

January 1, 2010

January 1, 2010

Dear Gaylen and family,

We cherish the memories of our Dear Cousin Shirley. One that comes to mind
is her helping her Aunt Jane Hardcastle with her family history...
We are never separated from those we love, because we will always have memories of the those we loved so very much...

Sincerely,
Charlie & Marjorie Hardcastle Boynton
Leon & Alice Hardcastle
Donald Hardcastle

Wendy Kat

January 1, 2010

I have met no kinder, virtuous lady than Mom Maynes. She first touched my heart when she made a beautiful quilt for my first born baby girl and through the years, she is loved by my whole family as a loving grandma.

January 1, 2010

One of the "elect" daughters of God has returned home. The name of Shirley Maynes will long be remembered--especially to those of us in the Mormon Battalion Association. Her last letter to me, written on December 2nd 2009 included her written history of the Mormon Battalion Auxiliary of which she played such an important part. Our prayers go with you Gaylen as you have this leave of absence from your beloved.

Doug & Nancy Williams

Norene Larson

December 31, 2009

Gaylen and family,
We express our deepest sympathy to you at this time. Sherm is good to try to keep up on the news even when we are out of town. We are in Gilbert, Az. with our daughter & family but will try to get back for the funeral if all goes well. I remember tending the twins one time in your home in Sandy. It was fun and now we have 7 year old twin boys here in Gilbert, Az. It's been fun to see them. Our love Norene & Sherm

December 31, 2009

I am very sorry for your loss. Love Susan Hokanson

December 31, 2009

Mike and Melanie, Our deepest sympathies go to you and your family at this most difficult time. Bud and I have heard so many good things about your Mom and we do know she was a warm and wonderful person. I am sure she will be missed by all who knew her. I am just sorry we will not have the opportunity to meet her when you someday move back to Utah and we visit with you and Melanie. Love, Dee and Bud

Jolene Wilkinson

December 31, 2009

My condolences for your loss. It was an honor to work with you and Shirley, Galen, though it was such a short time of service. I hope you and your family find peace and comfort in each other, your memories, your hopes, and your God.
Jolene with Sunbrook

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